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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi guys

Just looking for advice for us single males on here as sometimes it feels like we are as welcome as a cold draft in a warm house.

Thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pulls up a chair, poured the coffee and waiting for the cake.

Not sure this has been done before!

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By *OSCCOSMITH69Man
over a year ago

glasgow


"Hi guys

Just looking for advice for us single males on here as sometimes it feels like we are as welcome as a cold draft in a warm house.

Thanks"

Best advice get yourself to a club.

Preferably a local one. From that you need socialise get to know faces and usernames and chat and make a connection with folk.

Then from that you ll get invites to houseparties and build a repour in the community as a genuine guy (women talk).

Or just ignore the advice. But loads of dick pics up (helpfully if you have a big cock and a 6 back). And thirtyly spam every profile with a vagina with a dick pic and “fancy a fuck” message sure that work out great.

Happy fabbing

Ps it aint instashag

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Yeah this is good advice (the first statement obviously haha) just trying to see how people like to contacted (winks,messages,fabs) or if they prefer to contact single males first.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi guys

Just looking for advice for us single males on here as sometimes it feels like we are as welcome as a cold draft in a warm house.

Thanks"

No advice whatsoever.

You are, as you have observed, about as popular as a bacon roll at a bar mitzvah.

Loads of forum posts and hints about this. Do a wee search.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Be decent

Be realistic

Be normal

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just love a cold draft in a warm house during the summer months

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yeah this is good advice (the first statement obviously haha) just trying to see how people like to contacted (winks,messages,fabs) or if they prefer to contact single males first.

"

Personally I don’t look at winks or pics being fabbed. The realistic truth is there are 10

Times as many men to women. Maybe more! Don’t be dick with a dick (so many are) Happy searching.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I did a search and the only advice was the don'ts. It seems like there is no place for single males in the swinging scene.

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By *sa and HarryCouple
over a year ago

motherwell


"Yeah this is good advice (the first statement obviously haha) just trying to see how people like to contacted (winks,messages,fabs) or if they prefer to contact single males first.

"
You stand a better chance of getting yer hole at your local nightclub/pub

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

It certainly seems that way!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I did a search and the only advice was the don'ts. It seems like there is no place for single males in the swinging scene. "

Just try and be normal. We don't actually ask for much

Gab on here, get involved, get your profile name known, get along to any socials when possible to demonstrate that you're normal. Keep the cock pics to a minimum. Take any knock backs like a grown up. Don't complain too much.

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By *uzanne and RickyCouple
over a year ago

Midlothian

Be polite and interesting. In your photos show what you have physically but if 62 pics out of 62 are of your cock, no matter how much you think women will be driven crazy with it (they wont) it will put people off. Tell a bit about yourself without going into War and Peace it gives people a clue about you. If you sound chilled and kinky then you might get response. Being discreet, mature and to honest able to accommodate helps. Any comments such as "fancy a fuck", "will your wife let me cum in her ass today" and so on only adds to the block list. Good luck.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I did a search and the only advice was the don'ts. It seems like there is no place for single males in the swinging scene.

Just try and be normal. We don't actually ask for much

Gab on here, get involved, get your profile name known, get along to any socials when possible to demonstrate that you're normal. Keep the cock pics to a minimum. Take any knock backs like a grown up. Don't complain too much."

All of this!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dunno man, I’ve never felt unwelcome but then I very very rarely send women the first message so I can’t say I know what it’s like to have emails ignored etc.

I just think if you carry yourself across on your page, don’t have a username like ‘sookyourwetfanny’ and really just don’t be a dick, people are happy to chat away and have a laugh. Just be decent buddy and the site will do its thing

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By *uitar_antiheroMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

Just be you. It’s what I’ve always done. Be friendly, polite & don’t be a dick. Unless you’re a fun dick. I’m a bit of a dick, but in an obviously tongue-in-cheek way. I’ve never been one to get first messages from women or couples, I had to make the first move. Or go to socials or parties or clubs.

I guess just approach it more with hope than expectation, give it a go & see what comes. Yes, if you are a single guy you’ll send lots of messages without reply but that’s how it goes.

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By *imbobaMan
over a year ago

Glasgow


"I did a search and the only advice was the don'ts. It seems like there is no place for single males in the swinging scene. "

There is a place. You’re negative thinking isn’t going to help. You’re profile says you’ve returned which suggests you’ve had some success before and feel the justification to come back. What’s the rub?

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By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago

Paisley


"I did a search and the only advice was the don'ts. It seems like there is no place for single males in the swinging scene.

There is a place. You’re negative thinking isn’t going to help. You’re profile says you’ve returned which suggests you’ve had some success before and feel the justification to come back. What’s the rub?"

I agree with Jimbo. You’re already negative, you’re profile doesn’t say what you’re looking for and what you enjoy. I have to say that without the single guys I wouldn’t have had so much fun and made some really good friends.

Fab is what you make of it. Go to clubs and attend socials, be friendly and chat to people. Don’t get too hung up on everything. This site works if you’re relaxed and thick skinned.

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