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Separate rooms for sex and sleep?

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By *eliciouslySalacious OP   Couple
over a year ago

Glasgow

Sure, fucking in the kitchen and whatnot, but that's not what I'm meaning.

I'm reading Atomic Habits and it's currently talking about having separate contexts for different activities; you'll sleep better if your bedroom is only ever for sleeping. It got me thinking, at what point in life are you able to have bedrooms purely for sex and different rooms purely for sleep? Does anyone currently? Has it improved/ would it improve your life?

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By *he Regina PhalangeWoman
over a year ago

Lanarkshire

I’d need my kids to move out first! And find someone I would like to sleep beside.

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By *rassyknollMan
over a year ago

Limekilnburm

Leave it with me and I'll see what the bank manager says

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By *lexixCDTV/TS
over a year ago

Travellin aroon

Sorry, i misread the title i thought it was "Sex and sheep"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have found that at least stop using your bed as a chair to watch TV etc, in unfortunately I live at work and the rooms we have it’s sometimes the only comfortable chair in the room, my most recent room had a small couch so did not use the bed other than sleeping and I slept better

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By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago

Paisley

Its a bit inconvenient if you want to play in the middle of the night and you’ve to move to another bed. Part of the fun of waking up is teasing each other and having more fun before breakfast.

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By *asual777Man
over a year ago

i travel all over

Sex is an exception is in all sleep hygiene advice especially for men as it’s so relaxing

So bed Only for sleeping and sex

Not reading etc

Especially not 7/10 books

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This topic has become more at the forefront with regards to those working from home. When the second lockdown was in full swing some large companies began sending their employees lifestyle based tips with regards to how to tackle negative energy within the home when the home also becomes the workplace. The ones we got within the household were quite different but shared some key components.

One of the key points was to, if possible, not have your workstation in the bedroom nor have it in the living room as these are places of relaxation etc. Theres more to it than that but it was clear that there has been deep research into the topic.

I’d imagine for your topic, with long term couples a little more vanilla their bedtime routine must play a huge part in causing their sex lives to become stale, a separate space would almost be like a shot in the arm.

Thanks for the book mention, I’m going to give that a read!! Thought provoking topic for sure!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That’s why I try and keep work at work when away, it’s easy to just bring the laptop back to the cabin and work but then it’s not “your space”, you need a place to switch off and forget work

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

1 bedroom for sleep and nookie with the OH only, the other bedroom for Fab fun nookie with others. That being said 2nd bedroom comes in handy when it gets to hot to sleep together, nothing better than slipping into a nice clean cool bed in the middle of a hot sticky night.

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