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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

What attracts women to guys on fab is the profile a big deal like does it have to be filled out and describe everything about the guy? Are woman fussy or expecting a message to sweep them off their feet i understand that message must fly to girls ha but what sets out the dno simple decent guys to the guys with dno 4 page easy first messages if that's even a thing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Attraction 1st and foremost.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would answer this but your status says you love a ginger and it’s too early in the morning for me to play with fab straight fire.

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By *andsCouple
over a year ago

Edin

To me if i don’t like your pics I don’t read the profile anyway

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By *sm265Woman
over a year ago

Shangri-la

I need to be attracted to the person both physically and mentally so, in order to catch my attention, the profile needs to give me an idea of both what they look like and what their personality is like.

If they have put no effort into their profile then I will assume that they would probably put equally little effort into everything else.

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By *pectressWoman
over a year ago

Midlothian


"I need to be attracted to the person both physically and mentally so, in order to catch my attention, the profile needs to give me an idea of both what they look like and what their personality is like.

If they have put no effort into their profile then I will assume that they would probably put equally little effort into everything else. "

Exactly this!

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By *he Regina PhalangeWoman
over a year ago

Lanarkshire


"I need to be attracted to the person both physically and mentally so, in order to catch my attention, the profile needs to give me an idea of both what they look like and what their personality is like.

If they have put no effort into their profile then I will assume that they would probably put equally little effort into everything else. "

Well put, I concur!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm majorily fussy, i aint getting jiggy with just anyone and i don't think anyone should.. i think women are wired up differently to guys, men see pics and that seems enough lol women need some sorta chat, connection, attraction..

If you've little to no pics or bio, and your message is "hi" its getting deleted

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

The 1st thing that attracts you to a profile will be photographs so that's the 1st thing I'm looking at.

Il then read the profile & if there is something from it that catches my interest il drop them a message .

Being on fab many years has taught me that people are more than a few words or pics on a profile & I've been left surprised many times by people I didn't think I'd be attracted to .

Just look at your profile as a shop window & make it interesting enough to make people want to step in and find out what's on offer

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pics aren't everything, neither are words.

There does need to be both though!

I've ignored many a hottie because the profile just says "single woman looking to meet men". Also ignore many profiles with no pic or a single pic. Tbh I'm more likely to message someone based on their words. I'm odd though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't meet single male profiles for more than a social, but with couples and women I look at the pictures first, there's some that are instantly off putting!

Then I read the profile. I'm looking to get a sense of the people behind the profile, what they want and don't want from the site. It's usually the profile that is the decider on whether I'd be interested in more. Blank profiles, those warning off Sydney, lists of rules like they're Dolores Umbridge etc, all red flags that we're unlikely to gel well together.

Opening messages that show they've read my profile, have a bit of humour, and open conversation are winners. Messages such as hows you, fuck now, you're hot, tend not to get the best responses from me.

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