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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So this might seem weird but would like to have female friends that i could chat to in this crazy world haha. Would be good have someone who shares the lifestyle that could have a blether with and advice when it comes to certain things lol, not sure my female friends outwith fab would really understand certain things haha

Not looking for anything sexual as I need to have a mega strong connection to a fenale for it to even turn slightly sexual haha

Any help would be grand

C x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i was just saying this to someone the other day.. doesnt need to be sexual, just some chat

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By *weetpineapplesWoman
over a year ago

Fife

Kik groups are a great place to start with that. I have met some really nice like minded people and have my own group where I can private message them also.

I'm now going to cjs with a couple of them soon

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What about organising a Fab ladies lunch? Could be a great way to meet some local Fab women to chat to?

I'm always happy to chat, my inbox is always open (just a shame the distance means chatting all things Fab over cocktails or cake isn't so easy) xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As above, fab ladies lunches would be a great thing to do. Fem only social events, I’m sure someone out Helensburgh years ago used to arrange them. Why not pick up where she left off?

It’s almost an impossible topic to speak about with your ‘normal’ friends as we all know, it’s an issue most of us have, but I think more females here will be more than happy to form connections like that.

Guys not so much, I’d always expect them to either want to touch my winkie or start sniffing about my previous meets

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As above, fab ladies lunches would be a great thing to do. Fem only social events, I’m sure someone out Helensburgh years ago used to arrange them. Why not pick up where she left off?

It’s almost an impossible topic to speak about with your ‘normal’ friends as we all know, it’s an issue most of us have, but I think more females here will be more than happy to form connections like that.

Guys not so much, I’d always expect them to either want to touch my winkie or start sniffing about my previous meets "

I second this!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

To shy for a lunch straight off but once I got comfy with someone it may be something I'd consider lol

Just think would be nice to actually have females to have a chat with about this crazy world as sometimes just need to share with another female if somethings bugging you (no offence guys) and kik groups ain't my thing as they can get me all flustered with amount of people, hence why we have never went to cjs or anything like that

C x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As above, fab ladies lunches would be a great thing to do. Fem only social events, I’m sure someone out Helensburgh years ago used to arrange them. Why not pick up where she left off?

It’s almost an impossible topic to speak about with your ‘normal’ friends as we all know, it’s an issue most of us have, but I think more females here will be more than happy to form connections like that.

Guys not so much, I’d always expect them to either want to touch my winkie or start sniffing about my previous meets "

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"As above, fab ladies lunches would be a great thing to do. Fem only social events, I’m sure someone out Helensburgh years ago used to arrange them. Why not pick up where she left off?

It’s almost an impossible topic to speak about with your ‘normal’ friends as we all know, it’s an issue most of us have, but I think more females here will be more than happy to form connections like that.

Guys not so much, I’d always expect them to either want to touch my winkie or start sniffing about my previous meets "

I like to touch winkies

C x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As above, fab ladies lunches would be a great thing to do. Fem only social events, I’m sure someone out Helensburgh years ago used to arrange them. Why not pick up where she left off?

It’s almost an impossible topic to speak about with your ‘normal’ friends as we all know, it’s an issue most of us have, but I think more females here will be more than happy to form connections like that.

Guys not so much, I’d always expect them to either want to touch my winkie or start sniffing about my previous meets

I like to touch winkies

C x"

Have you chatted much via pm with other ladies on here? If you like someone's chat and how they come across just suggest a coffee and a blether. What you got to lose? I'm not one for big social get togethers on here so this approach has worked best for me.

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By *uriouscouple1005Couple
over a year ago

Ayrshire

I feel much the same, can't really chat to friends about this lifestyle lol. I'd be happy to chat to other ladies x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"As above, fab ladies lunches would be a great thing to do. Fem only social events, I’m sure someone out Helensburgh years ago used to arrange them. Why not pick up where she left off?

It’s almost an impossible topic to speak about with your ‘normal’ friends as we all know, it’s an issue most of us have, but I think more females here will be more than happy to form connections like that.

Guys not so much, I’d always expect them to either want to touch my winkie or start sniffing about my previous meets

I like to touch winkies

C x

Have you chatted much via pm with other ladies on here? If you like someone's chat and how they come across just suggest a coffee and a blether. What you got to lose? I'm not one for big social get togethers on here so this approach has worked best for me."

Not had much of a good thing with them tbh, they seem to get a bit weird with us. I've had a few good connections but they have all drifted from the lifestyle over time to the extent it is now only single males we chat with regularly lol

C x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've got great female friends that I've met through fab that have became my closest friends . In general life I was always more friendly with guys in a platonic sense all the way from my teens through life , never really got the whole girl dynamic .. but since being on fab over the years I have a great mix of both and wouldn't be without any of them .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As above, fab ladies lunches would be a great thing to do. Fem only social events, I’m sure someone out Helensburgh years ago used to arrange them. Why not pick up where she left off?

It’s almost an impossible topic to speak about with your ‘normal’ friends as we all know, it’s an issue most of us have, but I think more females here will be more than happy to form connections like that.

Guys not so much, I’d always expect them to either want to touch my winkie or start sniffing about my previous meets

I like to touch winkies

C x

Have you chatted much via pm with other ladies on here? If you like someone's chat and how they come across just suggest a coffee and a blether. What you got to lose? I'm not one for big social get togethers on here so this approach has worked best for me.

Not had much of a good thing with them tbh, they seem to get a bit weird with us. I've had a few good connections but they have all drifted from the lifestyle over time to the extent it is now only single males we chat with regularly lol

C x"

It's possible they're a bit wary that it's the mister chatting

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By *he Regina PhalangeWoman
over a year ago

Lanarkshire

Myself and some of my fab lady friends went on a girls night out in Edinburgh before lockdown happened. Think there must have bern about 12 or 15 of us. It was a good laugh.

I am lucky to have met some amazing women who I call friends via fab and cjs.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think a fab ladies day out sounds great! Love hearing from other people's kinky chats and adventures. I would 100% be down for this. Lauren xx

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By *sm265Woman
over a year ago

Shangri-la


"To shy for a lunch straight off but once I got comfy with someone it may be something I'd consider lol

Just think would be nice to actually have females to have a chat with about this crazy world as sometimes just need to share with another female if somethings bugging you (no offence guys) and kik groups ain't my thing as they can get me all flustered with amount of people, hence why we have never went to cjs or anything like that

C x"

You might have a bit more luck if you make yourself a singles account purely for the purpose of making female friends, you can always block all males from messaging. It's always hard to tell which partner you are chatting to on a couple's profile and, in my experience there are lots of men who pretend to be the woman (& they are fooling nobody).

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By *cottishMrsWoman
over a year ago

Wishaw

I run a kik group for swingers, and people on Fab. Feel free to check us out. We're very sociable, and all really friendly. Some of the people in my group have now become my best friends. If you fancy checking us out, it's #ScottishFabSwinging.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’d definitely be up for that as well…….just sometimes you’d love a normal conversation x

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By *nferno sausageMan
over a year ago

Aberdeenshire

As shown above many women are willing to chat or socialise on a personal level, share experiences, advise, and empathise. I actually believe it to be quite common amongst female Fabbers already, whereas men tend to sense emotion, but hide behind a mask of masculinity - something which is somewhat exacerbated on Fab. I can count on one hand the amount of conversations I've had on here with guys over the years - partly because some blatantly wanted to touch my winkie, also; partly because many see one-another as competition, but also because women are generally more pro social and natural empathists, which suits my needs.

With this in mind, I'd like to get more in touch with my feminine side, so can I please come along to the lady-only socials, too? I can practice tucking and empathy beforehand if need be, and if anyone has any issues they'd like a solution to, rather than a shoulder to cry on, my masculinity can help with this. I won't expect any winkie-touching.

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By *urple-n-PinkCouple (FF)
over a year ago

Coatbridge

We might be a couple of lesbians but we are the same. Great chat amongst women is a great idea. Wed love to hang with other likeminded people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As shown above many women are willing to chat or socialise on a personal level, share experiences, advise, and empathise. I actually believe it to be quite common amongst female Fabbers already, whereas men tend to sense emotion, but hide behind a mask of masculinity - something which is somewhat exacerbated on Fab. I can count on one hand the amount of conversations I've had on here with guys over the years - partly because some blatantly wanted to touch my winkie, also; partly because many see one-another as competition, but also because women are generally more pro social and natural empathists, which suits my needs.

With this in mind, I'd like to get more in touch with my feminine side, so can I please come along to the lady-only socials, too? I can practice tucking and empathy beforehand if need be, and if anyone has any issues they'd like a solution to, rather than a shoulder to cry on, my masculinity can help with this. I won't expect any winkie-touching. "
if ye promise to wear a skirt and heels

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By *nferno sausageMan
over a year ago

Aberdeenshire


"As shown above many women are willing to chat or socialise on a personal level, share experiences, advise, and empathise. I actually believe it to be quite common amongst female Fabbers already, whereas men tend to sense emotion, but hide behind a mask of masculinity - something which is somewhat exacerbated on Fab. I can count on one hand the amount of conversations I've had on here with guys over the years - partly because some blatantly wanted to touch my winkie, also; partly because many see one-another as competition, but also because women are generally more pro social and natural empathists, which suits my needs.

With this in mind, I'd like to get more in touch with my feminine side, so can I please come along to the lady-only socials, too? I can practice tucking and empathy beforehand if need be, and if anyone has any issues they'd like a solution to, rather than a shoulder to cry on, my masculinity can help with this. I won't expect any winkie-touching.

if ye promise to wear a skirt and heels "

You just want me to fall for you, and easy access to my winkie, eh?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As shown above many women are willing to chat or socialise on a personal level, share experiences, advise, and empathise. I actually believe it to be quite common amongst female Fabbers already, whereas men tend to sense emotion, but hide behind a mask of masculinity - something which is somewhat exacerbated on Fab. I can count on one hand the amount of conversations I've had on here with guys over the years - partly because some blatantly wanted to touch my winkie, also; partly because many see one-another as competition, but also because women are generally more pro social and natural empathists, which suits my needs.

With this in mind, I'd like to get more in touch with my feminine side, so can I please come along to the lady-only socials, too? I can practice tucking and empathy beforehand if need be, and if anyone has any issues they'd like a solution to, rather than a shoulder to cry on, my masculinity can help with this. I won't expect any winkie-touching.

if ye promise to wear a skirt and heels

You just want me to fall for you, and easy access to my winkie, eh?"
sussed

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By *bcums3Couple
over a year ago

lanarkshire

Be Good to chat amounts women

Xx

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By *ottieBBWWoman
over a year ago

West of Scotland

I'd be up for a ladies social too xx

OP clearly you are not alone in how you are feeling, start where you feel comfortable, lots of great advice so far xx

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By *imbobaMan
over a year ago

Glasgow


"As above, fab ladies lunches would be a great thing to do. Fem only social events, I’m sure someone out Helensburgh years ago used to arrange them. Why not pick up where she left off?

It’s almost an impossible topic to speak about with your ‘normal’ friends as we all know, it’s an issue most of us have, but I think more females here will be more than happy to form connections like that.

Guys not so much, I’d always expect them to either want to touch my winkie or start sniffing about my previous meets "

Lasts paragraph is a bit of a sweeping judgement. I’ve several male friends on here and I’d never touch their winkies or try and steal their friends off them. But would meet for a pint.

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By *ixie and adamCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow

I was just saying the same the other day. It would be good to have likeminded friends.

Pixie xx

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By *hiterabbit6Couple
over a year ago

Sexytown, Moray

I have been very lucky over the years on here, as a few profiles above have said too, I have met some amazing females, (who have become close friends), both single and halves of couples, through socials and clubs, but they are all in England. I am still in contact with them all regularly but would love someone more local (moved to Moray 3 months ago)to chat with and meet for a drink and natter if agreed.

have a good day all

Rabbit x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That was a short lived friendship

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hi I’m up for chatting meals and drinks and if there’s a strong attraction a good fuck

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By *he Regina PhalangeWoman
over a year ago

Lanarkshire


"Hi I’m up for chatting meals and drinks and if there’s a strong attraction a good fuck "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi I’m up for chatting meals and drinks and if there’s a strong attraction a good fuck "

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By *nferno sausageMan
over a year ago

Aberdeenshire


"Hi I’m up for chatting meals and drinks and if there’s a strong attraction a good fuck "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi I’m up for chatting meals and drinks and if there’s a strong attraction a good fuck "
puts a whole new perspective on three courser...

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By *he Regina PhalangeWoman
over a year ago

Lanarkshire


"Hi I’m up for chatting meals and drinks and if there’s a strong attraction a good fuck puts a whole new perspective on three courser... "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The op has went unlos one less tae pump.. dam

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By *nferno sausageMan
over a year ago

Aberdeenshire


"The op has went unlos one less tae pump.. dam "

Aye - she said that 78 messages from you in a day was just a tad too friendly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The op has went unlos one less tae pump.. dam

Aye - she said that 78 messages from you in a day was just a tad too friendly. "
lol one less than yours

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