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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I think the site has gone downhill and if not altered will die out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Once the site owners upload the vaccine, wait 6-8 weeks then upload the secondary updated vaccine plugin I think Itl manage to pull through…

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think the site has gone downhill and if not altered will die out"

And what alterations do you suggest?

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By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago

Paisley

The site is what you make of it yourself.

I’m not sure what people expect from it.

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By *sm265Woman
over a year ago

Shangri-la

I don't think it is the site, it's more that we are still in a global pandemic and that many aspects of life have changed as a result.

But maybe I'm wrong, maybe if Fab adjusts how the site works it'll make covid19 vanish entirely

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

A system of getting timewasters removed would help loads

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A system of getting timewasters removed would help loads"

How do you propose that would work?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If someone is flagged as a timewaster by three different people then they are removed?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A system of getting timewasters removed would help loads"

Peoples definitions of a timewaster vary wildly though. I was called a timewaster this morning for politely replying to someones message when I wasn't interested in meeting them...

It's impossible for the site to know the intentions or track the behaviours of those that use it (unless reported for abuse/no show etc).

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

The worst one flit in and out using different profile ,if they leave ,then make it your out for a set time ,say 14 days

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The site is what you make of it yourself.

I’m not sure what people expect from it. "

This is entirely true.

Some people's expectations are unrealistic.

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By *ianskyeCouple
over a year ago

Falkirk


"The site is what you make of it yourself.

I’m not sure what people expect from it. "

Absolutely spot on.

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By *ianskyeCouple
over a year ago

Falkirk


"If someone is flagged as a timewaster by three different people then they are removed? "

Who decides what constitutes a "time waster"? If we as a couple knock back or ignore 3 idiots who haven't even taken the time to read our profile do we get punted because they decide we are time wasters?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Arrange a meet ,then ghost ,cast iron timewaster if no contact or explanation

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

That's a start

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By *he Regina PhalangeWoman
over a year ago

Lanarkshire

You’re flogging a dead horse here!

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By *cottishMrsWoman
over a year ago

Wishaw


"Arrange a meet ,then ghost ,cast iron timewaster if no contact or explanation"

The problem with this is that there will be people who abuse it. So, say for example, I tell a guy he isn't my type... he takes offence and decides to report me for being a no show. It involves too much policing for admin to get involved in. Plus, shit happens. If I arrange a meet and something is going on with my kids, you're too damn right I'm cancelling. I may not want to divulge my family dynamics to a random on Fab, so I simply cancel and tell him it's an emergency... guarantee he still takes umbrage and reports me for being a timewaster.

Your best bet is to police your profile yourself, the way you like. You feel they're a timewaster? Block them and move on. Unfortunately, you've got a much higher expectation than I do. My rule is... Real life ALWAYS comes first.

Sorry x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Real life always is priority,but not a do nothing person

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By *cottishMrsWoman
over a year ago

Wishaw


"Real life always is priority,but not a do nothing person"

Let's be honest here though, looking at your profile... you'll have a lot more free time, than someone like me, for example. Once you're finished working for the day, or the weekend or whatever, your time is your own. Your expectation seems to be that everyone else will have the same luxury. I'm 33, so my kids are very young. By the time I'm 61, my kids will be 34 and 32. My time will very much be my own. Your 'real life' priorities aren't the same as someone like me. You can't judge someone on being a timewaster, just because you might not agree with their reason for cancelling on you.

Who knows, maybe you said something shitty that they didn't like and didn't want to be rude, so they cancelled on you instead?

It feels like you need to be responsible for the policing of your own profile, and let others worry about theirs. Block them, and move on!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Real life always is priority,but not a do nothing person

Let's be honest here though, looking at your profile... you'll have a lot more free time, than someone like me, for example. Once you're finished working for the day, or the weekend or whatever, your time is your own. Your expectation seems to be that everyone else will have the same luxury. I'm 33, so my kids are very young. By the time I'm 61, my kids will be 34 and 32. My time will very much be my own. Your 'real life' priorities aren't the same as someone like me. You can't judge someone on being a timewaster, just because you might not agree with their reason for cancelling on you.

Who knows, maybe you said something shitty that they didn't like and didn't want to be rude, so they cancelled on you instead?

It feels like you need to be responsible for the policing of your own profile, and let others worry about theirs. Block them, and move on!"

Totally agree with that except for the 61 thing… I’m busier than ever but as someone else said somewhere on another thread… the site has perhaps changed but so have I

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By *astlincscoupleCouple
over a year ago

Tinsel Town

Nah the site is fine. Works well for us and several thousand others.

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By *igsaw93Woman
over a year ago

Glasgow

Definitely lots of issues that could be addressed with the security of the site, unlawful images on single profiles and threatening message filters etc, but none of this has changed since covid. So called time-wasting isn't something that the site can effectively police and I don't think they should.

That being said it is the most popular site by a mile so we all work with it as it is.

Just my two cents.

Jigs xx

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By *andsCouple
over a year ago

Edin

I can’t see any change tbh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The worst one flit in and out using different profile ,if they leave ,then make it your out for a set time ,say 14 days"
they can't do that! I'll have nothing for my wank bank for two weeks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Definitely lots of issues that could be addressed with the security of the site, unlawful images on single profiles and threatening message filters etc, but none of this has changed since covid. So called time-wasting isn't something that the site can effectively police and I don't think they should.

That being said it is the most popular site by a mile so we all work with it as it is.

Just my two cents.

Jigs xx "

Nicely put

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By *cottishMrsWoman
over a year ago

Wishaw


"Real life always is priority,but not a do nothing person

Let's be honest here though, looking at your profile... you'll have a lot more free time, than someone like me, for example. Once you're finished working for the day, or the weekend or whatever, your time is your own. Your expectation seems to be that everyone else will have the same luxury. I'm 33, so my kids are very young. By the time I'm 61, my kids will be 34 and 32. My time will very much be my own. Your 'real life' priorities aren't the same as someone like me. You can't judge someone on being a timewaster, just because you might not agree with their reason for cancelling on you.

Who knows, maybe you said something shitty that they didn't like and didn't want to be rude, so they cancelled on you instead?

It feels like you need to be responsible for the policing of your own profile, and let others worry about theirs. Block them, and move on!

Totally agree with that except for the 61 thing… I’m busier than ever but as someone else said somewhere on another thread… the site has perhaps changed but so have I "

Don't tell me that lol. I'm hoping to get to 61 and start chilling out... infact, my sanity is depending on it! Lmao!xx

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By *ixie and adamCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow

It’s still a man buffet for women and far more difficult for men. Lots of people still don’t read our profile before messaging. Especially all the men who try to hit on Adam. As much as I would appreciate the visual, it’s not going to happen.

Pixie xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The sites been pretty much the same for around a decade imo having been on and off.

It won't change much apart from higher user number, hence the worst of site becomes more apparent in terms of frequency.

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By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago

Paisley

We don’t know what responsibilities other people have. It could be kids, sick parents, caring for a child/adult with a disability, etc and in those situations being dependent upon a carer to get a night out can lead to last minute cancellations.

People do get ill as well. I had one guy who was admitted to hospital and didn’t have time to message me. I did find out a couple of weeks later. One time my car broke down, clutch cable went, and I had to cancel. Would you still call me a time waster? It’s easy to jump to the wrong assumption and call people time wasters.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Real life always is priority,but not a do nothing person

Let's be honest here though, looking at your profile... you'll have a lot more free time, than someone like me, for example. Once you're finished working for the day, or the weekend or whatever, your time is your own. Your expectation seems to be that everyone else will have the same luxury. I'm 33, so my kids are very young. By the time I'm 61, my kids will be 34 and 32. My time will very much be my own. Your 'real life' priorities aren't the same as someone like me. You can't judge someone on being a timewaster, just because you might not agree with their reason for cancelling on you.

Who knows, maybe you said something shitty that they didn't like and didn't want to be rude, so they cancelled on you instead?

It feels like you need to be responsible for the policing of your own profile, and let others worry about theirs. Block them, and move on!

Totally agree with that except for the 61 thing… I’m busier than ever but as someone else said somewhere on another thread… the site has perhaps changed but so have I

Don't tell me that lol. I'm hoping to get to 61 and start chilling out... infact, my sanity is depending on it! Lmao!xx"

Ooops

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A system of getting timewasters removed would help loads"

How do we know your not a time-waster?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some, sorta way of stopping people using fake pics from the internet would be great.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Some, sorta way of stopping people using fake pics from the internet would be great..... "

There is a way. For some reason they just refuse to use it. Exasperating.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Some, sorta way of stopping people using fake pics from the internet would be great..... "
someone with something positive

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If someone is flagged as a timewaster by three different people then they are removed? "

God no such a terrible idear

Hear are some examples

Them Hi I am in your area do you have ten minutes to spare

Me no I don’t do drop hat meets

Them time waster flagged

Them it’s 2am i on the want to get a taxi to mine I am horny

Me how about definitely not it’s 2am in the morning

Them pifff time wasteder flagged

Them send first message full off cock pics

With the message hi ( insert rude 4 letter word )

Fancy take my cock right now

Me emmm no is that anyway to greet someone in a first message

Them wow time waster flaged

See how this becomes a problem

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Nice negative attitude ,not saying it's an easy one but people leaving and being replaced by bairns ehoy have no manners or intention of meeting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nice negative attitude ,not saying it's an easy one but people leaving and being replaced by bairns ehoy have no manners or intention of meeting"

How am I being negative

All 3 off the are real stuff or along those lines

And I have been called a time waster for saying no and then some other nasty words

So what your trying to say is

I need to live in fear on this site that I can’t turn anyone down for the fear off have my profile banned

Because someone couldn’t take a no thanks

Emmm do you know what I just wouldn’t be apart off this site simple as

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By *nferno sausageMan
over a year ago

Aberdeenshire


"I think the site has gone downhill and if not altered will die out"

I agree. Ever since Sydney University started poking around in folk's down-unders the site has gone to the dogs. If it wasn't for the tits and ass I'd be outta here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nice negative attitude ,not saying it's an easy one but people leaving and being replaced by bairns ehoy have no manners or intention of meeting"

You're not exactly showing your sunny disposition

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Some, sorta way of stopping people using fake pics from the internet would be great..... someone with something positive"

Still awaiting your proof your not a time-waster

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By *cottishMrsWoman
over a year ago

Wishaw


"Nice negative attitude ,not saying it's an easy one but people leaving and being replaced by bairns ehoy have no manners or intention of meeting"

The only one I've saw with a lack of manners here is you. And who are you to judge whether 'bairns' shouldn't be allowed to use the site? That's why you have an age range on your profile. I'll say it again, a lot of this comes down to you policing your own profile. You pay a fiver for the subscription, I'm not sure what you're expecting for that?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think the site has gone downhill and if not altered will die out"

No changes for me.. I was unsuccessful at getting meets before the pandemic and I'm still unsuccessful at getting a meet after it.

One thing I would change is if say through no fault of your own you don't get a meet for the length of your membership they could maybe give you a 10% discount to sign back up, why should everyone pay the same if they get hee haw from being on the site, otherwise fab just becomes Facebook with nude pics of ppl. I get there's alot of different ways fab works but for men generally this site is becoming hard to meet ppl unless through events such as CJ's or After8s.

Anyways that's my input but good luck and keep trying..

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By *cottishMrsWoman
over a year ago

Wishaw


"I think the site has gone downhill and if not altered will die out

No changes for me.. I was unsuccessful at getting meets before the pandemic and I'm still unsuccessful at getting a meet after it.

One thing I would change is if say through no fault of your own you don't get a meet for the length of your membership they could maybe give you a 10% discount to sign back up, why should everyone pay the same if they get hee haw from being on the site, otherwise fab just becomes Facebook with nude pics of ppl. I get there's alot of different ways fab works but for men generally this site is becoming hard to meet ppl unless through events such as CJ's or After8s.

Anyways that's my input but good luck and keep trying..

"

If you know that going to social events gets your name out there, then why not utilise that?xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think the site has gone downhill and if not altered will die out

No changes for me.. I was unsuccessful at getting meets before the pandemic and I'm still unsuccessful at getting a meet after it.

One thing I would change is if say through no fault of your own you don't get a meet for the length of your membership they could maybe give you a 10% discount to sign back up, why should everyone pay the same if they get hee haw from being on the site, otherwise fab just becomes Facebook with nude pics of ppl. I get there's alot of different ways fab works but for men generally this site is becoming hard to meet ppl unless through events such as CJ's or After8s.

Anyways that's my input but good luck and keep trying..

If you know that going to social events gets your name out there, then why not utilise that?xx"

Simply put I am way too busy to attend and most single guys would be too shy to go to cjs by themselves so don't want to try that route..I know it's not a convincing answer but that's all I got.

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By *nferno sausageMan
over a year ago

Aberdeenshire


"I think the site has gone downhill and if not altered will die out

No changes for me.. I was unsuccessful at getting meets before the pandemic and I'm still unsuccessful at getting a meet after it.

One thing I would change is if say through no fault of your own you don't get a meet for the length of your membership they could maybe give you a 10% discount to sign back up, why should everyone pay the same if they get hee haw from being on the site, otherwise fab just becomes Facebook with nude pics of ppl. I get there's alot of different ways fab works but for men generally this site is becoming hard to meet ppl unless through events such as CJ's or After8s.

Anyways that's my input but good luck and keep trying..

"

You've had your ten bobs worth with your 64 meets!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think the site has gone downhill and if not altered will die out

No changes for me.. I was unsuccessful at getting meets before the pandemic and I'm still unsuccessful at getting a meet after it.

One thing I would change is if say through no fault of your own you don't get a meet for the length of your membership they could maybe give you a 10% discount to sign back up, why should everyone pay the same if they get hee haw from being on the site, otherwise fab just becomes Facebook with nude pics of ppl. I get there's alot of different ways fab works but for men generally this site is becoming hard to meet ppl unless through events such as CJ's or After8s.

Anyways that's my input but good luck and keep trying..

"

Whose fault would it be if a man wasn't getting any 'meets'

How would a discount to entice him back after leaving in a huff over it change that?

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By *exicolaMan
over a year ago

West Lothian

A discount on a fiver?

Really.

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By *assy LassieWoman
over a year ago

Lanarkshire


"Real life always is priority,but not a do nothing person

Let's be honest here though, looking at your profile... you'll have a lot more free time, than someone like me, for example. Once you're finished working for the day, or the weekend or whatever, your time is your own. Your expectation seems to be that everyone else will have the same luxury. I'm 33, so my kids are very young. By the time I'm 61, my kids will be 34 and 32. My time will very much be my own. Your 'real life' priorities aren't the same as someone like me. You can't judge someone on being a timewaster, just because you might not agree with their reason for cancelling on you.

Who knows, maybe you said something shitty that they didn't like and didn't want to be rude, so they cancelled on you instead?

It feels like you need to be responsible for the policing of your own profile, and let others worry about theirs. Block them, and move on!

Totally agree with that except for the 61 thing… I’m busier than ever but as someone else said somewhere on another thread… the site has perhaps changed but so have I

Don't tell me that lol. I'm hoping to get to 61 and start chilling out... infact, my sanity is depending on it! Lmao!xx"

I'm 47 both kids are late teens. More freedom now and hopefully now patters of tiny grandchildren feet for a while. Get your groove on in the 40s and 50s then by 61 you will have it down to a fine art!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can only see it getting better

People are still worried about the pandemic as numbers are still rising.

There’s also the impact the pandemic has had on us socially, mentally and physically.

From a personal point of view I’m less confident than I was before the pandemic. I haven’t kept as fit as I did before so have more body hang ups.

I haven’t socialised as much and that’s had an effect on my behaviours around other people

These will change when things go back to normal over time and this will get fab back to the way it used to be

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think the site has gone downhill and if not altered will die out

No changes for me.. I was unsuccessful at getting meets before the pandemic and I'm still unsuccessful at getting a meet after it.

One thing I would change is if say through no fault of your own you don't get a meet for the length of your membership they could maybe give you a 10% discount to sign back up, why should everyone pay the same if they get hee haw from being on the site, otherwise fab just becomes Facebook with nude pics of ppl. I get there's alot of different ways fab works but for men generally this site is becoming hard to meet ppl unless through events such as CJ's or After8s.

Anyways that's my input but good luck and keep trying..

You've had your ten bobs worth with your 64 meets! "

Im one of the luckier ones on here and a high percentage of those meets were on couples accounts that I've had over the years, I reckon on a single account there's no way I would have got that much.

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By *assy LassieWoman
over a year ago

Lanarkshire


"Nice negative attitude ,not saying it's an easy one but people leaving and being replaced by bairns ehoy have no manners or intention of meeting"

How dare we log in to the site unless the knickers are at the ankles and legs akimbo just waiting for the first available cock. Honest tae fuck. Aye I must be a timewaster. Mibbes am a fake too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think the site has gone downhill and if not altered will die out

No changes for me.. I was unsuccessful at getting meets before the pandemic and I'm still unsuccessful at getting a meet after it.

One thing I would change is if say through no fault of your own you don't get a meet for the length of your membership they could maybe give you a 10% discount to sign back up, why should everyone pay the same if they get hee haw from being on the site, otherwise fab just becomes Facebook with nude pics of ppl. I get there's alot of different ways fab works but for men generally this site is becoming hard to meet ppl unless through events such as CJ's or After8s.

Anyways that's my input but good luck and keep trying..

If you know that going to social events gets your name out there, then why not utilise that?xx

Simply put I am way too busy to attend and most single guys would be too shy to go to cjs by themselves so don't want to try that route..I know it's not a convincing answer but that's all I got."

If your to busy to make time for a club visit maybe once every couple of months where would you find the time for meets anyways. ?

Ps please tell me your joking about getting a discount on a fiver lol.

Is it negotiable?

Would you settle for a free star bar with every renewal.

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By *assy LassieWoman
over a year ago

Lanarkshire


"I think the site has gone downhill and if not altered will die out

No changes for me.. I was unsuccessful at getting meets before the pandemic and I'm still unsuccessful at getting a meet after it.

One thing I would change is if say through no fault of your own you don't get a meet for the length of your membership they could maybe give you a 10% discount to sign back up, why should everyone pay the same if they get hee haw from being on the site, otherwise fab just becomes Facebook with nude pics of ppl. I get there's alot of different ways fab works but for men generally this site is becoming hard to meet ppl unless through events such as CJ's or After8s.

Anyways that's my input but good luck and keep trying..

If you know that going to social events gets your name out there, then why not utilise that?xx

Simply put I am way too busy to attend and most single guys would be too shy to go to cjs by themselves so don't want to try that route..I know it's not a convincing answer but that's all I got.

If your to busy to make time for a club visit maybe once every couple of months where would you find the time for meets anyways. ?

Ps please tell me your joking about getting a discount on a fiver lol.

Is it negotiable?

Would you settle for a free star bar with every renewal. "

I agree with the free star bars. Best idea you've ever had zest.

This is the change we need

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think the site has gone downhill and if not altered will die out

No changes for me.. I was unsuccessful at getting meets before the pandemic and I'm still unsuccessful at getting a meet after it.

One thing I would change is if say through no fault of your own you don't get a meet for the length of your membership they could maybe give you a 10% discount to sign back up, why should everyone pay the same if they get hee haw from being on the site, otherwise fab just becomes Facebook with nude pics of ppl. I get there's alot of different ways fab works but for men generally this site is becoming hard to meet ppl unless through events such as CJ's or After8s.

Anyways that's my input but good luck and keep trying..

If you know that going to social events gets your name out there, then why not utilise that?xx

Simply put I am way too busy to attend and most single guys would be too shy to go to cjs by themselves so don't want to try that route..I know it's not a convincing answer but that's all I got.

If your to busy to make time for a club visit maybe once every couple of months where would you find the time for meets anyways. ?

Ps please tell me your joking about getting a discount on a fiver lol.

Is it negotiable?

Would you settle for a free star bar with every renewal.

I agree with the free star bars. Best idea you've ever had zest.

This is the change we need "

What is it with women and star bars.

Next meet I go on I'm definitely taking 1 as a gift, for brownie points.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think the site has gone downhill and if not altered will die out

No changes for me.. I was unsuccessful at getting meets before the pandemic and I'm still unsuccessful at getting a meet after it.

One thing I would change is if say through no fault of your own you don't get a meet for the length of your membership they could maybe give you a 10% discount to sign back up, why should everyone pay the same if they get hee haw from being on the site, otherwise fab just becomes Facebook with nude pics of ppl. I get there's alot of different ways fab works but for men generally this site is becoming hard to meet ppl unless through events such as CJ's or After8s.

Anyways that's my input but good luck and keep trying..

If you know that going to social events gets your name out there, then why not utilise that?xx

Simply put I am way too busy to attend and most single guys would be too shy to go to cjs by themselves so don't want to try that route..I know it's not a convincing answer but that's all I got.

If your to busy to make time for a club visit maybe once every couple of months where would you find the time for meets anyways. ?

Ps please tell me your joking about getting a discount on a fiver lol.

Is it negotiable?

Would you settle for a free star bar with every renewal. "
ofcourse the discount was a joke but as per usual some don't have a sense of humour in here.

In answer to making time to go to a club to meet so where would u find the time to meet..there's such a thing called a home, every meet I've had has been at mine or their home and some ppl don't like attending clubs by themselves, that hard to believe?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think the site has gone downhill and if not altered will die out

I agree. Ever since Sydney University started poking around in folk's down-unders the site has gone to the dogs. If it wasn't for the tits and ass I'd be outta here. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think the site has gone downhill and if not altered will die out

No changes for me.. I was unsuccessful at getting meets before the pandemic and I'm still unsuccessful at getting a meet after it.

One thing I would change is if say through no fault of your own you don't get a meet for the length of your membership they could maybe give you a 10% discount to sign back up, why should everyone pay the same if they get hee haw from being on the site, otherwise fab just becomes Facebook with nude pics of ppl. I get there's alot of different ways fab works but for men generally this site is becoming hard to meet ppl unless through events such as CJ's or After8s.

Anyways that's my input but good luck and keep trying..

If you know that going to social events gets your name out there, then why not utilise that?xx

Simply put I am way too busy to attend and most single guys would be too shy to go to cjs by themselves so don't want to try that route..I know it's not a convincing answer but that's all I got.

If your to busy to make time for a club visit maybe once every couple of months where would you find the time for meets anyways. ?

Ps please tell me your joking about getting a discount on a fiver lol.

Is it negotiable?

Would you settle for a free star bar with every renewal. ofcourse the discount was a joke but as per usual some don't have a sense of humour in here.

In answer to making time to go to a club to meet so where would u find the time to meet..there's such a thing called a home, every meet I've had has been at mine or their home and some ppl don't like attending clubs by themselves, that hard to believe?

"

TBF you never sounded like you were joking but good to hear it was only a joke.

You also just said the meets you've had were at home or their home so confused why your saying you can't get meets and hence your reason for saying Fab has changed. ? Your claim was people only meet at clubs now. ?

We do agree though , I won't go to a club myself either , my way round that is to buddy up with a female Fabber who would also like to go to a club but also doesn't want to go alone.

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By *ogerBottomsMan
over a year ago

Aberdare


"I think the site has gone downhill and if not altered will die out"

Altered in what way? Pointless saying this if you don't have constructive suggestions.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think the site has gone downhill and if not altered will die out

No changes for me.. I was unsuccessful at getting meets before the pandemic and I'm still unsuccessful at getting a meet after it.

One thing I would change is if say through no fault of your own you don't get a meet for the length of your membership they could maybe give you a 10% discount to sign back up, why should everyone pay the same if they get hee haw from being on the site, otherwise fab just becomes Facebook with nude pics of ppl. I get there's alot of different ways fab works but for men generally this site is becoming hard to meet ppl unless through events such as CJ's or After8s.

Anyways that's my input but good luck and keep trying..

If you know that going to social events gets your name out there, then why not utilise that?xx

Simply put I am way too busy to attend and most single guys would be too shy to go to cjs by themselves so don't want to try that route..I know it's not a convincing answer but that's all I got.

If your to busy to make time for a club visit maybe once every couple of months where would you find the time for meets anyways. ?

Ps please tell me your joking about getting a discount on a fiver lol.

Is it negotiable?

Would you settle for a free star bar with every renewal. ofcourse the discount was a joke but as per usual some don't have a sense of humour in here.

In answer to making time to go to a club to meet so where would u find the time to meet..there's such a thing called a home, every meet I've had has been at mine or their home and some ppl don't like attending clubs by themselves, that hard to believe?

TBF you never sounded like you were joking but good to hear it was only a joke.

You also just said the meets you've had were at home or their home so confused why your saying you can't get meets and hence your reason for saying Fab has changed. ? Your claim was people only meet at clubs now. ?

We do agree though , I won't go to a club myself either , my way round that is to buddy up with a female Fabber who would also like to go to a club but also doesn't want to go alone. "
my claim was not everyone who wants a meet has to attend a club or an event, my claim was most single guys on here are never given the opportunity to meet a female as she is probably inundated with messages every day so his one message is lost in the hundreds of messages she gets thus being his only option us attending cjs or after8s but as we've both agreed not alot of guys would attend on their own. Does Cjs even have a night for only single guys wanting to meet females??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think everyone needs to remember that humour often isn’t easily transferred by “message”. It often lacks nuance and context unless you make a lot of effort and even then others may not agree as humour is subjective after all.

In regard to the site… it may have faults, some it perhaps could resolve, some it could not.

I still think, it’s FAB as it is. WHY?

1. If you want to use it for free it’s still very useable

2. If you want to pay, it’s cheap as chips and the benefits are really good and the options are easy.

3. ALLLLLLLLLL the other stuff, time wasters, fake pics, people that don’t turn up, fantasists or whatever you want to complain about are a fact of life. Ease of use is desireable but comes at a price. Even that price guarantees nothing and nor should it. Good vetting in my experience sorts most of these problems. I still think a short free questionnaire before being accepted is a good idea.

One classic example would be “what does no reply mean as per the site rules?”

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" Does Cjs even have a night for only single guys wanting to meet females??"

Not being funny or argumentative ,but this question makes no sense.

To be clear are you asking for cjs to have a night with only single guys and single females in. And if so are you saying you might attend such a night. ?

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By *erlins5Man
over a year ago

South Fife

OP you have only been on the site 5 months... That must be a very rapid decline.... What are your suggestions for improvement ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why would you get a discount on the membership fee, that £5 isn't taken in return for making it easier to get a meet, it's to use extra features. Those features don't guarantee a meet, in fact many successful accounts aren't site supporters.

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By *andsCouple
over a year ago

Edin

A lot of single guys do very well on this site through never attending clubs or events. Why? Because they have the banter, they never moan on the forums they can’t get a meet, they basically get out what they put in….

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By *erlins5Man
over a year ago

South Fife


"A lot of single guys do very well on this site through never attending clubs or events. Why? Because they have the banter, they never moan on the forums they can’t get a meet, they basically get out what they put in…. "

I agree, I have never been to an event or club and have my fair share of fun here. I just try to be respectful and chatty... And above all patient... It can take months to get a couple and a single man all available at the same time... But not being pushy usually helps.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why would you get a discount on the membership fee, that £5 isn't taken in return for making it easier to get a meet, it's to use extra features. Those features don't guarantee a meet, in fact many successful accounts aren't site supporters.

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Excellent point

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge


"The worst one flit in and out using different profile ,if they leave ,then make it your out for a set time ,say 14 days"
how do you police the 14 days.... How do you prove beyond doubt its the same person (hint your say so is worthless)

Here's an easy solution you feel they are Time wasters block and forget them

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Been on and off site for seven years met some really great people and had great times but just lately it's dived in my estimation

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A lot of single guys do very well on this site through never attending clubs or events. Why? Because they have the banter, they never moan on the forums they can’t get a meet, they basically get out what they put in…. "

….then they pull it out…and put it back in…and out…in..out..in…

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By *andsCouple
over a year ago

Edin


"A lot of single guys do very well on this site through never attending clubs or events. Why? Because they have the banter, they never moan on the forums they can’t get a meet, they basically get out what they put in….

….then they pull it out…and put it back in…and out…in..out..in… "

I’m not familiar with that come show me

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