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"Your on the wrong site" So do you feel there is little to no interest in taken guys? | |||
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"Absolute newbie on here but wanted to ask the wider platform what the general feeling is towards guys on here looking for some fun on the side? I find myself in this catgory and I'm full of mixed emotions to be honest... My missus is stunning and we have an OK sex life but I always find myself wanting to explore more kinky things and I just don't believe she would be into it... I'd say I'm an decent looking guy that can hold a conversation but wanted to know if this is enough for someone to want to start a conversation with and see where it leads? Or would I need to be plastering dick picks and talk about how good I would be in bed etc to get any sort of feedback.." Some will meet you some wont its as simple as that. What I will say is if you have mixed emotions then don't rush into meeting until you are 100% sure about . Take a step back and look at what your relationship is missing for you to have took a step here. You say you think she wouldn't be into it but have you actually asked her ? Anyway good luck   | |||
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"Your on the wrong site" That's your opinion. It's not our place to judge. I, personally, am married and we're swingers so we're fully aware of what the other gets up to. However, I've spoken to men who have a beautiful family and love their wife very much but their sex drives don't match up; or they feel obliged to stay with their wife through ill health, kids, finances. There are so many reasons why someone might stray and I don't feel it's up to us to judge. Only the person straying will be able to make their peace with it. If you're on a site like Fab and you're judging people for their personal circumstances, I personally think YOU'RE on the wrong site, but that's just my opinion xx | |||
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"Some will meet you some wont its as simple as that. What I will say is if you have mixed emotions then don't rush into meeting until you are 100% sure about . Take a step back and look at what your relationship is missing for you to have took a step here. You say you think she wouldn't be into it but have you actually asked her ? Anyway good luck "Yeah I'm in no rush really, kind of testing the water at the moment and seeing what the community is like, maybe start some conversations and take it slowly from there... Yeah lol its a funny one, I've not actually asked but I just have a feeling it would put pressure on the relationship, which is already rocky at times... I don't know perhaps a conversation is due... Anyway thanks for some genuine feedback, appreciate it  | |||
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"Your on the wrong site judgemental or what  "Pot kettle | |||
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"However, I've spoken to men who have a beautiful family and love their wife very much but their sex drives don't match up; or they feel obliged to stay with their wife through ill health, kids, finances." Yeah there's a few things on mind that have no doubt led me to somewhere like this... Appreciate your take on the subject - Very well put  | |||
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"Your on the wrong site That's your opinion. It's not our place to judge. I, personally, am married and we're swingers so we're fully aware of what the other gets up to. However, I've spoken to men who have a beautiful family and love their wife very much but their sex drives don't match up; or they feel obliged to stay with their wife through ill health, kids, finances. There are so many reasons why someone might stray and I don't feel it's up to us to judge. Only the person straying will be able to make their peace with it. If you're on a site like Fab and you're judging people for their personal circumstances, I personally think YOU'RE on the wrong site, but that's just my opinion xx" An opinion was requested and given | |||
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"Your on the wrong site So do you feel there is little to no interest in taken guys?" Our view is that swinging is about sharing and swapping not sneaky meets but others will have other views | |||
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"I've spoken to men who have a beautiful family and love their wife very much but their sex drives don't match up; or they feel obliged to stay with their wife through ill health, kids, finances. " ^^^^ this ^^^^
" Only the person straying will be able to make their peace with it." ^^^^ and this ^^^^
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"Yeah so it depends on who you ask, some are cool with it, some are not. We practice ethical non-monogamy and are of the opinion that no one should get hurt for the sake of an orgasm (unless they like that). Theres always a reason for everything, reasons can also be labelled as excuses. As someone who has been on both ends of being cheated on, it's just not worth it for anyone involved. I actively encourage you to have an open dialogue with your partner about how youre feeling about your sex life. Try and word it in a way that takes the pressure off of whats not being done, and tell her what you like instead. Tell her you want to try kink, tell her youve heard about swinging and you're interested. If you're married to someone, I'll make the crazy assumption that you both like each other. There's very few people I like enough to put up with for the rest of my life, but there are lots I'd have sex with. So just have a chat, worst comes to worst she says no. " Cheers appreciate the considerate reply, it's probably the most morally questionable thing I've ever considered having never cheated in the past so definitely not something I would rush into... I'll need to have a good think about it but great to see what others within the community feel about it! | |||
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"Your on the wrong site That's your opinion. It's not our place to judge. I, personally, am married and we're swingers so we're fully aware of what the other gets up to. However, I've spoken to men who have a beautiful family and love their wife very much but their sex drives don't match up; or they feel obliged to stay with their wife through ill health, kids, finances. There are so many reasons why someone might stray and I don't feel it's up to us to judge. Only the person straying will be able to make their peace with it. If you're on a site like Fab and you're judging people for their personal circumstances, I personally think YOU'RE on the wrong site, but that's just my opinion xx" This, I’d try broaching it with her though… there’s lots of ways you can do with some of the stuff that’s on TV these days. No one has a right to judge anyone till they have walked a mile in their moccasins but it’s all about choice. Good luck OP | |||
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"Your on the wrong site So do you feel there is little to no interest in taken guys? Our view is that swinging is about sharing and swapping not sneaky meets but others will have other views " Your views on swinging in sharing & swapping is very outdated things have evolved a long time ago. If the site owners wanted it to remain that way they wouldn't allow singles to join | |||
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"Some will be OK with meeting attached and some won't ,its really that simple tbh best advice is to be upfront and open about your situation therefore you are not trying to pull the wool over anyone's eyes to get your leg over "This | |||
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"Your on the wrong site So do you feel there is little to no interest in taken guys? Our view is that swinging is about sharing and swapping not sneaky meets but others will have other views " And you’re entitled to say so AND to feel that way, many do. As I said before it’s always about choice | |||
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"Your on the wrong site" I think you're comment is totally inappropriate too tell a New member that he is on the wrong site just because you have a different view and opinion too his.  | |||
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"Your on the wrong site" I think I'd better speak to my wife about this I'm sure I've seen her on here.lol | |||
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"Your on the wrong site I think I'd better speak to my wife about this I'm sure I've seen her on here.lol" Lol | |||
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"Absolute newbie on here but wanted to ask the wider platform what the general feeling is towards guys on here looking for some fun on the side? I find myself in this category and I'm full of mixed emotions to be honest... My missus is stunning and we have an OK sex life but I always find myself wanting to explore more kinky things and I just don't believe she would be into it... I'd say I'm an decent looking guy that can hold a conversation but wanted to know if this is enough for someone to want to start a conversation with and see where it leads? Or would I need to be plastering dick picks and talk about how good I would be in bed etc to get any sort of feedback.." Sounds like you need to have a conversation with your girl! You’re just guessing she’s not in to something. Honesty is the best policy | |||
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"I've been on your side , but to be on your side fully 1st think if you're Mrs is that hot if she was on here could you handle the attention 2nd have you tried to make your sex life better but ultimately the main question is if you are caught on here and can you live with it ( losing you're family and life you having) I can understand having loyalty to keep your relationship together and it's admirable and if kids are involved and you don't want to lose that, but you have needs try and try again with you're partner before cheating, nobody comes off cheating being the good one So think hard before as you don't want the mother of you kids knowing this is why you aren't home If you're in a relationship though and no kids if you're already here it's time it ended , hope this novel helped lol " Thank you mate, definitely given me a lot to mull over... Deep down I know I'm a good guy and to be honest don't even know if I could follow through with anything... | |||
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"I was on here as a taken guy a few years ago and I did get some meets. As others have said don't rush in and think about what you may lose if your caught as am now on here as a non attach man as I did "Cheers mate, yeah it's a pretty big decision and one that certainly doesn't come easily to make... Thanks though, appreciate the input! | |||
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"I've been on your side , but to be on your side fully 1st think if you're Mrs is that hot if she was on here could you handle the attention 2nd have you tried to make your sex life better but ultimately the main question is if you are caught on here and can you live with it ( losing you're family and life you having) I can understand having loyalty to keep your relationship together and it's admirable and if kids are involved and you don't want to lose that, but you have needs try and try again with you're partner before cheating, nobody comes off cheating being the good one So think hard before as you don't want the mother of you kids knowing this is why you aren't home If you're in a relationship though and no kids if you're already here it's time it ended , hope this novel helped lol " Good advice, hope it all helps OP | |||
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"Your on the wrong site That's your opinion. It's not our place to judge. I, personally, am married and we're swingers so we're fully aware of what the other gets up to. However, I've spoken to men who have a beautiful family and love their wife very much but their sex drives don't match up; or they feel obliged to stay with their wife through ill health, kids, finances. There are so many reasons why someone might stray and I don't feel it's up to us to judge. Only the person straying will be able to make their peace with it. If you're on a site like Fab and you're judging people for their personal circumstances, I personally think YOU'RE on the wrong site, but that's just my opinion xx" | |||
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"Your on the wrong site So do you feel there is little to no interest in taken guys?" Very little interest to be honest there a lot more other guys to choose from who aren't trying to have thier cake and eat it. If your other half was to join though pretty much no one would have an issue with meeting her. Sad but very true. Alot of couples like us won't meet single guys that can't accommodate as thats usually a red flag. | |||
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"I'm not judging here at all, Infact there was a time when attached men were actually my preference. However I do wonder why men don't ask their partners if they would be up for exploring more but instead create a profile here and seek someone else. For a lot of the more adventurous stuff many people want someone they trust and feel safe with, not someone just squeezing in a quickie when their wives at work.. Also if your long term partner isn't up for doing these things, why should I be? Blunt but is now my feeling towards these things. It sadly seeems people sign up here and see you more as some commodity to help them tick a box rather than someone in your own right. Of course that's a sweeping statement and won't apply to all.. " It is however, a very valid viewpoint too | |||
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"I'm not judging here at all, Infact there was a time when attached men were actually my preference. However I do wonder why men don't ask their partners if they would be up for exploring more but instead create a profile here and seek someone else. For a lot of the more adventurous stuff many people want someone they trust and feel safe with, not someone just squeezing in a quickie when their wives at work.. Also if your long term partner isn't up for doing these things, why should I be? Blunt but is now my feeling towards these things. It sadly seeems people sign up here and see you more as some commodity to help them tick a box rather than someone in your own right. Of course that's a sweeping statement and won't apply to all.. " I’m with you on this, Sinders | |||
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" It sadly seeems people sign up here and see you more as some commodity to help them tick a box rather than someone in your own right. Of course that's a sweeping statement and won't apply to all.. " Not sure what you signed up for Cinders, but I'm sure you never signed up for someone else. So you signed up to tick a few boxes of your own, perhaps different boxes than the OP's but still. Everyone on here sees others as a commodity in my opinion. Whether that commodity is a sexual partner or just a friendly person to chat to everyone on Fab could get the same thing outwith Fab.  | |||
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" It sadly seeems people sign up here and see you more as some commodity to help them tick a box rather than someone in your own right. Of course that's a sweeping statement and won't apply to all.. Not sure what you signed up for Cinders, but I'm sure you never signed up for someone else. So you signed up to tick a few boxes of your own, perhaps different boxes than the OP's but still. Everyone on here sees others as a commodity in my opinion. Whether that commodity is a sexual partner or just a friendly person to chat to everyone on Fab could get the same thing outwith Fab. "Absolutely bang on. | |||
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" It sadly seeems people sign up here and see you more as some commodity to help them tick a box rather than someone in your own right. Of course that's a sweeping statement and won't apply to all.. Not sure what you signed up for Cinders, but I'm sure you never signed up for someone else. So you signed up to tick a few boxes of your own, perhaps different boxes than the OP's but still. Everyone on here sees others as a commodity in my opinion. Whether that commodity is a sexual partner or just a friendly person to chat to everyone on Fab could get the same thing outwith Fab. "Actually if you read my profile you'd know that I actually am seeking someone else! | |||
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"One other thing to point out is that lack of sexual desire often comes from sex they are having not being the kind of sex they want.. You don't desire something if you don't enjoy it. So when people (men usually) start off their "I'm nice but our sex drives just don't match up" chat, this isn't a great endorsement. Maybe, she just doesn't desire what's being offered and maybe she doesn't know how to talk about it. Maybe that means both people in that relationship are actually in the same position but neither wants to bring it up. Just communicating could actually be the answer... " You’re a wise lady. Communication is always the key, more important is to listen. As the old adage goes “You have two ears and one mouth for a reason, you should listen twice as much as you speak”
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"No clue why you even asked this question on here to be honest? You were always gonna get the for and against. My personal opinion is be truthful on your profile what your doing and what your looking for and then others can decided to meet you or not. Loads of hypocritical folk on this site saying 1 thing and doing the complete opposite. Be truthful what your situation is and hope you find what your looking for." Aype | |||
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" It sadly seeems people sign up here and see you more as some commodity to help them tick a box rather than someone in your own right. Of course that's a sweeping statement and won't apply to all.. Not sure what you signed up for Cinders, but I'm sure you never signed up for someone else. So you signed up to tick a few boxes of your own, perhaps different boxes than the OP's but still. Everyone on here sees others as a commodity in my opinion. Whether that commodity is a sexual partner or just a friendly person to chat to everyone on Fab could get the same thing outwith Fab.
Actually if you read my profile you'd know that I actually am seeking someone else! "I could quote a lot of your profile comments but that's not what the thread is about, you give many reasons why your here and why you stay, your profile confirms what I said, we all have reasons to be on Fab . You also use your profile to promote your writings. So in essence you use the Fab members as an audience or entertainment when your bored as per your profile bio. Listen , I'm not trying to have a pop, my point is , we all use Fab how we choose and to our own gains. | |||
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"My opinion is that it should not matter what other folk think, it’s your decision and your decision alone. Some will choose to meet you, some will not. Do what you want to do and care less what others think. Good Luck x" Love this woman..just oozes it x | |||
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"I dont meet anyone with gf or partner wife . Thats my choice. But i wont make you feel any worse for being here. Just i prefer single folks like myself . Each to their own tho. But im in agreement with others here i would take that step and have the conversation or watch a movie or tv program about swinging maybe take from there. You never know your luck . She might just fancy trying it. What ever you do . Good luck . " Fancy watching Jungle Book Soodles? Because I'm tired of Monkeying around x | |||
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"Your on the wrong site So do you feel there is little to no interest in taken guys? Very little interest to be honest there a lot more other guys to choose from who aren't trying to have thier cake and eat it. If your other half was to join though pretty much no one would have an issue with meeting her. Sad but very true. Alot of couples like us won't meet single guys that can't accommodate as thats usually a red flag." nope afraid your wrong not all would meet regardless of gender I will give you that males receive alot more flak for this behaviour though | |||
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"I'd say you know the answer yourself and are looking for plausibility through others answers" Genuinely just wanted to gauge what the majority thought about it... Certainly got a lot more traction than I initially expected though lol Cheers for anyone who put in their 2 cents
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"I'd say you know the answer yourself and are looking for plausibility through others answers Genuinely just wanted to gauge what the majority thought about it... Certainly got a lot more traction than I initially expected though lol Cheers for anyone who put in their 2 cents
Happy fabbing "it really shouldn't matter what others think majority or minority its what you believe that counts. These posts always gain traction so I will give you the answer you probably need..... If you decide to cheat leave this site rejoin under a different profile name and claim to be single believe me that's what most in relationships do. Harsh but true if your going to do it might as well have as many avenues open as possible | |||
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"I'm not judging here at all, Infact there was a time when attached men were actually my preference. However I do wonder why men don't ask their partners if they would be up for exploring more but instead create a profile here and seek someone else. For a lot of the more adventurous stuff many people want someone they trust and feel safe with, not someone just squeezing in a quickie when their wives at work.. Also if your long term partner isn't up for doing these things, why should I be? Blunt but is now my feeling towards these things. It sadly seeems people sign up here and see you more as some commodity to help them tick a box rather than someone in your own right. Of course that's a sweeping statement and won't apply to all.. " Just being Devils Advocate here, since you yourself said it was a sweeping statement. I'm happy to be a commodity and help tick a box. Anything much more than that requires a lot more, of myself, than I'm willing to give. And, let's be honest, there are men on here who enjoy the thrill of playing away. There's not always a clean cut reason. Sometimes the sex is amazing, the wife is perfect, the family is wonderful and all is right in the world; but there's something carnal they want to fulfil. I mean, let's be fair, that's pretty much why my hubby and I are here lol. We're happy, have a great home life, wonderful kids, great sex life; but there's something kinda carnal and lustful about fucking someone else who isn't yours to fuck. Sounds pretty shady, and might make me sound like a weirdo, but not everyone strays because they're not being fulfilled. Sometimes it's about pride and ego, a confidence boost, and sometimes they respect their wife too much to call her a "filthy fucking slut" while face fucking her! Lmao!!! | |||
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"I'm not judging here at all, Infact there was a time when attached men were actually my preference. However I do wonder why men don't ask their partners if they would be up for exploring more but instead create a profile here and seek someone else. For a lot of the more adventurous stuff many people want someone they trust and feel safe with, not someone just squeezing in a quickie when their wives at work.. Also if your long term partner isn't up for doing these things, why should I be? Blunt but is now my feeling towards these things. It sadly seeems people sign up here and see you more as some commodity to help them tick a box rather than someone in your own right. Of course that's a sweeping statement and won't apply to all.. Just being Devils Advocate here, since you yourself said it was a sweeping statement. I'm happy to be a commodity and help tick a box. Anything much more than that requires a lot more, of myself, than I'm willing to give. And, let's be honest, there are men on here who enjoy the thrill of playing away. There's not always a clean cut reason. Sometimes the sex is amazing, the wife is perfect, the family is wonderful and all is right in the world; but there's something carnal they want to fulfil. I mean, let's be fair, that's pretty much why my hubby and I are here lol. We're happy, have a great home life, wonderful kids, great sex life; but there's something kinda carnal and lustful about fucking someone else who isn't yours to fuck. Sounds pretty shady, and might make me sound like a weirdo, but not everyone strays because they're not being fulfilled. Sometimes it's about pride and ego, a confidence boost, and sometimes they respect their wife too much to call her a "filthy fucking slut" while face fucking her! Lmao!!!" Lol there’s definitely fifty shades of opinions, this as valid as any! Love it | |||
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"I'm not judging here at all, Infact there was a time when attached men were actually my preference. However I do wonder why men don't ask their partners if they would be up for exploring more but instead create a profile here and seek someone else. For a lot of the more adventurous stuff many people want someone they trust and feel safe with, not someone just squeezing in a quickie when their wives at work.. Also if your long term partner isn't up for doing these things, why should I be? Blunt but is now my feeling towards these things. It sadly seeems people sign up here and see you more as some commodity to help them tick a box rather than someone in your own right. Of course that's a sweeping statement and won't apply to all.. Just being Devils Advocate here, since you yourself said it was a sweeping statement. I'm happy to be a commodity and help tick a box. Anything much more than that requires a lot more, of myself, than I'm willing to give. And, let's be honest, there are men on here who enjoy the thrill of playing away. There's not always a clean cut reason. Sometimes the sex is amazing, the wife is perfect, the family is wonderful and all is right in the world; but there's something carnal they want to fulfil. I mean, let's be fair, that's pretty much why my hubby and I are here lol. We're happy, have a great home life, wonderful kids, great sex life; but there's something kinda carnal and lustful about fucking someone else who isn't yours to fuck. Sounds pretty shady, and might make me sound like a weirdo, but not everyone strays because they're not being fulfilled. Sometimes it's about pride and ego, a confidence boost, and sometimes they respect their wife too much to call her a "filthy fucking slut" while face fucking her! Lmao!!!" Made me pmsl but all good points. | |||
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"Scottish mrs sums it up very well.. Too many are happy to always point the big oh he's a cheater stick at guys on here but more than happy to get the elusive unicorn fem whether she's single or married it would not cross their minds. Back to my hypocrisy comment." | |||
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"Absolute newbie on here but wanted to ask the wider platform what the general feeling is towards guys on here looking for some fun on the side? I find myself in this category and I'm full of mixed emotions to be honest... My missus is stunning and we have an OK sex life but I always find myself wanting to explore more kinky things and I just don't believe she would be into it... I'd say I'm an decent looking guy that can hold a conversation but wanted to know if this is enough for someone to want to start a conversation with and see where it leads? Or would I need to be plastering dick picks and talk about how good I would be in bed etc to get any sort of feedback.." Oooft you’re opening a can of worms lol Personally it doesn’t affect me if I don’t know you or your missus, if it did and we knew each other I would say I didn’t approve and leave it at that, whilst I may not agree with cheating I respect folk and their individual reasons for being on here, I won’t knowingly meet someone who’s attached but neither do I judge them! I mean ffs I’ve been on here in the past meeting random guys for sex that’s hardly the “norm”, others would go out their way to out your on social media and try and wreck your life, your marriage, perhaps destroy a few families along the way unless of course you shagged them first and then they would plead ignorance but god forbid !! Personally it’s none of my business and no one truly knows what goes on behind closed doors, plenty of opinions on here they’re like arseholes as the saying goes everyone has them but not everyone wants them shoved in their face, so many hypocrites on here but hey ho let’s go to chapel on Sunday say a few Hail Marys and all is forgiven, folk like to preach on here but hey aren’t we all sinners on here in the eyes of snowflakes and vanillas !! Meh I could go on hahaha but as you will also find out there are lots of people who prefer to meet with attached men and women, why because they’re often less needy, way more discrete and the thrill of being naughty and doing someone you really shouldn’t of course !! | |||
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"Your on the wrong site That's your opinion. It's not our place to judge. I, personally, am married and we're swingers so we're fully aware of what the other gets up to. However, I've spoken to men who have a beautiful family and love their wife very much but their sex drives don't match up; or they feel obliged to stay with their wife through ill health, kids, finances. There are so many reasons why someone might stray and I don't feel it's up to us to judge. Only the person straying will be able to make their peace with it. If you're on a site like Fab and you're judging people for their personal circumstances, I personally think YOU'RE on the wrong site, but that's just my opinion xx" Brilliant post | |||
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"I dont meet anyone with gf or partner wife . Thats my choice. But i wont make you feel any worse for being here. Just i prefer single folks like myself . Each to their own tho. But im in agreement with others here i would take that step and have the conversation or watch a movie or tv program about swinging maybe take from there. You never know your luck . She might just fancy trying it. What ever you do . Good luck . Fancy watching Jungle Book Soodles? Because I'm tired of Monkeying around x "Aww moan ... get comfy in ya pjs we cozy up n snuggle in ma nooooodles  | |||
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"Oooft you’re opening a can of worms lol others would go out their way to out you on social media and try and wreck your life, your marriage, perhaps destroy a few families along the way unless of course you shagged them first and then they would plead ignorance but god forbid !! " ^^^^^^this^^^^^^ Speaking from personal experience. Just watch out for the ones with the fuck off ugly shoes. | |||
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"I prefer men to be single as I like to go out and about in public with then. Married men shy away from clubs and parties and prefer to be locked in a room for only sex." Im married and I'm happy to go out in public for meal and drinks. But then my wife and I have a very open relationship. | |||
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"I prefer men to be single as I like to go out and about in public with then. Married men shy away from clubs and parties and prefer to be locked in a room for only sex. Im married and I'm happy to go out in public for meal and drinks. But then my wife and I have a very open relationship." I should also say she does the same. Although not due to covid | |||
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"I dont meet anyone with gf or partner wife . Thats my choice. But i wont make you feel any worse for being here. Just i prefer single folks like myself . Each to their own tho. But im in agreement with others here i would take that step and have the conversation or watch a movie or tv program about swinging maybe take from there. You never know your luck . She might just fancy trying it. What ever you do . Good luck . Fancy watching Jungle Book Soodles? Because I'm tired of Monkeying around x
Aww moan ... get comfy in ya pjs we cozy up n snuggle in ma nooooodles "You'll just shag me, I know whit you're like. Ye can't just sit respectfully and hold hands x | |||
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"I dont meet anyone with gf or partner wife . Thats my choice. But i wont make you feel any worse for being here. Just i prefer single folks like myself . Each to their own tho. But im in agreement with others here i would take that step and have the conversation or watch a movie or tv program about swinging maybe take from there. You never know your luck . She might just fancy trying it. What ever you do . Good luck . Fancy watching Jungle Book Soodles? Because I'm tired of Monkeying around x
Aww moan ... get comfy in ya pjs we cozy up n snuggle in ma nooooodles
You'll just shag me, I know whit you're like. Ye can't just sit respectfully and hold hands x "That’s just your wishful thinking | |||
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"I dont meet anyone with gf or partner wife . Thats my choice. But i wont make you feel any worse for being here. Just i prefer single folks like myself . Each to their own tho. But im in agreement with others here i would take that step and have the conversation or watch a movie or tv program about swinging maybe take from there. You never know your luck . She might just fancy trying it. What ever you do . Good luck . Fancy watching Jungle Book Soodles? Because I'm tired of Monkeying around x
Aww moan ... get comfy in ya pjs we cozy up n snuggle in ma nooooodles
You'll just shag me, I know whit you're like. Ye can't just sit respectfully and hold hands x
That’s just your wishful thinking "You like Jungle Book too. Grab a seat. | |||
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"I dont meet anyone with gf or partner wife . Thats my choice. But i wont make you feel any worse for being here. Just i prefer single folks like myself . Each to their own tho. But im in agreement with others here i would take that step and have the conversation or watch a movie or tv program about swinging maybe take from there. You never know your luck . She might just fancy trying it. What ever you do . Good luck . Fancy watching Jungle Book Soodles? Because I'm tired of Monkeying around x
Aww moan ... get comfy in ya pjs we cozy up n snuggle in ma nooooodles
You'll just shag me, I know whit you're like. Ye can't just sit respectfully and hold hands x
That’s just your wishful thinking
You like Jungle Book too. Grab a seat. "I love the original movie was one of my favourites as a kid actually have it on dvd somewhere I hope it’s a cosy sofa I’m better snuggled up otherwise I dont sit at peace lol | |||
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