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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Some of the mail's you get are so confident.

I want to try be a bit more confident but don't want to come across as an arsehole. Which can be hard to not sound cocky lol

Any advice or tips from you sexy fuckers xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just be you, no point being someone your not. I'm not the most confident of people but I make sure that I'm just myself when chatting to people. Can spot folk a mile off trying to be something they ain't

C x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People will either like you or not... be yourself.. not what you think people want or expect on here..

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thank you

I am always myself just sometimes with confidence you don't feel it lol

And I know that's not attractive but some people can't help it haha struggled a lot tbb

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thank you

I am always myself just sometimes with confidence you don't feel it lol

And I know that's not attractive but some people can't help it haha struggled a lot tbb"
maybe it's not your message thats the problem?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Thank you

I am always myself just sometimes with confidence you don't feel it lol

And I know that's not attractive but some people can't help it haha struggled a lot tbb maybe it's not your message thats the problem? "

My face ? Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thank you

I am always myself just sometimes with confidence you don't feel it lol

And I know that's not attractive but some people can't help it haha struggled a lot tbb maybe it's not your message thats the problem?

My face ? Lol"

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Thank you

I am always myself just sometimes with confidence you don't feel it lol

And I know that's not attractive but some people can't help it haha struggled a lot tbb maybe it's not your message thats the problem?

My face ? Lol "

Hhaa I'll have you know I'm a strong 7.5 maybe hahaha ko xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thank you

I am always myself just sometimes with confidence you don't feel it lol

And I know that's not attractive but some people can't help it haha struggled a lot tbb"

You don't need to pretend to be confident....but equally don't put yourself down. There's always some arsehole out there ready to do that....so don't do their job for them.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Thank you

I am always myself just sometimes with confidence you don't feel it lol

And I know that's not attractive but some people can't help it haha struggled a lot tbb

You don't need to pretend to be confident....but equally don't put yourself down. There's always some arsehole out there ready to do that....so don't do their job for them.

"

Yeah I know there's a lot of them on here lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Attach photos of you doing the dishes, ironing, cooking etc. to your messages, Women can't resist a man of action.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thank you

I am always myself just sometimes with confidence you don't feel it lol

And I know that's not attractive but some people can't help it haha struggled a lot tbb maybe it's not your message thats the problem?

My face ? Lol

Hhaa I'll have you know I'm a strong 7.5 maybe hahaha ko xxx"
well I'd agree I've just saw your face..

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Thank you

I am always myself just sometimes with confidence you don't feel it lol

And I know that's not attractive but some people can't help it haha struggled a lot tbb maybe it's not your message thats the problem?

My face ? Lol

Hhaa I'll have you know I'm a strong 7.5 maybe hahaha ko xxx well I'd agree I've just saw your face.. "

Haha why thank you lol

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By *aseMan
over a year ago

Gourock

Doesn't matter what you look like ! If you have more than 8 inches you'll do ok

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Doesn't matter what you look like ! If you have more than 8 inches you'll do ok "

Well that's me fucked hahaha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Doesn't matter what you look like ! If you have more than 8 inches you'll do ok

Well that's me fucked hahaha"
and him...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Doesn't matter what you look like ! If you have more than 8 inches you'll do ok

Well that's me fucked hahaha and him... "

Hahaha a lot of people would be unlucky haha

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By *sm265Woman
over a year ago

Shangri-la


"Doesn't matter what you look like ! If you have more than 8 inches you'll do ok "

Thats a popular male misconception, more than 8 inches would be a no from me and many others.

Natural confidence can be very attractive OP but don't try to be anything other than yourself.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Doesn't matter what you look like ! If you have more than 8 inches you'll do ok

Thats a popular male misconception, more than 8 inches would be a no from me and many others.

Natural confidence can be very attractive OP but don't try to be anything other than yourself. "

I know I always am just sometimes a wee bit too shy I think XXX

Not in person but for some reason only here lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Doesn't matter what you look like ! If you have more than 8 inches you'll do ok "

I find this is often what those with a severe personality deficiency convince themselves. It couldn't be further from the truth.

OP, it's actually ok to be a wee bit shy. Over confidence can be extremely challenging to deal with. I'd rather have someone who was a little bashful than totally bombastic. Just be yourself, as others have said and be respectful. That's the most important thing. Good luck.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Doesn't matter what you look like ! If you have more than 8 inches you'll do ok

I find this is often what those with a severe personality deficiency convince themselves. It couldn't be further from the truth.

OP, it's actually ok to be a wee bit shy. Over confidence can be extremely challenging to deal with. I'd rather have someone who was a little bashful than totally bombastic. Just be yourself, as others have said and be respectful. That's the most important thing. Good luck. "

The quiet confidence of the guy standing at the back of the room watching as others try to show off....he's the one who usually catches my eye.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Doesn't matter what you look like ! If you have more than 8 inches you'll do ok

I find this is often what those with a severe personality deficiency convince themselves. It couldn't be further from the truth.

OP, it's actually ok to be a wee bit shy. Over confidence can be extremely challenging to deal with. I'd rather have someone who was a little bashful than totally bombastic. Just be yourself, as others have said and be respectful. That's the most important thing. Good luck. "

Thank you everybody has been so kind any other tips that makes my profile or pics better is much appreciated. I am really am thankful xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Doesn't matter what you look like ! If you have more than 8 inches you'll do ok

I find this is often what those with a severe personality deficiency convince themselves. It couldn't be further from the truth.

OP, it's actually ok to be a wee bit shy. Over confidence can be extremely challenging to deal with. I'd rather have someone who was a little bashful than totally bombastic. Just be yourself, as others have said and be respectful. That's the most important thing. Good luck.

Thank you everybody has been so kind any other tips that makes my profile or pics better is much appreciated. I am really am thankful xxx"

Could you stretch yo a chin and mouth pic? A wee smiley half face is always good.

Unless you've got teeth like a witch doctor's necklace....in which case....boabie pics all day long

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Doesn't matter what you look like ! If you have more than 8 inches you'll do ok

I find this is often what those with a severe personality deficiency convince themselves. It couldn't be further from the truth.

OP, it's actually ok to be a wee bit shy. Over confidence can be extremely challenging to deal with. I'd rather have someone who was a little bashful than totally bombastic. Just be yourself, as others have said and be respectful. That's the most important thing. Good luck.

Thank you everybody has been so kind any other tips that makes my profile or pics better is much appreciated. I am really am thankful xxx

Could you stretch yo a chin and mouth pic? A wee smiley half face is always good.

Unless you've got teeth like a witch doctor's necklace....in which case....boabie pics all day long "

Haha I'll add one and you can tell me how good it is lol

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By *aseMan
over a year ago

Gourock

Jeezo..Some people take post on the forums so seriously, Have a laugh, You may be gone tomorrow

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"Some of the mail's you get are so confident.

I want to try be a bit more confident but don't want to come across as an arsehole. Which can be hard to not sound cocky lol

Any advice or tips from you sexy fuckers xx"
As others have said just be yourself rather than what you think others want you to be .

Some people will like you some wont .

Good luck op

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Be yourself OP,if you can't be yourself be Batman

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By *estless nativeMan
over a year ago

near Glasgow

Confidence is a preference for the habitual voyeur....

Some good advice here OP, I would listen to the ladies who have posted.

confidence can depend on circumstances/setting, sometimes im the loudest voice in the room other times im a wallflower.

Be yourself, be honest and accept that it might take you a wee longer to find your voice.

Best of luck

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By *imbobaMan
over a year ago

Glasgow


"Doesn't matter what you look like ! If you have more than 8 inches you'll do ok

I find this is often what those with a severe personality deficiency convince themselves. It couldn't be further from the truth.

OP, it's actually ok to be a wee bit shy. Over confidence can be extremely challenging to deal with. I'd rather have someone who was a little bashful than totally bombastic. Just be yourself, as others have said and be respectful. That's the most important thing. Good luck.

The quiet confidence of the guy standing at the back of the room watching as others try to show off....he's the one who usually catches my eye."

Waiting. Patiently. All good things as they say.

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"Doesn't matter what you look like ! If you have more than 8 inches you'll do ok

I find this is often what those with a severe personality deficiency convince themselves. It couldn't be further from the truth.

OP, it's actually ok to be a wee bit shy. Over confidence can be extremely challenging to deal with. I'd rather have someone who was a little bashful than totally bombastic. Just be yourself, as others have said and be respectful. That's the most important thing. Good luck.

The quiet confidence of the guy standing at the back of the room watching as others try to show off....he's the one who usually catches my eye."
This ^^^^

I very rarely go for Mr popular lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thank you all for your kind advice

I will be myself and if people don't like me then it is their loss

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"Thank you all for your kind advice

I will be myself and if people don't like me then it is their loss"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thank you all for your kind advice

I will be myself and if people don't like me then it is their loss"

You'll probably feel a sense of loss more than the people who don't like you

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Thank you all for your kind advice

I will be myself and if people don't like me then it is their loss

You'll probably feel a sense of loss more than the people who don't like you "

Aw yeah damn it lol good point

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

What's everybody's opinion of jockstraps xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What's everybody's opinion of jockstraps xxx"

Do you feel more confident when you wear one?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"What's everybody's opinion of jockstraps xxx

Do you feel more confident when you wear one? "

Well I don't mind shows of one of my best ASSests lol

Just wanted to know people's opinions xxx

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By *imbobaMan
over a year ago

Glasgow


"What's everybody's opinion of jockstraps xxx

Do you feel more confident when you wear one?

Well I don't mind shows of one of my best ASSests lol

Just wanted to know people's opinions xxx"

Wow. Not often made to go

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