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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I was chatting with a guy on here and we swapped pics. We then decided to meet and he asked for my post code which I gave and told him to message me when he arrived to get my door number. 30 mins later I get his message. But instead of giving my door number I asked him to turn on his who near to verify he had travelled. Needless to say I never heard back from him lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe he thought you said turn on who is near and he started talking dirty to the wee old dear on her way back home from getting bread at Asda. Shel have no heard the kinda filth he might have been spouting since the mid 70s and would of snapped him up for hersel!

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By *assy LassieWoman
over a year ago

Lanarkshire


"Maybe he thought you said turn on who is near and he started talking dirty to the wee old dear on her way back home from getting bread at Asda. Shel have no heard the kinda filth he might have been spouting since the mid 70s and would of snapped him up for hersel!"

Fook sake I'm gonny start walking to asda for bread

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I was chatting with a guy on here and we swapped pics. We then decided to meet and he asked for my post code which I gave and told him to message me when he arrived to get my door number. 30 mins later I get his message. But instead of giving my door number I asked him to turn on his who near to verify he had travelled. Needless to say I never heard back from him lol"

Now that is a brilliant hack and is going in the armory!!!!!!

Kudos to you op.

Tony

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By *ot - CoupleCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow


"I was chatting with a guy on here and we swapped pics. We then decided to meet and he asked for my post code which I gave and told him to message me when he arrived to get my door number. 30 mins later I get his message. But instead of giving my door number I asked him to turn on his who near to verify he had travelled. Needless to say I never heard back from him lol"

Maybe he realised your straight or was it a social meet?

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By *ullie-kingMan
over a year ago

newmains


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Maybe he realised your straight or was it a social meet? "

100% genuinely fabstraight

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Maybe he thought you said turn on who is near and he started talking dirty to the wee old dear on her way back home from getting bread at Asda. Shel have no heard the kinda filth he might have been spouting since the mid 70s and would of snapped him up for hersel!

Fook sake I'm gonny start walking to asda for bread "

She hadn't seen a rise like that in the bakery aisle since they starting slicing bread

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Maybe he realised your straight or was it a social meet?

100% genuinely fabstraight"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I was chatting with a guy on here and we swapped pics. We then decided to meet and he asked for my post code which I gave and told him to message me when he arrived to get my door number. 30 mins later I get his message. But instead of giving my door number I asked him to turn on his who near to verify he had travelled. Needless to say I never heard back from him lol

Maybe he realised your straight or was it a social meet? "

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By *rgoodnbadMan
over a year ago

greenock


"I was chatting with a guy on here and we swapped pics. We then decided to meet and he asked for my post code which I gave and told him to message me when he arrived to get my door number. 30 mins later I get his message. But instead of giving my door number I asked him to turn on his who near to verify he had travelled. Needless to say I never heard back from him lol

Maybe he realised your straight or was it a social meet? "

Straight as a broken arrow

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I was chatting with a guy on here and we swapped pics. We then decided to meet and he asked for my post code which I gave and told him to message me when he arrived to get my door number. 30 mins later I get his message. But instead of giving my door number I asked him to turn on his who near to verify he had travelled. Needless to say I never heard back from him lol

Now that is a brilliant hack and is going in the armory!!!!!!

Kudos to you op.

Tony"

Another hack is, if you are the one that is going to someone’s house ask them to put a coffee mug on their front door step. That means you have no fears that you have been given a false address.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Maybe he thought you said turn on who is near and he started talking dirty to the wee old dear on her way back home from getting bread at Asda. Shel have no heard the kinda filth he might have been spouting since the mid 70s and would of snapped him up for hersel!"

Nope, I refuse to be tempted to make my usual bread based comment about crusty bloomers. Absolutely not. No way.

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By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago

Paisley

Not on Fab but it has happened to me that I’ve been given the runaround with addresses. Sent on a wild goose chase. I don’t see what anyone gets from it but it certainly pissed me off.

I do like the suggestions of the coffee cup on the step and the ‘who’s near’ function.

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By *nferno sausageMan
over a year ago

Aberdeenshire


"I was chatting with a guy on here and we swapped pics. We then decided to meet and he asked for my post code which I gave and told him to message me when he arrived to get my door number. 30 mins later I get his message. But instead of giving my door number I asked him to turn on his who near to verify he had travelled. Needless to say I never heard back from him lol

Now that is a brilliant hack and is going in the armory!!!!!!

Kudos to you op.

Tony

Another hack is, if you are the one that is going to someone’s house ask them to put a coffee mug on their front door step. That means you have no fears that you have been given a false address."

I do that! The last couple I arranged to meet left their coffee grinder on the doorstep instead, though, so I left immediately. Has beans!

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By *anny77Man
over a year ago

glasgow

I waste time all the time. Time is for wastin’

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Same I have been chatting with a female on fab, then moved 2 kik, gave her 3 chances and every1 is a no show

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By *nferno sausageMan
over a year ago

Aberdeenshire


"Same I have been chatting with a female on fab, then moved 2 kik, gave her 3 chances and every1 is a no show"

That's rubbish. Hopefully it'll be fourth time lucky! Try the coffee cup thingy!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Same I have been chatting with a female on fab, then moved 2 kik, gave her 3 chances and every1 is a no show"

I think she's trying to tell you something

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think there are a fair few time wasters all round tbh, I was chatting to 2 separate women last week both looking to meet that very night. Chatted away to both for ages, things going well, made it quite clear I was available to meet that night, both seemed happy to arrange details, then....... nothing

I think some people only use this as an ego boost

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Same I have been chatting with a female on fab, then moved 2 kik, gave her 3 chances and every1 is a no show"

Gutted for you but can’t believe you would give someone a second chance on here.

Should’ve blocked her straight away.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Same I have been chatting with a female on fab, then moved 2 kik, gave her 3 chances and every1 is a no show

That's rubbish. Hopefully it'll be fourth time lucky! Try the coffee cup thingy! "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think there are a fair few time wasters all round tbh, I was chatting to 2 separate women last week both looking to meet that very night. Chatted away to both for ages, things going well, made it quite clear I was available to meet that night, both seemed happy to arrange details, then....... nothing

I think some people only use this as an ego boost

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Are you sure they were actually women?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Same I have been chatting with a female on fab, then moved 2 kik, gave her 3 chances and every1 is a no show

I think she's trying to tell you something "

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By *ornycouple 777Couple
over a year ago

cumbernauld

We have been let down twice by wasters both we were in hotels one even asked to speak to Jane to make sure there was a female there and the other asked for a pic of the hotel room door number which we did and again no show so guys like these ruin it for the decent guys out there .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We have been let down twice by wasters both we were in hotels one even asked to speak to Jane to make sure there was a female there and the other asked for a pic of the hotel room door number which we did and again no show so guys like these ruin it for the decent guys out there ."

No they don't.

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By *eilh4Man
over a year ago

Aberdeenshire

There's the other side to this. I once set up a meet that involved travelling 20 miles. The host said to text when I arrived in the street and I would get the house number. I arrived, texted, and got back the house number.

Except that the number didn't exist.

I wandered up and down that street like a complete tube looking for a non-existent house. I can only assume that they were standing behind their curtains in a different house having a right laugh at the lost idiot.

Timewasting works both ways and is annoying for all of us.

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By *he-most-genuine-man-hereMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not on Fab but it has happened to me that I’ve been given the runaround with addresses. Sent on a wild goose chase. I don’t see what anyone gets from it but it certainly pissed me off.

I do like the suggestions of the coffee cup on the step and the ‘who’s near’ function. "

Or you can always just ask them to take a selfie next to the street name sign or a very nearby landmark/business. That works on multiple apps, not just fab

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is why I will never meet at someone’s house or hotel for a first meet! Defo one rule I won’t break x

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