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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So I’ve been on FS for about 6 weeks now. I’ve only had one social meet. I really can’t help but feel this site if full of chain pullers. The mere suggestion of a meet is usually greeted with the cold shoulder and like other dating sites conversation usually fizzles out.

Is this a casual liaisons site or what?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So I’ve been on FS for about 6 weeks now. I’ve only had one social meet. I really can’t help but feel this site if full of chain pullers. The mere suggestion of a meet is usually greeted with the cold shoulder and like other dating sites conversation usually fizzles out.

Is this a casual liaisons site or what? "

Mate I'm with you on this one .

These slappers on here are just taking the pizza.

When I log on I expect them to drop everything they have planned and meet , feck me it's a swinger site not bible classes.

Site should be called chain pullers not Fab swingers.

Mate if interested we could try crowd funding and buy the site out. There's about 30,000 guys on here having the same issues as me n you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

2 things I take from your profile that might help.

1. You have no visable photo's so your messages will most likely be deleted on sight.

2. You say "wonder what we will tell the grandkids where we met" this could be construed as you want to have kids with someone on here which won't get you very far.

Hope my observations help

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By *astlincscoupleCouple
over a year ago

Tinsel Town


"2 things I take from your profile that might help.

1. You have no visable photo's so your messages will most likely be deleted on sight.

2. You say "wonder what we will tell the grandkids where we met" this could be construed as you want to have kids with someone on here which won't get you very far.

Hope my observations help "

What he said

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By *4Fun11Woman
over a year ago

Glasgow

Maybe because they have plans with other ppl and don’t have time or the inclination to pander to the guys that think they are entitled

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Maybe because they have plans with other ppl and don’t have time or the inclination to pander to the guys that think they are entitled "

Hey you wheesht

We don't think we're entitled, we're the alpha male of the species, you will do as yer told.

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By *ink-KameraMan
over a year ago

Livingston

calling all the women on here slappers probably won't get you too many fans either

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"calling all the women on here slappers probably won't get you too many fans either"

Your probably right. Sry

Right tarts get meeting us alphas. !!!

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By *estless nativeMan
over a year ago

near Glasgow


"calling all the women on here slappers probably won't get you too many fans either

Your probably right. Sry

Right tarts get meeting us alphas. !!! "

If the tarts donut give ye yer hole, will ye call them all buns

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

F/S, Aka, Instashag

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Maybe because they have plans with other ppl and don’t have time or the inclination to pander to the guys that think they are entitled "

I don’t think I’m entitled at all. It’s just I’ve had several people waste my time on here. Now I wouldn’t do that to other people

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"Maybe because they have plans with other ppl and don’t have time or the inclination to pander to the guys that think they are entitled

I don’t think I’m entitled at all. It’s just I’ve had several people waste my time on here. Now I wouldn’t do that to other people "
can I ask how your time was wasted ?

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By *he Regina PhalangeWoman
over a year ago

Lanarkshire


"Maybe because they have plans with other ppl and don’t have time or the inclination to pander to the guys that think they are entitled

I don’t think I’m entitled at all. It’s just I’ve had several people waste my time on here. Now I wouldn’t do that to other people can I ask how your time was wasted ?"

Probably cos no one added him to their friends list!

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By *vbride1963TV/TS
over a year ago

E.K . Glasgow

Been on 6 weeks had 1 social during a pandemic ! Bloody good going by usual standards .

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By *he Regina PhalangeWoman
over a year ago

Lanarkshire

Constructive criticism!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Maybe because they have plans with other ppl and don’t have time or the inclination to pander to the guys that think they are entitled

I don’t think I’m entitled at all. It’s just I’ve had several people waste my time on here. Now I wouldn’t do that to other people can I ask how your time was wasted ?"

Someone said they were going to meet me today. I checked in with them yesterday. No reply. Now before everyone jumps on top of this. I know things can come up and people can be busy but it only takes a minute or two to reply to someone

And I have a good job that takes me away from home. Hence why I really value the time I have at home

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Been on 6 weeks had 1 social during a pandemic ! Bloody good going by usual standards . "

A lot of folk are vaccinated now. At least part one anyway.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Constructive criticism! "

Cheers m’dear

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe my psychic powers are improving but I knew before checking the profile that the O.P had been on less than 3 months and had no public photos available.

Lower your expectations and raise your efforts. Simples

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By *nferno sausageMan
over a year ago

Aberdeenshire


"So I’ve been on FS for about 6 weeks now. I’ve only had one social meet. I really can’t help but feel this site if full of chain pullers. The mere suggestion of a meet is usually greeted with the cold shoulder and like other dating sites conversation usually fizzles out.

Is this a casual liaisons site or what? "

It sounds the me that your technique is lacking and your skin isn't thick enough to get what you're like looking for from Fab. Constructive criticism - maybe work on your communication skills and refrain from publicly blaming others for your failings/frustrations.

And no, it's not a casual liaisons site, it's a swinging site.

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"Maybe because they have plans with other ppl and don’t have time or the inclination to pander to the guys that think they are entitled

I don’t think I’m entitled at all. It’s just I’ve had several people waste my time on here. Now I wouldn’t do that to other people can I ask how your time was wasted ?

Someone said they were going to meet me today. I checked in with them yesterday. No reply. Now before everyone jumps on top of this. I know things can come up and people can be busy but it only takes a minute or two to reply to someone

And I have a good job that takes me away from home. Hence why I really value the time I have at home"
Well as you said things come up unexpected .

if they haven't been online to reply you can assume something has.

Unless time and place was arranged and confirmed then all that was wasted was your time to chat to them .

At least give them the benefit of doubt and hope for an explanation.

I'd rather be let down at the chat stage than actually being stood up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wait what? hold on a second........

This is a site for meeting people? When the feck did that happen?

Well i need to totally rethink what im doing here now lol

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By *sm265Woman
over a year ago

Shangri-la

I'd say if you've only been on 6 weeks & managed to get a social already then you're already doing better than many! Maybe you need to lower your expectations, as has already been mentioned, it's a swingers site not instashag.

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By *irth VaderMan
over a year ago

glasgow

Can’t say I have the same problems you are having. I’ve met some amazing ladies from here and enjoyed socials and occasional tenderness and some debauchery but it didn’t just happen in an instant. You don’t just add water. It takes time, chemistry and patience. If you are in a big hurry why not dip into your pocket and hire someone?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So I’ve been on FS for about 6 weeks now. I’ve only had one social meet. I really can’t help but feel this site if full of chain pullers. The mere suggestion of a meet is usually greeted with the cold shoulder and like other dating sites conversation usually fizzles out.

Had a few meetings. Mostly males

Is this a casual liaisons site or what? "

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By *melia DominaTV/TS
over a year ago

Edinburgh (She/Her)


"So I’ve been on FS for about 6 weeks now. I’ve only had one social meet. I really can’t help but feel this site if full of chain pullers. The mere suggestion of a meet is usually greeted with the cold shoulder and like other dating sites conversation usually fizzles out.

Is this a casual liaisons site or what? "

No.

FAB is a swingers community and resource site first and foremost.

It does have the additional option of meeting others personally, but this is not a core element.

Like so many individuals on this site, they think and treat it as a hook up site.

FAB is not a hook up site.

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By *ischiefandmayhem69Couple
over a year ago

stanley

Bollocks.

What planet are these guys on .

Manners and common courtesy are some basic attributes that you dinosaurs don't seem to have.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Bollocks.

What planet are these guys on .

Manners and common courtesy are some basic attributes that you dinosaurs don't seem to have."

Are you trying to say that shouting " get yer tits out for the boys " is just not going to work on her ? .

I'm devastated , don't know where that leaves my approach.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes it's a nightmare in here, even trying to find a genuine regular female, it's like the game weres wolly

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By *ornyfuckers66Couple
over a year ago

fife

Swinging is about swapping partners Your on the wrong site

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By *orthseatiger69Man
over a year ago

Ayrshire /North lanarshire

Have you tried the “Fancy a Fuck “ message route ?

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By *nferno sausageMan
over a year ago

Aberdeenshire


"Have you tried the “Fancy a Fuck “ message route ? "

Obviously not! He's only after casual coffee liaisons. Duh

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By *orthseatiger69Man
over a year ago

Ayrshire /North lanarshire


"Have you tried the “Fancy a Fuck “ message route ?

Obviously not! He's only after casual coffee liaisons. Duh"

Coffee is a serious commitment, Independent, Costa , Cafe Niro , Tim Hortons or maybe he is after a Starfucks

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By *tew008Man
over a year ago

edinburgh

Had a social meet and he is complaining

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