FabSwingers.com forum: Cjs - beginners guide!

By *oldswarriorMan
over a year ago

Falkirk

From a single guys point of view-

1. Don't expect to attend and automatically get your hole.

It's a common misconception that once your in the door you will be banging away.

2. Be yourself. Like every other social interaction in life fake personas are easily picked up on by the female species.

3. Try and converse with females, couples and males. If you are speaking with a couple acknowledge them both in the conversation.

4. Don't be thirsty. Even if you don't get lucky, you want to be seen as "he's an alright bloke".

5. Most attendees of CJ's are on here. It brilliant when you can place a face to a profile.

Also helps outwith the clubs too.

6. There are several threads on fab which highlight the "do's and dont's when visiting a club for the first time. Don't take the above as gospel, it's just my opinion.

CJ's is brilliant and Caroline is a fantastic host.

Get yourself booked in and get along

By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago

Paisley

Get booked in as early as you can. It fills up quick for single guys as there’s limited numbers.

Be yourself and make an effort to chat to people. It usually helps to join in the forum post for the night you’re going so people get to know you.

Don’t get d*unk, although it’s fine to have a drink or two don’t overdo it.