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By *berdeenMale OP   Man
over a year ago

Aberdeen

Afternoon All,

Met up with some fellow FABBERS yesterday for a drink & discussion turned on to Pet Peeves about the site.

Anyone care to share what yours are?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Currently, it's the number of guys who share around pics of unsuspecting women and the thirsty ones that take them up on it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Currently, it's the number of guys who share around pics of unsuspecting women and the thirsty ones that take them up on it"

Agree! A local single male profile regularly adds pictures of his partner with her face front and centre. I report them every time but he's still here uploading them

On Fab at the moment my biggest pet peeve is men who suddenly have a female up for threesome when I say I only meet couples and women. Unsurprisingly these women never have their own profiles on Fab 

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Current peeve is guys automatically thinking your gonna meet after 1 message

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Current peeve is guys automatically thinking your gonna meet after 1 message "
absolutely this

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By *IGTITSX2022XWoman
over a year ago

aberdeen

Yip I find that alot too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Folk taking the hump because people express an opinion that is different to theirs.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Guys sending friend invites when you've never chatted to them x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Guys sending friend invites when you've never chatted to them x"

Or the ones who message to tell you how beautiful you are when you have one headless public photie!

Aye, very good Uri Geller.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mines atm is men who live 2/3/400 miles away looking for meets. I'll not travel more than 30 mins for a meet but 4+ hour drives isn't an issue for them. Bit weird to me.

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By *adbury girlWoman
over a year ago

Lanarkshire


"Guys sending friend invites when you've never chatted to them x

Or the ones who message to tell you how beautiful you are when you have one headless public photie!

Aye, very good Uri Geller.

"

You mean they don’t think I’m gorgeous

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By *adbury girlWoman
over a year ago

Lanarkshire


"Currently, it's the number of guys who share around pics of unsuspecting women and the thirsty ones that take them up on it

Agree! A local single male profile regularly adds pictures of his partner with her face front and centre. I report them every time but he's still here uploading them

On Fab at the moment my biggest pet peeve is men who suddenly have a female up for threesome when I say I only meet couples and women. Unsurprisingly these women never have their own profiles on Fab "

Mine is when chatting to a guy for a bit then all of a sudden he mentions a fwb then all the chat is around threesomes when that wasn’t what I was looking for. I end the chat then a short time later they are back to being a single guy looking for a meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Guys sending friend invites when you've never chatted to them x

Or the ones who message to tell you how beautiful you are when you have one headless public photie!

Aye, very good Uri Geller.

You mean they don’t think I’m gorgeous "

Aye, obviously you're the exception

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By *adbury girlWoman
over a year ago

Lanarkshire


"Guys sending friend invites when you've never chatted to them x

Or the ones who message to tell you how beautiful you are when you have one headless public photie!

Aye, very good Uri Geller.

You mean they don’t think I’m gorgeous

Aye, obviously you're the exception "

That’s alright then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ppl saying u must have a face pic even thou they don't even have any sort of pics

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By *heSofaDestroyersCouple
over a year ago

HereAndThere

Ours is guys who assume it’s only ever mrs on the profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Guys sending friend invites when you've never chatted to them x

Or the ones who message to tell you how beautiful you are when you have one headless public photie!

Aye, very good Uri Geller.

"

So I'm not beautiful then?

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By *nferno sausageMan
over a year ago

Aberdeenshire

Coughing up another fiver when I didn't even get a ride for the last one.

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By *exicolaMan
over a year ago

West Lothian


"Coughing up another fiver when I didn't even get a ride for the last one. "

Absolutely.

Expensive game this.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Guys sending friend invites when you've never chatted to them x

Or the ones who message to tell you how beautiful you are when you have one headless public photie!

Aye, very good Uri Geller.

So I'm not beautiful then? "

You're the other exception!

(The headless photie comment was referring to me btw not you)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Guys sending friend invites when you've never chatted to them x

Or the ones who message to tell you how beautiful you are when you have one headless public photie!

Aye, very good Uri Geller.

So I'm not beautiful then?

You're the other exception!

(The headless photie comment was referring to me btw not you) "

Lol. I'd say not, your profile pic is great, I love that dress x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Afternoon All,

Met up with some fellow FABBERS yesterday for a drink & discussion turned on to Pet Peeves about the site.

Anyone care to share what yours are? "

The constant guy Bashing that some women love to do, and especially the guys that do it too, somehow thinking it will make them more attractive to women since their the exception to " those " types of guys.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The ‘send a dick pic’ message that oddly comes from those who have a “no dick pics” in their profile.

My other is a very new one, pushy husbands. Does my tits in, it might be a swinging site but guys, respect your other halves for gods sake

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Afternoon All,

Met up with some fellow FABBERS yesterday for a drink & discussion turned on to Pet Peeves about the site.

Anyone care to share what yours are?

The constant guy Bashing that some women love to do, and especially the guys that do it too, somehow thinking it will make them more attractive to women since their the exception to " those " types of guys. "

Got to love a bit of white knighting lol

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By *nferno sausageMan
over a year ago

Aberdeenshire


"Afternoon All,

Met up with some fellow FABBERS yesterday for a drink & discussion turned on to Pet Peeves about the site.

Anyone care to share what yours are?

The constant guy Bashing that some women love to do, and especially the guys that do it too, somehow thinking it will make them more attractive to women since their the exception to " those " types of guys.

Got to love a bit of white knighting lol"

Aye - those white knights are cringe-worthy! Let me know if you need any of them bashed!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Afternoon All,

Met up with some fellow FABBERS yesterday for a drink & discussion turned on to Pet Peeves about the site.

Anyone care to share what yours are?

The constant guy Bashing that some women love to do, and especially the guys that do it too, somehow thinking it will make them more attractive to women since their the exception to " those " types of guys.

Got to love a bit of white knighting lol

Aye - those white knights are cringe-worthy! Let me know if you need any of them bashed! "

Thanks Lancelot

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By *oanne_MacTV/TS
over a year ago

Perth

Far too many to list TBH

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't think many "man bash" but there is a higher proportion of men to women and it's the male nature to be "pushy" and by god SOME not all ARE... if women complain about it then ffs... could it be that men AS A RULE just ARE!! Something that underlines this thought is that couples, TV's, TS's and SINGLE men say so... if you read the forums at all you see that.

Not the nice ones and thank god they do exist. I've even met one or two lol.

However I've also had quite a few messages from men who think they ARE one of the nice guys and who don't realise they actually are pretty offensive, pushy and lack discretion.

Lastly on a serious note... that "pushy" attitude is very much in the news just now in regard to how many women have been attacked recently... that is an issue of how society allows men to think of and treat women in general.

I'm not anti men incidentally, far from it. I have two sons and like to think I brought them up to respect everyone regardless of sex, colour, creed or anything else.

Oh ... Pet peeve... intolerance in general but here... same as Jo lol

Disclaimer: Well aware single women, couples etc etc etc have their faults

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't think many "man bash" but there is a higher proportion of men to women and it's the male nature to be "pushy" and by god SOME not all ARE... if women complain about it then ffs... could it be that men AS A RULE just ARE!! Something that underlines this thought is that couples, TV's, TS's and SINGLE men say so... if you read the forums at all you see that.

Not the nice ones and thank god they do exist. I've even met one or two lol.

However I've also had quite a few messages from men who think they ARE one of the nice guys and who don't realise they actually are pretty offensive, pushy and lack discretion.

Lastly on a serious note... that "pushy" attitude is very much in the news just now in regard to how many women have been attacked recently... that is an issue of how society allows men to think of and treat women in general.

I'm not anti men incidentally, far from it. I have two sons and like to think I brought them up to respect everyone regardless of sex, colour, creed or anything else.

Oh ... Pet peeve... intolerance in general but here... same as Jo lol

Disclaimer: Well aware single women, couples etc etc etc have their faults "

I actually don't mind the media guy Bashing just now , there just sticking with the flavour of the month. Blm is out the spotlight now and guys are in , next month it will be royalty or politicians again being bashed .

I disagree with you though flirt , I don't think levels of attacks on women have got worse recently, there's just a couple more special circumstances with the high profile ones just now.

Anyway don't want to hijack the thread with my pet peeve . Sry OP.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't think many "man bash" but there is a higher proportion of men to women and it's the male nature to be "pushy" and by god SOME not all ARE... if women complain about it then ffs... could it be that men AS A RULE just ARE!! Something that underlines this thought is that couples, TV's, TS's and SINGLE men say so... if you read the forums at all you see that.

Not the nice ones and thank god they do exist. I've even met one or two lol.

However I've also had quite a few messages from men who think they ARE one of the nice guys and who don't realise they actually are pretty offensive, pushy and lack discretion.

Lastly on a serious note... that "pushy" attitude is very much in the news just now in regard to how many women have been attacked recently... that is an issue of how society allows men to think of and treat women in general.

I'm not anti men incidentally, far from it. I have two sons and like to think I brought them up to respect everyone regardless of sex, colour, creed or anything else.

Oh ... Pet peeve... intolerance in general but here... same as Jo lol

Disclaimer: Well aware single women, couples etc etc etc have their faults

I actually don't mind the media guy Bashing just now , there just sticking with the flavour of the month. Blm is out the spotlight now and guys are in , next month it will be royalty or politicians again being bashed .

I disagree with you though flirt , I don't think levels of attacks on women have got worse recently, there's just a couple more special circumstances with the high profile ones just now.

Anyway don't want to hijack the thread with my pet peeve . Sry OP.

"

You're entitled to your opinion Zest - as my mother said "wouldn't do if we were all the same"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't think many "man bash" but there is a higher proportion of men to women and it's the male nature to be "pushy" and by god SOME not all ARE... if women complain about it then ffs... could it be that men AS A RULE just ARE!! Something that underlines this thought is that couples, TV's, TS's and SINGLE men say so... if you read the forums at all you see that.

Not the nice ones and thank god they do exist. I've even met one or two lol.

However I've also had quite a few messages from men who think they ARE one of the nice guys and who don't realise they actually are pretty offensive, pushy and lack discretion.

Lastly on a serious note... that "pushy" attitude is very much in the news just now in regard to how many women have been attacked recently... that is an issue of how society allows men to think of and treat women in general.

I'm not anti men incidentally, far from it. I have two sons and like to think I brought them up to respect everyone regardless of sex, colour, creed or anything else.

Oh ... Pet peeve... intolerance in general but here... same as Jo lol

Disclaimer: Well aware single women, couples etc etc etc have their faults

I actually don't mind the media guy Bashing just now , there just sticking with the flavour of the month. Blm is out the spotlight now and guys are in , next month it will be royalty or politicians again being bashed .

I disagree with you though flirt , I don't think levels of attacks on women have got worse recently, there's just a couple more special circumstances with the high profile ones just now.

Anyway don't want to hijack the thread with my pet peeve . Sry OP.

You're entitled to your opinion Zest - as my mother said "wouldn't do if we were all the same" "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was about to say it would do us all good to have the shoe on the other foot and experience Fab as the other sex for 24hrs.

Then I remembered about the guys who pretend to be single women to try and spark up conversations or get pics. Oops, silly me...man bashing again...whit am ah like!?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I was about to say it would do us all good to have the shoe on the other foot and experience Fab as the other sex for 24hrs.

Then I remembered about the guys who pretend to be single women to try and spark up conversations or get pics. Oops, silly me...man bashing again...whit am ah like!? "

Fucking fabulous that's whit yer like lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I was about to say it would do us all good to have the shoe on the other foot and experience Fab as the other sex for 24hrs.

Then I remembered about the guys who pretend to be single women to try and spark up conversations or get pics. Oops, silly me...man bashing again...whit am ah like!?

Fucking fabulous that's whit yer like lol "
fabulous.. darleen..

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By *nferno sausageMan
over a year ago

Aberdeenshire


"I was about to say it would do us all good to have the shoe on the other foot and experience Fab as the other sex for 24hrs.

Then I remembered about the guys who pretend to be single women to try and spark up conversations or get pics. Oops, silly me...man bashing again...whit am ah like!?

Fucking fabulous that's whit yer like lol fabulous.. darleen.. "

If the shoe is going on the other foot, I'll happily hae a bash at either of you three.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I was about to say it would do us all good to have the shoe on the other foot and experience Fab as the other sex for 24hrs.

Then I remembered about the guys who pretend to be single women to try and spark up conversations or get pics. Oops, silly me...man bashing again...whit am ah like!?

Fucking fabulous that's whit yer like lol fabulous.. darleen..

If the shoe is going on the other foot, I'll happily hae a bash at either of you three. "

Make it boots and a pirate outfit a la Capn Jack Sparrow and am in

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I was about to say it would do us all good to have the shoe on the other foot and experience Fab as the other sex for 24hrs.

Then I remembered about the guys who pretend to be single women to try and spark up conversations or get pics. Oops, silly me...man bashing again...whit am ah like!?

Fucking fabulous that's whit yer like lol fabulous.. darleen..

If the shoe is going on the other foot, I'll happily hae a bash at either of you three.

Make it boots and a pirate outfit a la Capn Jack Sparrow and am in "
*startin the van*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I was about to say it would do us all good to have the shoe on the other foot and experience Fab as the other sex for 24hrs.

Then I remembered about the guys who pretend to be single women to try and spark up conversations or get pics. Oops, silly me...man bashing again...whit am ah like!?

Fucking fabulous that's whit yer like lol fabulous.. darleen..

If the shoe is going on the other foot, I'll happily hae a bash at either of you three.

Make it boots and a pirate outfit a la Capn Jack Sparrow and am in *startin the van* "

*making a pie* lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I was about to say it would do us all good to have the shoe on the other foot and experience Fab as the other sex for 24hrs.

Then I remembered about the guys who pretend to be single women to try and spark up conversations or get pics. Oops, silly me...man bashing again...whit am ah like!?

Fucking fabulous that's whit yer like lol fabulous.. darleen..

If the shoe is going on the other foot, I'll happily hae a bash at either of you three.

Make it boots and a pirate outfit a la Capn Jack Sparrow and am in *startin the van*

*making a pie* lol "
ah can smell it fae here... sakes.. thats disgusting...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I was about to say it would do us all good to have the shoe on the other foot and experience Fab as the other sex for 24hrs.

Then I remembered about the guys who pretend to be single women to try and spark up conversations or get pics. Oops, silly me...man bashing again...whit am ah like!?

Fucking fabulous that's whit yer like lol fabulous.. darleen..

If the shoe is going on the other foot, I'll happily hae a bash at either of you three.

Make it boots and a pirate outfit a la Capn Jack Sparrow and am in *startin the van*

*making a pie* lol ah can smell it fae here... sakes.. thats disgusting... "

maybe I should make it cute lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I was about to say it would do us all good to have the shoe on the other foot and experience Fab as the other sex for 24hrs.

Then I remembered about the guys who pretend to be single women to try and spark up conversations or get pics. Oops, silly me...man bashing again...whit am ah like!?

Fucking fabulous that's whit yer like lol fabulous.. darleen..

If the shoe is going on the other foot, I'll happily hae a bash at either of you three.

Make it boots and a pirate outfit a la Capn Jack Sparrow and am in *startin the van*

*making a pie* lol ah can smell it fae here... sakes.. thats disgusting...

maybe I should make it cute lol "
i see what you done there...

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By *oanne_MacTV/TS
over a year ago

Perth

Just dont say its a cream pie.

Some blank profiled fuckwad will message demanding to 'breed' you...

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By *aseMan
over a year ago

Gourock

Women replying not my type but have loads of verifications & pics of guys all shapes & sizes..lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Women replying not my type but have loads of verifications & pics of guys all shapes & sizes..lol"

Perhaps they're taking your profile name literally

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By *aseMan
over a year ago

Gourock


"Women replying not my type but have loads of verifications & pics of guys all shapes & sizes..lol

Perhaps they're taking your profile name literally "
Pmsl ..

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By *eedsmale36Man
over a year ago

Leeds

Allegedly couples profiles with no photos, but just the guy available to suck my cock.

Thanks but no thanks !

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By *aseMan
over a year ago

Gourock


"Allegedly couples profiles with no photos, but just the guy available to suck my cock.

Thanks but no thanks ! "
Yip I've had a few if them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Women replying not my type but have loads of verifications & pics of guys all shapes & sizes..lol"

Maybe they're talking about your approach/attitude rather than physical attributes? Could it be that something within that is not their "type"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Allegedly couples profiles with no photos, but just the guy available to suck my cock.

Thanks but no thanks ! "

I wonder if they're the same kind profiles looking for ffm where the mrs is never available to verify

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The antagonists, the rude,the super serious,etc,etc

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By *aseMan
over a year ago

Gourock

Let he or she who hasn't sinned cast the 1st stone...lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Let he or she who hasn't sinned cast the 1st stone...lol"

(BRICK INCOMING!) Duck

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By *ornyfuckers66Couple
over a year ago

fife

Can’t travel can’t accommodate

Read no reply

Chat then sudden log off without so much as brb

Over zealous mods

Smokers who won’t meet smokers

Non verified profiles

Fake profiles

Endless chat

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By *oanne_MacTV/TS
over a year ago

Perth

Pestering.

Onviously not reading or choosing to ignore your profile before messaging.

Unsolicited friend requests.

winking and messaging from a blank or hidden profile, what the fuck am i meant to do with that?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Pestering.

Onviously not reading or choosing to ignore your profile before messaging.

Unsolicited friend requests.

winking and messaging from a blank or hidden profile, what the fuck am i meant to do with that?

"

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By *on5185Man
over a year ago

Oldmeldrum

Hmm well,

Asking for pics but none in return

Constant new sprouted profile that die and wither by the next morning.

Once a rapport has been made, the flat earth appears and they fall off

There’s more but that will do for first time on the forums

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By *allerthanaverage79Man
over a year ago

Ayrshire

People who get a kick out of winding you up, wasting your time and just being general trolls!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The fab guru's .. the ones that believe they're the font of all knowledge .. usually by putting others down .. its like a sport on here

Folk who complain about moaning by moaning themselves .

The fact that if you have a difference In opinion it's usually seen as an attack

The morality brigade .. live and let live if it doesn't affect you it's none of your business

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


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The morality brigade .. live and let live if it doesn't affect you it's none of your business

"
This ^ far too many poking their noses in where they aint wanted and those who just can't let go and will do anything to try and destroy a person's reputation on here by spreading visious lies about people.

Seen it so many times !

Some horrible people about

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

The morality brigade .. live and let live if it doesn't affect you it's none of your business

This ^ far too many poking their noses in where they aint wanted and those who just can't let go and will do anything to try and destroy a person's reputation on here by spreading visious lies about people.

Seen it so many times !

Some horrible people about "

Far too many folk about that's out to destroy someone .. far too much time on their hands x

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"

The morality brigade .. live and let live if it doesn't affect you it's none of your business

This ^ far too many poking their noses in where they aint wanted and those who just can't let go and will do anything to try and destroy a person's reputation on here by spreading visious lies about people.

Seen it so many times !

Some horrible people about

Far too many folk about that's out to destroy someone .. far too much time on their hands x"
Totally agree

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By *ilthyRacersCouple
over a year ago

Coventry

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Folk who rant and Pity me status .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pet peeve is women who demand face pics from the get go despite having a completely empty profile and yet you have lots of pictures and a decent description etc, yet they think it's wholly inappropriate for you to require a bit of chat before identities are thrown about.. when you politely explain the completely reasonable reasons they dismiss then as you must be a cheating husband !!! Blinkered narrow minds ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I agree with a good chunk of what’s already been said.

I’d like to add in the status updates looking for workmen/trades people or the vague/fishing look at me comments, this isn’t Facebook.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The "you know who you are" type of statuses?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tell you what kind of gives me the pip. When a member gets a life forum ban for disrupting the forum and appears in another guise to do exactly the same thing. Some are sussed and hounded off the site others are sussed and nothing happens.

Maybe I'm not understanding the premise of course. Whether the ban is for the life of the individual or the life of that profile. Some expert will no doubt put me right.

Ties in with my other pet peeve of people who throw a into the forum and sit back smiling watching the result.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Tell you what kind of gives me the pip. When a member gets a life forum ban for disrupting the forum and appears in another guise to do exactly the same thing. Some are sussed and hounded off the site others are sussed and nothing happens.

Maybe I'm not understanding the premise of course. Whether the ban is for the life of the individual or the life of that profile. Some expert will no doubt put me right.

Ties in with my other pet peeve of people who throw a into the forum and sit back smiling watching the result. "
100% with you on this!!! but those types end up being the tit they are and will get another ban

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Tell you what kind of gives me the pip. When a member gets a life forum ban for disrupting the forum and appears in another guise to do exactly the same thing. Some are sussed and hounded off the site others are sussed and nothing happens.

Maybe I'm not understanding the premise of course. Whether the ban is for the life of the individual or the life of that profile. Some expert will no doubt put me right.

Ties in with my other pet peeve of people who throw a into the forum and sit back smiling watching the result. "
these men..sorry erm or girls lol usually cannot help themselves slipping back into their old ways so usually get caught out with their childish or egotistical behaviour.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Pet peeve is women who demand face pics from the get go despite having a completely empty profile and yet you have lots of pictures and a decent description etc, yet they think it's wholly inappropriate for you to require a bit of chat before identities are thrown about.. when you politely explain the completely reasonable reasons they dismiss then as you must be a cheating husband !!! Blinkered narrow minds ... "

Women dont demand them they ask for them wether you send is entirely up to you, my pet peeve is guys who have nothing at all on their profiles no pics etc asking to meet, how the hell do i know i want to meet them if i cant see what they look like

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Winks from hidden profiles..wtf?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Winks from hidden profiles..wtf? "

Omg this aswell

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Name calling in order to shut down any kind of debate. "Bigot" usually seems to do the trick.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Tell you what kind of gives me the pip. When a member gets a life forum ban for disrupting the forum and appears in another guise to do exactly the same thing. Some are sussed and hounded off the site others are sussed and nothing happens.

Maybe I'm not understanding the premise of course. Whether the ban is for the life of the individual or the life of that profile. Some expert will no doubt put me right.

Ties in with my other pet peeve of people who throw a into the forum and sit back smiling watching the result. "

Yeah baby yeah (Austen Powers voice )

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By *ornypair300Couple
over a year ago

scottish borders

pet peeve has to be not reading the bio then acting like a child when told no

also demanding things, come on its not that hard just be nice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just dont say its a cream pie.

Some blank profiled fuckwad will message demanding to 'breed' you..."

Plain or pan

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By *oanne_MacTV/TS
over a year ago

Perth


"Just dont say its a cream pie.

Some blank profiled fuckwad will message demanding to 'breed' you...

Plain or pan "

Either, but it'll be crusty

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By *iimonMan
over a year ago

glasgow

Mine would have to be women who say they only meet well hung men. You don’t get us well hung men saying we only want to meet women with massive cavernous fannies to fill to fill to fill!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just dont say its a cream pie.

Some blank profiled fuckwad will message demanding to 'breed' you...

Plain or pan

Either, but it'll be crusty "

As long as it’s not seeded

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By *imbobaMan
over a year ago

Glasgow


"Current peeve is guys automatically thinking your gonna meet after 1 message absolutely this "

Oh. I though this place was like a Macdonalds drive thru. Drive up. Say hi. Have a wee flirt at the next window. Then pick up the goodies at the last one.

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By *oanne_MacTV/TS
over a year ago

Perth


"Just dont say its a cream pie.

Some blank profiled fuckwad will message demanding to 'breed' you...

Plain or pan

Either, but it'll be crusty

As long as it’s not seeded "

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By *oanne_MacTV/TS
over a year ago

Perth


"Just dont say its a cream pie.

Some blank profiled fuckwad will message demanding to 'breed' you...

Plain or pan

Either, but it'll be crusty

As long as it’s not seeded "


"Just dont say its a cream pie.

Some blank profiled fuckwad will message demanding to 'breed' you...

Plain or pan

Either, but it'll be crusty

As long as it’s not seeded "

No but if they're a big shooter...

It'll be a wholemeal

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Current peeve is guys automatically thinking your gonna meet after 1 message absolutely this

Oh. I though this place was like a Macdonalds drive thru. Drive up. Say hi. Have a wee flirt at the next window. Then pick up the goodies at the last one. "
some bypass the next window tho

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By *he Regina PhalangeWoman
over a year ago

Lanarkshire

People that send you a message but have their profile hidden.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Pet peeve is women who demand face pics from the get go despite having a completely empty profile and yet you have lots of pictures and a decent description etc, yet they think it's wholly inappropriate for you to require a bit of chat before identities are thrown about.. when you politely explain the completely reasonable reasons they dismiss then as you must be a cheating husband !!! Blinkered narrow minds ...

Women dont demand them they ask for them wether you send is entirely up to you, my pet peeve is guys who have nothing at all on their profiles no pics etc asking to meet, how the hell do i know i want to meet them if i cant see what they look like"

They very often do demand face pictures on the first message or its block / delete .. and they can afford to be so abrupt and unreasonable as there is just so many guys that there will be plenty who don't really care and she'll get her guy. It's standards, part of a bit of respect for myself I guess.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Name calling in order to shut down any kind of debate. "Bigot" usually seems to do the trick.

"

Agree

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Pet peeve is women who demand face pics from the get go despite having a completely empty profile and yet you have lots of pictures and a decent description etc, yet they think it's wholly inappropriate for you to require a bit of chat before identities are thrown about.. when you politely explain the completely reasonable reasons they dismiss then as you must be a cheating husband !!! Blinkered narrow minds ...

Women dont demand them they ask for them wether you send is entirely up to you, my pet peeve is guys who have nothing at all on their profiles no pics etc asking to meet, how the hell do i know i want to meet them if i cant see what they look like

They very often do demand face pictures on the first message or its block / delete .. and they can afford to be so abrupt and unreasonable as there is just so many guys that there will be plenty who don't really care and she'll get her guy. It's standards, part of a bit of respect for myself I guess. "

Well if they "demand" then its all about standards for them, they dont want to meet with someone they arent atrracted to and vice versa. I ask for a facepic from the get off as i dont see any point coversing and wasting my time with a guy to send me a facepic and theres zero attraction but that's just me many will meet without seeing pics though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Afternoon All,

Met up with some fellow FABBERS yesterday for a drink & discussion turned on to Pet Peeves about the site.

Anyone care to share what yours are? "

When a couples updates are constantly "who wants to meet male half today as he's all alone and lonely or male half can play while female is not there, yeah right, who you kidding? lol

Another pet peeve is male's pretending to be females then sending a friend invite hoping we will accept it so the 'female' can see our face pics lol this makes us giggle

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By *scobar67Man
over a year ago

glasgow

Some women who think men are so desperate for sex and ask for money, drink or drugs before they will meet guys.

X

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

People trying to dictate who people can speak to, be friends with or even meet.

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By *oanne_MacTV/TS
over a year ago

Perth

Transphobia.

Homophobia.

Arseholes who think their 'elite' and only their opinion matters, forums full of them...

Greedy bastards looking for lifts to places - get a bus, taxi or dont fucking go ya using melts.

Statuses begging for someone to send them a supporter pass.... fuck right off, you utter wankspanners...

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By *oanne_MacTV/TS
over a year ago

Perth

Attention seeking "had enough, shit on here... im gonna leave"..

Are ye, Aye?...

What ya waiting for?... fuck off.

New profile, "been here before, know how it works".....

Really?, why ya still got no pics, no profy bio and not met anyone in 10 months then?... GTF

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By *b12345678Man
over a year ago

Highlands

Just generally rude people, no need for it at all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would have to say ( PROTECTION )

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By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago

Paisley


"Women replying not my type but have loads of verifications & pics of guys all shapes & sizes..lol"

I have verifications from a variety of people as I do a pub quiz social weekly and meet many socially only. Some may have verifications from a social event or going to a club. It doesn’t mean they were attracted to them. Not all verifications are from meets where they played. It’s also about chemistry not just body shape or size. Don’t assume anything from verifications.

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By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago

Paisley

Pet peeves. Many have already been mentioned above

Guys who think females are on here just to please them. This is not Instashag

Single male profiles with more pics of women than anything else

Receiving numerous messages because I haven’t responded within their expected time scale.

People who don’t read profiles

Profiles with nothing in them.

Messages that give details of what a guy wants to do to me in graphic detail.

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By *eedsmale36Man
over a year ago

Leeds

Fuckers who bid on eBay and don’t pay when they win !

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By *um4meMan
over a year ago

Scotland

Quoting song lyrics as a status update It’s maybe acceptable from a teenager but surely you can do better than “ Zip-a-dee-doo-dah, zip-a-dee-ay”

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"People trying to dictate who people can speak to, be friends with or even meet."

This has actually ripped my knitting on more than one occasion.

I won't be dictated to in any other area of my life, so your disappointment in my choice of Fab friends features low on my list of "Fucks To Give" List.

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"People trying to dictate who people can speak to, be friends with or even meet.

This has actually ripped my knitting on more than one occasion.

I won't be dictated to in any other area of my life, so your disappointment in my choice of Fab friends features low on my list of "Fucks To Give" List."
Exactly !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"People trying to dictate who people can speak to, be friends with or even meet.

This has actually ripped my knitting on more than one occasion.

I won't be dictated to in any other area of my life, so your disappointment in my choice of Fab friends features low on my list of "Fucks To Give" List."
telt

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By *oanne_MacTV/TS
over a year ago

Perth


"People trying to dictate who people can speak to, be friends with or even meet.

This has actually ripped my knitting on more than one occasion.

I won't be dictated to in any other area of my life, so your disappointment in my choice of Fab friends features low on my list of "Fucks To Give" List."

You always did have a way with words. I think we may be sisters

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"People trying to dictate who people can speak to, be friends with or even meet.

This has actually ripped my knitting on more than one occasion.

I won't be dictated to in any other area of my life, so your disappointment in my choice of Fab friends features low on my list of "Fucks To Give" List."

Quite right. Sound like something Mrs D would say

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"People trying to dictate who people can speak to, be friends with or even meet.

This has actually ripped my knitting on more than one occasion.

I won't be dictated to in any other area of my life, so your disappointment in my choice of Fab friends features low on my list of "Fucks To Give" List.

Quite right. Sound like something Mrs D would say "

Never heard of her.

Sounds like a fuckin legend though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"People trying to dictate who people can speak to, be friends with or even meet.

This has actually ripped my knitting on more than one occasion.

I won't be dictated to in any other area of my life, so your disappointment in my choice of Fab friends features low on my list of "Fucks To Give" List.

Quite right. Sound like something Mrs D would say

Never heard of her.

Sounds like a fuckin legend though "

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By *ot - CoupleCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow

Dick pics and Spread vaginas and anus pics.

When single guys message us and talk like their messaging a single female.

People from 100's of miles away wanting to meet.

Friends requests from people we've never spoken to (obviously pic hunters)

Short messages like, wanna fuck?

Finally, people who moan and complain.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Quoting song lyrics as a status update It’s maybe acceptable from a teenager but surely you can do better than “ Zip-a-dee-doo-dah, zip-a-dee-ay”"

Funny that, mines is grown men with juvenile smutty names

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By *ot - CoupleCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow


"Dick pics and Spread vaginas and anus pics.

When single guys message us and talk like their messaging a single female.

People from 100's of miles away wanting to meet.

Friends requests from people we've never spoken to (obviously pic hunters)

Short messages like, wanna fuck?

Finally, people who moan and complain.

"

Just thought of something else, men pretending to be women.

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By *oanne_MacTV/TS
over a year ago

Perth

Men who keep the couples profile open, trying for meets. even after its obvious the faemales no longer around

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

Status updates between two members where you can clearly see they hate each other .. why ! Just block move on and enjoy the rest of the site.

Life too shirt for that nonsense.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Status updates between two members where you can clearly see they hate each other .. why ! Just block move on and enjoy the rest of the site.

Life too shirt for that nonsense."

I think for some folk any attention, even negative, is better than none at all.

Far more satisfying just to dinghy anyone I don't like.

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"Status updates between two members where you can clearly see they hate each other .. why ! Just block move on and enjoy the rest of the site.

Life too shirt for that nonsense.

I think for some folk any attention, even negative, is better than none at all.

Far more satisfying just to dinghy anyone I don't like."
Totally agree!

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By *nferno sausageMan
over a year ago

Aberdeenshire


"Quoting song lyrics as a status update It’s maybe acceptable from a teenager but surely you can do better than “ Zip-a-dee-doo-dah, zip-a-dee-ay”

Funny that, mines is grown men with juvenile smutty names "

15-40

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By *ature wife loves cockWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow


"Guys sending friend invites when you've never chatted to them x"

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By *ringles0510Woman
over a year ago

Central Borders

The oral wizards (yeah I know, I'll never cum so hard from anyone else's oral skills - I'll still pass though).

The ones who feel the need to slag of your veris, because they believe they're better looking and better in the sack than them after getting a polite no thanks.

First messages with explicit details of what we'd get up to if we were to ever meet.

The fantasists who pretend they're on here to meet people, but they're really not and just totally wasting your time.

Indiscretion (eg. k i k chat groups going into detail of what they've been up to and with who after which the person discussed will get bombarded with messages from these losers, or outing them to friends and family when they're in a huff).

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By *rgoodnbadMan
over a year ago

greenock

Seeing the demands and rules on some womens profiles and thinking it'd be easier to apply for Universal credits

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Seeing the demands and rules on some womens profiles and thinking it'd be easier to apply for Universal credits "
pmsl

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"Seeing the demands and rules on some womens profiles and thinking it'd be easier to apply for Universal credits "
lol highlighted by capital letters just to make sure you get the memo lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Folk trying to convince you that the're what you're looking for when you have already clearly stated they're not.

If I need a car, I want a car. Not a fucking moped.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Just thought of something else, men pretending to be women. "

Can always spot them a mile off. New single fem account, not photo verified & immediately meet verified by a male = fake.

My rule of thumb is if the fem or couple have been on more than 3 months, aren’t photo verified or don’t have a couple of veris from genuine people then I put it down as a guy. Maybe a bit judgey of me but hey, I live life on the fast lane ha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sheep who copy and paste Sydney University (or worse, Facebook) copyright warnings.

People who say "your loss" after being rejected....proving that it's really not!

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By *oanne_MacTV/TS
over a year ago

Perth

Awwwww gawd... aye "the warning"

Ive seen it on a fair few profiles that are blank all i can think is "steal what ya melt?"

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By *rgoodnbadMan
over a year ago

greenock

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By *rgoodnbadMan
over a year ago

greenock


"Seeing the demands and rules on some womens profiles and thinking it'd be easier to apply for Universal credits lol highlighted by capital letters just to make sure you get the memo lol "

...and if you get this far put "doanythingformanatking" on the header if messaging.

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"Seeing the demands and rules on some womens profiles and thinking it'd be easier to apply for Universal credits lol highlighted by capital letters just to make sure you get the memo lol

...and if you get this far put "doanythingformanatking" on the header if messaging. "
Oh forgot about that one too lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Awwwww gawd... aye "the warning"

Ive seen it on a fair few profiles that are blank all i can think is "steal what ya melt?" "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The guys that message and say "ask me anything" away ye go ya balloon.. you messaged me..

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By *oanne_MacTV/TS
over a year ago

Perth

"Can i ask you a question?"

Reply...

"That is a fucking question"

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge


"I don't think many "man bash" but there is a higher proportion of men to women and it's the male nature to be "pushy" and by god SOME not all ARE... if women complain about it then ffs... could it be that men AS A RULE just ARE!! Something that underlines this thought is that couples, TV's, TS's and SINGLE men say so... if you read the forums at all you see that.

Not the nice ones and thank god they do exist. I've even met one or two lol.

However I've also had quite a few messages from men who think they ARE one of the nice guys and who don't realise they actually are pretty offensive, pushy and lack discretion.

Lastly on a serious note... that "pushy" attitude is very much in the news just now in regard to how many women have been attacked recently... that is an issue of how society allows men to think of and treat women in general.

I'm not anti men incidentally, far from it. I have two sons and like to think I brought them up to respect everyone regardless of sex, colour, creed or anything else.

Oh ... Pet peeve... intolerance in general but here... same as Jo lol

Disclaimer: Well aware single women, couples etc etc etc have their faults "
I'm confused in one sentence you say some and the you say as a rule men just are.

I'd also say the demonisation of men by the media is driven by bias from the platform and not an indication of sociatal norms.

Most men have been brought up as you describe bringing up your sons and maybe you could ask them if they feel media platforms demonise men I'd be surprised if they say no.

My biggest pet peeve is over inflated egos

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By *he Regina PhalangeWoman
over a year ago

Lanarkshire


"The guys that message and say "ask me anything" away ye go ya balloon.. you messaged me.. "

I don’t like that. I feel like I ought have have a list of standard interview questions for the ‘ask me anything’ request.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't think many "man bash" but there is a higher proportion of men to women and it's the male nature to be "pushy" and by god SOME not all ARE... if women complain about it then ffs... could it be that men AS A RULE just ARE!! Something that underlines this thought is that couples, TV's, TS's and SINGLE men say so... if you read the forums at all you see that.

Not the nice ones and thank god they do exist. I've even met one or two lol.

However I've also had quite a few messages from men who think they ARE one of the nice guys and who don't realise they actually are pretty offensive, pushy and lack discretion.

Lastly on a serious note... that "pushy" attitude is very much in the news just now in regard to how many women have been attacked recently... that is an issue of how society allows men to think of and treat women in general.

I'm not anti men incidentally, far from it. I have two sons and like to think I brought them up to respect everyone regardless of sex, colour, creed or anything else.

Oh ... Pet peeve... intolerance in general but here... same as Jo lol

Disclaimer: Well aware single women, couples etc etc etc have their faults I'm confused in one sentence you say some and the you say as a rule men just are.

I'd also say the demonisation of men by the media is driven by bias from the platform and not an indication of sociatal norms.

Most men have been brought up as you describe bringing up your sons and maybe you could ask them if they feel media platforms demonise men I'd be surprised if they say no.

My biggest pet peeve is over inflated egos

"


"I don't think many "man bash" but there is a higher proportion of men to women and it's the male nature to be "pushy" and by god SOME not all ARE... if women complain about it then ffs... could it be that men AS A RULE just ARE!! Something that underlines this thought is that couples, TV's, TS's and SINGLE men say so... if you read the forums at all you see that.

Not the nice ones and thank god they do exist. I've even met one or two lol.

However I've also had quite a few messages from men who think they ARE one of the nice guys and who don't realise they actually are pretty offensive, pushy and lack discretion.

Lastly on a serious note... that "pushy" attitude is very much in the news just now in regard to how many women have been attacked recently... that is an issue of how society allows men to think of and treat women in general.

I'm not anti men incidentally, far from it. I have two sons and like to think I brought them up to respect everyone regardless of sex, colour, creed or anything else.

Oh ... Pet peeve... intolerance in general but here... same as Jo lol

Disclaimer: Well aware single women, couples etc etc etc have their faults I'm confused in one sentence you say some and the you say as a rule men just are.

I'd also say the demonisation of men by the media is driven by bias from the platform and not an indication of sociatal norms.

Most men have been brought up as you describe bringing up your sons and maybe you could ask them if they feel media platforms demonise men I'd be surprised if they say no.

My biggest pet peeve is over inflated egos

"

Kola, we’ve discussed this before so I’ll simply say;

1. You’re entitled to your opinion (you’re never going to change it and that’s fine).

2. To clarify, just for you

Single men make up the majority of people on the site and if you’re a regular forum user or even just read the replies to this thread you can deduce that by far and away the biggest offenders in general ARE single males but of course NOT the only ones. Almost EVERY section of the fab community do complain of it though. Even single men complain about single men messaging them for example. I am in NO way saying this is all men. I disagree with the bias comment. Men get judged by their actions here or anywhere else. That’s my opinion only but MY entitlement. That’s as much explaining as I’m prepared to do AGAIN. If you can’t understand that then … I wish you well, I won’t comment further but I’m sure you will. .

Lastly, as I also said, there are very many lovely guys here. I don’t judge the few by the many and believe that those gentlemen rarely have any “problems” here or anywhere else as a rule

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By *abmacqueenCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Awwwww gawd... aye "the warning"

Ive seen it on a fair few profiles that are blank all i can think is "steal what ya melt?" "

They're blank cause the pics have been stolen ...

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge

Kola, we’ve discussed this before so I’ll simply say;

1. You’re entitled to your opinion (you’re never going to change it and that’s fine).

2. To clarify, just for you

Single men make up the majority of people on the site and if you’re a regular forum user or even just read the replies to this thread you can deduce that by far and away the biggest offenders in general ARE single males

I'd disagree Id say the ones most likely to complain are females as they Seem to get the most irritated not to mention the vast majority are not single males but attached males on an individual profile. There are also reasons men won't complain that I ain't going to go into

but of course NOT the only ones. Almost EVERY section of the fab community do complain of it though. Even single men complain about single men messaging them for example. I am in NO way saying this is all men. I disagree with the bias comment. Men get judged by their actions here or anywhere else.

Again I'd ask you to ask your sons about this it may surprise you to hear it from them rather than a random on fab. As another user stated media bias right now is on demonising men. Men right now are judged by outlier mens character not by their own merits.

That’s my opinion only but MY entitlement. That’s as much explaining as I’m prepared to do AGAIN. If you can’t understand that then … I wish you well, I won’t comment further but I’m sure you will. .

Lastly, as I also said, there are very many lovely guys here. I don’t judge the few by the many and believe that those gentlemen rarely have any “problems” here or anywhere else as a rule

Of course I'd comment as we obviously have a difference of opinion your entitled to your opinion but it's good to check in on your knowledge of a subject at times or you or I are in danger of misinformation.

Your remarks I took as the wider world and not fab alone which is why I wrote media sources.

Like everything there is good bad and intolerable on every side of the gogoplex coin.

I just found the not all men followed by as a rule all men a bit weird ah could share my happy pills if ya need some.... (smarties)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Kola, we’ve discussed this before so I’ll simply say;

1. You’re entitled to your opinion (you’re never going to change it and that’s fine).

2. To clarify, just for you

Single men make up the majority of people on the site and if you’re a regular forum user or even just read the replies to this thread you can deduce that by far and away the biggest offenders in general ARE single males

I'd disagree Id say the ones most likely to complain are females as they Seem to get the most irritated not to mention the vast majority are not single males but attached males on an individual profile. There are also reasons men won't complain that I ain't going to go into

but of course NOT the only ones. Almost EVERY section of the fab community do complain of it though. Even single men complain about single men messaging them for example. I am in NO way saying this is all men. I disagree with the bias comment. Men get judged by their actions here or anywhere else.

Again I'd ask you to ask your sons about this it may surprise you to hear it from them rather than a random on fab. As another user stated media bias right now is on demonising men. Men right now are judged by outlier mens character not by their own merits.

That’s my opinion only but MY entitlement. That’s as much explaining as I’m prepared to do AGAIN. If you can’t understand that then … I wish you well, I won’t comment further but I’m sure you will. .

Lastly, as I also said, there are very many lovely guys here. I don’t judge the few by the many and believe that those gentlemen rarely have any “problems” here or anywhere else as a rule

Of course I'd comment as we obviously have a difference of opinion your entitled to your opinion but it's good to check in on your knowledge of a subject at times or you or I are in danger of misinformation.

Your remarks I took as the wider world and not fab alone which is why I wrote media sources.

Like everything there is good bad and intolerable on every side of the gogoplex coin.

I just found the not all men followed by as a rule all men a bit weird ah could share my happy pills if ya need some.... (smarties) "

I’ll relent on what I said about relying only cos yer offering to share yer smarties but I’d prefer a meringue. In regard to the part you found contradictory…Sometimes the written word here doesn't always relate quite the way you mean it.

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge

No probs ahll even allow ya to have a red one or two (strawberry meringue)..... After you clean the house an do my bidding for half the going rate

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No probs ahll even allow ya to have a red one or two (strawberry meringue)..... After you clean the house an do my bidding for half the going rate "

That’s mair than ah get the noo

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Too many to mention

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By *irky_coupleCouple
over a year ago

kirky

"Professional"

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By *he Regina PhalangeWoman
over a year ago

Lanarkshire


"No probs ahll even allow ya to have a red one or two (strawberry meringue)..... After you clean the house an do my bidding for half the going rate "

Don’t do it Red, his bathroom is caked in custard!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No probs ahll even allow ya to have a red one or two (strawberry meringue)..... After you clean the house an do my bidding for half the going rate

Don’t do it Red, his bathroom is caked in custard! "

… there’s worse things

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By *he Regina PhalangeWoman
over a year ago

Lanarkshire


"No probs ahll even allow ya to have a red one or two (strawberry meringue)..... After you clean the house an do my bidding for half the going rate

Don’t do it Red, his bathroom is caked in custard!

… there’s worse things "

true

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By *andy_FraserTV/TS
over a year ago

Edinburgh

My main peeve is people/profiles that repeatedly look at your profile, then when you send them a Hiya message, they block you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


""Professional"

"

Absolutely, I try to be “ professional “ in everything I do and indeed my job is technical/ qualified but I don’t bang on about it.

I’ve met Royalty through my work but I’ve also had to do shifts on the bins between jobs.

It’s not what you do it’s who you are and how you treat others that counts

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By *nverMan
over a year ago

....down the Rabbit Hole with a shotgun


""Professional"

Absolutely, I try to be “ professional “ in everything I do and indeed my job is technical/ qualified but I don’t bang on about it.

I’ve met Royalty through my work but I’ve also had to do shifts on the bins between jobs.

It’s not what you do it’s who you are and how you treat others that counts "

I wholeheartedly agree.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Facebook like statuses nite sweet dreams x morning x day in the garden x etc etc it’s a sex site

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Facebook like statuses nite sweet dreams x morning x day in the garden x etc etc it’s a sex site "

Though often silly, I think they break up the monotony of the "balls needing drained now" type updates.

The public spats are a bit silly though. They'd be better just organising a square go in their local Asda car park than boring the rest of us to fuck.

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By *he Regina PhalangeWoman
over a year ago

Lanarkshire


"Facebook like statuses nite sweet dreams x morning x day in the garden x etc etc it’s a sex site "

I would say it’s a social platform, therefore anything goes. And although it’s a sex site it was set up for the swinging community to utilise and swingers are a very sociable lot.

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"Facebook like statuses nite sweet dreams x morning x day in the garden x etc etc it’s a sex site

Though often silly, I think they break up the monotony of the "balls needing drained now" type updates.

The public spats are a bit silly though. They'd be better just organising a square go in their local Asda car park than boring the rest of us to fuck."
Totally this 100% ^^^

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By *oanne_MacTV/TS
over a year ago

Perth


"

The public spats are a bit silly though. They'd be better just organising a square go in their local Asda car park than boring the rest of us to fuck."

Keyboard gangsters, most of them wouldnt say boo face to face

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By *4Fun11Woman
over a year ago

Glasgow


"

The public spats are a bit silly though. They'd be better just organising a square go in their local Asda car park than boring the rest of us to fuck.

Keyboard gangsters, most of them wouldnt say boo face to face "

Too true.

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By *scobar67Man
over a year ago

glasgow

Ladies that don't let me fab their pics... You need to know I like you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Completely disagree there are enough social platforms out there to let people know that your cutting your grass washing your hair or pissed off that it’s monday morning again !

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By *lair101TV/TS
over a year ago

Aberdeen, westhill

Timewasters

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People who don't read profiles, if we've spent the time writing it then the least you could do is have the courtesy to read it.

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By *koggs71Man
over a year ago

Aberdeen

Yes that is a bit weird when they do that.

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By *koggs71Man
over a year ago

Aberdeen


"Women replying not my type but have loads of verifications & pics of guys all shapes & sizes..lol"

At least you get a reply

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Messaged with no punctuation - why?

Negative and pointless status - this sites shite (you don’t need to use it)

But other then that, it’s not really worth the time to get annoyed with what I see on fab lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The constant attention seeking updates..

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