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By *lasgow_dude2017 OP Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

Is there any other ppl out there that cant cum from a bj or it just me

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By *imbobaMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

From previous posts on the same subject it would seem to be the case. Personally I can and many have been amazing.

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By *nferno sausageMan
over a year ago

Aberdeenshire

Round one, aye, two possibly, but come (no pun intended) round three or four it's a recipe for lockjaw.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Plenty have proclaimed this so for none have actually proved themselves reliable, few former fwb have said I’m still the only one who has ! Lol yeah ok

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Plenty have proclaimed this so for none have actually proved themselves reliable, few former fwb have said I’m still the only one who has ! Lol yeah ok "

Now now stop boasting you

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By *nferno sausageMan
over a year ago

Aberdeenshire

"Plenty have proclaimed this so for none have actually proved themselves reliable, few former fwb have said I’m still the only one who has ! Lol yeah ok

Now now stop boasting you

Nowt wrong with being a bit cocksure. Leave the lass be!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Plenty have proclaimed this so for none have actually proved themselves reliable, few former fwb have said I’m still the only one who has ! Lol yeah ok

Now now stop boasting you

Lol

just stating a fact lol men seem to want to say this to women who like a challenge and tbh it’s never really much of a challenge unless they’re under the influence of something,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Now now stop boasting you

Lol

just stating a fact lol men seem to want to say this to women who like a challenge and tbh it’s never really much of a challenge unless they’re under the influence of something, "

You know what Fab is like, guys will say anything

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By *scobar67Man
over a year ago

glasgow

I don't either

But ladies feel free to take the challenge

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Plenty have proclaimed this so for none have actually proved themselves reliable, few former fwb have said I’m still the only one who has ! Lol yeah ok

Now now stop boasting you

Lol

just stating a fact lol men seem to want to say this to women who like a challenge and tbh it’s never really much of a challenge unless they’re under the influence of something, "
this

Guys say this in the slight hope some chick will say .right hold my cocktail....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Got bit once never again haha

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By *4Fun11Woman
over a year ago

Glasgow

Now now stop boasting you

Lol

just stating a fact lol men seem to want to say this to women who like a challenge and tbh it’s never really much of a challenge unless they’re under the influence of something,

You know what Fab is like, guys will say anything

Not just guys from fab

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By *tew008Man
over a year ago

edinburgh

nope never

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By *eith28Man
over a year ago

uxbridge

I used to. It was triggered by an experience when I was young. I was getting sucked off outside a nightclub. I couldn’t hold back. I came like a cannon. It hit her throat snd she threw up all over my shoes. Took a while before I was able to cum in mouth. I’d pull out and provide a facial. I got over it after a time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yup me, I’ve only ever done it once and it was in a very risky place so I think it was the excitement of it. If I’m honest I’m not overly bothered about recovering oral.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm with this guy, I've never cum from a BJ, I love getting one but I can't seem to orgasm getting one unfortunately.

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By *aggismuncher69Man
over a year ago

Johnstone

Depends if being w@nked onto a tongue counts as a BJ!

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By *cottishMrsWoman
over a year ago

Wishaw

I'm now pretty certain guys only say this so women will accept the challenge! Had this said to me too many times for it to be true!!xx

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By *otnew12Man
over a year ago

blackness

I had never cum from a bj for years of being sexually active, then met a woman years ago who could make me cum within literal seconds of having her mouth around it, no idea what was so different about what she did but since then I’ve met literally her and one other woman who could make me cum with a bj

Not for lack of trying though…

I’ve also hooked up with one or two that have got me edging, like properly to the point where your entire body tenses up just before you cum and you start spazzing out, but never got me over the finish line so ended up just tensing up for ages until it became uncomfortable lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is there any other ppl out there that cant cum from a bj or it just me

I get you - it took me a long time until I came from a bj. Nothing at all to do with the woman/man giving the bj, I was just too tense. It wasn't until I relaxed that I was able to fully enjoy it

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By *iimonMan
over a year ago

glasgow

Never had that problem but once a girl slipped me a cheeky finger while performing and I couldn’t hold a glass of milk let alone my load!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is there any other ppl out there that cant cum from a bj or it just me

It totally comes (pun intended) down to the giver. They have to know how what they are doing and actually enjoy it. If it's just them ticking a box, absolutely no chance I'll cum and I'll usually distract them so they stop wasting our time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I may need my " happy place "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've never cum from one, had some amazing BJs but never cum from it.

Always happy for people to prove me wrong though;)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Round one, aye, two possibly, but come (no pun intended) round three or four it's a recipe for lockjaw.

Don't suck so hard then or try and pace yourself better and according to the women I've spoken to, lockjaw shouldn't be an issue.

I will take their word for it .

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By *nferno sausageMan
over a year ago

Aberdeenshire

"Round one, aye, two possibly, but come (no pun intended) round three or four it's a recipe for lockjaw.

Don't suck so hard then or try and pace yourself better and according to the women I've spoken to, lockjaw shouldn't be an issue.

I will take their word for it .

Why you asking women for advice on sooking boabie?

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By *othighlander2Man
over a year ago

North Inverness

i love cumming from a bj..i

and i reckon women love to see a man cumming from a bj too!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"i love cumming from a bj..i

and i reckon women love to see a man cumming from a bj too!!"

Not all women

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By *othighlander2Man
over a year ago

North Inverness

Oh of course..has been known lol

"i love cumming from a bj..i

and i reckon women love to see a man cumming from a bj too!!

Not all women

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By *ookie69Man
over a year ago

Whistle Dixie

Some I have and some I haven't.

I've never found sex to be a challenge other than mutual enjoyment.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I struggled to cum for years, then went with a FB who made me cum every time she done it, no idea what she done different but certainly got the end result.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Iv had guys say this to me. In the hopes that I will somehow get the urge to prove them wrong n gee them a bj

Nice try son nice try

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can honestly say I've never had this problem,, and in fact probably find myself fighting to hold back from blowing depending on how good the BJ giver is....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I honestly thought there was something wrong with me, I didn't realize it's such a common thing.

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By *iimonMan
over a year ago

glasgow

"Iv had guys say this to me. In the hopes that I will somehow get the urge to prove them wrong n gee them a bj

Nice try son nice try

So it’s never work on you?

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By *lasgow_dude2017 OP Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

"Iv had guys say this to me. In the hopes that I will somehow get the urge to prove them wrong n gee them a bj

Nice try son nice try

Its not a mission i am only saying

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Round one, aye, two possibly, but come (no pun intended) round three or four it's a recipe for lockjaw.

Don't suck so hard then or try and pace yourself better and according to the women I've spoken to, lockjaw shouldn't be an issue.

I will take their word for it .

Why you asking women for advice on sooking boabie?

I simply tried to help a fellow forumite out. Your post sounded like a cry for help so I asked a few women I know for possible suggestions or ideas for ya.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve never failed so far

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I (Dom) have this problem and it’s a frustrating thing. But in the last year I’ve been to doctors and I’m awaiting an appointment to have a circumcision done due to the fore skin going tight for weeks then back to normal, so this could be the cause.

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By *he Regina PhalangeWoman
over a year ago

Lanarkshire

"Round one, aye, two possibly, but come (no pun intended) round three or four it's a recipe for lockjaw.

Don't suck so hard then or try and pace yourself better and according to the women I've spoken to, lockjaw shouldn't be an issue.

I will take their word for it .

Why you asking women for advice on sooking boabie?

I simply tried to help a fellow forumite out. Your post sounded like a cry for help so I asked a few women I know for possible suggestions or ideas for ya.

Aww what a wee angel you are!

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By *nferno sausageMan
over a year ago

Aberdeenshire

"Round one, aye, two possibly, but come (no pun intended) round three or four it's a recipe for lockjaw.

Don't suck so hard then or try and pace yourself better and according to the women I've spoken to, lockjaw shouldn't be an issue.

I will take their word for it .

Why you asking women for advice on sooking boabie?

I simply tried to help a fellow forumite out. Your post sounded like a cry for help so I asked a few women I know for possible suggestions or ideas for ya.

Ah! The whole 'asking for a friend' thing!

Your advice didn't work, though - perhaps all the Fab ladies; or the ones you asked, at least, are lacking in technique themselves! If you could ask some guys who are that way inclined and report back, it'd be much appreciated, ya wee selfless superstar that you are.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I often find it quite difficult to cum through oral

Sex.

This is probably a psychological thing due me not liking them through my teens and early 20s and 30/s.

I just Couldn’t find anyone that was good at them or at least to how I liked it.

Then one woman said she can make anyone cum from her oral skills. I thought, here we go, another one who thinks she can. Anyway… an hour or so later and I’ve cum four times.

Best blow jobs I’ve ever had.

Nowadays I love a bj but still can’t always cum from one - I guess it’s down to who’s giving them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Round one, aye, two possibly, but come (no pun intended) round three or four it's a recipe for lockjaw.

Don't suck so hard then or try and pace yourself better and according to the women I've spoken to, lockjaw shouldn't be an issue.

I will take their word for it .

Why you asking women for advice on sooking boabie?

I simply tried to help a fellow forumite out. Your post sounded like a cry for help so I asked a few women I know for possible suggestions or ideas for ya.

Aww what a wee angel you are!

Oooft and look at that new pic angel you are defo not missy who you trying to kid lol

Feeekin love it

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By *riti PearWoman
over a year ago

Paisley

"Plenty have proclaimed this so for none have actually proved themselves reliable, few former fwb have said I’m still the only one who has ! Lol yeah ok

Now now stop boasting you

Lol

just stating a fact lol men seem to want to say this to women who like a challenge and tbh it’s never really much of a challenge unless they’re under the influence of something, this

Guys say this in the slight hope some chick will say .right hold my cocktail....

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By *he Regina PhalangeWoman
over a year ago

Lanarkshire

"Round one, aye, two possibly, but come (no pun intended) round three or four it's a recipe for lockjaw.

Don't suck so hard then or try and pace yourself better and according to the women I've spoken to, lockjaw shouldn't be an issue.

I will take their word for it .

Why you asking women for advice on sooking boabie?

I simply tried to help a fellow forumite out. Your post sounded like a cry for help so I asked a few women I know for possible suggestions or ideas for ya.

Aww what a wee angel you are!

Oooft and look at that new pic angel you are defo not missy who you trying to kid lol

Feeekin love it

Thank you. I’m channeling my post lockdown, inner deviant!

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By *agan gentlemenMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

Ejaculation from a blow Job yes. (eventually).

Cumming from a bj completely different

First time is ho shit I don't want her freaking out if I cum . So often have took it in hand to finish myself when I can't hold it any more and quickly find some place to deposit

= ejaculation

But if she tels me she likes it. Then I can relax and let go and her her finish

= orgasmic cum

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By *ralPerfectionistMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

Depends I guess on how dedicated someone is to the bj. I know I've surprised many who thought they'd need more to cum. If you're just passing the time to get to fucking it's never going to be enough. Passion and commitment in the action go a long way but I understand people are wired to need to fuck to cum if not solo hand work.

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By *idas ManMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline

No, never. Bad experiences when I was young probably didn’t help. I love receiving oral and I get to the point where I’m gonna explode but nothing. I tense up, I squirm, I fidget but nothing. And it makes you feel like such a failure, right?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have NEVER cum from a BJ and I think it might not happen... I see there are some of us out there unless they are not genuine.

It is really frustrating not being able to tbh

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By *dReadyGoMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

You're not alone. I had really good bjs but couldnt cum. I need a good handjob with it or, even better, a hole to fill

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By *idas ManMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline

I guess it’s difficult to know who’s being genuine and who’s not, from a female perspective. I just don’t want to get laughed at or ridiculed cos as a man, it’s not a great thing to admit to :

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By *llWomanButNoLadyWoman
over a year ago

Dundee

I had an ex who had never cum from a BJ until he met me. I took great pride in that and actually loved making him cum with my mouth.

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By *aylonMan
over a year ago

Earlsfield

Quite hard for me, there's a few that have managed but they've been ass grabbing, face fucking types and that's finished me off ????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know what you mean - my experience is that meeting someone new and then expecting them to so show know exactly how to make you cum is probaby going to end in disappointment. Bit of a dow side down casual sex which is why really good chat and a social before getting into it is so important

"Is there any other ppl out there that cant cum from a bj or it just me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never have and pretty sure I never will cum from a BJ. Just isn't anywhere near as just perfectly stimulating as the mighty pussy I'm afraid. A lot of women think just hammering away at a cock will get it cumming.. it's far more sensitive a process than that for me .. and as ever it's very much in the mind to release.. and while having your cock sucked is very definitely a lovely thing to feel, it gets nowhere near close enough for me to cum.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have found that giving the perfect bj does the job and I love the explosion in mouth and it's never wasted

...

Never had a complaint yet from Rocksteady

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think guys that wank too often (and with too tight a grip) tend to suffer from this!

Honestly, it's not a joke!

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By *idas ManMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline

"I think guys that wank too often (and with too tight a grip) tend to suffer from this!

Honestly, it's not a joke! "

I’ve heard this too

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By *ald EagleMan
over a year ago

Alloa

Have to say the best BJs I’ve had have been where the lady liked to feel me cum in her mouth so I could relax and let her play she got what she wanted from me.

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By *r-King SizeMan
over a year ago

Aberdeen

"Is there any other ppl out there that cant cum from a bj or it just me

It's not that I can't cum from a blow job it just takes awhile but that's not to say they ain't mind blowing mind you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is there any other ppl out there that cant cum from a bj or it just me

It's not that I can't cum from a blow job it just takes awhile but that's not to say they ain't mind blowing mind you"

I've blown hundred and could count on one hand those that didn't cum

Some took a while. Others took seconds

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think guys that wank too often (and with too tight a grip) tend to suffer from this!

Honestly, it's not a joke!

I’ve heard this too"

Very much so I’ve had to retrain a few exes on less is more when they’re having alone time and they’ve said that DIY has actually become even more enjoyable now they’ve learned a more subtle technique and it’s also helped them last longer and repeat more often during full sexual as well

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By *nferno sausageMan
over a year ago

Aberdeenshire

"I think guys that wank too often (and with too tight a grip) tend to suffer from this!

Honestly, it's not a joke!

I’ve heard this too

You train men how to use their penises for their own gratification!?

Right. I don't suppose you do puppies, too? Like, training him to use his penis outside rather than whilst standing on the living-room carpet? It's more for my gratification, but if your witchcraft covers it, I'll be eternally grateful.

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By *ookie69Man
over a year ago

Whistle Dixie

"I think guys that wank too often (and with too tight a grip) tend to suffer from this!

Honestly, it's not a joke!

I’ve heard this too

BTW, DIY doesn't become more enjoyable after wanking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Plenty have proclaimed this so for none have actually proved themselves reliable, few former fwb have said I’m still the only one who has ! Lol yeah ok "

I'd love to experience cumming from a BJ... See what the fuss is all about lol.

Had some amazing ones but never cum from one

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By *andsCouple
over a year ago

Edin

I’ve found this post very interesting, I’ve just assumed (wrongly it would appear) that blokes did! Everyday is a school day

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By *mAndGeeCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow

I also find it hard to cum only remember cumming twice to a bj

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think guys that wank too often (and with too tight a grip) tend to suffer from this!

Honestly, it's not a joke!

I’ve heard this too

You train men how to use their penises for their own gratification!?

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By *m1982Man
over a year ago

Highlands

Its a myth, impossible

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By *4Fun11Woman
over a year ago

Glasgow

I’ve been with guys that can and guys that can’t. I don’t set out to prove a point. I set out to have fun and hey, if he doesn’t cum then so be it.

I’m just gonna have to make sure I do…..again and again!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only one person's ever managed to do this dizzygirl who's superhot xx

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By *r Beefy40Man
over a year ago

glasgow

This is a true thing. Been there n been cured lol We’re all different tho n if one thing doesn’t work the next trick will.

Every girl is different and like different things. That’s one thing we all have in common.

Wouldn’t worry or give it a second thought.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think guys that wank too often (and with too tight a grip) tend to suffer from this!

Honestly, it's not a joke!

I’ve heard this too

I retrained myself, and can say that I have far more enjoyable wanks now, but also sex is generally better and getting oral is 100x better!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think guys that wank too often (and with too tight a grip) tend to suffer from this!

Honestly, it's not a joke!

I’ve heard this too

You train men how to use their penises for their own gratification!?

Brilliant !! Pmsl ..

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By *andy BenMan
over a year ago

Glasgow South

I'm lucky. All the women that have given me a bj have ended with me having a fantastic orgasm. I love giving a woman oral as well, and what a turn on when they cum as well. Maybe you'll get lucky as well. Just relax and enjoy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just started being able to cum from a BJ.... Brilliant experience from an amazing woman

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think guys that wank too often (and with too tight a grip) tend to suffer from this!

Honestly, it's not a joke! "

I was just about to say this.

Also read/heard similar about women who use wands or vibrators all the time....Obviously can't comment if that's true or not...

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