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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Well a think it does because your in touch with the same sex I.E getting a bj from a guy makes you gay thought this would be a intresting topic

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"Well a think it does because your in touch with the same sex I.E getting a bj from a guy makes you gay thought this would be a intresting topic "
Totally wrong gay means having sex only with the same sex bi means having sex with both male and females

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

C what you meen however if a man meets a man it is gay its the same thing this is the point am making on this 1

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"C what you meen however if a man meets a man it is gay its the same thing this is the point am making on this 1 "
And my answer is the same as ive already replied lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't be ridiculous.

Bisexual means you have sex with both sexes thats all. Theres plenty of threads like this on the forum and its been well discussed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"C what you meen however if a man meets a man it is gay its the same thing this is the point am making on this 1 "

i think you are mixing up sexuality and the sexual act its-self.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

actually NO I am not Bi or Gay but if you actually looked at the terminology your answer is there. A gay guy goes with guys alone, a Bi guy goes with both women and men and gets satisfaction from both sexes, same as a women who is married who likes to try a female is not a lesbian but experiencing the other sex and therefore Bisexual.........grow up and sop being neanderthal in this century, if you wish to confirm your own heterosexual macho self then keep silly uneducated remarks to yourself, I am speaking from an experience of having both gay and straight friends..........

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By *inkyScot22Man
over a year ago

Anniesland

You sound confused... ironically...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"For me a man having sex or kissing or any form of sexual act meens he's gay a see what you meen bout the sexualty thing however it does make a man gay "

so turn it around..is it the same with a female....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"C what you meen however if a man meets a man it is gay its the same thing this is the point am making on this 1

i think you are mixing up sexuality and the sexual act its-self....."

thats it exactly well done x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge

pmsl infact am saying nothing just to busy rolling around with my sides splitting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"For me a man having sex or kissing or any form of sexual act meens he's gay a see what you meen bout the sexualty thing however it does make a man gay "

I cant help it any longer but you are 25 and Boy your cute, Lets just go for it it wont be sore I promise you all this talk about gay sex I just have to come out and say, I want you and wear that yellow vest while I am biting your ear to take away the pain............EVIL LAUGH woooo hahahahahahahahahaha

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By *illow PimpMan
over a year ago

Midlothian

Don't feed em

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By *inkyScot22Man
over a year ago

Anniesland

Let me try to clear this up, 'gay' doesn't mean what the slang term would have you believe, it actually means 'homosexual' when applied as an adjective, 'homosexual', from the latin 'homo-' meaning 'same' and '-sexual' refering to sexuality, means someone who exclusively has sex with members of the same sex. 'bisexual' ('bi-' being latin for 2) means having sex with both. Individual sexual acts can be described as being homosexual or hetrosexual but it doesn't define the sexualities of the participants. I.e a man can have a homosexual encounter with another man before going to have sex with a woman, each act is either 'gay' or 'straight' but the *man* is 'bi', hope this clears this up...

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By *mumaWoman
over a year ago

Livingston


"For me a man having sex or kissing or any form of sexual act meens he's gay a see what you meen bout the sexualty thing however it does make a man gay

I cant help it any longer but you are 25 and Boy your cute, Lets just go for it it wont be sore I promise you all this talk about gay sex I just have to come out and say, I want you and wear that yellow vest while I am biting your ear to take away the pain............EVIL LAUGH woooo hahahahahahahahahaha"

hahahaha..... That has made my night!!!!!

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By *illow PimpMan
over a year ago

Midlothian

Hasta la vista baby he's bolted

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hasta la vista baby he's bolted

"

pmsl at least he made us laught before he vanished.....

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By *illow PimpMan
over a year ago

Midlothian


"Hasta la vista baby he's bolted

pmsl at least he made us laught before he vanished..... "

He be back !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hasta la vista baby he's bolted

pmsl at least he made us laught before he vanished.....

He be back ! "

he probably will be within minuted....new email new profile bang lol

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By *illow PimpMan
over a year ago

Midlothian


"Hasta la vista baby he's bolted

pmsl at least he made us laught before he vanished.....

He be back !

he probably will be within minuted....new email new profile bang lol "

Fancy a game called spot the troll ?

Auds disnae count she's a honourable member of the under bridge society

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thank you ladies and gentlemen I do aim to please.....but ladies only I assure you. Lol couldnt resist and think I frightened the shit out of him. ahhh well I can really spot the tossers lol.......Hmmm but that yellow vest lol PMSL

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"Thank you ladies and gentlemen I do aim to please.....but ladies only I assure you. Lol couldnt resist and think I frightened the shit out of him. ahhh well I can really spot the tossers lol.......Hmmm but that yellow vest lol PMSL "
Rikki you scared the shit out of him lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Haha! Do not feed the troll!

His departure says it all.

IF YE GO WI A GUY YIR GAY, LOL.

Fuckin roaster.

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

yup, gayer than a gay boy on gay boy day....

you'll be mincing in all pink after the first chomp on a cock

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hasta la vista baby he's bolted

pmsl at least he made us laught before he vanished.....

He be back !

he probably will be within minuted....new email new profile bang lol

Fancy a game called spot the troll ?

Auds disnae count she's a honourable member of the under bridge society "
Excuse me?

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By *illow PimpMan
over a year ago

Midlothian


"Hasta la vista baby he's bolted

pmsl at least he made us laught before he vanished.....

He be back !

he probably will be within minuted....new email new profile bang lol

Fancy a game called spot the troll ?

Auds disnae count she's a honourable member of the under bridge society Excuse me?"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not for me.. i dont like the thought of sooking boaby... or kissing a bloke ....

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By *olly Gentle GiantMan
over a year ago

Glenrothes

Was OP really cute? Dann - I missed him. But totally agree. I've said it before and say again that we are that we are all bi and are all on the bi-ness scale. some of us at the gay end and some at the hetero end and a whole lot more are inbetween.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hasta la vista baby he's bolted

pmsl at least he made us laught before he vanished.....

He be back !

he probably will be within minuted....new email new profile bang lol

Fancy a game called spot the troll ?

Auds disnae count she's a honourable member of the underbridge society Excuse me?d

"
so lets get this right...

You give an oppinion Thats Not the Same as the masses... that makes me a troll...?

Ok better go Start Another snog marry ..just agree with everyone to maybe get a shag thread thread Ehe.?.

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By *olly Gentle GiantMan
over a year ago

Glenrothes

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By *olly Gentle GiantMan
over a year ago

Glenrothes


"Ok better go Start Another snog marry ..just agree with everyone to maybe get a shag thread Ehe.?.

"
No Auds - please don't - you know you don't want to.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"actually NO I am not Bi or Gay but if you actually looked at the terminology your answer is there. A gay guy goes with guys alone, a Bi guy goes with both women and men and gets satisfaction from both sexes, same as a women who is married who likes to try a female is not a lesbian but experiencing the other sex and therefore Bisexual.........grow up and sop being neanderthal in this century, if you wish to confirm your own heterosexual macho self then keep silly uneducated remarks to yourself, I am speaking from an experience of having both gay and straight friends..........

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge


"Was OP really cute? Dann - I missed him. But totally agree. I've said it before and say again that we are that we are all bi and are all on the bi-ness scale. some of us at the gay end and some at the hetero end and a whole lot more are inbetween. "
lol cas this one cracks me up as i cant get my head round it. i really dont think we are all bi the male form holds nothing for me and the thought of sexual relations with a guy is a no no

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In a word no

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have plenty of gay friends and their take on it is that you're only gay if you're attracted to the same sex.

I like getting my bum played with, doesn't make me gay as I'm attracted to females.

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By *olly Gentle GiantMan
over a year ago

Glenrothes


" lol cas this one cracks me up as i cant get my head round it. i really dont think we are all bi the male form holds nothing for me and the thought of sexual relations with a guy is a no no "
always a pleasure to debate with you kola - and I respect your they. I think perhaps we are saying same thing. Ok perhaps my reference to a bi-ness scale was misguided. Does sexuality scale sound better ? Whatever scale you call it - I look upon sexuality scale as a bit like the PH Scale - if my chemistry is right it went from PH1 acid through PH7 neutral up to PH14 alkaline. So chemicals are all on the same scale but chemical formula (sexual preference) determines positioning on the scale. That was the point I was trying to make. Who would have thought O-grade chemistry would find its way onto a swinging forum.

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By *inkyScot22Man
over a year ago

Anniesland


" lol cas this one cracks me up as i cant get my head round it. i really dont think we are all bi the male form holds nothing for me and the thought of sexual relations with a guy is a no no always a pleasure to debate with you kola - and I respect your they. I think perhaps we are saying same thing. Ok perhaps my reference to a bi-ness scale was misguided. Does sexuality scale sound better ? Whatever scale you call it - I look upon sexuality scale as a bit like the PH Scale - if my chemistry is right it went from PH1 acid through PH7 neutral up to PH14 alkaline. So chemicals are all on the same scale but chemical formula (sexual preference) determines positioning on the scale. That was the point I was trying to make. Who would have thought O-grade chemistry would find its way onto a swinging forum. "

Or to give it it's proper name: The Kinsey Scale

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By *olly Gentle GiantMan
over a year ago

Glenrothes


" Or to give it it's proper name: The Kinsey Scale"
what - sexuality scale or PH scale?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is Pillow pimp calling Auds a troll just cos she doesnt agree with him? Class... he will get so many more meets now.

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By *illow PimpMan
over a year ago

Midlothian


"Class... he will get so many more meets now."

Bothered ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dunno, are you? Presses smiley face thingy ...

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By *illow PimpMan
over a year ago

Midlothian


"Dunno, are you? Presses smiley face thingy ..."

Hell no

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Dunno, are you? Presses smiley face thingy ...

Hell no "
aye right

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By *s cynicalWoman
over a year ago

glasgow


"Was OP really cute? Dann - I missed him. But totally agree. I've said it before and say again that we are that we are all bi and are all on the bi-ness scale. some of us at the gay end and some at the hetero end and a whole lot more are inbetween. "

Nope not a chance is this true, tried it once when I was very, very d*unk, not for me, so totally disagree, I dont fancy or do girls

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Was OP really cute? Dann - I missed him. But totally agree. I've said it before and say again that we are that we are all bi and are all on the bi-ness scale. some of us at the gay end and some at the hetero end and a whole lot more are inbetween.

Nope not a chance is this true, tried it once when I was very, very d*unk, not for me, so totally disagree, I dont fancy or do girls"

So you'd be at the hetro end then, just as was mentioned

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By *s cynicalWoman
over a year ago

glasgow

Well obv I got it wrong? He said everyone is bi?

How can u be bi on the hetro end?

Gay, bi, straight I thought, hmmm am I a bit daft?

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By *illow PimpMan
over a year ago

Midlothian


"Hell no aye right "

I could have lots of fun here with his sweeping statement, hmmm shall i shant i

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cool, so are all bi-curious wives keeping hubbys fantasy alive, instant lesbians then?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lol , he'll I'm a woman's man lol but love getting sucked off a guy lol , blow job only I must add, what that make me lol , yeah mrs knows b4 asked lol and watches xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hell no aye right

I could have lots of fun here with his sweeping statement, hmmm shall i shant i "
you know you want to

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By *illow PimpMan
over a year ago

Midlothian


"you know you want to "

Patiance T

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"you know you want to

Patiance T "
i dont have any

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well a lady I know,claimed she was tri sexual. When I asked her to explain that one she said,"I play with guys, I play with ladies and I play with myself."

Cool answer

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont think its a sliding scale at all.

If you only want sex with the opposite sex, and only seek these encounters, then you're straight.

If you are happy to have sex with both sexes, and seek these encounters out then you're bisexual

If you only want sex with the same sex, and only seek these encounters, then you're gay.

And now to cover some arguments that will be thrown at me.....

A woman having a lesbian experience to please her partner, that she enjoys at the time but would not otherwise seek out is straight.

A man/woman trying out a same sex encounter to see if they enjoy it is just experimentation which everbody does. If however you've experimented 50 times then you'll be bi. Assuming you still have both sex encounters of course.

Guys who go with TV's are Bi even though they don't admit it. We're men dressed as women nothing more. Most guys who profess to be straight and want TV's just want someone vaguely feminine to fuck and blot out the fact that we have dicks so as not to damage their own self image.

I'll admit to some ambiguity with guys who like proper Transexuals as they are women in the wrong body until the surgery.

I don't believe it has anything to do with if you want a relationship with someone of a particular sex. It's just about wether

you're happy having sex with them or not.

But I'll probably get in trouble now for labelling people, as the PC police will say it's not allowed. But labels are only bad if used negatively.

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By *s cynicalWoman
over a year ago

glasgow

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By *s cynicalWoman
over a year ago

glasgow

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By *s cynicalWoman
over a year ago

glasgow

Agree totally

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Was OP really cute? Dann - I missed him. But totally agree. I've said it before and say again that we are that we are all bi and are all on the bi-ness scale. some of us at the gay end and some at the hetero end and a whole lot more are inbetween. lol cas this one cracks me up as i cant get my head round it. i really dont think we are all bi the male form holds nothing for me and the thought of sexual relations with a guy is a no no "

you protest to much Clueso lol..

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge


"Was OP really cute? Dann - I missed him. But totally agree. I've said it before and say again that we are that we are all bi and are all on the bi-ness scale. some of us at the gay end and some at the hetero end and a whole lot more are inbetween. lol cas this one cracks me up as i cant get my head round it. i really dont think we are all bi the male form holds nothing for me and the thought of sexual relations with a guy is a no no

you protest to much Clueso lol.. "
climb aboard khato bet ah dont protest !!!!!

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By *din3000Man
over a year ago

Edinburgh

I find it a bit depressing that in 2012 we're still having conversations like this.

Sexuality is a bit like hair colour - at either end of the spectrum there might be jet-black or purest white, but there are many, many shades in between. For practical purposes it gets split into a few categories - dark-haired, fair-haired, red-haired - but in truth there are thousands of variations. If you've got brown hair and give blonde a try, it doesn't make you a blonde, it makes you someone with brown hair who's trying another shade.

So the moral of the story is that there's no point in pigeon-holing into the same old categories because it doesn't tell the full story. A lot of people find their needs are fulfilled by one gender. A lot of people don't. Simples!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I find it a bit depressing that in 2012 we're still having conversations like this.

Sexuality is a bit like hair colour - at either end of the spectrum there might be jet-black or purest white, but there are many, many shades in between. For practical purposes it gets split into a few categories - dark-haired, fair-haired, red-haired - but in truth there are thousands of variations. If you've got brown hair and give blonde a try, it doesn't make you a blonde, it makes you someone with brown hair who's trying another shade.

So the moral of the story is that there's no point in pigeon-holing into the same old categories because it doesn't tell the full story. A lot of people find their needs are fulfilled by one gender. A lot of people don't. Simples!"

Are bald people celibate then?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I dont think its a sliding scale at all.

If you only want sex with the opposite sex, and only seek these encounters, then you're straight.

If you are happy to have sex with both sexes, and seek these encounters out then you're bisexual

If you only want sex with the same sex, and only seek these encounters, then you're gay.

And now to cover some arguments that will be thrown at me.....

A woman having a lesbian experience to please her partner, that she enjoys at the time but would not otherwise seek out is straight.

A man/woman trying out a same sex encounter to see if they enjoy it is just experimentation which everbody does. If however you've experimented 50 times then you'll be bi. Assuming you still have both sex encounters of course.

Guys who go with TV's are Bi even though they don't admit it. We're men dressed as women nothing more. Most guys who profess to be straight and want TV's just want someone vaguely feminine to fuck and blot out the fact that we have dicks so as not to damage their own self image.

I'll admit to some ambiguity with guys who like proper Transexuals as they are women in the wrong body until the surgery.

I don't believe it has anything to do with if you want a relationship with someone of a particular sex. It's just about wether

you're happy having sex with them or not.

But I'll probably get in trouble now for labelling people, as the PC police will say it's not allowed. But labels are only bad if used negatively. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think straight men can commit a gay act but I wouldn't say that makes them gay!!! I would have bi fun but I have never looked at a guy and thought they were attractive... #greyarea

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By *addie bunnetMan
over a year ago

glasgow

What your trying to say is you like it up the bum lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Was OP really cute? Dann - I missed him. But totally agree. I've said it before and say again that we are that we are all bi and are all on the bi-ness scale. some of us at the gay end and some at the hetero end and a whole lot more are inbetween. lol cas this one cracks me up as i cant get my head round it. i really dont think we are all bi the male form holds nothing for me and the thought of sexual relations with a guy is a no no

you protest to much Clueso lol.. climb aboard khato bet ah dont protest !!!!!"

Oh Clueso.. you coming on to me...x devient xx I get lost in Coatbridge

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By *olly Gentle GiantMan
over a year ago

Glenrothes

For a 5 day old post by a defunct OP, this thread is still going. And glad to see good debate too.

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By *olly Gentle GiantMan
over a year ago

Glenrothes

For a 5 day old post by a defunct OP, this thread is still going. And glad to see good debate too.

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By *helma_richardsCouple
over a year ago

edinburgh


"I think straight men can commit a gay act but I wouldn't say that makes them gay!!! I would have bi fun but I have never looked at a guy and thought they were attractive... #greyarea "

Spot on. I find cock bumping and cock play in a group a turn on , but never fancied anything the cock was attached to

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