FabSwingers.com forum: Socially awkward

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I'm 37 man from glasgow who is social akward and has little experience I get nervous around ppl but am horney all time and up for trying almost anything hoping to find someone for regular fun if u interested send me a message

Also wondering if anyone else has this problem and how u deal with it

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By *urray MintMan
over a year ago

Brewtoon

Strongly suggest you get help/counselling elsewhere, and come back with your A game ! This is NOT unfortunately a site where you get any leeway/help . Women and Men want want want their own desires to be met with No desire to allow for conditions you describe .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry to see you get a bit uneasy buddy but I don’t see many women wanting to put themselves into a scenario with you 1 on 1 incase you get a bit funny then too. Socially awkward, the pressure of staying up and performing sexually on a first meet maybe isn’t a combination that most would be confident on.

There’s plenty local authority services available to help with social anxiety, community centres and third sector charities often run workshops. Failing that, get along to a social event, everyone shites themselves before the first social, get it done and look forward to the second

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By *uffolkJohnMan
over a year ago

Newmarket

Stick to masturbating. That's what most single guys on here do anyway.

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By *nferno sausageMan
over a year ago

Aberdeenshire

The beauty of this site, in my opinion, is that it can be whatever you want it to be. I've a feeling you came here thinking it would be easier to chat to potential bed-buddies because it's a sex site, and being "horney all the time" you possibly feel the social part is of less importance. It's not. If you treat the site as instashag, with you being who you are, I honestly fear the worst for you. The beauty of Fab, when you're in any way socially awkward, is that it can be less intimidating to start a conversation online than on the outernet. You can be who you want to be, and think about what you want to say, without that fear of rejection; of missing social cues or misreading body language.

Concentrate on making friends rather than making conquests. Be open, honest, and accept that you won't be for everyone, but know that there is someone for everyone. Building friendships will definitely help get you over that initial first meet hurdle, but try to see 'failure' as a learning experience.

Or just stick to wanking. It's sooo underrated.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm 37 man from glasgow who is social akward and has little experience I get nervous around ppl but am horney all time and up for trying almost anything hoping to find someone for regular fun if u interested send me a message

Also wondering if anyone else has this problem and how u deal with it "

Och ya wee sausage.

Gab on here, gab in the chatrooms. Have a wank before said gabbing (as suggested previously) or you'll just come across like some annoying mutt at a party dry humping legs when folk are trying to talk.

I can come across as fairly confident on here but can be very quiet in company and feel a bit awkward in crowds.

Just remember you're no better or worse than anyone else on here.

Relax. You'll be fine x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Also wondering if anyone else has this problem and how u deal with it "
At least you're trying with your update... good luck.. most of us are friendly.. join in have a laugh and before ye know it you'll be knee deep in muff... (not Miss Muff.. obviously)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Also wondering if anyone else has this problem and how u deal with it At least you're trying with your update... good luck.. most of us are friendly.. join in have a laugh and before ye know it you'll be knee deep in muff... (not Miss Muff.. obviously)

If he's never seen again you know he's disappeared into "muff"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If he's never seen again you know he's disappeared into "muff"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If he's never seen again you know he's disappeared into "muff"

#naefilter

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What they all said up there… ^^^^^ good luck OP

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanks everyone for the advice

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By *iimonMan
over a year ago

glasgow

I agree with what’s said above. I would also make a point of being as active on Fab as you can. Make a point of talking in the forums everyday and eventually you’ll get to know people. Work on building friendships on here and when the time is right it could lead to socials like going to CJ’s together. make small goals and push yourself everyday. You’ve got it in you, you just need to remind yourself!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Solid advice. Take heed gentlemen.

…give heed for the ladies

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Also wondering if anyone else has this problem and how u deal with it "

Get yourself along to a club, and don't be put off if nothing happens.

Enjoy the social side with likeminded individuals and gain some confidence.

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