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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Isn't it time we had a special verification system for single men.

The minority are complete time wasters and literally are just wankers.

Breaking off communication,not turning up or a whole host of anti sociable swinging behaviour.

Lets give the honest men more of a chance and out these wasters.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lets introduce a swinging ASBO system. 3 Bad reviews and your named and shamed. Thats why genuine guys get a bad name and no-one ever bothers getting back to them.

I mean i find it hard to believe that a single guy would arrange a meet then not turn up... WHAT IS THE POINT IN THAT?!?!?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Totally agree.

3 hits and your out.

Some of the ladies on here are as hot as hell so why would some guy in his right mind arrange a meet and then not show.

That also goes for the ladies, have had a couple of no shows there too. Went to the bother of turning up for a meet, stood in the pouring rain and get stood up.

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

awww hunni too bad but has happend to me lots once stood up n been cancelled on more times than id like to mention xxx

so yeah i say its a gd idea xxxx

luv jacs

xxxx

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By *adcowWoman
over a year ago

kirkcaldy

was gonna say the same should apply to the fems who don't show..after all its the age of equality
"Totally agree.

3 hits and your out.

Some of the ladies on here are as hot as hell so why would some guy in his right mind arrange a meet and then not show.

That also goes for the ladies, have had a couple of no shows there too. Went to the bother of turning up for a meet, stood in the pouring rain and get stood up. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

That also goes for the ladies, have had a couple of no shows there too. Went to the bother of turning up for a meet, stood in the pouring rain and get stood up. "

that i very agree with

its just not us single guys

its all

but agree with what has said

3 strikes your out

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Fantastic idea,you should offer the three strikes idea as a Site Suggestion.

In retrospect this should apply to everyone,not just the men.

Thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had couples be a complete waste of space too.

I can think of one in particular that asked for a meet I was half way to their place (90 minute drive) and they txt'ed to say she had a hangover from night before and was cancelling.

Then after a few weeks the same couple called me ten minutes before I was due to leave to meet them to say she had "come on" and that I wasn't to come through.

It snot just single guys its anybody however I think thats why its good to get to chat to folk via the site and via going to the socials as per Marys post prior to meeting.

Although sometimes a horny arrive and drive meet is great fun & very erotic;)

I dont need a three strikes policy, I chat to folk and check verifications, if somebody I know has verified or meet somebody and NOT verified thats the ones you need to double check..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Heres a potentialy controversial one.

I dont think there are timewasters on here.

What there is though, is a combination of, "swingers too busy(swinging wise) too busy(elsewhere,work,home), there are people so new to it they absolutely lose their nerve at critical point in arrangements.

Some are simply chaotic,have zero organisational skill to get their act together to meet too.

I'm giving folk the benefit of understandable doubts and maybe idealistically,as i say, out n out timewasting is not a thing folks purposely set out to do. Its a nifty diffrent angle on it if nowt else,lol

T

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

good idea but won't work

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just a theory, think everyone has encountered at some stage an unexpected event thats put mockers on fun plans.

But i always quickly and efficiently explain that to potential meets. I never just abandon folks. Ok right and if folks do that then maybe the deserve the "timewaster" tag,,lol

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By *imfromGlasgowMan
over a year ago

er...guess

RockNRolla's point about "I dont need a three strikes policy, I chat to folk and check verifications, if somebody I know has verified or meet somebody and NOT verified thats the ones you need to double check.." is well made.

If a couple is looking for a single guy or guys for a small party or gangbang probably the best place to start, after asking existing single male friends about their pals, is to check single guys verified 'by meeting' by couples you know and trust.

Despite many moans here and all over the net about unreliable single guys there's plenty of good ones out there who'd never risk a hard earned reputation by failing to turn up or behave badly. Whilst naming and shaming isn't (rightly) allowed there's nothing at all to stop couples chatting socially about who to meet and who to avoid. You can't, of course, place absolute faith in one bad reference but if you begin to hear more from other people..........

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By *areassetsukMan
over a year ago

edinburgh

Well i am verified lol

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By *eclan_and_AimeeCouple
over a year ago

dunblane, stirling

what ever happened to the 'give your 2p on'? That idea might work in the same way that the feedback does on ebay and the likes. - like if everyone had a percentage?

The only bad thing is this might get abused too in the same way that naming and shaming would if someone was to take a dislike to you.

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By *eclan_and_AimeeCouple
over a year ago

dunblane, stirling

ohh, erm... i just realised i mentioned another site there - whoopsies!

apologies

xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"awww hunni too bad but has happend to me lots once stood up n been cancelled on more times than id like to mention xxx

so yeah i say its a gd idea xxxx

luv jacs

xxxx"

how could anyone possibly cancel on you jacs are single men going MAD!!!!

xxpeanutxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm certified does that count,

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

LOL AWW WELL PEANUT MAYBE BUT THEN AGAIN IS BEEN THERE LOSS I SAY LOL

LUV JACS

XXXX

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

LMAO mr 44 lol

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