FabSwingers.com forum: Horrible behaviour

By *bost OP Couple
over a year ago

glasgow

Literally five minutes after sending a message a guy just gave us the most horrible abuse for not answering him. Then he blocked us!

Why though? Does it make him feel like the big man or make him feel like he is in control?

It’s really pee’d me off.

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By *mmixtapeCouple
over a year ago

middle earth

Its been happening to me a lot recently, I fully don't understand the mentality.

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By *bost OP Couple
over a year ago

glasgow

Nothing to gain from doing it. Does he think we are going to say oh aye you are right pal. We’d be lucky and should be grateful that you want to have fun with us? If anything with that sort of thing it just highlights how uttery contemptible some people can be and their lack of respect for other human beings.

Can you tell that I’m fuming?

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By *tew008Man
over a year ago

edinburgh

I mean I wouldn’t really be fussed, he sounds daft.

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By *mmixtapeCouple
over a year ago

middle earth

"Nothing to gain from doing it. Does he think we are going to say oh aye you are right pal. We’d be lucky and should be grateful that you want to have fun with us? If anything with that sort of thing it just highlights how uttery contemptible some people can be and their lack of respect for other human beings.

Can you tell that I’m fuming?"

Maybe just a little bit, wish I could help you not be raging but honestly they deserve it. This place is a fucking disaster for trying to actually do anything on the swinging scene. Its just full or arseholes all being cunts to eachother.

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By *bost OP Couple
over a year ago

glasgow

"I mean I wouldn’t really be fussed, he sounds daft."

Maybe I’m just a bit too annoyed. But dickheads need to be called out. It’s not ok.

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By *mmixtapeCouple
over a year ago

middle earth

"I mean I wouldn’t really be fussed, he sounds daft."

Its different when you're on the recieving end of it and nothing gets done about it.

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By *bost OP Couple
over a year ago

glasgow

Does seem that way. I may have to go away and relieve the rage

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By *melia DominaTV/TS
over a year ago

Edinburgh (She/Her)

Welcome to FAB..... nothing more I can really say about it.....

Apart from; filters, filters, filters and then more filters..

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By *nferno sausageMan
over a year ago

Aberdeenshire

I think rather than being exclusive to Fab, it's more an internet thing; giving cowardly, faceless arseholes a platform to be themselves without the consequences.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think rather than being exclusive to Fab, it's more an internet thing; giving cowardly, faceless arseholes a platform to be themselves without the consequences. "

This

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By *bost OP Couple
over a year ago

glasgow

Not saying it is exclusive to fab. Just wish there was a way to challenge them so that others see how nasty they can be.

Someone who has that nasty streak in them is more likely to be a nasty piece of work in general.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely seems to be more abusive a$$-hats on lately, I've heard every insult going, all because I'm not on here to fuck single males and I've no interest in straight females either

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not saying it is exclusive to fab. Just wish there was a way to challenge them so that others see how nasty they can be.

Someone who has that nasty streak in them is more likely to be a nasty piece of work in general. "

I gave one keyboard warrior the opportunity to tell me how fat, ugly and desperate I am to my face. To explain his theory that as another single female I was on here for attention and validation as no one would look at me twice in "real life".

Funny enough he didn't have the balls to show up

says it all

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By *bost OP Couple
over a year ago

glasgow

"Not saying it is exclusive to fab. Just wish there was a way to challenge them so that others see how nasty they can be.

Someone who has that nasty streak in them is more likely to be a nasty piece of work in general.

Funny enough he didn't have the balls to show up

says it all"

That’s what gets my goat. He wouldn’t have said it to my face. Absolute coward. Filters on max power now though.

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By *lair101TV/TS
over a year ago

Aberdeen, westhill

I wish they would implement some way to name n shame..but it can be abused. Maybe on peoples profiles it would show how many times they have been blocked or something...after 10 blockings it shows a counter on your page.

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By *bost OP Couple
over a year ago

glasgow

"I wish they would implement some way to name n shame..but it can be abused. Maybe on peoples profiles it would show how many times they have been blocked or something...after 10 blockings it shows a counter on your page. "

I’ve reported it, but don’t see anything happening. And if it does, they would just rejoin to abuse someone else.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That's what ruins it for the polite and genuine guys like myself and others, I don't see the point in giving the female abuse for saying no

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By *nferno sausageMan
over a year ago

Aberdeenshire

"That's what ruins it for the polite and genuine guys like myself and others, I don't see the point in giving the female abuse for saying no

Au contraire, if you're polite and genuine, then rather than the arseholes dragging you down with them, you should stick out like a sore thumb.

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By *bost OP Couple
over a year ago

glasgow

We’ve been on just over three years and have only ever met good folk. As restrictions ease we’d decided to open up and be a bit more active on here, but not so sure now.

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By *anderMan
over a year ago

Perth

I genuinely love it when that happens, it’s such a timesaver!

The deal-breaking attitude would’ve showed up eventually, so having it shown right at the start just confirms the dodging of the bullet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"That's what ruins it for the polite and genuine guys like myself and others, I don't see the point in giving the female abuse for saying no

Au contraire, if you're polite and genuine, then rather than the arseholes dragging you down with them, you should stick out like a sore thumb. "

Agree! I never judge people on the behaviour of others, I judge each person individually.

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By *eardedInkMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

I honestly dont get it, if someone says no in reply or simply deletes the message then move on, dont spit your dummy out and start stamping your feet.

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By *looboyMan
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Happened to me last week, was chatting away to a guy on here for a good while, arranged to meet up etc. Said just hitting the shower before leaving to meet him. Came back on after getting out the shower and getting dressed to a few massages from him. Last one was pretty much saying because I hadn't replied straight away to the messages he had sent while I was in the shower that I must be a time waster and leading him on etc and ranting and raving like a loon . Sent him a message saying I told you I was going for a shower and he answered as if he had said nothing and still wanted to meet up, told him to forget it and blocked the idiot, dodged a bullet there i think.

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

There should be some kind on timeout for this behaviour I've said it many times .

Same goes for those who use their status updates to get at other members.

Ban them from messaging for the same length of time if it was done on the forum

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The most annoying thing is when they block you before you can even answer the abuse. Fab and all other online platforms are full of people like this. Usually when guys or indeed women act like this I just realise I’ve had a lucky escape.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think some people just think they are privileged and should be answered , these people ruin it for all the good ones out there ! Abuse can put people off meeting others

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

Sadly there are a few horrid people both male and female that go out of their way to be cruel or unkind to others. Thankfully the majority of fabbers are lovely and make it all worthwhile.

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By *tew008Man
over a year ago

edinburgh

"I mean I wouldn’t really be fussed, he sounds daft.

Maybe I’m just a bit too annoyed. But dickheads need to be called out. It’s not ok. "

It’s not ok, the way the site is, means you can only report and leave him to it.

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By *andsCouple
over a year ago

Edin

"That's what ruins it for the polite and genuine guys like myself and others, I don't see the point in giving the female abuse for saying no

Absolute nonsense!

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By *adbury girlWoman
over a year ago

Lanarkshire

"The most annoying thing is when they block you before you can even answer the abuse. Fab and all other online platforms are full of people like this. Usually when guys or indeed women act like this I just realise I’ve had a lucky escape.

xxx"

I had a guy who messaged to say he knew me, his message details indicate he possibly does so I replied with a smiley emoji saying it would be polite to introduce himself rather than worry me, he replied not to worry you’re not that Bonnie anyway and blocked me!

Why contact me in the first place of not interested and not going to introduce yourself?

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By *awaiianguyMan
over a year ago

East Ayrshire

Just set up a couple profile which J looks after. The sense of entitlement of single males is a real surprise given the people I know on here. Comforting to know I will not meet the pricks in person as they will never show up at social

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By *he Regina PhalangeWoman
over a year ago

Lanarkshire

xxx"

I like to respond with a mouthful of cheek, it annoys me when I can’t cos I’ve been blocked!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had my fair share of men like this over the years but fortunately it doesn't happen anymore for two reasons. One, I'm always the first to block and two, I'm not meeting anyway until I feel safe to do so x

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By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago

Paisley

It shows a lack of respect and when I tried to explain that to a guy who had messaged me twice within a short period of time, he didn’t even get what I meant.

We’re not here to answer messages from every single guy 24/7, we do have lives.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

xxx

I like to respond with a mouthful of cheek, it annoys me when I can’t cos I’ve been blocked!

Me too. I’ve been called some crazy stuff but it’s like water off a ducks back after a few years on fab. The….”I wouldn’t fuck you anyway” guys are the best. After they have sent you 17 cock pics and a few copy and paste messages.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

xxx

I like to respond with a mouthful of cheek, it annoys me when I can’t cos I’ve been blocked!

Depends if they send any other farm yard animals along with the cock pics.... oh wait not that kinda cock... I'll show myself out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

xxx

I like to respond with a mouthful of cheek, it annoys me when I can’t cos I’ve been blocked!

Depends if they send any other farm yard animals along with the cock pics.... oh wait not that kinda cock... I'll show myself out"

I’ll get the door for you….

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By *he Regina PhalangeWoman
over a year ago

Lanarkshire

xxx

I like to respond with a mouthful of cheek, it annoys me when I can’t cos I’ve been blocked!

Depends if they send any other farm yard animals along with the cock pics.... oh wait not that kinda cock... I'll show myself out

I’ll get the door for you….

Don’t let it hit him on the way out!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Such a gentleman!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

xxx

I like to respond with a mouthful of cheek, it annoys me when I can’t cos I’ve been blocked!

Depends if they send any other farm yard animals along with the cock pics.... oh wait not that kinda cock... I'll show myself out

I’ll get the door for you….

Don’t let it hit him on the way out!

Crikey I'm feeling the love in here for sure!

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By *4Fun11Woman
over a year ago

Glasgow

This kinda thing is all part and parcel of what neanderthals perceive as a free sex site.

I’ve a thick skin and a block button that’s on fire.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ahhhhh the ups as downs (as opposed to the preferred ins and outs) of Fabbery. Alas with some of the advantages we have on the site comes disadvantages and this is one (there are a few)… BUT I do think overall we have all we need in the war on the plonkers of fab. The keyboard warrior is but a symptom of our modern day online life. Be ruthless in blocking back, have a low tolerance on bullshit and remember most of all that you dodged a bullet early

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had this issue too. A guy was ranting because I hadn't replied to his message, I like to give the benefit of the doubt so nicely told him I had 157 messages to go through and was taking my time to reply. His response, "so you're an ignorant f*cking c*nt then"

Then several more abusive messages and I blocked him, checked recently and thankfully he's left the site.

Worries me if these people would be emotionally and/or physically abusive in a relationship. Oh well at least he showed himself off for the prick that he is from the get go.

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By *orge71Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

"Its been happening to me a lot recently, I fully don't understand the mentality. "

Aw naw Im blocked from you got no clue what I done

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By *coupleoforangesCouple
over a year ago

Edinburgh / Stirlingshire / Glasgow-ish

Ahhh the old block and go.

So common, some times I think it's because profiles show as online and folks get uppity at the lack of speedy replies to their horn.

Happened a few times to more established chats to it confuses me every time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Rather than being overly pissed off about it, pat yourself on the Backford being correct in your initial assessment.

Assuming you had read the message.

Either way you win in the end.

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge

alot of post here utterly condemning this person with little knowledge of what actually happened.

Reverse it and I'm pretty sure the comments would also 180.

This is not to say the op is wrong in any way but the user you are all speaking about may have had criteria he stated was not for him breached knowing so little about what went on I simply wouldn't comment as there's so little to go on apart from one user feels slighted just because

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By *bost OP Couple
over a year ago

glasgow

"alot of post here utterly condemning this person with little knowledge of what actually happened.

Reverse it and I'm pretty sure the comments would also 180.

I wasn’t going to respond to this. However, there is no need to go to personal abuse and swearing. This was all because I hadn’t responded after some initial messages. I would say that it is never ok to become abusive, you may have a different take on that.

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge

"alot of post here utterly condemning this person with little knowledge of what actually happened.

Reverse it and I'm pretty sure the comments would also 180.

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as I said Im not saying you were wrong. More that we have no idea what caused the abusive words to start or by whom.

There is normally a catalyst for tempers to flare and harsh words to be exchanged. I don't believe I've ever encountered folk who just go into meltdown for no reason

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By *bost OP Couple
over a year ago

glasgow

I’m glad for you that you’ve never encountered this before. But by reading the rest of the thread it would seem that it does happen at the hands of mainly men on here.

What you are possibly alluding to here is that I deserved to be abused by a guy on here. No, not ever.

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By *adbury girlWoman
over a year ago

Lanarkshire

"alot of post here utterly condemning this person with little knowledge of what actually happened.

Reverse it and I'm pretty sure the comments would also 180.

as I said Im not saying you were wrong. More that we have no idea what caused the abusive words to start or by whom.

There is normally a catalyst for tempers to flare and harsh words to be exchanged. I don't believe I've ever encountered folk who just go into meltdown for no reason "

I responded with a polite thanks but no thanks to a man who then proceeded to call me a whore/slut etc - not sure how I gave reason for that response

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’m glad for you that you’ve never encountered this before. But by reading the rest of the thread it would seem that it does happen at the hands of mainly men on here.

What you are possibly alluding to here is that I deserved to be abused by a guy on here. No, not ever. "

Nobody deserves to be abused by anyone on here. It's just a shame that it does happen because men get impatient if you don't reply right away, can't take no for an answer etc. Just don't give them the interaction and eventually they'll leave you alone. I've learnt this actually does work x

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By *he Regina PhalangeWoman
over a year ago

Lanarkshire

"alot of post here utterly condemning this person with little knowledge of what actually happened.

Reverse it and I'm pretty sure the comments would also 180.

as I said Im not saying you were wrong. More that we have no idea what caused the abusive words to start or by whom.

There is normally a catalyst for tempers to flare and harsh words to be exchanged. I don't believe I've ever encountered folk who just go into meltdown for no reason "

I can confirm it happens. Ive had abuse for no apparent reason. The last time it happened was not long after I’d taken an extended fab break…..and it really rattled me. I sent the offensive post to friends to ask what i had said to deserve the vitriolic response. Everyone one agreed it was unjustified.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They're fkn cock blocks man it's so brutal, so many genuine guys on fab that just want a beautiful dominant female to chke us n ride our faces until dawn. I'm having an extra pint tonight for all my fallen brothers lost in the struggle.

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge

"I’m glad for you that you’ve never encountered this before. But by reading the rest of the thread it would seem that it does happen at the hands of mainly men on here.

Single male bashing is the accepted norm within fab that does not mean its the right or proper to do.

As an aside alot of people forget there part in the escalation of a conflict between parties and place all the blame on the other. again I'm not saying that's what happened

What you are possibly alluding to here is that I deserved to be abused by a guy on here. No, not ever. "
no that's not what I'm alluding to at all!

what I am saying is there was interaction before the outburst and nobody has any clue what was contained within those interactions.

Attempting to put words in my mouth that insinuate I'm all for bad behaviour is not a nice thing to do. Perhaps read what I've written without placing supposed inflections on my words.

as I said in my opening post had this been written by a single male the replies would be very different

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’m glad for you that you’ve never encountered this before. But by reading the rest of the thread it would seem that it does happen at the hands of mainly men on here.

Single male bashing is the accepted norm within fab that does not mean its the right or proper to do.

As an aside alot of people forget there part in the escalation of a conflict between parties and place all the blame on the other. again I'm not saying that's what happened

What you are possibly alluding to here is that I deserved to be abused by a guy on here. No, not ever. no that's not what I'm alluding to at all!

what I am saying is there was interaction before the outburst and nobody has any clue what was contained within those interactions.

Attempting to put words in my mouth that insinuate I'm all for bad behaviour is not a nice thing to do. Perhaps read what I've written without placing supposed inflections on my words.

as I said in my opening post had this been written by a single male the replies would be very different"

Not really, everyone has already agreed that bad behaviour is wrong from anyone regardless of sex or status and that there are good and bad across the board

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By *ringles0510Woman
over a year ago

Central Borders

Good riddance I say! You wouldn't want to waste time on people like this anyway, so they did you a favour (make sure to counter block, in case they change their mind and try to unblock you) x

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By *uboCouple
over a year ago

East kilbride

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By *uboCouple
over a year ago

East kilbride

" No, not ever. no that's not what I'm alluding to at all!

what I am saying is there was interaction before the outburst and nobody has any clue what was contained within those interactions.

Attempting to put words in my mouth that insinuate I'm all for bad behaviour is not a nice thing to do. Perhaps read what I've written without placing supposed inflections on my words.

as I said in my opening post had this been written by a single male the replies would be very different"

If i were you i would put the shovel away and stop digging. Quit while you are behind. Was pretty obvious what you were alluding to.

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By *pectressWoman
over a year ago

Midlothian

"Not saying it is exclusive to fab. Just wish there was a way to challenge them so that others see how nasty they can be.

Someone who has that nasty streak in them is more likely to be a nasty piece of work in general.

Funny enough he didn't have the balls to show up

says it all"

I wonder if it was the same twat that called me a stuck up slapper who only gets attention because I’m on here and I shouldn’t let it go to my head, funny thing is I never even showed him a face picture… so how the fuck did he know what attention I get?

I am a bit stuck up though, I have boundaries, abusive twats need not apply.

Another told me I was a roaster with ridiculous eyebrows because I said he needed to grow up after he made a stupid comment. He practically begged me to chat to him an hour earlier.

I would just like to name and shame, they’d maybe stop then.

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By *cottish gentMan
over a year ago

Dumbarton

"Literally five minutes after sending a message a guy just gave us the most horrible abuse for not answering him. Then he blocked us!

Why though? Does it make him feel like the big man or make him feel like he is in control?

It’s really pee’d me off. "

I've not been on here long, but this seems to becoming a common thing, sadly. Seen so many female statuses saying a similar thing. Should they be named and shamed? Is there a way to report such bahaviour and abuse? I cant imagine abusing someone because they haven't replied, yes it's dissappointing but I'd never dream of abusing the person / couple online. Ridiculous behaviour.

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge

" No, not ever. no that's not what I'm alluding to at all!

what I am saying is there was interaction before the outburst and nobody has any clue what was contained within those interactions.

Attempting to put words in my mouth that insinuate I'm all for bad behaviour is not a nice thing to do. Perhaps read what I've written without placing supposed inflections on my words.

as I said in my opening post had this been written by a single male the replies would be very different

If i were you i would put the shovel away and stop digging. Quit while you are behind. Was pretty obvious what you were alluding to.

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I stand by every word I've written.

Again with the finger pointing let me make this plain there was no hidden meaning agenda or alluding to anything now yourselves and other users have been here long enough to have seen posts of this ilk many times and there is always imo a bias.

At no point have I said Im in agreement or disagree en folk have decided that themselves without any info pointing one way or the other

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By *otrock-cplCouple
over a year ago

Glenrothes

Small man syndrome we think.

Some people just don’t have any patience these days.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Abuse in any form should be called out and i hope Fab get tough on these morons. In my line of work the sense of entitlement i find in young men in particular is frightening... unfortunately not surprised thats its found it way on to fab. Hopefully the OP and others on here can see that its not personal to them but knuckle dragging cretins out to cause upset. Keeping supporting each other folks... strength in numbers.

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By *aseMan
over a year ago

Gourock

Ffs, Arsehole's...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’m glad for you that you’ve never encountered this before. But by reading the rest of the thread it would seem that it does happen at the hands of mainly men on here.

Single male bashing is the accepted norm within fab that does not mean its the right or proper to do.

As an aside alot of people forget there part in the escalation of a conflict between parties and place all the blame on the other. again I'm not saying that's what happened

What you are possibly alluding to here is that I deserved to be abused by a guy on here. No, not ever. no that's not what I'm alluding to at all!

what I am saying is there was interaction before the outburst and nobody has any clue what was contained within those interactions.

Attempting to put words in my mouth that insinuate I'm all for bad behaviour is not a nice thing to do. Perhaps read what I've written without placing supposed inflections on my words.

as I said in my opening post had this been written by a single male the replies would be very different"

I have been abused on fab for not even opening a message. So indeed sometimes no interaction needs to even take place. And this regularly does happen from single men….likely because the ratio of men to women is extremely unbalanced. My original post does say men and women. I believe plenty of guys have also been on the receiving end of similar behaviour. Unsolicited Abuse should never be tolerated from anyone.

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By *ischiefandmayhem69Couple
over a year ago

cupar

Can you tell that I’m fuming?

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By *ischiefandmayhem69Couple
over a year ago

cupar

Can you tell that I’m fuming?

Totally agree

We have had the same issue. We are not gym bunnies but we are polite and respectful of other people.

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

It's totally not acceptable!

I must be one of the lucky ones who hasn't recieved anything particularly nasty via email.

Some not so happy that your not interested but not abusive.

I do agree with Kola to some degree,most would block but there are some who just love argument and that's when things escalate.

As soon as I see things going that way I don't give them the time of day and just block them to stop things going too far maybe that's why I've not experienced it before who knows

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’m glad for you that you’ve never encountered this before. But by reading the rest of the thread it would seem that it does happen at the hands of mainly men on here.

Single male bashing is the accepted norm within fab that does not mean its the right or proper to do.

As an aside alot of people forget there part in the escalation of a conflict between parties and place all the blame on the other. again I'm not saying that's what happened

What you are possibly alluding to here is that I deserved to be abused by a guy on here. No, not ever. no that's not what I'm alluding to at all!

what I am saying is there was interaction before the outburst and nobody has any clue what was contained within those interactions.

Attempting to put words in my mouth that insinuate I'm all for bad behaviour is not a nice thing to do. Perhaps read what I've written without placing supposed inflections on my words.

as I said in my opening post had this been written by a single male the replies would be very different

I've had a message of abuse purely because I have on my profile that I don't want sex with men..must have been my wording that was offensive and therefore abuse was rightly delivered

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’m glad for you that you’ve never encountered this before. But by reading the rest of the thread it would seem that it does happen at the hands of mainly men on here.

Single male bashing is the accepted norm within fab that does not mean its the right or proper to do.

As an aside alot of people forget there part in the escalation of a conflict between parties and place all the blame on the other. again I'm not saying that's what happened

What you are possibly alluding to here is that I deserved to be abused by a guy on here. No, not ever. no that's not what I'm alluding to at all!

what I am saying is there was interaction before the outburst and nobody has any clue what was contained within those interactions.

Attempting to put words in my mouth that insinuate I'm all for bad behaviour is not a nice thing to do. Perhaps read what I've written without placing supposed inflections on my words.

as I said in my opening post had this been written by a single male the replies would be very different

Oh...hi you!!

hope you are good?

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By *inkycarolineTV/TS
over a year ago

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Firstly I'm sorry that some of you have received abuse, this is unacceptable.

It seems like society in general has lost its manners and fab is a micro society and is no different. Manners cost nothing, the problem is we are dealing with unpredictable people who hide behind their keyboards, possibly having had a drink or two and probably horny. These are never excuses to be abusive.

If your message goes unanswered you have no idea what has happened at the other end, chill out they've probably gone to the loo.......

Anyway, sending big hugs and happy vibes to all you lovely people x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As previously stated it's a sad fact but there are some sad folk out there both male and female. Dont fret over it your letting them win if you do.xx

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