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By *coupleoforanges OP   Couple
over a year ago

Edinburgh / Stirlingshire / Glasgow-ish

I'm going to do a rewrite on our profile and just curious as to what people's thoughts are towards couple profiles with mention of one is happy to go solo?

To be transparent I am actively encouging Wolf to do more solo play and they do have their own solo account.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm going to do a rewrite on our profile and just curious as to what people's thoughts are towards couple profiles with mention of one is happy to go solo?

To be transparent I am actively encouging Wolf to do more solo play and they do have their own solo account. "

I got excited that this would be Star Wars related.

On an unverified profile I'd roll my eyes at the mention of the male playing solo. Could you mention in your profile that Wolf has a separate single account? If I'm contacting a couples account it's because I'm looking for a couple, I personally dont believe any single meet arrangements should be done from a couples account.

Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm going to do a rewrite on our profile and just curious as to what people's thoughts are towards couple profiles with mention of one is happy to go solo?

To be transparent I am actively encouging Wolf to do more solo play and they do have their own solo account.

I got excited that this would be Star Wars related.

On an unverified profile I'd roll my eyes at the mention of the male playing solo. Could you mention in your profile that Wolf has a separate single account? If I'm contacting a couples account it's because I'm looking for a couple, I personally dont believe any single meet arrangements should be done from a couples account.

Xx"

disagree . The dynamic might be the husband or wife / partner may entertain the solo stuff on rare occasions. Also up to the couple how they run their profile . Ultimately there are different vibes to accounts etc . Up to the folks how they run their profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Myself and hubby have our cpls profile and both have solo profiles for when we meet alone.

Keep profiles for who they are intended for.. ie.cpls for cpls singles for singles.

But stating on your cpls profile you both or 1 plays alone is fine I'd say.

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By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago

Paisley


"I'm going to do a rewrite on our profile and just curious as to what people's thoughts are towards couple profiles with mention of one is happy to go solo?

To be transparent I am actively encouging Wolf to do more solo play and they do have their own solo account.

I got excited that this would be Star Wars related.

On an unverified profile I'd roll my eyes at the mention of the male playing solo. Could you mention in your profile that Wolf has a separate single account? If I'm contacting a couples account it's because I'm looking for a couple, I personally dont believe any single meet arrangements should be done from a couples account.

Xx"

I agree. I have met one half of a couple but I know them both and knew that they had agreed to this. They both had single profiles as well as a couple profile.

Filters are there for a reason and I don’t want messages from a couple profile when it’s a single guy looking to meet.

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By *coupleoforanges OP   Couple
over a year ago

Edinburgh / Stirlingshire / Glasgow-ish

Hand Solo and Luke SkyWanker I won't disrespect Princess Leia still devastated.

All of our 1st contact messages are sent by me and sometimes wolf jumps in to reply. Would never ask someone to meet from our account one to one. I also think about what it would feel like find out one half of a couple had a solo account and it not be mentioned would it look iffy. No idea I've never had a solo account here not im trying to work out what's the best for transparency while respecting boundaries.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hope it works out for you guys some really good advice from cpls who allow a partner to play solo , it’s a very hot dynamic for a cpl so we hope you have loads of fun experimenting with it

We do the same with Mrs allowed to play solo , she already can with 1 guy she likes but if she gets really comfy with a guy or cpl them I would have no problem with her meeting them … fit us all about making Mrs as comfy as possible , same with cpls we meet , ladies in charge , they decide the do’s and the do nots

Works fir us x

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By *astlincscoupleCouple
over a year ago

Tinsel Town

As someone said above, we would be sceptical of profiles stating the male half plays alone.

A separate male profile should be used in this instance.

Good luck

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By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago

Paisley

I have no issues with couple profiles mentioning the single profile name. I’ve done it before. I’ve also mentioned couple profile name on my single profile. Helps with transparency and shows that both are aware of the profiles.

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