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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hello everyone. I'm trying to find out what's wrong with me. Am I the only one who has no luck here?

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By *4Fun11Woman
over a year ago

Glasgow

Going by the amount of posts from guys I would, at a guess, say no.

Oh and it’s bad enough having all the crap about ’to whom it may concern’ at the end of your profile but to have it in capitals is worse!

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By *4Fun11Woman
over a year ago

Glasgow

Oh and maybe you should try reading profiles.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I read every profile to which I reply

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By *nferno sausageMan
over a year ago

Aberdeenshire

You're just not quite feminine enough for my taste, sorry.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Are you looking for constructive criticism on your profile/approach or just venting because you're not getting laid?

Just so I know how to word my response

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Defo read the profiles that’s the biggest thing

When folk start messaging me going on about sex when it clearly says on my profile I am only here for socialising ! And it clearly says I don’t have pics but then a few messages in they ask for pics

We can spot copy and paste messages a mile away

Less is always more when it comes to pics on a profile for most folk the last thing they want is ever conceivable angle of a penis we’ve seen more than our share

Read back on previous posts there’s so much good advice to be had

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By *eestar38Couple
over a year ago

Ayrshire

Maybe redo your profile make it a bit more interesting. You come across as passive aggressive. I want to meet a REAL WOMAN/ COUPLE FOR SEX. what makes a real woman I your eyes.

Lots about time wasting and expectation.

It's a site to meet up with the potential of having sex so don't need that in your profile.

And maybe put a bit about what your really interested in what you like to get from meeting people/ couples.

Not that am looking for a single male to join us but if I was I would have skimmed through your profile and skipped to the next one. There is nothing in it that would grab my attention. Shame as there is nothing wrong with your photos.

BTW this is not intended to have a go just given you my personal opinion and tell you like it is

Good luck

Dee x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Living Brechin won’t help much either

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I'm looking for constructive criticism.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm looking for constructive criticism."

The other comments are helpful I’m just being a prick

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'm looking for constructive criticism.

The other comments are helpful I’m just being a prick "
I noticed it. The place of residence probably has nothing to do with it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm looking for constructive criticism.

The other comments are helpful I’m just being a prick I noticed it. The place of residence probably has nothing to do with it"

Dunno, being a Brechiner myself there isn’t a huge selection of locals. Forfar Montrose, Arbroath aye. Brechin maybe 4 women to message?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm looking for constructive criticism.

The other comments are helpful I’m just being a prick I noticed it. The place of residence probably has nothing to do with it"

Actually it’s in the middle of no where so yeah it probably does

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hello everyone. I'm trying to find out what's wrong with me. Am I the only one who has no luck here?"

I've only had 64 meets m8, stick with it

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By *melia DominaTV/TS
over a year ago

Edinburgh (She/Her)

FAB is a community and resource site for swinging first and foremost.

The meets section of the site is a small section of what FAB is about.

FAB is not instashag! If that what you are looking for you are in the wrong place.

If you want grow sexually as an individual. Great Happy FABBING.

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By *nferno sausageMan
over a year ago

Aberdeenshire

A quick search on your postcode area tells me that there are 45 women looking for men, aged between 40 and 50 who have been active on the site in the last week. Another search tells me that there are 78 guys aged 40 ONLY, looking for women in your postcode area who have been active in the last week.

This tells me that each woman has, in theory, her choice of somewhere around 17 men - even more when you consider the guys outside their postcode area offering themselves up.

So, at an educated guesstimate, you're gonna have to make yourself a more attractive option than 20 other guys, persuade many women that gangbangs are the future, or show outstanding levels of patience, and in the meantime make friends - women, in general, like to be mentally and emotionally stimulated before, during and after being physically stimulated; in my experience.

Remember - twenty to one. The odds are stacked against you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hello everyone. I'm trying to find out what's wrong with me. Am I the only one who has no luck here?

I've only had 64 meets m8, stick with it "

Cough cough bull shit

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By *4Fun11Woman
over a year ago

Glasgow


"I read every profile to which I reply"

Aww right.

So you just missed the bit about cock pics!

Selective reading perhaps

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A quick search on your postcode area tells me that there are 45 women looking for men, aged between 40 and 50 who have been active on the site in the last week. Another search tells me that there are 78 guys aged 40 ONLY, looking for women in your postcode area who have been active in the last week.

This tells me that each woman has, in theory, her choice of somewhere around 17 men - even more when you consider the guys outside their postcode area offering themselves up.

So, at an educated guesstimate, you're gonna have to make yourself a more attractive option than 20 other guys, persuade many women that gangbangs are the future, or show outstanding levels of patience, and in the meantime make friends - women, in general, like to be mentally and emotionally stimulated before, during and after being physically stimulated; in my experience.

Remember - twenty to one. The odds are stacked against you. "

45 women in 5 miles of DD9 online in the last week? Nahhhh the odds are worse than that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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45 women in 5 miles of DD9 online in the last week? Nahhhh the odds are worse than that "

I count 2 in the last two weeks. Fair though i have blocked any not looking for attached lads to save me sending unwanted messages

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By *nferno sausageMan
over a year ago

Aberdeenshire


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45 women in 5 miles of DD9 online in the last week? Nahhhh the odds are worse than that

I count 2 in the last two weeks. Fair though i have blocked any not looking for attached lads to save me sending unwanted messages "

I did a basic search of the DD postcode.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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45 women in 5 miles of DD9 online in the last week? Nahhhh the odds are worse than that

I count 2 in the last two weeks. Fair though i have blocked any not looking for attached lads to save me sending unwanted messages

I did a basic search of the DD postcode. "

Ahh DD will give you a much larger range than the spit that is Brechin

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I read every profile to which I reply

Aww right.

So you just missed the bit about cock pics!

Selective reading perhaps "
I'm not sending dick pics. I put this photo to private album.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm looking for constructive criticism."

Your updated profile text is worse than the previous passive aggressive spiel

Start off by changing the "I will statement" to something a little less entitled such as "I would like to meet..".

Your profile is your store window, make yourself stand out!

As for your initial messages try a person centred approach, not a copy and paste statement that makes it very hard to engage in a conversation. And make sure you're messaging the right people, there's no point messaging when their profile clearly says you wouldn't fit what they're looking for.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hello everyone. I'm trying to find out what's wrong with me. Am I the only one who has no luck here?

I've only had 64 meets m8, stick with it

Cough cough bull shit "

I tell no lies, I am a good Catholic boy !

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By *imbobaMan
over a year ago

Glasgow


"Hello everyone. I'm trying to find out what's wrong with me. Am I the only one who has no luck here?"

Who said there’s something wrong with you?

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By *eestar38Couple
over a year ago

Ayrshire

Definitely a much better profile kind of gives a better idea of what your looking for without coming across as an ass. The other one with few lines was just as bad as the first profile so your on the right Track.

Good luck finding what you want

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mate great advice above but to be honest, I still don't think your profile text is the best. Clearly your not the best at that sort of thing ( and that absolutely fine and not a dig ) so I will give you a simple option.

Go to the USA or Australia forum , read lots of guys profiles on those forums and do a copy n paste job of their text, one that is closest to your thoughts , wants and offerings. Now simply, very slightly, tweak that text so you put a more personal touch to it .

While many won't agree with this option, for you I think it's a good option.

I bet loads of things have been copied and pasted by guys on here to make themselves stand out that little bit more. Just my thoughts bud . Good luck.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Mate great advice above but to be honest, I still don't think your profile text is the best. Clearly your not the best at that sort of thing ( and that absolutely fine and not a dig ) so I will give you a simple option.

Go to the USA or Australia forum , read lots of guys profiles on those forums and do a copy n paste job of their text, one that is closest to your thoughts , wants and offerings. Now simply, very slightly, tweak that text so you put a more personal touch to it .

While many won't agree with this option, for you I think it's a good option.

I bet loads of things have been copied and pasted by guys on here to make themselves stand out that little bit more. Just my thoughts bud . Good luck.

"

Not an awful idea! I do it on my CV, copy the body of text and personalise it with my own information. So why not do it on Fab

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Mate great advice above but to be honest, I still don't think your profile text is the best. Clearly your not the best at that sort of thing ( and that absolutely fine and not a dig ) so I will give you a simple option.

Go to the USA or Australia forum , read lots of guys profiles on those forums and do a copy n paste job of their text, one that is closest to your thoughts , wants and offerings. Now simply, very slightly, tweak that text so you put a more personal touch to it .

While many won't agree with this option, for you I think it's a good option.

I bet loads of things have been copied and pasted by guys on here to make themselves stand out that little bit more. Just my thoughts bud . Good luck.

Not an awful idea! I do it on my CV, copy the body of text and personalise it with my own information. So why not do it on Fab "

Forget body of text on your cv , just put your body on yer cv . Consider yourself hired.

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By *ookie69Man
over a year ago

Whistle Dixie


"Hello everyone. I'm trying to find out what's wrong with me. Am I the only one who has no luck here?"

Luck is, when preparation meets opportunity.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Mate great advice above but to be honest, I still don't think your profile text is the best. Clearly your not the best at that sort of thing ( and that absolutely fine and not a dig ) so I will give you a simple option.

Go to the USA or Australia forum , read lots of guys profiles on those forums and do a copy n paste job of their text, one that is closest to your thoughts , wants and offerings. Now simply, very slightly, tweak that text so you put a more personal touch to it .

While many won't agree with this option, for you I think it's a good option.

I bet loads of things have been copied and pasted by guys on here to make themselves stand out that little bit more. Just my thoughts bud . Good luck.

Not an awful idea! I do it on my CV, copy the body of text and personalise it with my own information. So why not do it on Fab

Forget body of text on your cv , just put your body on yer cv . Consider yourself hired. "

Exactly how I got my last job as a Shrek stand in

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