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non fab friends and nights out . whats better ??

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Just wondered who thinks what regarding going out with friends who don't know about our swinging habits and do we enjoy a night out more or less . Also are we tempted to let it slip to them when we've had a few ???

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge

socials and so forth are a fantastic night out but i dont understand the concept that "vanillas" dont have fun some of my wildest most sexual nights out have been away from this site

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Och! if only we had friends vanilla or swinging ones lol

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By *andsCouple
over a year ago

Edin

Cant really compare nights out with non swinging friends and swinging ones ... each are good in their own way.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

thats true kola but what did you do with the goat when you were done with it

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By *andsCouple
over a year ago

Edin


"Och! if only we had friends vanilla or swinging ones lol "

I will be your friend lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Suppose with us being fairly newish still to it all it's still that part you're doing something exciting no one else knows about on a non fab night out , but I do love the freedom of being on a social or with fab friends and being able to talk openly about anything and know you won't be judged and everyone around you is having similar thoughts ..

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By *issNaughtyxxxWoman
over a year ago

Aberdeen

Personally some of my best nights out have been at socials and partys. Lots fun nights out with vanilla friends but for me fab nights out are better as i at the end of a night i enjoy some adult fun with friends

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"Suppose with us being fairly newish still to it all it's still that part you're doing something exciting no one else knows about on a non fab night out , but I do love the freedom of being on a social or with fab friends and being able to talk openly about anything and know you won't be judged and everyone around you is having similar thoughts .. "
Don't really agree that you Wont be judged because even as swingers your judged by other swingers sadly lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

it's a thrill knowing everyone there is a swinger...

I love my "fab" friends and there's always the chance of some "fun" xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"it's a thrill knowing everyone there is a swinger...

I love my "fab" friends and there's always the chance of some "fun" xxx"

no fun at the actual social.... I mean afterwards *ahem*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just wondered who thinks what regarding going out with friends who don't know about our swinging habits and do we enjoy a night out more or less . Also are we tempted to let it slip to them when we've had a few ??? "

All my friends and some of my family know I'm on fab and more recently they are asking more questions and accepting it more I took my vanilla pal and her bf along to a social with me and they loved the banter and openness although they and me were a bit peeved at a few individuals who added to the stereotype of sad desperate individuals by acting out at the social event and utterly disgracing themselves

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

for me, there is absolulety no difference on a night out whether with people from this site, or out with friends. Although i tend to prefer 'vanilla' nights out as my mates are wilder and party harder than any social etc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

no difference for me at all as i never take pre-conceived ideas to any night out i'm on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Been to loads of socials on another sex site and yeah they are good ive made a few friends for life, my real life friends is the best night out they know me through and through we party hard and laugh hard,clubbing all weekend and festivals and holidays vanilla friends win hands down !!!

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By *illow PimpMan
over a year ago

Midlothian

Normal pals wins for me although in saying that i have a few from here who i consider good pals now and who i wouldn't have any sexual encounter with to prevent any awkwardness later down the line.

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By *r and Mrs SnogalotCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow

Our "vanilla" friends all accept that Fly and I are very open when it comes to sex and sexual exploits (though we do know when to be good though).

Socials and meetings with our newly found fab friends, whether it be a day shopping or a night on the town, have just led to a more active social life for us

Either vanilla or fab I don't think we behave any differently in public. It's what goes in behind closed doors that differs.

As for tempted to tell - we do, they just don't believe us.

Shy xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't have any vanilla friends... how sad lol

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"Our "vanilla" friends all accept that Fly and I are very open when it comes to sex and sexual exploits (though we do know when to be good though).

Socials and meetings with our newly found fab friends, whether it be a day shopping or a night on the town, have just led to a more active social life for us Agree when my work colleagues say what did you do this weekend and I say oh I met two guys for a hot 3sm or stallion and i met a couple for hot sex they just laugh and say I right jacs ..I usually have a wee chuckle if only they knew the half of it lol

Either vanilla or fab I don't think we behave any differently in public. It's what goes in behind closed doors that differs.

As for tempted to tell - we do, they just don't believe us.

Shy xx "

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By *r and Mrs SnogalotCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow


"I don't have any vanilla friends... how sad lol "

I can be vanilla for you

Shy xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We prefer nights out with our friends as on those nights half of them don't stand against the walls of the room and look at me as if I'm something to eat...then bombard us with emails for days afterwards...

We love meeting up with other fab members for a few drinks as its always new chat and a great laugh although no-one seems to want to meet us anymore lol

Only a select few of our non swing friends know what we get upto, we both honestly think that the majority are either too immature or small minded to understand out reasons and would gossip like mad xx

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By *eenonfun2Couple
over a year ago

Glasgow

I enjoy both vanilla and fab friends' companies, and have made good friends-with-benefits thru this site.

I have met a lot of lovely people on fabs, and consider the lucky few to be true friends, whether we play when we meet or not.

Only a couple of my vanilla female friends know about our swinging, and I like to keep it that way

As for nights out, I enjoy both, however as I am sex-mad, I need to hold my tongue after a few drinks wit friends.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I keep my swinging life and my vanilla life separate,I dont want to be judged by people I've known along time,and they never question where iam,as my circle of friends is wide,I love the naughtiness of having fab friends,who I can express myself with,and have like minded fun and laughs,nothing better than a fab friend,undressing you with their eyes,over a few stiff ones x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because of my job I don't get enough time to see my vanilla friends but oh I so luv meeting up with them for a girly night out. Drinking, laughing, talking pish and spilling beans. It's wot friends are for. Good thing is I know they won't judge me or let me down and are always just a phone call away

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

so whos all looking forward to their swing nite out tonight ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Me lol . Looking forward to it now

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"Me lol . Looking forward to it now "
me too hun xxx

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By *r and Mrs SnogalotCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow


"Me lol . Looking forward to it now me too hun xxx "

Am so excited

Shy xxx

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"Me lol . Looking forward to it now me too hun xxx

Am so excited

Shy xxx"
And i just cant hide it im about to lose control and i just cant hide it lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Suppose with us being fairly newish still to it all it's still that part you're doing something exciting no one else knows about on a non fab night out , but I do love the freedom of being on a social or with fab friends and being able to talk openly about anything and know you won't be judged and everyone around you is having similar thoughts .. Don't really agree that you Wont be judged because even as swingers your judged by other swingers sadly lol "

I agree poeple R too quick to judge I say live n let live x

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