FabSwingers.com forum: fab bullies

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

no need for them! especially when members feel their only way out is to delete their profiles to get rid of them...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"no need for them! especially when members feel their only way out is to delete their profiles to get rid of them... "
That's shocking ! Can't they be reported ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i wouldnt say there was bullies ,i would say that some folk get way to involved and take things to the heart,thick skin is defo needed and an involvement with the outside world often helps keep the two separate .

When some dont get what they want they often spit out their dummies and start accusing others of bullying when often its just that he /she cant handle that the last guy /girl they fuck has went off and fucked someone they dont like

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We all have our own definition of bullies and your always gonna get it on here and in life. Move on, toughen up, ignore, block, report. Life's too short to worry about it

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

People will always fall out on here, been going on for years and will continue... people take sides and the sniping begins in chat & the forums....

why... because the site reflects life.

There will be 3 sides to every story and if people take sides based on one version, bigger fool them.

If people are bullied, report the activity and admin will check.

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

There is and always will be fab bullies on here everyone knows who they are they think if they stick a wee smiley at the end of their comments on the forums it makes it all right well it doesnt, and as _iew said there is always 3 sides to a story your version their version snd somewhere in the middle lies the truth so maybe instead of listening to hearsay get to know the people and make up your mind .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sniping in chat.... Sniping in forums....

Stories being spread.... Heads n tails added.... Chinese whispers.....

People won't block as they like to see what's happening....

People way too over involved in each others life at times....

Some let fab take over there whole lifes....

All a bit like being back at school at times in some of the aspects....

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By *illow PimpMan
over a year ago

Midlothian

I offer a protection service for those not hard enough, send me your lunch money through paypal and i will troll the arse of them

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By *ikkiBWoman
over a year ago

Falkirk

I will admit I did help chase 1 person off the site. I didn't consider it bullying since the guy was sick in the head and site didn't seem to care.

People will always bring up bullying on social sites, sometimes its true, sometimes not. I just try to ignore it all lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

just so we're clear... it wasn't me who was being picked on...

I personally would report and block someone who was being a twat towards me...

some people on here think they can demand exclusivity and when they don't get it they get arsey!

me? I'm here for some adult fun, I out and ignore the trolls lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I offer a protection service for those not hard enough, send me your lunch money through paypal and i will troll the arse of them

excellent stuff... lol

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By *illow PimpMan
over a year ago

Midlothian

"I offer a protection service for those not hard enough, send me your lunch money through paypal and i will troll the arse of them

excellent stuff... lol"

I'm looking to expand, welcome aboard

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Sniping in chat.... Sniping in forums....

Stories being spread.... Heads n tails added.... Chinese whispers.....

People won't block as they like to see what's happening....

People way too over involved in each others life at times....

Some let fab take over there whole lifes....

All a bit like being back at school at times in some of the aspects...."

you'll be kept in for detention lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"some people on here think they can demand exclusivity and when they don't get it they get arsey!"

Couldn't agree more coz guys (and gals) erm hello but .....it's a swinging site!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Such a shame that people feel no other alternative but to leave the site through this .

As you say choc ...Surely people have a right to say no without the crap that follows ..

I know I wouldn't let anyone bully me into leaving when there is a report and block button !!!

Bullies are my pet hate and well whoever they are I hope they are proud of themselves

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Too much crap Chat....

Not enuf sex..

Isnt that what MOST of Us are here for??

Get over it block and move on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sniping in chat.... Sniping in forums....

Stories being spread.... Heads n tails added.... Chinese whispers.....

People won't block as they like to see what's happening....

People way too over involved in each others life at times....

Some let fab take over there whole lifes....

All a bit like being back at school at times in some of the aspects...."

Most certainly is .. I agree with this comment totally

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

the whole exclusivity thing is a mine field on a swingers site and can cause trouble between singles and couples.

some of it comes from singles because they

1... maybe should be/are also on a dating site and are looking for a partner

2...finding it hard as a single and think 'coupling up' may be safer, easier to get meets or opens up more invites to parties and clubs.

3... bizarre as some of the behaviours are akin to animals spraying their pee marking their territory... and that is not exclusive to singles of either sex.

4... some just misread the signs.

5... and some genuinely fall in love.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"the whole exclusivity thing is a mine field on a swingers site and can cause trouble between singles and couples.

some of it comes from singles because they

1... maybe should be/are also on a dating site and are looking for a partner

2...finding it hard as a single and think 'coupling up' may be safer, easier to get meets or opens up more invites to parties and clubs.

3... bizarre as some of the behaviours are akin to animals spraying their pee marking their territory... and that is not exclusive to singles of either sex.

4... some just misread the signs.

5... and some genuinely fall in love.

Bang on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah totally agree, just cos u meet and have a "special" friendship with someone, and another get's soooo jealous that they bully u off the site....utter shyt!!!

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge

as said before three sides to a story and most peoples _iews are subjective on what they have heard not what has went on best bet is to leave em to it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"as said before three sides to a story and most peoples _iews are subjective on what they have heard not what has went on best bet is to leave em to it

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true, but I think if u get to know someone before u decide to bully them then it wouldnae happen!

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By *issBehavingxxWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

"as said before three sides to a story and most peoples _iews are subjective on what they have heard not what has went on best bet is to leave em to it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some folk are too thin skinned. Remember there is a block button.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Some folk are too thin skinned. Remember there is a block button. "

The most underused button

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sniping in chat.... Sniping in forums....

Stories being spread.... Heads n tails added.... Chinese whispers.....

People won't block as they like to see what's happening....

People way too over involved in each others life at times....

Some let fab take over there whole lifes....

All a bit like being back at school at times in some of the aspects...."

Couldnt agree more Jo x

Ya wee Leg Feeler

Buboo

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By *b430Man
over a year ago

Tayside

"Sniping in chat.... Sniping in forums....

Stories being spread.... Heads n tails added.... Chinese whispers.....

People won't block as they like to see what's happening....

People way too over involved in each others life at times....

Some let fab take over there whole lifes....

All a bit like being back at school at times in some of the aspects...."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There will always be bullies especially online regardless of which site you are on.

We have experienced this on other sites and on this one cyber bullying is the easiest form of bullying due to no repercussions.

The best way to deal with bullies is ignore them, they soon get bored. You can also block them/report them and just get on with what you joined this site for I for one would not delete our profile due to bullying

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By *r and Mrs SnogalotCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow

"no need for them! especially when members feel their only way out is to delete their profiles to get rid of them... "

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By *eenonfun2Couple
over a year ago

Glasgow

It is annoying tho, that someone you have blocked then changes their username and gets back in touch!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Even worse when u block and report time and time again and they still manage to get back on the site with a new profile. Makes u wonder If admin do actually do anything about this!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just guessing Admin take a note of IP addresses of those who misuse the site.

There is a antibully gang driving a black red striped GMC somewhere.

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By *illow PimpMan
over a year ago

Midlothian

"Just guessing Admin take a note of IP addresses of those who misuse the site.

IP addresses are easy to mask with software

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To hell with exclusivity, more inclusiveness!

People need to man up and stop crying like a little girl with a skint knee. Its Friday night for fuck sake.

Am going to get my buzz on peeps! Later

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By *ikkiBWoman
over a year ago

Falkirk

"Even worse when u block and report time and time again and they still manage to get back on the site with a new profile. Makes u wonder If admin do actually do anything about this!

At times I actually wonder if reporting works. I have reported a few on this, in some cases for things that would get people locked up yet on here it seems fine.

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

Here is an explanation from Admin from another thread on how they deal with reports.

******Just a quick note. If people report others and we can verify that they have broken site rules, we always take action (either a first and final warning, partially suspended account, fully suspended, mixture of the above).

Every single report sent via the REPORT link is re_iewed. Clearly it's not in our interests to have people on here who are bad for the site. Equally we need to verify what has been reported and be fair to those who have been reported.

Admin

PS. we never provide feedback on what has happened. It's just not practical given that we get 100s of reports a day.

Here is what the page says after a report has been submitted:

Your feedback has been saved.

A website admin will shortly re_iew your feedback and take the necessary action. After re_iewing the evidence available to us, we may disable an account, remove a user, disable certain aspects of that user's account or issue a warning.

By leaving feedback you help improve the site for everyone who uses it. Thank you.******

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sniping in chat.... Sniping in forums....

Stories being spread.... Heads n tails added.... Chinese whispers.....

People won't block as they like to see what's happening....

People way too over involved in each others life at times....

Some let fab take over there whole lifes....

All a bit like being back at school at times in some of the aspects....

Spreads like the preverbial,,,, upset one, give it a couple of days, 100 have decided they too are upset.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"i wouldnt say there was bullies ,i would say that some folk get way to involved and take things to the heart,thick skin is defo needed and an involvement with the outside world often helps keep the two separate .

Thats fine, totally, its the tangled webs some folk weave to get that next meet that peeves people quite often, im being diplomatic here of course, and i hope it rings a bell with others.

All too often we single guys read a cracking profile, message, hope for the best, when in reality we are actually treading on someones toes.

I never close doors on people claiming to be "swingers", where it goes wrong is finding yourself hoping to meet what seems to be an individual,independant people who are litteraly ,,,,part of a tangled web.

Wont group them as "cliques" but it certainly resembles it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They are still here dude and reading the forums tonight I will have to spend the next hour reporting the rule breakers.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"They are still here dude and reading the forums tonight I will have to spend the next hour reporting the rule breakers.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You all need to loosen up, it is a fun site and the whole 'billy' shit has gone to far; people expressing opinion that is all... grow up or get off the site!

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By *wiftieeMan
over a year ago

near Glasgow

Quite amused by the number of 'unlos' this thread has accumulated.

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

"People will always fall out on here, been going on for years and will continue... people take sides and the sniping begins in chat & the forums....

why... because the site reflects life.

There will be 3 sides to every story and if people take sides based on one version, bigger fool them.

If people are bullied, report the activity and admin will check.

And I still agree

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