FabSwingers.com forum: Advice?

By *tuart89 OP Man
over a year ago

Pollockshields

Hey guys and girls.

So I'm not a big "selfie" kind of guy and there really just aren't many pics of me out there (my best are on here)

Can anyone give me some advice on why I get practically no responses to messages while I get a decent amount of views? Is it the bit about me? Should I be more or less straightforward? Or do i need more pics of myself? And if that's the case does anyone fancy helping me take some decent ones?

All opinions are welcome

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hey guys and girls.

So I'm not a big "selfie" kind of guy and there really just aren't many pics of me out there (my best are on here)

All opinions are welcome

Your recent pics won't help tbf the older ones are better but at the end of the day it's the recent ones that matter if you put a lot of whining or begging statuses up that will be another reason also contrary to popular belief people only need to message the people they want too lastly you might not have been able to get a meet veri but surely you could have got a cam one by now so with the age of your profile it just starts to look like there must be a reason why and all these red flags equal a swerve from most

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By *o and peepCouple
over a year ago

falkirk

What you are looking for is a little niche unless you have ticked the wrong boxes of course but if you messaged us we would not have an issue chatting at least you have pics unlike most !

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By *tuart89 OP Man
over a year ago

Pollockshields

Thank you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't think there anything particularly wrong with your profile, you have face pics which is a bonus, not all cock pics. What you've written seems honest and straightforward.

Try going into chat room on cam maybe get someone to verify you as genuine. Apart from that its a patience thing .

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By *tuart89 OP Man
over a year ago

Pollockshields

Thank you, it's much appreciated

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You could start by spelling Pollokshields correctly.

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By *oanne_MacTV/TS
over a year ago

Perth

"You could start by spelling Pollokshields correctly."

And you could start by being in a position to comment, being on longer, having less pics and less of a bio and also not verified, means you're not.

OP your profile is fine, the timing of joining and covid has probably worked against you. I'm sure you'll be fine.

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By *tuart89 OP Man
over a year ago

Pollockshields

Yea mate if I want the opinion of an asshole I'll fart.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yea mate if I want the opinion of an asshole I'll fart. "

Always one fanny with their smart comments.

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

Maybe post some pics with less cluttered backgrounds ? Some people might find a heap of dirty washing or a bow and arrow offputting.

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By *tuart89 OP Man
over a year ago

Pollockshields

I appreciate your opinion. But if unfolded clean clothes and my archery equipment is enough to put someone off then they weren't smart enough to be of interest anyway

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By *tuart89 OP Man
over a year ago

Pollockshields

Thanks, I feel like you defended my honour. Lots of love x

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

Can anyone give me some advice on why I get practically no responses to messages while I get a decent amount of views? "

It might be because of the content of the messages

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yea mate if I want the opinion of an asshole I'll fart.

Always one fanny with their smart comments.

And sometimes a sense of humour and the ability to laugh at oneself wins the day

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your profile is absolutely fine and your profile pics are good too. Don't change anything OP, just give it time and just be yourself x

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By *tuart89 OP Man
over a year ago

Pollockshields

Can anyone give me some advice on why I get practically no responses to messages while I get a decent amount of views?

It might be because of the content of the messages "

The messages the pictures send?

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By *tuart89 OP Man
over a year ago

Pollockshields

"Your profile is absolutely fine and your profile pics are good too. Don't change anything OP, just give it time and just be yourself x"

It's a shame I'm outside your age range.

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

The messages the pictures send? "

The messages you write

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By *tuart89 OP Man
over a year ago

Pollockshields

The messages the pictures send?

The messages you write"

My last reply to you was out of order. And I do apologize. I got a little butt hurt. Shouldn't have given you a sarcastic reply. I am sorry

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By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago

Paisley

Your phone should have a timer on the camera and this will let you take better pics.

Single guys always have a hard time on here. Give it time and meet for a social once restrictions are lifted and you’ll get verified.

Join in the forums and people will get to know you.

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By *tuart89 OP Man
over a year ago

Pollockshields

"Your phone should have a timer on the camera and this will let you take better pics.

Single guys always have a hard time on here. Give it time and meet for a social once restrictions are lifted and you’ll get verified.

Join in the forums and people will get to know you. "

Thank you for your help

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Join in the forums and people will get to know you. "

I would say people have got to know him from this thread already. Not all good things, just my thoughts .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The messages the pictures send?

The messages you write"

I can't comment on the OP's messages specifically, but it's worthwhile not only assessing the profile but also message content when looking to increase replies.

Someones profile could be perfect but if their communication is arrogant, dull, offensive, ignorant etc the profiles dead in the water.

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By *nferno sausageMan
over a year ago

Aberdeenshire

For a start, personally, I wouldn't post that all opinions are welcome, then call someone an asshole for offering a, though somewhat cheeky, opinion. I also wouldn't question someone's intelligence if they're put off by a cluttered background. Pictures tell a thousand words, after all. Thirdly - people talk, so do try to convey yourself well in private. Lastly - have thick skin, and as stated above, the ability to laugh at ones self helps.

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By *4Fun11Woman
over a year ago

Glasgow

Fab is fickle and full of fickle folk.

Grow a thick skin because whatever you do/say it’s never going to be right.

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