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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Why do so many men bitch about this site Most of the women I chat to are fine And you only get what you put in So guys stop it and just work harder lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm guessing it's because the single men outnumber the single females by at least 50 to 1 so the guys have to do all the chasing/mails etc whereas the females can sit back to pick and choose.

So possibly some guys are taking the time and effort to mail females with originality and making sure they stand out from the masses but still finding their messages deleted.

Have noticed though that the guys who seem to complain the most are the ones with cock pics as main pic or indeed no pics at all. I think it's fair to assume that the female of the species is really just as shallow as the male so the pics are indeed the main focus of a profile rather than the content itself....but maybe thats just my experience as I have hardly any written info on mine but get on just fine on here

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By *etLikeMan
over a year ago

most fundamental aspects

I would echo what dr deep had said. Sheer numbers and lack of pics.

However, I would not say the reason for those without photos being disregarded due to shallowness, more that it arouses suspicion if anyone doesn't have at least one pic.

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

From a female point of view, I do receive a lot of messages, most are of the Hi, How are you variety, now, how would you respond to that?

You look at the profile, and your lucky if there is a few words, again, how enticing is that? (or the dreaded, will fill this out later) GRRR

And then there are the messages, that have totally disregarded your profile text and the what/who/how your preferences are and would like to meet!

And I haven't even started about the No pics on show, or more often than not, god know's how many cock pics, but from different angles....

So guys, to be honest, look at what you are sending in the first instance, look at your own profile (would you contact you if you were female?) Just be honest with yourselves and stop these oh woo is me threads

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

really love your av foxy One of the best iv seen Stunning bum xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"From a female point of view, I do receive a lot of messages, most are of the Hi, How are you variety, now, how would you respond to that?

You look at the profile, and your lucky if there is a few words, again, how enticing is that? (or the dreaded, will fill this out later) GRRR

And then there are the messages, that have totally disregarded your profile text and the what/who/how your preferences are and would like to meet!

And I haven't even started about the No pics on show, or more often than not, god know's how many cock pics, but from different angles....

So guys, to be honest, look at what you are sending in the first instance, look at your own profile (would you contact you if you were female?) Just be honest with yourselves and stop these oh woo is me threads

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Cool, just a pity most that could do with taking a few mins to read your pointers and maybe improve on their messages, simply wont even click on here,, they will be too busy churning out the same old on message 86 tonight,,lol

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By *unybunyWoman
over a year ago

Living in a Scottish office somewhere

To the OP its a refreshing change to see a guy not whinge in the forums to you x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The guys that bitch are usually those that want a meet as soon as they've mailed or want to meet at unrealistic times or refuse to send pics via the site saying their privacy could be compromised but will send them to a mobile??? Sorry but I won't give my number out to just anyone. Yes I am shallow, I like to see who I'm chatting to and maybe eventually meeting, as there has to be an attraction.

The guys that have lots of success are the ones that are positive, friendly, don't expect to meet everyone they mail and read profiles. Those guys make the site a pleasure to be on, the whingers just make it depressing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The guys that bitch are usually those that want a meet as soon as they've mailed or want to meet at unrealistic times or refuse to send pics via the site saying their privacy could be compromised but will send them to a mobile??? Sorry but I won't give my number out to just anyone. Yes I am shallow, I like to see who I'm chatting to and maybe eventually meeting, as there has to be an attraction.

The guys that have lots of success are the ones that are positive, friendly, don't expect to meet everyone they mail and read profiles. Those guys make the site a pleasure to be on, the whingers just make it depressing. "

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