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By *RStuart OP   Man
over a year ago

West Lothian

Accepting there will be some criticism with regards to my profile, I'd still like feedback. I mean let's face it, its certainly not the worst and by far not the best but what have YOU found works for you and getting chats going and meetings?

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"Accepting there will be some criticism with regards to my profile, I'd still like feedback. I mean let's face it, its certainly not the worst and by far not the best but what have YOU found works for you and getting chats going and meetings? "
As you already have verifications I assume whatever it is you do works for you .

However others approach to people could be totally different to yourself and might not work .

I always think just be yourself as some will like you some wont Xx

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By *RStuart OP   Man
over a year ago

West Lothian

Thanks for responding. I guess the verifications is a good thing as many don't have them. I really don't think though what 'i' am doing works well considering the volume of mails sent based on the return ratio.

Most women seem to hate a cock shot so none shown. Most prefer articulate and funny, 'tick' but bloody hell it's not easy at all!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Quirky bios get my attention, well thought out pics, instead of the standard rager or over the piss bowl/lynx can reference ... clothed pics, black n white always get my attention.. plus a funny message..

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By *rBlueEyes35Man
over a year ago

Alloa


"Quirky bios get my attention, well thought out pics, instead of the standard rager or over the piss bowl/lynx can reference ... clothed pics, black n white always get my attention.. plus a funny message.. "

I have never thought of trying this, do you think the travel size cans will still be on sale somewhere?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Quirky bios get my attention, well thought out pics, instead of the standard rager or over the piss bowl/lynx can reference ... clothed pics, black n white always get my attention.. plus a funny message..

I have never thought of trying this, do you think the travel size cans will still be on sale somewhere? "
try asda (other retailers also available)

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By *rBlueEyes35Man
over a year ago

Alloa


"Quirky bios get my attention, well thought out pics, instead of the standard rager or over the piss bowl/lynx can reference ... clothed pics, black n white always get my attention.. plus a funny message..

I have never thought of trying this, do you think the travel size cans will still be on sale somewhere? try asda (other retailers also available) "

Perfect, super star fabness level, here I come

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thanks for responding. I guess the verifications is a good thing as many don't have them. I really don't think though what 'i' am doing works well considering the volume of mails sent based on the return ratio.

Most women seem to hate a cock shot so none shown. Most prefer articulate and funny, 'tick' but bloody hell it's not easy at all! "

How often did you expect to be meeting someone?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think you need to just be yourself, Fab is like anything in life you get out of it what you put in.

I only been on a few weeks and had some very nice chats and meets with some lovely people but I made the effort to put myself out there at socials and Cjs.

Also joining in on the forum banter can be good as well good luck

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By *4Fun11Woman
over a year ago

Glasgow


"Most women seem to hate a cock shot so none shown. "

Is that because its buried in someone’s vag?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Quirky bios get my attention, well thought out pics, instead of the standard rager or over the piss bowl/lynx can reference ... clothed pics, black n white always get my attention.. plus a funny message..

I have never thought of trying this, do you think the travel size cans will still be on sale somewhere? try asda (other retailers also available)

Perfect, super star fabness level, here I come "

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By *cottishMrsWoman
over a year ago

Wishaw


"Accepting there will be some criticism with regards to my profile, I'd still like feedback. I mean let's face it, its certainly not the worst and by far not the best but what have YOU found works for you and getting chats going and meetings? "

For me, there's nothing wrong with your profile, but it's not up my street. Wanting to spend evenings and dinners together is my idea of a date, so it's something I avoid.

I had also spoke with you VERY briefly at CJs, I asked you a question and you kinda snapped at me. I apologised for my question, but you didn't seem interested. Maybe worth considering.

I hope you find what you're looking for x

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By *cottishMrsWoman
over a year ago

Wishaw


"Accepting there will be some criticism with regards to my profile, I'd still like feedback. I mean let's face it, its certainly not the worst and by far not the best but what have YOU found works for you and getting chats going and meetings?

For me, there's nothing wrong with your profile, but it's not up my street. Wanting to spend evenings and dinners together is my idea of a date, so it's something I avoid.

I had also spoke with you VERY briefly at CJs, I asked you a question and you kinda snapped at me. I apologised for my question, but you didn't seem interested. Maybe worth considering.

I hope you find what you're looking for x"

Oh, and a cheesy chat up line or a really bad joke always makes me groan and then laugh, and usually gets a reply xx

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By *RStuart OP   Man
over a year ago

West Lothian


"Accepting there will be some criticism with regards to my profile, I'd still like feedback. I mean let's face it, its certainly not the worst and by far not the best but what have YOU found works for you and getting chats going and meetings?

For me, there's nothing wrong with your profile, but it's not up my street. Wanting to spend evenings and dinners together is my idea of a date, so it's something I avoid.

I had also spoke with you VERY briefly at CJs, I asked you a question and you kinda snapped at me. I apologised for my question, but you didn't seem interested. Maybe worth considering.

I hope you find what you're looking for x"

I snapped at you? Sorry but that's absolutely not me. Something I do not do.

Are you sure?

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By *cottishMrsWoman
over a year ago

Wishaw


"Accepting there will be some criticism with regards to my profile, I'd still like feedback. I mean let's face it, its certainly not the worst and by far not the best but what have YOU found works for you and getting chats going and meetings?

For me, there's nothing wrong with your profile, but it's not up my street. Wanting to spend evenings and dinners together is my idea of a date, so it's something I avoid.

I had also spoke with you VERY briefly at CJs, I asked you a question and you kinda snapped at me. I apologised for my question, but you didn't seem interested. Maybe worth considering.

I hope you find what you're looking for x

I snapped at you? Sorry but that's absolutely not me. Something I do not do.

Are you sure? "

Positive. You walked up to the first open room on the left and said something along the lines of, "Aw thank God she's done now!" To which I asked, "Aw is that your missus?" Where you then snapped back, something like... "No! I'm her lift!" I apologised kinda sheepishly and then walked away from you.

Hope you find what you're looking for x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nothing wrong with your profile, also nothing stand out but then… What do you write. Genuinely dunno, maybe have a wee look at other male fabbers and see what ones seem to be working??? Like many here I’ll underline quirky, humour, wee bit of cheek but always with a genuineness too. Attraction is a mysterious thing and I think it should be tbh or the magic would be gone lol. Good luck on site xxx

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By *scobar67Man
over a year ago

glasgow

Not much on here these days lol

Maybe I've lost my touch

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By *imbobaMan
over a year ago

Glasgow


"Accepting there will be some criticism with regards to my profile, I'd still like feedback. I mean let's face it, its certainly not the worst and by far not the best but what have YOU found works for you and getting chats going and meetings? "

One point I’d make is you're Cannot accommodate status. You mention it in your bio too with no explanation. That would suggest you’re cheating on a partner which will be a red flag for many ladies. If that’s not the case I’d give a reason.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Accepting there will be some criticism with regards to my profile, I'd still like feedback. I mean let's face it, its certainly not the worst and by far not the best but what have YOU found works for you and getting chats going and meetings? "

I get what your meaning with regards to the kind of sex you enjoy, you can have that connection with other fab members but I’d suggest trying to word it a little different. Whilst I am not saying we are similar at all, because we are not please don’t message me , but I also don’t like to spit, hit, fart or pee on people and I have said that on my page in a less creepy way. When I say creepy I’m not being mean or calling you that, it kinda comes across that youl be pawing at the lassie slobbering all over her like a Bulldog with an ice cream.

I’d maybe put the face pics into private and make the public ones clothed or less clothed selfies. Putting the face pic up immediately poses the question of attraction without substance, a face pic after a few jovial messages will work better. Who wants to meet the members who demand an immediate face pic anyway..

I very rarely message women and couples, I wink and let them decide if I am of interest or not. I am not by any means an overly popular male here but I have met and spoken to some really lovely people. I’m ugly, I win them over with jokes before scudding then with my coupon reveal..

All the best buddy, please don’t take anything from me in a bad way

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