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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I've seen several forum threads discussing whether the poor behaviour of a small fraction of men on Fab "ruins it" for other single males, or at least makes it harder.

But what's everyone's thoughts on whether the use of Fab for escorts makes it harder for single women to be taken seriously/respected on Fab?

I have nothing against women in the sex industry, but I know of several locally using Fab to drum up custom, and I'm increasingly being asked for sex for money from men who seem to assume that because there's a couple of escorts on Fab, all single women on here must be

I would never go as far to say it ruins it for me. But if single men are tarnished by the same brush, are single women?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I agree minority spoil it for majority. I dont think as guys we do ourselves any favours on here but then we all get tarred with same brush which makes it hard for chat.

Escorts seems to be rising too, someone offering you money smells of desperation though. I also get annoyed at fake profiles who seem to get verified somehow

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd say both women and men are as bad as each other, but for different reasons.. some women come across as very needy /attention seeking.. whereas some men dont know how to send a message, but says more about them than me.. just my opinion

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By *oldswarriorMan
over a year ago

Falkirk

It's a buyers market as they say.

There is clearly men willing to pay for the privilege, hence why there is an influx of professional profiles appearing.

It's easy sorted by blocking profiles that contact you offering money.

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By *imbobaMan
over a year ago

Glasgow


"I'd say both women and men are as bad as each other, but for different reasons.. some women come across as very needy /attention seeking.. whereas some men dont know how to send a message, but says more about them than me.. just my opinion "

I’d say the majority boils down to poor communication via a social platform. Apart from rare video cam chats this place relies on texting. Can be fatal.

Haven’t come across the sex working issue though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'd say both women and men are as bad as each other, but for different reasons.. some women come across as very needy /attention seeking.. whereas some men dont know how to send a message, but says more about them than me.. just my opinion "

This. Ive only been here a short while but its easy to spot a "certain type" of woman on here. They broadly fall into 3 categories. 1) Those that are here for swinging/sexual liberation (word it how you like). 2) Those that are attention seeking (nothing wrong with that at all btw). Tons of people on their friends list, can often be found in Page 1 of the likes. 3) Those that seem to be cynical of men in general.

The last group is a bit of an enigma for me. Currently I see 4 status messages on my homepage which are either cynical or passive aggressive.

I havent seen any evidence of escorts on here although, besides the obvious, I wouldnt know how to spot one anyway.

In answer to your question about men: I hope it doesnt ruin it. As for women, I havent noticed...you all seem to be doing very well and, as someone already stated, its a buyers market.

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By *aseMan
over a year ago

Gourock

I have been ask for cash a few times on here...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'd say both women and men are as bad as each other, but for different reasons.. some women come across as very needy /attention seeking.. whereas some men dont know how to send a message, but says more about them than me.. just my opinion "

Fully agree, men get a bad rep on Fab but there's good and bad men,women and couples, and I am not personally put off a particular gender/group _ased on the behaviour of a minority cross section of their peers.

I'm genuinely interested in whether people feel their experiences on Fab cause bias towards others. So if men feel their chances are lessened by the poor behaviours of others before them, would women say they face the same.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'd say both women and men are as bad as each other, but for different reasons.. some women come across as very needy /attention seeking.. whereas some men dont know how to send a message, but says more about them than me.. just my opinion

I’d say the majority boils down to poor communication via a social platform. Apart from rare video cam chats this place relies on texting. Can be fatal.

Haven’t come across the sex working issue though. "
only because you deleted my messages lol (kidding obviously)

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By *imbobaMan
over a year ago

Glasgow


"I'd say both women and men are as bad as each other, but for different reasons.. some women come across as very needy /attention seeking.. whereas some men dont know how to send a message, but says more about them than me.. just my opinion

I’d say the majority boils down to poor communication via a social platform. Apart from rare video cam chats this place relies on texting. Can be fatal.

Haven’t come across the sex working issue though. only because you deleted my messages lol (kidding obviously) "

Only cause I was skint at the time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I must be really ugly not even the sex workers want yo message me

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By *4Fun11Woman
over a year ago

Glasgow

Nobody ruins it for anyone.

We all know the pitfalls of a free sex site and we should all know what to do.

Report, block, delete. It’s all part of fab I’m afraid

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'd say both women and men are as bad as each other, but for different reasons.. some women come across as very needy /attention seeking.. whereas some men dont know how to send a message, but says more about them than me.. just my opinion

I’d say the majority boils down to poor communication via a social platform. Apart from rare video cam chats this place relies on texting. Can be fatal.

Haven’t come across the sex working issue though. only because you deleted my messages lol (kidding obviously)

Only cause I was skint at the time. "
but i was going to pay you to take me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Here’s wan for yeez

See if we all pretended that we were in a really big room together here on fab. N rather than message each other, you can talk face to face like actual human beings. You would get a lot of people behaving very differently… food for thought

Probably be a lot more shagging going too mind you

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By *avinaXTV/TS
over a year ago

Glasgow

It's full of bullshit and fakes who are not here to meet just for self satisfaction. The site is RUINED.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's full of bullshit and fakes who are not here to meet just for self satisfaction. The site is RUINED."
wow lol harsh.. had a bad day love?

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By *oldswarriorMan
over a year ago

Falkirk


"It's full of bullshit and fakes who are not here to meet just for self satisfaction. The site is RUINED."

Still here though

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By *andsCouple
over a year ago

Edin

Nobody ruins anything for others …

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By *imbobaMan
over a year ago

Glasgow


"I'd say both women and men are as bad as each other, but for different reasons.. some women come across as very needy /attention seeking.. whereas some men dont know how to send a message, but says more about them than me.. just my opinion

I’d say the majority boils down to poor communication via a social platform. Apart from rare video cam chats this place relies on texting. Can be fatal.

Haven’t come across the sex working issue though. only because you deleted my messages lol (kidding obviously)

Only cause I was skint at the time. but i was going to pay you to take me "

take you where

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'd say both women and men are as bad as each other, but for different reasons.. some women come across as very needy /attention seeking.. whereas some men dont know how to send a message, but says more about them than me.. just my opinion

I’d say the majority boils down to poor communication via a social platform. Apart from rare video cam chats this place relies on texting. Can be fatal.

Haven’t come across the sex working issue though. only because you deleted my messages lol (kidding obviously)

Only cause I was skint at the time. but i was going to pay you to take me

take you where "
lol to have me.. instead of you paying lol the jokes lost

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By *imbobaMan
over a year ago

Glasgow


"I'd say both women and men are as bad as each other, but for different reasons.. some women come across as very needy /attention seeking.. whereas some men dont know how to send a message, but says more about them than me.. just my opinion

I’d say the majority boils down to poor communication via a social platform. Apart from rare video cam chats this place relies on texting. Can be fatal.

Haven’t come across the sex working issue though. only because you deleted my messages lol (kidding obviously)

Only cause I was skint at the time. but i was going to pay you to take me

take you where lol to have me.. instead of you paying lol the jokes lost "

I got the joke. The correct answer was take you to “heaven”

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'd say both women and men are as bad as each other, but for different reasons.. some women come across as very needy /attention seeking.. whereas some men dont know how to send a message, but says more about them than me.. just my opinion

I’d say the majority boils down to poor communication via a social platform. Apart from rare video cam chats this place relies on texting. Can be fatal.

Haven’t come across the sex working issue though. only because you deleted my messages lol (kidding obviously)

Only cause I was skint at the time. but i was going to pay you to take me

take you where lol to have me.. instead of you paying lol the jokes lost

I got the joke. The correct answer was take you to “heaven” "
McDonald's would've done lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It's full of bullshit and fakes who are not here to meet just for self satisfaction. The site is RUINED."

See I must have missed the part where people should only be on Fab if they'll only meet in real life I have zero issue with people using the site for self satisfaction, or any other reason that doesn't involve not meeting, as long as they are honest about that (i.e not leading people on by arranging meets and then standing them up). So what if people enjoy window shopping, or the forums, or tickle their pickle to the stories!

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By *ertiebassettMan
over a year ago

Greenock The Tail Of Bank

Been on here a short time,gave up understanding males still sending rude 1st messages & dick pics & getting abusive to ladies because egos are bruised.Don't like ladies treated that way and ladies are closing down accounts quickly.Whatever floats yer boat but don't be dis respecting people & abusive they wouldn't getaway with it

outside this format,That says,a lot about issues they have I think..just an opinion as I have a Ahole

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