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"About a week we made a change to our profile Not Looking for single men. Normally we get hundreds if not 1000+ profile views in 24 hours, mixtures of single men and others. Now on average we're getting between 11 and 25 profile views in 24 hours. The percentage of single men on Fab must be huge, we reckon around 70% of members are men. " If 70% of the members are men I'd say about 70% of those are dodgy accounts or time wasters sadly which give is genuine a bad name  | |||
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"About a week we made a change to our profile Not Looking for single men. Normally we get hundreds if not 1000+ profile views in 24 hours, mixtures of single men and others. Now on average we're getting between 11 and 25 profile views in 24 hours. The percentage of single men on Fab must be huge, we reckon around 70% of members are men. If 70% of the members are men I'd say about 70% of those are dodgy accounts or time wasters sadly which give is genuine a bad name "How do timewasters give others a bad name? I just don't understand when people say that . You are in charge of your own destiny on here no one else! | |||
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"About a week we made a change to our profile Not Looking for single men. Normally we get hundreds if not 1000+ profile views in 24 hours, mixtures of single men and others. Now on average we're getting between 11 and 25 profile views in 24 hours. The percentage of single men on Fab must be huge, we reckon around 70% of members are men. If 70% of the members are men I'd say about 70% of those are dodgy accounts or time wasters sadly which give is genuine a bad name How do timewasters give others a bad name?
I just don't understand when people say that .
You are in charge of your own destiny on here no one else!"My thoughts entirely. Granted, some women may become wary, weary and guarded by their experiences on here, but I imagine, and in my experience I find it to be true, that you'll only get shot with the craws if you fly with them. | |||
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"About a week we made a change to our profile Not Looking for single men. Normally we get hundreds if not 1000+ profile views in 24 hours, mixtures of single men and others. Now on average we're getting between 11 and 25 profile views in 24 hours. The percentage of single men on Fab must be huge, we reckon around 70% of members are men. If 70% of the members are men I'd say about 70% of those are dodgy accounts or time wasters sadly which give is genuine a bad name How do timewasters give others a bad name?
I just don't understand when people say that .
You are in charge of your own destiny on here no one else!"As ever it's not as simple as that. Due to the abuse idiots give women on here, Women are predisposed to expect it at every turn from any single man even if they do know that there are a good lot of decent polite men on here. So it often happens that despite your messages being totally cool, funny, relevant, complimentary, reasonable in frequency, not bullshit, not pushy or boring .. you still get edgy replies and attitude heavy backchat which you certainly don't (well I don't) down the pub. However on here you are one of many and disposable via blocking so you have to just accept it tbh that due to this site's free use and fairly cheap to subscribe it's always going to be that way. It's the big drawback of this site for genuine nice guys. Imo. | |||
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"About a week we made a change to our profile Not Looking for single men. Normally we get hundreds if not 1000+ profile views in 24 hours, mixtures of single men and others. Now on average we're getting between 11 and 25 profile views in 24 hours. The percentage of single men on Fab must be huge, we reckon around 70% of members are men. " 1000,plus profile views, wow, that's a lot | |||
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"About a week we made a change to our profile Not Looking for single men. Normally we get hundreds if not 1000+ profile views in 24 hours, mixtures of single men and others. Now on average we're getting between 11 and 25 profile views in 24 hours. The percentage of single men on Fab must be huge, we reckon around 70% of members are men. If 70% of the members are men I'd say about 70% of those are dodgy accounts or time wasters sadly which give is genuine a bad name How do timewasters give others a bad name?
I just don't understand when people say that .
You are in charge of your own destiny on here no one else!
As ever it's not as simple as that.
Due to the abuse idiots give women on here, Women are predisposed to expect it at every turn from any single man even if they do know that there are a good lot of decent polite men on here. So it often happens that despite your messages being totally cool, funny, relevant, complimentary, reasonable in frequency, not bullshit, not pushy or boring .. you still get edgy replies and attitude heavy backchat which you certainly don't (well I don't) down the pub. However on here you are one of many and disposable via blocking so you have to just accept it tbh that due to this site's free use and fairly cheap to subscribe it's always going to be that way. It's the big drawback of this site for genuine nice guys. Imo."There’s a middle ground here I think, there is no doubt that there is a vast majority of males. Alas a big majority of those males do not represent their sex well. HOWEVER (important bit) as Imacunninguist pointed out one finds ones way, if you are selective then you find like minded folk. It’s what you do in real life after all  | |||
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"That doesn't make sense...(unless they have changed something since I was last here) but simply updating your profile to "not looking for single men" doesn't stop them viewing it.... "Good point. Only stops messages and (I think) winks. | |||
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"About a week we made a change to our profile Not Looking for single men. Normally we get hundreds if not 1000+ profile views in 24 hours, mixtures of single men and others. Now on average we're getting between 11 and 25 profile views in 24 hours. The percentage of single men on Fab must be huge, we reckon around 70% of members are men. If 70% of the members are men I'd say about 70% of those are dodgy accounts or time wasters sadly which give is genuine a bad name How do timewasters give others a bad name?
I just don't understand when people say that .
You are in charge of your own destiny on here no one else!
As ever it's not as simple as that.
Due to the abuse idiots give women on here, Women are predisposed to expect it at every turn from any single man even if they do know that there are a good lot of decent polite men on here. So it often happens that despite your messages being totally cool, funny, relevant, complimentary, reasonable in frequency, not bullshit, not pushy or boring .. you still get edgy replies and attitude heavy backchat which you certainly don't (well I don't) down the pub. However on here you are one of many and disposable via blocking so you have to just accept it tbh that due to this site's free use and fairly cheap to subscribe it's always going to be that way. It's the big drawback of this site for genuine nice guys. Imo."Its not just males who give out abuse! There are known women & couples who dish it out too . I never expect to be given abuse & to be fair in all my time here can count on one hand the amount of times I have & I've been here a lot of years . | |||
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"Normally we get hundreds if not 1000+ profile views in 24 hours, " Really? 
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"About a week we made a change to our profile Not Looking for single men. Normally we get hundreds if not 1000+ profile views in 24 hours, mixtures of single men and others. Now on average we're getting between 11 and 25 profile views in 24 hours. The percentage of single men on Fab must be huge, we reckon around 70% of members are men. If 70% of the members are men I'd say about 70% of those are dodgy accounts or time wasters sadly which give is genuine a bad name How do timewasters give others a bad name?
I just don't understand when people say that .
You are in charge of your own destiny on here no one else!
As ever it's not as simple as that.
Due to the abuse idiots give women on here, Women are predisposed to expect it at every turn from any single man even if they do know that there are a good lot of decent polite men on here. So it often happens that despite your messages being totally cool, funny, relevant, complimentary, reasonable in frequency, not bullshit, not pushy or boring .. you still get edgy replies and attitude heavy backchat which you certainly don't (well I don't) down the pub. However on here you are one of many and disposable via blocking so you have to just accept it tbh that due to this site's free use and fairly cheap to subscribe it's always going to be that way. It's the big drawback of this site for genuine nice guys. Imo."Sorry but this reeks of entitlement. | |||
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