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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Had a meet with a girl on here and thought it went well. Even left her a verification. Since the meet, have not heard so much as a peep from her! Not even chit chat.

Anyone else had similar experiences?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Typical woman. They are only after one thing.

They get your bobby then ignore you.

Damn them!

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

There are a lot of people on here who are only after a shag and will do anything they have to to get one but they have no intrest in remaining friends afterwards just the way it is for some x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Typical woman. They are only after one thing.

They get your bobby then ignore you.

Damn them! "
who said that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Typical woman. They are only after one thing.

They get your bobby then ignore you.

Damn them! "

Haha same could be said for the men! And wot about those that know can't have u stop chatting to u!

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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814

Maybe she just not interested.....Its usually THAT simple!!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Yeah its not like I'm sitting bawling my eyes out or anything, but thought the site was meant to be about the social side of things as well as hanky spanky. Oh well, I'm a big boy

And not just in the pants department :p

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Or dosnt want a repeat

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i'd say about 90% of my meets, i never want to speak to them or talk to them again. Its just a meet for sex, pure and simple, i dont want to be friends with them.

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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814


"i'd say about 90% of my meets, i never want to speak to them or talk to them again. Its just a meet for sex, pure and simple, i dont want to be friends with them."

Hell, 90% of my meets I don't want to have sex with......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i'd say about 90% of my meets, i never want to speak to them or talk to them again. Its just a meet for sex, pure and simple, i dont want to be friends with them.

Hell, 90% of my meets I don't want to have sex with......"

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I'm presuming this refers to social meets too. Otherwise there's a term for this.

It's called rape :s

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I have no problem with that. But a decent polite person would send the person a brief message saying as much.

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"I'm presuming this refers to social meets too. Otherwise there's a term for this.

It's called rape :s"
eh what the heck ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm presuming this refers to social meets too. Otherwise there's a term for this.

It's called rape :s"

Wot!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

If 90% of your meets you don't want to have sex with why meet them? I was merely making a joke that if you have sex with someone but don't want to its called rape.

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"If 90% of your meets you don't want to have sex with why meet them? I was merely making a joke that if you have sex with someone but don't want to its called rape. "
hmmmmmm

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By *andsCouple
over a year ago

Edin

this is a sex site .... not a dating site, not a "meet a friend for life" site and many people choose to do as it says on the tin .. meet, shag and go! everyone wants different things ce la vie.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If 90% of your meets you don't want to have sex with why meet them? I was merely making a joke that if you have sex with someone but don't want to its called rape. "

I don't shag for shaggings sake! And just coz I meet someone doesn't automatically mean in gonna jump their bones!

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By *illow PimpMan
over a year ago

Midlothian

After a meet i get busy arranging my next one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If 90% of your meets you don't want to have sex with why meet them? I was merely making a joke that if you have sex with someone but don't want to its called rape.

I don't shag for shaggings sake! And just coz I meet someone doesn't automatically mean in gonna jump their bones! "

I always hope that there's bones to be jumped but it don't always end up like that

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Makes a change from all the usual time wasters who have no intention in ever meeting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Had a meet with a girl on here and thought it went well. Even left her a verification. Since the meet, have not heard so much as a peep from her! Not even chit chat.

Anyone else had similar experiences? "

On the other hand, your meet could be thinking your too clingy, wanting too much and its too much for her.

Only person that knows that will be her…

S.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe askin the obvious,,, are they still on the site?

Sensing she musta been frrrrrrrrrrikkin awsome, for you to be goin on bout her?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lol im waiting on you jumping on my bones legzz lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Maybe askin the obvious,,, are they still on the site?

Sensing she musta been frrrrrrrrrrikkin awsome, for you to be goin on bout her?

She is still on the site. She was good; that's all I'm saying. Everyone uses the site in their own way and I just like to be sociable

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i'd say about 90% of my meets, i never want to speak to them or talk to them again. Its just a meet for sex, pure and simple, i dont want to be friends with them."

I like that, i get it in diffrent circs, usually my big gob causes the no talkin or seeing them again.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

i'd say about 90% of my meets, i never want to speak to them or talk to them again. Its just a meet for sex, pure and simple, i dont want to be friends with them.

I'd be more than happy for you to fuck me then never utter a peep to me again. In fact, we should be completely silent whilst doing it too!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Lol im waiting on you jumping on my bones legzz lol "

Jumpetty jump jump

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Lol im waiting on you jumping on my bones legzz lol

Jumpetty jump jump "

that a trampoline or really bouncy bed

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By *cottishsexgoddessWoman
over a year ago

Glenrothes


"After a meet i get busy arranging my next one "

Is that what you were doing? I wondered!

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By *illow PimpMan
over a year ago

Midlothian


"After a meet i get busy arranging my next one

Is that what you were doing? I wondered! "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

everyone is different. I've remained friends with some people for years after a meet. had some people I've met regularly and some people I'm happy to just make it a one off. I really don't think that makes me a bad person lol and certainly wouldn't say I'd do anything to get sex. this isn't real life it's a side show xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

you do host a good barbeque though sexxxxxxxxxxxxxxys

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Quick question, did she leave you a verification ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"you do host a good barbeque though sexxxxxxxxxxxxxxys "

lol tents in the garden for next one but it's like a jungle just now

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By *cottybhoyMan
over a year ago

falkirk


"i'd say about 90% of my meets, i never want to speak to them or talk to them again. Its just a meet for sex, pure and simple, i dont want to be friends with them.

Hell, 90% of my meets I don't want to have sex with......"

A lot of disappointed ladies on here lol!

Take note chaps - we ain't pressing enough buttons lol

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By *phrodysiacWoman
over a year ago

Leven

thats why I call men pandas..... eats shoots and leaves

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Quick question, did she leave you a verification ?"

She eventually replied and left a verification. And there was me thinking sending a text to see if someone is still alive after leaving your place late at night was a good thing to do lol. In future maybe I should just fuck and go as it seems to be the done thing, advocated by most of the replies on here! :p

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Quick question, did she leave you a verification ?

She eventually replied and left a verification. And there was me thinking sending a text to see if someone is still alive after leaving your place late at night was a good thing to do lol. In future maybe I should just fuck and go as it seems to be the done thing, advocated by most of the replies on here! :p"
To be honest im very disappointed if I leave a meet and they don't ask me to let them know I'm home safely, it's just good manners I think.

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By *sk_morrisseyMan
over a year ago

glasgow


"thats why I call men pandas..... eats shoots and leaves"

Those types are just in Edinburgh though Sally and very hirsute! :P lol x

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By *issNaughtyxxxWoman
over a year ago

Aberdeen

When i first joined that happened to me, i drove to Newcastle to meet them. Drove home and never heard from them again, perhaps i was not what they had hoped.

Thankfully not really experienced that again but certainly people have different ways after a meet.

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By *__KMan
over a year ago

Aberdeen

I've had a couple of people that never speak to me again, but I'm not that fussed. Hell, I've had people who I never knew the name of. Then you get the people who decide to be nasty pieces of work, and after 2 and a half years of silence, get abuse from them whenever they create a new profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My personal preference is to meet people socially first for a coffee drink see how it goes I prefer the fun of a regular meet too as I'm extremely hard to please in the bedroom department and pretty insatiable do find one off meets pretty insatisfying, I have had the old chat for a while meet fuck then never hear from them again though as at end of the day it's something dIfferent to each person on here what does piss me off are the ones who seem to have forgotten they fucked you and six months later they message you as if your a complete stranger then start the old oh lost your number etc etc lol sorry if I was only good enough for a panda fuck last time I don't fancy a repeat performance lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Doh! Am such an idiot, just answered my own question there lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My personal preference is to meet people socially first for a coffee drink see how it goes I prefer the fun of a regular meet too as I'm extremely hard to please in the bedroom department and pretty insatiable do find one off meets pretty insatisfying, I have had the old chat for a while meet fuck then never hear from them again though as at end of the day it's something dIfferent to each person on here what does piss me off are the ones who seem to have forgotten they fucked you and six months later they message you as if your a complete stranger then start the old oh lost your number etc etc lol sorry if I was only good enough for a panda fuck last time I don't fancy a repeat performance lol "

are guys really that thick??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My personal preference is to meet people socially first for a coffee drink see how it goes I prefer the fun of a regular meet too as I'm extremely hard to please in the bedroom department and pretty insatiable do find one off meets pretty insatisfying, I have had the old chat for a while meet fuck then never hear from them again though as at end of the day it's something dIfferent to each person on here what does piss me off are the ones who seem to have forgotten they fucked you and six months later they message you as if your a complete stranger then start the old oh lost your number etc etc lol sorry if I was only good enough for a panda fuck last time I don't fancy a repeat performance lol

are guys really that thick?? "

Yeah I seem to get them over and over then they get all upset if you say your not interested but you were before !!! Eh yeah before you showed your not really looking for a regular thing but more a numbers thing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Make a list n tell your friends to steer clear (oops is that against the rules!)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Make a list n tell your friends to steer clear (oops is that against the rules!) "

Oh I tend to end up arguing with them

In chat when I've got pmt lol Steve usually kicks me out lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Make a list n tell your friends to steer clear (oops is that against the rules!)

Oh I tend to end up arguing with them

In chat when I've got pmt lol Steve usually kicks me out lol "

Go girl! Your such a rebel

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Make a list n tell your friends to steer clear (oops is that against the rules!) "

Are there rules?

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By *hillaxMan
over a year ago

Scotland


"Maybe she just not interested.....Its usually THAT simple!!!"

You're just overthinking that! lol lol lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, FAB is a sex site, not a dating site.

However, I think it's only manners to make sure the person you've spent the evening having sex with has made it home safely. It's also nice to leave a compliment...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Had a meet with a girl on here and thought it went well. Even left her a verification. Since the meet, have not heard so much as a peep from her! Not even chit chat.

Anyone else had similar experiences? "

Think you served her need at that time, and she's moved on. You won't be the first or the last that this will happen to. Most people have or will experience this.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Make a list n tell your friends to steer clear (oops is that against the rules!)

Oh I tend to end up arguing with them

In chat when I've got pmt lol Steve usually kicks me out lol

Go girl! Your such a rebel "

Lol I know haha such a bad girl lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"

Yes, FAB is a sex site, not a dating site.

However, I think it's only manners to make sure the person you've spent the evening having sex with has made it home safely. It's also nice to leave a compliment...

In addition to this I would add if someone asks if you got home ok, it's only polite to indicate you got home ok. Unless of course, you didn't.....which is what one would presume if there is no reply

"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What was the question again he he he xxx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Funny how it's a sex site but so many people have on their profile "Not Meeting"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Funny how you keep mentioning this also.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Funny how you keep mentioning this also."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Move on.... Doesn't effect ur life...don't take it all too serious.....

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