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By *tew1985 OP   Man
over a year ago

Near You

How many times per day walking through a busy shop or a crowd do you look at someone and think their good looking? As a random thought if you let your feelings be known to all of them and it didn't matter if they were married or not, how much more sex would we get?

I know most days I see a few people in the passing who I like, who I'd never see again. Missed opertunity or just life?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This varies, men and women are so different when it comes to immediate attraction. Pretty sure it’s like 3 seconds for a guy to decide on average and 2/3 minutes for a female unless you’re a 6 foot dark haired chiselled hunk.

I’d expect you’d not be nearly as successful as you’d hope to be if you acted on the immediate attraction. Probably get called a pervert fairly frequently however if a woman was to do it, success rate would be unsurprisingly sky high.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

attraction for me comes in many different forms, on here personality is definitely up there on attraction.. if you can hold a conversation and are on the same wave length then its all good.. for me personally, looks, body wise arent everything.. yea it helps if they are easy on the eye but a nice smile, nice eyes, etc all works for me..

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By *tew1985 OP   Man
over a year ago

Near You

Of you think of the organic way of meeting people rather than online. Would most initial interactions be based on physical attraction? I mean your not going to look at someone you don't find attractive and marry then.lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me initial attraction is looks, nice eyes , cracking chin n jaw line.. for me falls under the umbrella of looks .. but takes much more to keep me interested if all someone has going for them is looks it gets boring pretty quickly , but there has to be an attraction there to begin with .. nothing better than looking at each other knowing you wanna rip each others clothes off .. but saying that it's all about the build up .. so someone random stopping to say they wanna fuck you wouldn't work for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't want to have sex with everyone else I find attractive tho.

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By *nferno sausageMan
over a year ago

Aberdeenshire


"How many times per day walking through a busy shop or a crowd do you look at someone and think their good looking? As a random thought if you let your feelings be known to all of them and it didn't matter if they were married or not, how much more sex would we get?

I know most days I see a few people in the passing who I like, who I'd never see again. Missed opertunity or just life?"

I'd say the only way we can know for sure is to perform some field training exercises and report the results back.

Good luck today field operative Stew! My money is one black eye, a kick in the nuts, possibly an ASBO and entry on the bad person's register. I do hope you get your hole, though, and I'm already looking forward to your findings.

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By *tew1985 OP   Man
over a year ago

Near You


"How many times per day walking through a busy shop or a crowd do you look at someone and think their good looking? As a random thought if you let your feelings be known to all of them and it didn't matter if they were married or not, how much more sex would we get?

I know most days I see a few people in the passing who I like, who I'd never see again. Missed opertunity or just life?

I'd say the only way we can know for sure is to perform some field training exercises and report the results back.

Good luck today field operative Stew! My money is one black eye, a kick in the nuts, possibly an ASBO and entry on the bad person's register. I do hope you get your hole, though, and I'm already looking forward to your findings. "

I didn't offer to try, I just voiced my thoughts. I'm far to shy to walk up to a stranger and ask to see their pink bits.lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Until very recently there’s not been anyone I’ve instantly been like wow they’re doing something to me, it’s pretty much been getting to know them and then becoming attracted to them. But like a good old slap on the face I’m quickly reminded why it’s better getting to know folk first

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By *he Regina PhalangeWoman
over a year ago

Lanarkshire

When I was a teenager I used to look at boys and go Wow! at every other guy that passed.

Nowadays it depends on my mood…or lack of sexual activity. On days when I’m gagging, I revert back to my teen self!

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