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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I was reading the stories/fantasy forum where some bloke was telling how his fantasy was to get 'used' by a group of men, but his profile said 'straight'. I quizzed him about it and he stated he kept it that way "to meet ladies". There are also a lot of 'straight' men who seem to reguarly meet and have sex with tv's. Now I'm not questioning anyone's preference's or practices, but shouldn't they be honest and put bi or bi-curious on their profile?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

guess its up to the individual what they really want to put on profile,i know of fems and couples who state the fem is straight as they dont want the extra messaging it brings,

its pretty easy to get round the is he straight or bi .some state they practise safe sex on profile and dont,

We state we dont meet single guys but we do ,when we feel the need to

Each to their own i say

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If people are bi they should say so as not everyone is happy to go with a man that's slept with another man, if you asked them and they said they where straight then you find out on there post that they are actually bi you feel very let down...

But each to there own...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If people are bi they should say so as not everyone is happy to go with a man that's slept with another man, if you asked them and they said they where straight then you find out on there post that they are actually bi you feel very let down...

But each to there own..."

I agree, honesty is the best policy, plenty of men and woman put 'bi but can play straight'. Give the facts and let others decide if it makes a difference or not. I have played with couples where the man is bi but has respected my boundaries.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have agreed no to do bi but that's nothing against bi people , it's just our preference..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

on my profile a guy from a club verified me just to say i was genuine, hes gay im not. ive not taken it from my profile because i dont want people to think im hiding verifications, that looks bad, but ive had people mail back saying no thanks dont do bi guys. im 100,000,000,000% straight lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think as DirtynMad says above, its to stop or cut down on people mailing them…. they can then do the choosing I guess.

For instance, if a couple said they meet alone, or meet single guys could you imagine the number of mails they would get? Maybe that guy is doing the same thing…. been very selective on who he wants to be in contact with.

Steve

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

I find it sadder if a female says she is bi when she isn't and is prepared to lie there with her legs apart to get meets for hubby.

but hey....

each to their own.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

you've also got to remember a percentage a bi people are only orally bi so no penetration. I think it comes down to respecting the person and not their sexuality and being secure in your own. I would never force myself on a straight lady its not about converting its about connecting with like minded people whether straight or not. Oh and the best way for this to happen is to be honest and open minded thats where the fun lies and is that not what its about. Wow where did that come from!!! Think i need to lie down naked in a comfy position mmmmm xxxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"you've also got to remember a percentage a bi people are only orally bi so no penetration. I think it comes down to respecting the person and not their sexuality and being secure in your own. I would never force myself on a straight lady its not about converting its about connecting with like minded people whether straight or not. Oh and the best way for this to happen is to be honest and open minded thats where the fun lies and is that not what its about. Wow where did that come from!!! Think i need to lie down naked in a comfy position mmmmm xxxxx"

wow im in fife just now if your looking for some1 to lie beside u lol xx

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By *illow PimpMan
over a year ago

Midlothian


"I find it sadder if a female says she is bi when she isn't and is prepared to lie there with her legs apart to get meets for hubby.

but hey....

each to their own. "

This happens ? surely not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I find it sadder if a female says she is bi when she isn't and is prepared to lie there with her legs apart to get meets for hubby.

but hey....

each to their own. "

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I think as DirtynMad says above, its to stop or cut down on people mailing them…. they can then do the choosing I guess.

For instance, if a couple said they meet alone, or meet single guys could you imagine the number of mails they would get? Maybe that guy is doing the same thing…. been very selective on who he wants to be in contact with.

Steve"

the impression that I got from him, was that he 'hid' his bi side in case it put off single woman wanting to meet him.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"you've also got to remember a percentage a bi people are only orally bi so no penetration. I think it comes down to respecting the person and not their sexuality and being secure in your own. I would never force myself on a straight lady its not about converting its about connecting with like minded people whether straight or not. Oh and the best way for this to happen is to be honest and open minded thats where the fun lies and is that not what its about. Wow where did that come from!!! Think i need to lie down naked in a comfy position mmmmm xxxxx

wow im in fife just now if your looking for some1 to lie beside u lol xx"

shame i'm not i fife just now and i'm not alone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I find it sadder if a female says she is bi when she isn't and is prepared to lie there with her legs apart to get meets for hubby.

but hey....

each to their own.

This happens ? surely not "

It actually does i know loads of couples from other sites and they really have no interest in women and only do it for there men ..so ladies ill know if ya aint bi , ive been sleeping with girls since i was 15 i can have a relationship with a man or girl so i cant tell the difference in bed if your bi for you or just for your man lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

the impression that I got from him, was that he 'hid' his bi side in case it put off single woman wanting to meet him."

yep, that too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I enjoy playing with nice chicks...wouldn't meet 1 on my own...

So does that mean I'm only doing it to please jas...??

I think not

Auds x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I enjoy playing with nice chicks...wouldn't meet 1 on my own...

So does that mean I'm only doing it to please jas...??

I think not

Auds x "

Theres a saying for that "bi between the sheets" !!!!

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By *abrina59TV/TS
over a year ago

moved to cuckold land

so many friends requests from straight men without even chatting lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Does anyone ever play follow the 'straight' guy? Follow a veri from another all the way back from poster to poster, and bingo, eventually you stumble across a straight guy that sucks and fucks cock! Honestly, is a good game!

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By *empnbunkCouple
over a year ago

south coast


"Does anyone ever play follow the 'straight' guy? Follow a veri from another all the way back from poster to poster, and bingo, eventually you stumble across a straight guy that sucks and fucks cock! Honestly, is a good game! "

Cant say I have lol if I were to play that game and start checking out guys profiles they'd all think i'm a closet bi lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Does anyone ever play follow the 'straight' guy? Follow a veri from another all the way back from poster to poster, and bingo, eventually you stumble across a straight guy that sucks and fucks cock! Honestly, is a good game!

Cant say I have lol if I were to play that game and start checking out guys profiles they'd all think i'm a closet bi lol"

Stealth mode rules!

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