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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi all,

I have been wondering for ages why I don't seem to be having an luck with women, I have had pics available on my profile and not just dick pics I am alway polite but never even get a message back not even a no thanks and I personally find it rude although probably not the woman's intention.

Can any women help me out to understand why

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"Hi all,

I have been wondering for ages why I don't seem to be having an luck with women, I have had pics available on my profile and not just dick pics I am alway polite but never even get a message back not even a no thanks and I personally find it rude although probably not the woman's intention.

Can any women help me out to understand why"
You have no pics on show & you won't send face pics .

You expect people to put a certain word in their messages why ?

There in nothing to entice people to your profile therfore it's like going shopping with no window display so why would you expect people to go any further !?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I did have pics on like I said face pics and all not updated profile since I made should change that part and usually when I send a message I do add a face pic

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe put some pics up.

No one is going to message you without them.

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"I did have pics on like I said face pics and all not updated profile since I made should change that part and usually when I send a message I do add a face pic"
Well I'd say delete your profile text and start again omitting the warning as it means nothing on here

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ok I'll do that thank you

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By *sm265Woman
over a year ago

Shangri-la

No profile pic/avatar. No public pics. Very little in the way of profile text & what is there doesn't really tell me anything.

I always look at a profile before I decide whether to even open a message.

Site rules state no reply isn't rude and should be taken as not interested

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By *oanne_MacTV/TS
over a year ago

Perth

You asked, so please dont take offence.

1, you say you have no face pics,but have pics in private. Maybe change that to "have private face pics available to share"

2, you been on over a year and no verification, the ladies would need convincing you are genuine.

3, the pointless dont steal my information warning is longer than your profile blurb.

4, youre listed as straight yet most of your friends list are men, the ladies will suspect you may be lying about your sexuality.

5, you cant accomodate, usually means you aint single.

Just an observation that you asked for

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By *ot - CoupleCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow

Your profile needs a remake.

Photos and not dick pics. Write a little about yourself,what your looking for etc.

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By *cottishMrsWoman
over a year ago

Wishaw

Nothing to entice me.

There's no public photos.

You only have three private photos.

Your profile tells me virtually nothing about you.

Can't accommodate.

Sydney University warning... makes me think you need to wisen up.

Without even reading one of your messages, that's just the things I can point out from your profile.

Unfortunately, women are outnumbered by the men, so you really have to make sure you find a way to stand out, and be relevant. If your profile looks like 75% on here, you're not telling me anything to make me want to know you.

Sorry if this sounds harsh x

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By *assy LassieWoman
over a year ago

Lanarkshire

Get rid of the Facebook warning. Did you copy n paste that into your profile. Did you read it first. I suspect not.

As said above profile says very little about you. What are you looking for. What can you offer. Females on here can generally have their pick of males. Look at your profile and ask yourself would I meet someone based on that info?

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By *imbobaMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

In addition to the above quality advice. You’re still a young un. (True I’m an old un). But that’s not in your favour here on the whole (not hole).

Small tip. Look out for male profiles that appear to be popular and do well. Emulate. (Don’t copy and paste.). Enjoy the site and the folk on it (ie some effort) and be genuine and honest.

Out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You asked, so please dont take offence.

1, you say you have no face pics,but have pics in private. Maybe change that to "have private face pics available to share"

2, you been on over a year and no verification, the ladies would need convincing you are genuine.

3, the pointless dont steal my information warning is longer than your profile blurb.

4, youre listed as straight yet most of your friends list are men, the ladies will suspect you may be lying about your sexuality.

5, you cant accomodate, usually means you aint single.

Just an observation that you asked for "

This is the one OP, these points are absolutely nailed on and should be taken onboard.

If you think about it buddy the profile page is basically all we have to give the first impression and currently yours is shite man but it’s super easy to adjust. I’d suggest getting shot of the privacy pish (point 3 in the above), inject a bit of personality, a little bit of humour or something you spot that’s missing from other guys profiles, it’s really easy. Just do not put things like ‘Me like to fuck’, it’s bad karma.

Set your friends list to private (point 4 above is nail on the head level stuff). I personally suspect your bi-curious purely from the friends list buddy, it will put people off. Not the being bi or the hint of possibly being bi, but the signs being present yet your sexuality is set as straight. As I said, the above quoted point is spot on here. Please take the advice

With the amount of guys on here it can be a bit daunting to grab the attention of the fems & couples, there are some stunning women, single and part of couples, on here but there are hundreds of guys in all shapes and sizes to try and stand out against. If you’re genuine in the profile, you will be noticed matey. Use the forums, chat rooms and 100% get to a local social!!

Make thine effort and thou shall be rewarded, for example, look at who has looked at & replied to you on here already (excluding moi ofcourse)

All the best buddy,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your lucky you only asked for the ladies to give you advice , I could of had a field day with ya.

Anyway, keep up the good work youngun.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would recommend going to socials as well as myself personally don't feel I can put my personality out there through text as the saying goes I am much better in person.

Through my many profiles on fab I have always got more messages when I join in with the chat on the forums so would recommend that.

Good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You asked, so please dont take offence.

1, you say you have no face pics,but have pics in private. Maybe change that to "have private face pics available to share"

2, you been on over a year and no verification, the ladies would need convincing you are genuine.

3, the pointless dont steal my information warning is longer than your profile blurb.

4, youre listed as straight yet most of your friends list are men, the ladies will suspect you may be lying about your sexuality.

5, you cant accomodate, usually means you aint single.

Just an observation that you asked for "

Spot on ma naan

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The can't accommodate reads as if u have a partner or live at home wae ur maw .. given ur age I think the later is highly plausible .. and no one wants to do the sneak dash out the hoose incase seen by the parents .. but the limited time for meets reads like ur fuckin about which is ur choice but if that's the case be upfront about it . And most folk work long hours so just comes across as an excuse for a pump and go meet so the misses doesnae catch oan .. I know it seems harsh but that's what I get from your profile.

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By *astlincscoupleCouple
over a year ago

Tinsel Town

Your 24, my eldest son is the same age so that's an instant no from me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Try not be tempted to upload pics of yer purple headed monster comparing it to the sky remote /lynx can...or over the chanty..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Try not be tempted to upload pics of yer purple headed monster comparing it to the sky remote /lynx can...or over the chanty.. "

You said you liked that picture

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Try not be tempted to upload pics of yer purple headed monster comparing it to the sky remote /lynx can...or over the chanty..

You said you liked that picture "
only cos you had an super sized lynx can

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Try not be tempted to upload pics of yer purple headed monster comparing it to the sky remote /lynx can...or over the chanty..

You said you liked that picture only cos you had an super sized lynx can "

It was a camera trick just got a good angle

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Try not be tempted to upload pics of yer purple headed monster comparing it to the sky remote /lynx can...or over the chanty..

You said you liked that picture only cos you had an super sized lynx can

It was a camera trick just got a good angle "

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By *ookie69Man
over a year ago

Whistle Dixie

Hi OP,

My advice is the same as Jimboba. Look at Male profiles who seem to do well on here. Entice with some imaginative pics. Express what you seek and what others would find interesting about you.Join in with Forum discussions and chat rooms and get along to some organised events.Throw some light hearted humour around and open you're personality.

Ignore the same age as my kids scenario, some will meet you some wont. Single guys who can't accommodate isn't generally a red flag as it would seem maybe you just like you're privacy like everyone else. You're reasons are you're own.

You will only get out of Fab what you put into it.

Be polite respectful and humorous.

Enjoy kid

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By *uriojohnMan
over a year ago

Nr St Andrews

Mate, us single guys are outnumbered. It’s just the way it is. I find that going to clubs is the best way of meeting people and having lots of fun. It’s soooo much simpler, wander round, chat to everyone and everything will fall into place.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi all,

I have been wondering for ages why I don't seem to be having an luck with women, I have had pics available on my profile and not just dick pics I am alway polite but never even get a message back not even a no thanks and I personally find it rude although probably not the woman's intention.

Can any women help me out to understand why"

Here's my advice for someone who's only had 64 meets in 3 years, it don't matter what you look like, write in your profile or have pics or not you still won't get a meet on here, you could be Brad Pitt and still struggle to get a reply from these ladies on this site, save your membership money get of here and go out to a bar or discotheque on a weekend night meet a girl who you can chat face to face with and take it from there, this place is finished..

On another note can every other guy do the same please and leave this site then I might get more pussy

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By *ookie69Man
over a year ago

Whistle Dixie


"Hi all,

I have been wondering for ages why I don't seem to be having an luck with women, I have had pics available on my profile and not just dick pics I am alway polite but never even get a message back not even a no thanks and I personally find it rude although probably not the woman's intention.

Can any women help me out to understand why

Here's my advice for someone who's only had 64 meets in 3 years, it don't matter what you look like, write in your profile or have pics or not you still won't get a meet on here, you could be Brad Pitt and still struggle to get a reply from these ladies on this site, save your membership money get of here and go out to a bar or discotheque on a weekend night meet a girl who you can chat face to face with and take it from there, this place is finished..

On another note can every other guy do the same please and leave this site then I might get more pussy "

I UNDERSTAND

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By *4Fun11Woman
over a year ago

Glasgow


"Mate, us single guys are outnumbered. It’s just the way it is. I find that going to clubs is the best way of meeting people and having lots of fun. It’s soooo much simpler, wander round, chat to everyone and everything will fall into place. "

Good advice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi all,

I have been wondering for ages why I don't seem to be having an luck with women, I have had pics available on my profile and not just dick pics I am alway polite but never even get a message back not even a no thanks and I personally find it rude although probably not the woman's intention.

Can any women help me out to understand why

Here's my advice for someone who's only had 64 meets in 3 years, it don't matter what you look like, write in your profile or have pics or not you still won't get a meet on here, you could be Brad Pitt and still struggle to get a reply from these ladies on this site, save your membership money get of here and go out to a bar or discotheque on a weekend night meet a girl who you can chat face to face with and take it from there, this place is finished..

On another note can every other guy do the same please and leave this site then I might get more pussy "

A guy who's had 64 meets in three years is doing just fine, in my opinion

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By *nferno sausageMan
over a year ago

Aberdeenshire


"Hi all,

I have been wondering for ages why I don't seem to be having an luck with women, I have had pics available on my profile and not just dick pics I am alway polite but never even get a message back not even a no thanks and I personally find it rude although probably not the woman's intention.

Can any women help me out to understand why

Here's my advice for someone who's only had 64 meets in 3 years, it don't matter what you look like, write in your profile or have pics or not you still won't get a meet on here, you could be Brad Pitt and still struggle to get a reply from these ladies on this site, save your membership money get of here and go out to a bar or discotheque on a weekend night meet a girl who you can chat face to face with and take it from there, this place is finished..

On another note can every other guy do the same please and leave this site then I might get more pussy

A guy who's had 64 meets in three years is doing just fine, in my opinion "

It was 64 meets in 4 years on his thread from 5 weeks ago; so obviously his first year, and the last 5 weeks have been a complete washout, and hence why he's trying to clear the decks.

Well, Lord of the cheeky wee monkeys; I, for one, am no falling for your dastardly, deceitful plan!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi all,

I have been wondering for ages why I don't seem to be having an luck with women, I have had pics available on my profile and not just dick pics I am alway polite but never even get a message back not even a no thanks and I personally find it rude although probably not the woman's intention.

Can any women help me out to understand why

Here's my advice for someone who's only had 64 meets in 3 years, it don't matter what you look like, write in your profile or have pics or not you still won't get a meet on here, you could be Brad Pitt and still struggle to get a reply from these ladies on this site, save your membership money get of here and go out to a bar or discotheque on a weekend night meet a girl who you can chat face to face with and take it from there, this place is finished..

On another note can every other guy do the same please and leave this site then I might get more pussy

A guy who's had 64 meets in three years is doing just fine, in my opinion

It was 64 meets in 4 years on his thread from 5 weeks ago; so obviously his first year, and the last 5 weeks have been a complete washout, and hence why he's trying to clear the decks.

Well, Lord of the cheeky wee monkeys; I, for one, am no falling for your dastardly, deceitful plan! "

Haha I have no plan. I'm not even meeting right now lol x

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By *ookie69Man
over a year ago

Whistle Dixie


"Hi all,

I have been wondering for ages why I don't seem to be having an luck with women, I have had pics available on my profile and not just dick pics I am alway polite but never even get a message back not even a no thanks and I personally find it rude although probably not the woman's intention.

Can any women help me out to understand why

Here's my advice for someone who's only had 64 meets in 3 years, it don't matter what you look like, write in your profile or have pics or not you still won't get a meet on here, you could be Brad Pitt and still struggle to get a reply from these ladies on this site, save your membership money get of here and go out to a bar or discotheque on a weekend night meet a girl who you can chat face to face with and take it from there, this place is finished..

On another note can every other guy do the same please and leave this site then I might get more pussy

A guy who's had 64 meets in three years is doing just fine, in my opinion

It was 64 meets in 4 years on his thread from 5 weeks ago; so obviously his first year, and the last 5 weeks have been a complete washout, and hence why he's trying to clear the decks.

Well, Lord of the cheeky wee monkeys; I, for one, am no falling for your dastardly, deceitful plan! "

64 meets in 3yrs and only 1 showed up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi all,

I have been wondering for ages why I don't seem to be having an luck with women, I have had pics available on my profile and not just dick pics I am alway polite but never even get a message back not even a no thanks and I personally find it rude although probably not the woman's intention.

Can any women help me out to understand why

Here's my advice for someone who's only had 64 meets in 3 years, it don't matter what you look like, write in your profile or have pics or not you still won't get a meet on here, you could be Brad Pitt and still struggle to get a reply from these ladies on this site, save your membership money get of here and go out to a bar or discotheque on a weekend night meet a girl who you can chat face to face with and take it from there, this place is finished..

On another note can every other guy do the same please and leave this site then I might get more pussy

A guy who's had 64 meets in three years is doing just fine, in my opinion "

Lol I was promised it would have been more katt..I'm so disheartened that's it isn't so

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi all,

I have been wondering for ages why I don't seem to be having an luck with women, I have had pics available on my profile and not just dick pics I am alway polite but never even get a message back not even a no thanks and I personally find it rude although probably not the woman's intention.

Can any women help me out to understand why

Here's my advice for someone who's only had 64 meets in 3 years, it don't matter what you look like, write in your profile or have pics or not you still won't get a meet on here, you could be Brad Pitt and still struggle to get a reply from these ladies on this site, save your membership money get of here and go out to a bar or discotheque on a weekend night meet a girl who you can chat face to face with and take it from there, this place is finished..

On another note can every other guy do the same please and leave this site then I might get more pussy

A guy who's had 64 meets in three years is doing just fine, in my opinion

It was 64 meets in 4 years on his thread from 5 weeks ago; so obviously his first year, and the last 5 weeks have been a complete washout, and hence why he's trying to clear the decks.

Well, Lord of the cheeky wee monkeys; I, for one, am no falling for your dastardly, deceitful plan! "
I've had quite a few profiles over the years on here.

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