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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

hey guys! just seeing what attracts an older female to a younger guy x

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By *ringles0510Woman
over a year ago

Central Borders

Maturity

And anyone who doesn't look at "older women" as a tick box x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I ticked the older woman box a long long time ago, it's my preference now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Even if I was looking for a man, my preference would be 40+ and closer to my own age. Sure you're lovely OP but you're only 12 yrs older than my son. Just cannae dae it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry no I prefer men my own age or slightly older. I'm old enough to be your mother, just no x

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By *partacus2024Man
over a year ago

Near You


"Maturity

And anyone who doesn't look at "older women" as a tick box x"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think being in your thirties is the age where guys should find the most joy. You’re at an age where you’re still young enough to look good naturally and be of a more mature mind for the older women to consider you. Being in your 30s is also possibly the time for the women in their 20s to like you as the older guy…

I say should & possibly because I’m in my thirties and no-one likes me. It’s a hard life but someone’s got to be left out…I will pass that curse to you in 5 year OP unless you say some nice things about me

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By *revaunanceCouple
over a year ago

Exeter

Hello OP,

First thing we look for is some sort of profile. If someone puts the effort in to that then theres a good chance they'll put effort into other things such as messaging or meeting.

Then we'll look at the pics; a wall of cock pics is not a turn on so those profiles get passed over, likewise teh profiles with no pics.

Then we'll look for some sort of common ground sexually. If the young man only wants to meet a woman or a man but not couples then there is no point going further.

We find though that we have a lot more success wehn we use the chatroom and can converse in real time but still within the relative safety of Fab.

Good luck

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By *ide em cowgirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Always makes me laugh. Get alot of young guys messaging me classing me as an older woman. Sorry to disappoint I have the mentality of a 21 yr old. Generally younger guys want older women as they know what they want, have experience etc etc well I think that's what most women want a guy who has experience and most importantly listens and pays attention to what the lady likes and is enjoying. Which sadly the younger guys I have experienced kind of miss this point completely. Good luck

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By *uietbloke67Man
over a year ago

outside your bedroom window ;-)

To be fair...when I was young then I would have ran through fire for a woman in her 30s-40s.

Now though they are officially young women to me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"To be fair...when I was young then I would have ran through fire for a woman in her 30s-40s.

Now though they are officially young women to me "

....and they're running through fires to get away fae you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sorry no I prefer men my own age or slightly older. I'm old enough to be your mother, just no x"

That’s a shame as I can’t message you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had a couple of great experiences with older women when I was about 23-24 since then it’s been my preference. I think an older woman comes with confidence and generally feels more comfortable in their own skin. Therefore they know what they want and know how to get it. None of the messing you get with younger ones

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By *uietbloke67Man
over a year ago

outside your bedroom window ;-)


"To be fair...when I was young then I would have ran through fire for a woman in her 30s-40s.

Now though they are officially young women to me

....and they're running through fires to get away fae you "

Sprinting...all I hear is there screams of fear in the distance lol

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By *uietbloke67Man
over a year ago

outside your bedroom window ;-)

Anyway ....there must be an older woman in her for the guy....go on ladies...make life remembering memories for the guy..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Anyway ....there must be an older woman in her for the guy....go on ladies...make life remembering memories for the guy.. "

He couldn't keep up

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By *imbobaMan
over a year ago

Glasgow


"I think being in your thirties is the age where guys should find the most joy. You’re at an age where you’re still young enough to look good naturally and be of a more mature mind for the older women to consider you. Being in your 30s is also possibly the time for the women in their 20s to like you as the older guy…

I say should & possibly because I’m in my thirties and no-one likes me. It’s a hard life but someone’s got to be left out…I will pass that curse to you in 5 year OP unless you say some nice things about me "

Guess I’ll settle for “less” joy. Way past my prime. (Where’s the middle finger emoji?)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think being in your thirties is the age where guys should find the most joy. You’re at an age where you’re still young enough to look good naturally and be of a more mature mind for the older women to consider you. Being in your 30s is also possibly the time for the women in their 20s to like you as the older guy…

I say should & possibly because I’m in my thirties and no-one likes me. It’s a hard life but someone’s got to be left out…I will pass that curse to you in 5 year OP unless you say some nice things about me

Guess I’ll settle for “less” joy. Way past my prime. (Where’s the middle finger emoji?) "

Prime is subjective my man. Love you

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

love to put that to the test

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