FabSwingers.com forum: Timewasters

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

How can we persuade admin to rid the site of these

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By *nferno sausageMan
over a year ago

Aberdeenshire

We can't.

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By *astlincscoupleCouple
over a year ago

Tinsel Town

What do you class as a time waster?

If your having your time wasted then maybe try changing your approach.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Having been on and off fab for a few years I find this very interesting. What is a time waster?because the person chats?doesn’t send the pics you demand?what sums up a time waster too you?for me, the only thing I would claim a time waster is if they don’t show to an arranged meet without due notice.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We're all just wasting time til our boat comes in

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By *sm265Woman
over a year ago

Shangri-la

The only thing that I'd say really wastes my time on here is dealing with the messages from people who haven't been prepared to waste their time bothering to read my profile.

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By *moothpussyMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

"The only thing that I'd say really wastes my time on here is dealing with the messages from people who haven't been prepared to waste their time bothering to read my profile. "
this

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

A time waster for me

More than reasonable distance away

Say can accommodate but for some obscure reason can't

Ghosts after committing to meet

Not an exhaustive list but cover the main points

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How can we persuade admin to rid the site of these "

I'm genuinely curious as to what admin can do?

Site is provided for use as and how an individual sees fit. Just not sure how easy it'd be to eradicate 'timewasters' especially as there are so many interpretations of what makes one.

Difficult one to police I'd think.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Three strikes and your out would be worth a try

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By *he Regina PhalangeWoman
over a year ago

Lanarkshire

"A time waster for me

More than reasonable distance away

Say can accommodate but for some obscure reason can't

Ghosts after committing to meet

Not an exhaustive list but cover the main points"

Surely it is your responsibility to ensure anyone you meet it within a reasonable distance.

As for the other two points raised….just no! People have the right to change their mind. They dont have to give you reasons, even though it would be the polite thing to do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We can't. "

Quite simply this! One persons time waster is another persons dream meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How can we persuade admin to rid the site of these "

If we knew how, this would make this site so much better x

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By *nferno sausageMan
over a year ago

Aberdeenshire

"We can't.

Quite simply this! One persons time waster is another persons dream meet

The op is a time waster, as am I; I've spent a good five minutes of my life on his thread.

Can you report yourself as a time waster?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We can't.

Quite simply this! One persons time waster is another persons dream meet

The op is a time waster, as am I; I've spent a good five minutes of my life on his thread.

Can you report yourself as a time waster? "

Do you mean me or you…

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By *nferno sausageMan
over a year ago

Aberdeenshire

"We can't.

Quite simply this! One persons time waster is another persons dream meet

The op is a time waster, as am I; I've spent a good five minutes of my life on his thread.

Can you report yourself as a time waster?

Do you mean me or you…

I've wasted lots of my own time today. I want to report myself for that, but I'm not sure I can. I'd ask you to, but that would likely waste your time, too. I think it's unmanageable.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have two friends that use the site and we were chatting about it on Tuesday when they both found they had been blocked by the same couple after sending their face pics when they were requested. One of the lads knows another on here that had the same experience too.

So I emailed them to see what would happen, they were abrupt and wanting various photos with nothing in return. They then wanted me to confirm to a neet, which is madness without a face photo imo, and 30 mins before the meet they finally sent the face pic. A dark black and white one that was very blurry. The lady didn’t match the description but I’d rather not be too critical.

So, as karma would have it I deleted the message and blocked them. Shucks, I know but we treat others how we should wish to be treated.

Oddly enough I got emails from what is their backup profile calling me all the names under the sun, informing me my photos have been saved to be passed around and that I am a time waster.

It seems the definition of a time waster is one held in the eye of the accuser, regardless of their own behaviour traits.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We can't.

Quite simply this! One persons time waster is another persons dream meet

The op is a time waster, as am I; I've spent a good five minutes of my life on his thread.

Can you report yourself as a time waster?

Do you mean me or you…

I've wasted lots of my own time today. I want to report myself for that, but I'm not sure I can. I'd ask you to, but that would likely waste your time, too. I think it's unmanageable. "

Let’s not waste time then… it’s easier

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