FabSwingers.com forum: why is it so hard to meet people

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hi why Isit so hard to meet people on here I get loads of messages from guys but I love licking pussy

I'd love to join couples for fun or two woman mmmmmmm

or single fems i know I'm always hopeless with first messages especially on dating sites lol its always hi how are you lol can anyone help me lol tips and advice all welcome please been on here for nearly 2months and not had a decent meet

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Oh forgot to add lol that apparently my pics don't do me justice lol

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By *uitar_antiheroMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

It's ok folks, I got this one!

Right well your profile is a bit short & some might say boastful. You might say honest, but gotta look at it from an outside perspective.

Different pics would help too.

Also, plenty of women and couples just simply don't want bi guys so you have to realise you won't be to all their liking.

With your messages, read their profile and comment on what you read, maybe shared interests, compliment them etc. But above all just be yourself, don't write what you think people want to hear.

And also it can sometimes take a good long while to get meets, especially for a single guy.

Join in the forums more, get to a social etc etc. Signing up here does not give an automatic right to meets, don't try to force the issue. If someone says "no" don't barrage them with "why not?" Etc

Woe is me forum posts don't help your cause either I'm afraid. Just sayin' dude

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Erm, Fab is not a dating site. Perhaps the messages from guys happen because you have Bi curious on your profile..if you are only seeking females, maybe, just maybe you have to change your sexual orientation. Hope my tuppenceworth helps...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi why Isit so hard to meet people on here I get loads of messages from guys but I love licking pussy

I'd love to join couples for fun or two woman mmmmmmm

cock pic, generic message sending & having a verification from a play meet from a man but having straight on your profile won't be helping you any in many people's books.

also this isn't a dating website!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"It's ok folks, I got this one!

Right well your profile is a bit short & some might say boastful. You might say honest, but gotta look at it from an outside perspective.

Different pics would help too.

Also, plenty of women and couples just simply don't want bi guys so you have to realise you won't be to all their liking.

With your messages, read their profile and comment on what you read, maybe shared interests, compliment them etc. But above all just be yourself, don't write what you think people want to hear.

And also it can sometimes take a good long while to get meets, especially for a single guy.

Join in the forums more, get to a social etc etc. Signing up here does not give an automatic right to meets, don't try to force the issue. If someone says "no" don't barrage them with "why not?" Etc

Woe is me forum posts don't help your cause either I'm afraid. Just sayin' dude

hi thanks I'm hopeless with things like this lol il work on my profile aswell thanks I'm actually goin to the Xmas social nite really looking forward to it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

erm its not difficult at all to meet people. show interest andgo along to one of the many organised socials and introduce yourself to folks. im sure if you make the effort to do this you will reap rewards.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

oh, you must have recently changed to straight. ignore me...

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Erm, Fab is not a dating site. Perhaps the messages from guys happen because you have Bi curious on your profile..if you are only seeking females, maybe, just maybe you have to change your sexual orientation. Hope my tuppenceworth helps..."
hi thanks iv changed that lol no I know its not a dating site lol I was jst using that as an example even though I'm on one of them aswell lol but thank you x

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By *uitar_antiheroMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

"Hi why Isit so hard to meet people on here I get loads of messages from guys but I love licking pussy

I'd love to join couples for fun or two woman mmmmmmm

cock pic, generic message sending & having a verification from a play meet from a man but having straight on your profile won't be helping you any in many people's books.

also this isn't a dating website!"

So where are we on that candlelit dinner date?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi why Isit so hard to meet people on here I get loads of messages from guys but I love licking pussy

I'd love to join couples for fun or two woman mmmmmmm

cock pic, generic message sending & having a verification from a play meet from a man but having straight on your profile won't be helping you any in many people's books.

also this isn't a dating website!

So where are we on that candlelit dinner date?

I've told you before, you holding a lighter and me sucking your cock does not = a candlelit dinner!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Hi why Isit so hard to meet people on here I get loads of messages from guys but I love licking pussy

I'd love to join couples for fun or two woman mmmmmmm

cock pic, generic message sending & having a verification from a play meet from a man but having straight on your profile won't be helping you any in many people's books.

also this isn't a dating website!

So where are we on that candlelit dinner date?

I've told you before, you holding a lighter and me sucking your cock does not = a candlelit dinner!"
Lmao

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By *uitar_antiheroMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

"Hi why Isit so hard to meet people on here I get loads of messages from guys but I love licking pussy

I'd love to join couples for fun or two woman mmmmmmm

cock pic, generic message sending & having a verification from a play meet from a man but having straight on your profile won't be helping you any in many people's books.

also this isn't a dating website!

So where are we on that candlelit dinner date?

I've told you before, you holding a lighter and me sucking your cock does not = a candlelit dinner!"

Not even if I include a scented candle instead?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi why Isit so hard to meet people on here I get loads of messages from guys but I love licking pussy

I'd love to join couples for fun or two woman mmmmmmm

cock pic, generic message sending & having a verification from a play meet from a man but having straight on your profile won't be helping you any in many people's books.

also this isn't a dating website!

So where are we on that candlelit dinner date?

I've told you before, you holding a lighter and me sucking your cock does not = a candlelit dinner!

Not even if I include a scented candle instead? "

What does the candle smell of? (I may regret asking this)

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Hi why Isit so hard to meet people on here I get loads of messages from guys but I love licking pussy

I'd love to join couples for fun or two woman mmmmmmm

cock pic, generic message sending & having a verification from a play meet from a man but having straight on your profile won't be helping you any in many people's books.

also this isn't a dating website!

So where are we on that candlelit dinner date?

I've told you before, you holding a lighter and me sucking your cock does not = a candlelit dinner!

Not even if I include a scented candle instead? "
why don't you get the one that lasts for 90hrs lol I'm gony regret putting dating site on this post lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'll add something, if you don't mind. You cannot accommodate, why not? To many on here it will suggest you are married/attached and playing away. If that's not the case, say so in your profile.

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By *uitar_antiheroMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

"Hi why Isit so hard to meet people on here I get loads of messages from guys but I love licking pussy

I'd love to join couples for fun or two woman mmmmmmm

cock pic, generic message sending & having a verification from a play meet from a man but having straight on your profile won't be helping you any in many people's books.

also this isn't a dating website!

So where are we on that candlelit dinner date?

I've told you before, you holding a lighter and me sucking your cock does not = a candlelit dinner!

Not even if I include a scented candle instead?

What does the candle smell of? (I may regret asking this)"

Feck knows....apples in the ochard on a summers day mixed with gentle hints of lavendar in a nearby garden

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your pics dont Do you. Justice??

Does your face look like a knob??

Or those pics are your knob..so your knob looks better than in the pics???

Ehe...what...

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I'll add something, if you don't mind. You cannot accommodate, why not? To many on here it will suggest you are married/attached and playing away. If that's not the case, say so in your profile. "
hiya thanks iv actually just changed that lol jst means il need to keep my house extra tidy lol unless anyone is offering to do that for me lol only joking x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Your pics dont Do you. Justice??

Does your face look like a knob??

Or those pics are your knob..so your knob looks better than in the pics???

Ehe...what...

"
. Psml both lol no iv got face pic in my private bit lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi why Isit so hard to meet people on here I get loads of messages from guys but I love licking pussy

I'd love to join couples for fun or two woman mmmmmmm

cock pic, generic message sending & having a verification from a play meet from a man but having straight on your profile won't be helping you any in many people's books.

also this isn't a dating website!

So where are we on that candlelit dinner date?

I've told you before, you holding a lighter and me sucking your cock does not = a candlelit dinner!

Not even if I include a scented candle instead?

What does the candle smell of? (I may regret asking this)

Feck knows....apples in the ochard on a summers day mixed with gentle hints of lavendar in a nearby garden "

I want a candle that smells of Starburst! Or Opal Fruits, for those who are that way inclined...

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By *uitar_antiheroMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

I can but you a drink that tastes like them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I can but you a drink that tastes like them

You can butt me a drink?! No thank you sir! I prefer to ingest my liquids via the more traditional methods.

(I'll probably regret saying this too)

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By *uitar_antiheroMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

"I can but you a drink that tastes like them

You can butt me a drink?! No thank you sir! I prefer to ingest my liquids via the more traditional methods.

(I'll probably regret saying this too)"

Buy, buy, meant buy dangnabbit!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sure thing, deviant!

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By *issyForDommeTV/TS
over a year ago

glasgow

Try cutting down on your use of 'lol' as well, it gets pretty tiresome to read every ten words LOL

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i have found messages get ignored prety much but started sitting in chat on cam amazed at the results but not that amazing yet lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"i have found messages get ignored prety much but started sitting in chat on cam amazed at the results but not that amazing yet lol

I used to reply to every message I got, as I felt it was only polite, but eventually stopped that when it became obvious guys were simply not reading my profile. Why message someone when you're clearly not what that person is looking for (not you specifically Dave, just people in general) its pointless and very frustrating.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've been the wrong age, wrong height and wrong location according to the ladies profile, still met, still had a fantastic time.

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