FabSwingers.com forum: Newbie looking for a chance

By *ilverfox84 OP Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

Hi thank you for looking at my post. Is there anyone willing to give a new guy a first meet

been trying for a while now i must admit iam hopeless with the opening lines yes I'm one of those guys you all hate with the " hi how are you" i really don't mean it. I'm up for a social meet or even a party I'm free on Friday 16th if anyone will give me a chance I'm happy to travel within reason. Been trying to fix the look of my profile as well.

Thanks again

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hi OP, welcome to the forums and hats off to you for a bold and friendly post which I wish you well with. If you sense a but then yes there is one. Firstly there will be lots of “you’re not the first to ask this”, “patience, manners and join in with forums etc”, “try to get to clubs, parties, socials etc (if and when they happen)”; all very valid and good advice so do all that and remember swinging for many is a community and a lifestyle not a hook up site (though it can be that too). The “but” is I’d never meet just to verify someone as I’d need to know that person a little at least. Someone else will view my verification as an endorsement and as I said I’d not know that from a quick hi. Also my experience is sometimes people you pass a couple of messages with think they are “in” and get pushy… sometimes very pushy. Well aware your request could apply to any sex etc though so as I say good luck and enjoy your experience X

By *ilverfox84 OP Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

Hey thank you so much for replying yeah i totally get and agree with everything you said and i do take it on bored

. I hate those type of people that get too pushy prefer the chillaxed approach lol.

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hey thank you so much for replying yeah i totally get and agree with everything you said and i do take it on bored

. I hate those type of people that get too pushy prefer the chillaxed approach lol.

A good approach lol, enjoy and have fun

By *ot - CoupleCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow

You've been on Fab for 11 months, most of these months we've been in lockdown maybe that's why you've had no luck. Some men have been on here years and had no meets, give it more time.