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Good looks or good patter?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Here is one for you all do you prefer a person with good looks and no patter or not so good looks and superb patter ?

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

My answer wont be helpful as I am looking for both as I am a fussy biatch

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So glad I was blessed with both eh foxy xxx lol xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

no matter how good your patter is, if you're a munter bloke your not going to have much success and if you're a munter lassie then you'll have varied success with the sites desperados

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Well you've got that right

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen


"So glad I was blessed with both eh foxy xxx lol xxx "

That's true! You certainly have the patter, but then you have other attributes as well.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh I do love that tongue of yours foxy xxx and I mean linguistically speaking. And your attributes certainly make me smile too lol........god the patter started there lol xxxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am fucked I got none of the above

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen


"Oh I do love that tongue of yours foxy xxx and I mean linguistically speaking. And your attributes certainly make me smile too lol........god the patter started there lol xxxxx "

My tounge is well versed at many things

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

looks every time, i'm here for sex, not for new best friends

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By *mumaWoman
over a year ago

Livingston

Equal measure of both please

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

looks first, you cant see someones patter when you catch eyes with them... And bear in mind what someone finds attractive, others will find a turn off.

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge

prefer a fat purse hey am no cheap ya know !!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"looks every time, i'm here for sex, not for new best friends"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am fucked I got none of the above "
. I second that pmsl

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am fucked I got none of the above . I second that pmsl"
just keep the lights out and you be fine And i got a brown paper bag

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For the first 10 seconds it's the looks that count... then after that it's definitely personality which counts.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I,m looking for money... Gold digger me!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

well ,im a pretty honest guy and love to have fun , but when you get a no thanks cause your a baldie that pisses me right off . they woundnt say no to vin diesil or bruce willis would they lol, some people are very shallow me thinks .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

U could b the most beautyful person in the inside and ugly on the outside! What do u do when some1 ugly makes u laugh tell them they still wouldny get rodgered?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"well ,im a pretty honest guy and love to have fun , but when you get a no thanks cause your a baldie that pisses me right off . they woundnt say no to vin diesil or bruce willis would they lol, some people are very shallow me thinks . "
. But some women don't like vin diesil or druce willis just the same as you like some women Some you don't I would not worry to much about it mate

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Gotta be a bit of both if in not physically and intellectually stimulated I'm

Just not turned on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me a like a bit of both x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Gotta be a bit of both if in not physically and intellectually stimulated I'm

Just not turned on "
. I am really good at chess One out of two ant bad lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Got to be both for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"well ,im a pretty honest guy and love to have fun , but when you get a no thanks cause your a baldie that pisses me right off . they woundnt say no to vin diesil or bruce willis would they lol, some people are very shallow me thinks . "

actually i would say no to vin diesil cause hes too short and bruce willis is too old for me and looks like my dad

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i like a fair sprinkling of both and reckon i veer slightly towards the "patter" side.

i may be weird but id rather have a wank than sleep with a bimbo!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm going to be brutal and judgemental now because some people hate that, and say that anyone who says personality over looks is a bloody liar.

Obviously everyone's definition of good looks is different, but not by a huge amount.

So ladies confronted with a good looking charming man and a charming uggo will go for the first every time. Unless the uggo is very wealthy in which case it could go either way.

Men when faced with beauty and brains and an uggo with brains will go with the first also. Again wealth on the part of the uggo is a factor too.

Thats the way it is. You just got to hppe you catch people on a good day and that you're not stood next to George Clooney or Kiera Knightley.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm going to be brutal and judgemental now because some people hate that, and say that anyone who says personality over looks is a bloody liar.

Obviously everyone's definition of good looks is different, but not by a huge amount.

So ladies confronted with a good looking charming man and a charming uggo will go for the first every time. Unless the uggo is very wealthy in which case it could go either way.

Men when faced with beauty and brains and an uggo with brains will go with the first also. Again wealth on the part of the uggo is a factor too.

Thats the way it is. You just got to hppe you catch people on a good day and that you're not stood next to George Clooney or Kiera Knightley."
well said x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bit of both here thank you very much

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well I say it all bull shit We are told every day what's good looking and what's not like how our bodies should look All the ppl you think are good looking you would pass in the street We told how to think about looks If you enjoy the person does it mater if he not got a 6 pack Does that make him the best fuck you have ever had Shit no Come out your owe asses and smell the real world girls xxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sooo glad I have both xxx Yeah ok Im a salesperson and have own company but it was built on being good at communicating with everyone. But yes good looks does make it easier to realx and say what you really want.....eh Foxy xxxx

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen


"Well I say it all bull shit We are told every day what's good looking and what's not like how our bodies should look All the ppl you think are good looking you would pass in the street We told how to think about looks If you enjoy the person does it mater if he not got a 6 pack Does that make him the best fuck you have ever had Shit no Come out your owe asses and smell the real world girls xxxx "

Someone is sounding rather bitter here!

No, having a 6 pack does not make them the best fuck ever, but then I did respond and say that both good looks and banter has to be there for me!

I need to be attracted to the person before I would want to fuck them and also be attracted to their personality as well....So here I am climbing out of my own arse

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

good looks, mean naff all, if all they can talk about is their job, bank balance or series 7 bmw

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not me I am just saying what I think And I keep my body the way I like not for other ppl So ppl can chat to me if they like But if not who cares Like my body don't like my body again who cares Pmsl

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"Well I say it all bull shit We are told every day what's good looking and what's not like how our bodies should look All the ppl you think are good looking you would pass in the street We told how to think about looks If you enjoy the person does it mater if he not got a 6 pack Does that make him the best fuck you have ever had Shit no Come out your owe asses and smell the real world girls xxxx "

The question was good looks or good patter no one actually said if a person had a six pack that made him the best fuck as for coming out our own asses just because we have preferances does not mean we are stuck up our own asses its all about choices and im sure you yourself have some kind of standards

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bitta both but looks are important and that all important chemistry.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes I have fat or thin tall or short long as I click the sex will be great And use girls running a bus to have a go at me lmao xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Six pack lol I have a keg wear smelly boxers and pick my toes god I am gods gift lol jesus mate grow a pair and you really dont show yourself in a good light.....adding pmsl doesnt make it sound like a joke, I take pride in my appearance my speech my approach and genuinely think women are to be treated with tenderness respect and softly, by saying hey I am who I am take me or leave me doesnt paint a pretty picture, some women on here are here because they are seperated from someone like you who dont really care and expect sensuality on tap without giving something back......sorry just my opinion

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By *rystalsdragonCouple
over a year ago

central for fun / axarquia

lol lol we started a thread last week and perhaps worded it wrongly cos called it fake profiles (sorry some were offended!!) but we were thinking the same as this thread

bottom line is beauty is in the eye of the beholder xx

what we were trying to ask was the same - looks or patter !

we just prefer to click with peeps not based on looks!! crystals is a wee petite size 10 blonde that looks fabby but has an issue with stretch marks after kids and so feels dosent come up to the barbie requests and this riles her that people have a preconceived idea and as someone said on here shallow

ultimately we dont give a toss about looks its about personallity, socialising together and having fun !! which we do lol lol xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Who was joking mate everything I said I stand by The pmsl was as I am sitting piss my laffing And I don't really care what you think of me bud.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Looks dont matter,,,says he that only goes to the Masked Ball socials n nowt else.

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen


"Who was joking mate everything I said I stand by The pmsl was as I am sitting piss my laffing And I don't really care what you think of me bud. "

I've given up on this thread as you are not making any sense what so ever!

Away to bed and left thinking why on earth do I bother! Hmm

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By *anictechCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow - ish ;-)

Patter every time........ XxX MT

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"lol lol we started a thread last week and perhaps worded it wrongly cos called it fake profiles (sorry some were offended!!) but we were thinking the same as this thread

bottom line is beauty is in the eye of the beholder xx

what we were trying to ask was the same - looks or patter !

we just prefer to click with peeps not based on looks!! crystals is a wee petite size 10 blonde that looks fabby but has an issue with stretch marks after kids and so feels dosent come up to the barbie requests and this riles her that people have a preconceived idea and as someone said on here shallow

ultimately we dont give a toss about looks its about personallity, socialising together and having fun !! which we do lol lol xx"
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