FabSwingers.com forum: Have you ever come across a profile where you recognise or know the person?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Probably been asked before but i'm quite new.

I've seen a few people on here, some I know some I just recognise.

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

"Probably been asked before but i'm quite new.

I've seen a few people on here, some I know some I just recognise."
In all my years on here I've never saw anyone I know or recognise away from fab

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By *exicolaMan
over a year ago

West Lothian

Yeah a few. Will always just leave them be.

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By *orders CoupleCouple
over a year ago

Kelso

"Probably been asked before but i'm quite new.

I've seen a few people on here, some I know some I just recognise."

You do look familiar

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Probably been asked before but i'm quite new.

I've seen a few people on here, some I know some I just recognise.In all my years on here I've never saw anyone I know or recognise away from fab

That's because everyone you know is already on Fab. Ya wee minx.

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

"Probably been asked before but i'm quite new.

I've seen a few people on here, some I know some I just recognise.In all my years on here I've never saw anyone I know or recognise away from fab

That's because everyone you know is already on Fab. Ya wee minx.

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lmao

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By *hy and innocentCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow

Several times. I just leave them be.

Innocent

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes . There's always gonna be someone that pops up that you know. If they message and send a face pic , I always send one back. I think it's more courteous than telling them you know them and not letting on who you are !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope never and long may that last x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope not yet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yip

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Quite a few!

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By *ettercallsaul118Man
over a year ago

Funtown

I've never came across although I've sent my picture a few times and straight away they block me that people close by so I think they might no me lol

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By *cottishMrsWoman
over a year ago

Wishaw

I'm super surprised at how many have never met anyone they knew! Jeez, there's been like five people I've known within one or two streets of me lol. I've spoke to loads of people I know, loads of people I went to school with. Never actually went there with anyone from school, but it's always been funny to catch up in that way afterwards lol xx

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By *ixen13Woman
over a year ago

Cowdenbeath

yeah a couple of times, luckily never anyone i've been chatting to. i've just seen them either on forums or on local updates. i just block before they see me lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah a couple of times,

always a bit of a surprise lol

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By *uietbloke67Man
over a year ago

outside your bedroom window ;-)

Few times, and its no big deal.

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By *yrshirelad5987Man
over a year ago

Kilmarnock

A good few times, it's not a big deal and a wee bit off a turn on haha

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By *enie90Woman
over a year ago

a bottle

I haven’t actually. Funnily enough though I was talking to this couple on fabs but we had decided not to meet up because the lady wasn’t into me but the guy was and I didn’t feel comfortable meeting up with just the guy. And then a couple of weeks later on a random weekday in the middle of London at a cafe nero I ran into him!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not that I know off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A couple of times. I just blocked them.

More recently someone recognised me and then tried to use it against me in the real world.

People are strange

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By *ittle-Miss-Cunty-1Woman
over a year ago

Your _asement, Cuntsville

A few with 2 being in the same street as me, I blocked them, too close for comfort

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah, 2 people.

Would never say anything, what people do is their own business.

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By *bzguyMan
over a year ago

Aberdeen and shire

yep

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A few of my ex's in ninja mode trying to keep tabs on what I'm up to, always catch them out though..

Also 1 person who is pretty famous in the media but ofcourse I ain't saying who they are, discretion is paramount if you're on Fab...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It has happened to me a few times, except it was me being recognised by people I worked with/went to college with.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely been a few. Difficult though as there’s not many people in their early 20’s that are completely open about being on FAB. Discretion is always a good sign of respect on these kind of sites(in my opinion).

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By *piderxMan
over a year ago

west lothian

Yes only met up with one a girl I grew up and went to school with

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Two. One recently is the male of a couple on here that I play golf with (very distinctive tattoos) and the other a single guy I used to work beside. I never said anything as both were rather indiscreet.

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By *tew008Man
over a year ago

edinburgh

I’ve came across a few, not contacted them though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Came across a few people I’ve recognised on here.

If the message me, I’ll explain that I know them.

Also met a couple of people this way

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By *ol_dee5040Couple
over a year ago

Hamilton

Yes and in clubs but I just let them be not point poking a bees nest xx

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By *sm265Woman
over a year ago

Shangri-la

I've seen a few people who I know/recognise as locals. I usually immediately block

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By *uiceTerryMan
over a year ago

Perth

A few I know on here. Some from work and some exes friends which was awkward. Best not to say in that circumstance I find!

I did message girl that I thought was from work but they disappeared soon after so never found out!

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By *eliciouslySalaciousCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow

In all our years of attending clubs and being on here we've never recognised anyone from our real world

. We must just not know enough cool people...

I know the conventional wisdom is to leave folk alone but if anyone knows us IRL and is staying away out of politeness, come say hi!

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By *orl1971Couple
over a year ago

Glasgow

Yes a guy one of us works with. He sent us a face pic but we just rejected him and kept our identity secret. No point in opening that can of worms.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

More than a few times

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah a few times though I've just blocked

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By *iimonMan
over a year ago

glasgow

No, but I have see someone in Tesco in Springburn that goes to CJ’s .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In 10 years no I haven't

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By *eoeclipseWoman
over a year ago

glasgow

Yes, recently. Worked out well

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By *ctoboyMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

Yes my next door neighbours...and when I say next door I mean Semi-Detached House Next Door!!!!

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By *KyogoMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

We are all adults, why would you have an issue with someone looking for the same thing as you. Leave yer high morality of others on the back burner, lest they judge you the same way. Mutual Discretion, it's basic manners.

"Yeah, 2 people.

Would never say anything, what people do is their own business.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have seen a few that we know and actually met neighbours in cjs a few yrs ago

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By *implyfun1Man
over a year ago

glasgow

I am not aware of anyone recognising me from here.

I have recognised someone locally but would never dream of mentioning it or acknowledging them outside of her about their fab life

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes but they where a previous fuck buddy so no issues lol

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By *ot - CoupleCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow

We've once recognised someone that's all. I wonder if anyone has recognised us?

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By *histle do nicelyMan
over a year ago

Glasgow South

I was using the same pic on pof where a few women recognised me .. Since they were on both as well it just broke the ice..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh yes

Attended a social in City Centre when someone I knew walked in

Had a laugh and have spoke to each other in the street since

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My Best Friends younger brother is on this too & he has always had a bit of an infatuation with me, he started messaging saying he wanted to perform Oral & give himself to me...

Still states he’s in love with me.

As his brother has no clue Ive kept it to myself.

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By *ungislanderMan
over a year ago

Stornoway

Not yet but I would just let them be. Wonder if anybody recognised me tho.

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By *tew008Man
over a year ago

edinburgh

"Yeah a few times though I've just blocked"

wait you blocked me…….

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A parent of player I coach, it was a singles profile with no mention of the other half.

Block and carry on life

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By *igboob hunterMan
over a year ago

Big Dick Close

Seen a few in my few years on fab

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By *orny.hot.guyMan
over a year ago

Costa del Midlothian

Yea, was a disaster lol. Saw the profile of a mates daughter. Couldn't send her a message on here as was outwith her age range. So sent her a message on Snapchat she's now hidden her profile on here so I cannae even perv over her pics anymore lol

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By *outhsideguy25Man
over a year ago

I’ve recognised a good few folk. People I’ve worked with, went to school with years ago. Nobody has ever recognised me that I know of, would be hot though. I tend to give total discretion when on here. What you do in your spare time is your business

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I got a message from a girl who used to be on here.

Said she used to go to school with me.

Wasnt sure who she was at first as she never had any face pics public but she told me her name and showed me her pics to prove it was her.

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By *4Fun11Woman
over a year ago

Glasgow

Yes.

But what happens on fab stays on fab.

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By *yesgreenMan
over a year ago

north and south

"Yes.

But what happens on fab stays on fab.

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Yes and as above its discretion

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By *hekaiserMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

Yes

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By *ullie-kingMan
over a year ago

newmains

Yeah guy next door when I lived with my mum still, came up on the online now section, still just blocked and moved on.

Came across a woman recently who went with a guy I know and used to have her on FB, great to put a pussy/naked body to the face tbh

And 1 half of a couple who claimed she knew me from being 2 years above at school lol

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By *partacus2024Man
over a year ago

Near You

Yep many times but give people the same respect you want and everything is cool.

I once met a couple and new the guy, It was his wife that had done the communication part, spur of the moment meet couple of messages and I turned up at the door to his surprise but everything worked out lol

We all have some interesting fab stories the good the bad and the ugly

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By *uzanne and RickyCouple
over a year ago

Midlothian

A few times. A mate who's quite local but S won't play with as too close (pity) also a former colleague who is apparently bi.

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By *ets go again!Man
over a year ago

paisley

There is a woman at the gym who is on here. But I bottled it and didn't chat to her

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A couple of times yeah but I leave them be.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've seen one I recognize

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By *he Regina PhalangeWoman
over a year ago

Lanarkshire

Often.

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By *scobar67Man
over a year ago

glasgow

On my old page I had a girl msg me saying we went to school together lol

Turned out she was still living round the corner from me.

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By *bcums3Couple
over a year ago

lanarkshire

Recognised someone from work strait away

Don’t work there now so never got a chance to recognise me lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope never

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By *r-King SizeMan
over a year ago

Aberdeen

Just had someone knew join that I recognized

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yes, it really turns me on the thought of being recognised x

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By *ing_of_the_swingers400Man
over a year ago

edinbugh

Unfortunately not

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By *hiznick27Man
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Ye and both are friends but messaged them saying they should not have their face pics as the profile picture and told them i know them but won't reveal who i am. And that they should not message me lol.

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By *nRMan
over a year ago

central Scotland

Not one, we have moved around a lot so that might be the reason or we are now that old most of the people we know have now shuffled of the mortal coil lol

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By *aimeSmithTV/TS
over a year ago

Cliss

I'd quite like to be recognised! Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ye and both are friends but messaged them saying they should not have their face pics as the profile picture and told them i know them but won't reveal who i am. And that they should not message me lol. "

That's a wee bit creepy

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By *hebirdsMan
over a year ago

Haddington

That's a wee bit creepy

Why is it creepy? I think he gave sensible advice with a strong example (he knows them) yet retained his right to anonymity.

I would do the same.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That's a wee bit creepy

Why is it creepy? I think he gave sensible advice with a strong example (he knows them) yet retained his right to anonymity.

I would do the same."

It's a power move

He could have said nothing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yup theres been a few only last week i had a message from my cousins boyfriend whom she has 2 children to one only a few months old, dilemma.. hes blocked for now..

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By *hebirdsMan
over a year ago

Haddington

That's a wee bit creepy

Why is it creepy? I think he gave sensible advice with a strong example (he knows them) yet retained his right to anonymity.

I would do the same.

It's a power move

He could have said nothing "

Suppose but his motive appears to be genuine.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That's a wee bit creepy

Why is it creepy? I think he gave sensible advice with a strong example (he knows them) yet retained his right to anonymity.

I would do the same.

It's a power move

He could have said nothing

Suppose but his motive appears to be genuine."

He couldve just blocked them, its their choice if they have their pic on they obvs have nothing to hide.. they are adults after all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most definitely, we’ve spoke to more than a handful of people we know and and living close to us!!

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By *imbob85Man
over a year ago

inverness

Be told I have but not say who thay where so I have no idea how thay where lol

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By *apperMystiqueMan
over a year ago

east Glasgow

Had a lady at work quote something to me ‘from my profile.’ Nothing sexual. It took me by surprise and then she said it again whilst with another lady that worked directly for me. Which then made me wonder if it had been from fab. As if it had been she would have had to admit she had seen it to a work colleague. When I asked in passing where did you hear that. She didn’t say. It was a very odd situation as we always got on with each other??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lots of times. Hence face pictures from the off are an absolute no no until a bit of chat has established and we can both work out the chances, mutual friends etc. If not the chances of others around you finding out you are on here looking for sex is very high indeed tbh as has happened to me. This is why I prefer to search a bit of distance away from where I live. Makes life sooooo much easier. I see a lot of newbie ladies don't accept this and incorrectly assume you must be married or attached. It's just called privacy and discretion and very sensible.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Probably been asked before but i'm quite new.

I've seen a few people on here, some I know some I just recognise."

Yes and my friends mother her secret is safe with me though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yup ,, seems to happen all the time lol, 1 person lived 3 doors down from me and the other knew me from the school run lol

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By *hosewhomgonakedCouple
over a year ago

Scotland

"Lots of times. Hence face pictures from the off are an absolute no no until a bit of chat has established and we can both work out the chances, mutual friends etc. If not the chances of others around you finding out you are on here looking for sex is very high indeed tbh as has happened to me. This is why I prefer to search a bit of distance away from where I live. Makes life sooooo much easier. I see a lot of newbie ladies don't accept this and incorrectly assume you must be married or attached. It's just called privacy and discretion and very sensible."

Who cares as long as your all on for the same thing, we've had plenty recognise us over the years. We've nothing to hide it's all just some fun.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I agree, as above. I’ve noticed a few, but I will add that it’s an eye opener how some people portray their lives on social media etc. that said, I’d never out anyone. Each to their own, live and let live.

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By *etguydeeMan
over a year ago

dundee

Nope, but I have messaged someone who recognised me from work, but I have no idea who they were (lot if employees). But they didn't want to mix work with fab, which is sensible enough, but left me not knowing who knows me

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By *oves2please2021Man
over a year ago

cardiff

Yes quite a few.. I was messaging a very nice profile of a single lady. When the coin dropped for both of us we know each other from outside of the fab world.. we left it at that.

Another is a very attractive lady who works where I deliver. She caught my eye one day and most of her posts are around her work.

I’d love to say hi but don’t want to alarm her

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By *larkandlois14Couple
over a year ago

Clydebank

Yes, my brother and his missus. Quickly hit the block button on that 1

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes, my brother and his missus. Quickly hit the block button on that 1

Offft defo did right thing there

We have seen quite a few people , blocked some but put some in hotlist

, isa

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By *ixie and adamCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow

Adam recognised someone a couple of years ago and I saw someone just recently. That’s it in all the years we’ve been in here. I’m sure there are many more though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That's a wee bit creepy

Why is it creepy? I think he gave sensible advice with a strong example (he knows them) yet retained his right to anonymity.

I would do the same.

It's a power move

He could have said nothing "

Yep, fully agree. Power move, let’s just tell them I know them and quite possibly make them worry. Poor approach

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By *mmixtapeCouple
over a year ago

middle earth

None that I wouldn't expect to be here already

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Who cares as long as your all on for the same thing, we've had plenty recognise us over the years. We've nothing to hide it's all just some fun."

Two replies above proves my point. This is the kind of thing that happens too easily if you throw your faced pictures around or have them public. It's not nice.

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By *un guy 2020Man
over a year ago

near you

If know someone on hear I let them know that I know them and tell them there secret safe with me and would prefer to leave it at that discretion should be important to all

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By *hosewhomgonakedCouple
over a year ago

Scotland

Who cares as long as your all on for the same thing, we've had plenty recognise us over the years. We've nothing to hide it's all just some fun.

Two replies above proves my point. This is the kind of thing that happens too easily if you throw your faced pictures around or have them public. It's not nice. "

But that makes it out like your doing something wrong, or dirty something that you feel you should be hiding. Who cares really, it's your own life, and unless you're cheating / doing something behind someones back then what's the issue?

My point being they are on here too if they have found you, and if someone wants to say "I know you but I'm not saying who I am" then more fool them. Wouldn't lose any sleep over it.

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By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago

Paisley

Yes, my neighbour’s son. He must be in his 30’s by now but he has a crush on me. He found me on PoF as well. I’ve known him since he was about 10. He gets blocked.

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By *hekaiserMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

Yes, former colleague

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By *ightyboosh2018Man
over a year ago

Angus and Aberdeenshire, Scotland

Yes, both neighbours and family members

There is a certain excitement with knowing people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes my kids friends mum was on here

I couldn’t stop my mind racing at the school meetings.

I don’t think she is on anymore.

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By *he Regina PhalangeWoman
over a year ago

Lanarkshire

A neighbour

A friend

A few guys a went to school with

A girl I knew through college (actually met her in CJs)

A friend of a friends boyfriend

An ex boyfriend from teen years.

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By *obertELeeMan
over a year ago

Montrose

I've recognised quite a few people on here but as they say what goes on in here stays in hear.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nah don't look at other peoples profiles

unless they have messaged or looked at mine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Folk from the school run. Just some Dads. And a former colleague of Mr's.

Haven't recognised any ladies.

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By *aseMan
over a year ago

Gourock

Yess a few, And even though they blocked me or said not my type..I will remain silent

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yess a few, And even though they blocked me or said not my type..I will remain silent

That should be a given.

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By *quirt lancasterMan
over a year ago

adeje

Yip.. discretion always the best option

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not seen any ladies I know yet, always live in hope of seeing one I know, have even actively searched hoping to find them lol

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By *he Regina PhalangeWoman
over a year ago

Lanarkshire

"Not seen any ladies I know yet, always live in hope of seeing one I know, have even actively searched hoping to find them lol"

If I knew you I’d block you! I’m sure most women would do the same.

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By *4Fun11Woman
over a year ago

Glasgow

"Not seen any ladies I know yet, always live in hope of seeing one I know, have even actively searched hoping to find them lol"

Why?!

So you can approach them in the street?

Knock on their door?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep, blocked the fuckers straight away

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not seen any ladies I know yet, always live in hope of seeing one I know, have even actively searched hoping to find them lol

Why?!

So you can approach them in the street?

Knock on their door?

Sniff their sofa if they let you in the house?

Lick their bath sponge when you visit the bathroom?

Search the bin for any used tampo….no no, that’s plenty

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I haven’t actually. Funnily enough though I was talking to this couple on fabs but we had decided not to meet up because the lady wasn’t into me but the guy was and I didn’t feel comfortable meeting up with just the guy. And then a couple of weeks later on a random weekday in the middle of London at a cafe nero I ran into him!"

Did anything come of it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not seen any ladies I know yet, always live in hope of seeing one I know, have even actively searched hoping to find them lol

Why?!

So you can approach them in the street?

Knock on their door?

Lol

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By *4Fun11Woman
over a year ago

Glasgow

"Not seen any ladies I know yet, always live in hope of seeing one I know, have even actively searched hoping to find them lol

Why?!

So you can approach them in the street?

Knock on their door?

Lol"

Seriously. Why?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not seen any ladies I know yet, always live in hope of seeing one I know, have even actively searched hoping to find them lol

Why?!

So you can approach them in the street?

Knock on their door?

Lol

Seriously. Why? "

Seriously, you are asking why? Don't you think the entire premise of this thread is that there's an element of turn-on to seeing someone you recognise, or even being recognised? Love it when FAB gets all moralistic

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By *he Regina PhalangeWoman
over a year ago

Lanarkshire

"Not seen any ladies I know yet, always live in hope of seeing one I know, have even actively searched hoping to find them lol

Why?!

So you can approach them in the street?

Knock on their door?

Lol

Seriously. Why?

No….I doubt any unsuspecting woman that you know, would want you eyeballing them or even approaching them because they are on fab.

Nothing to do with morals, more about boundaries!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not seen any ladies I know yet, always live in hope of seeing one I know, have even actively searched hoping to find them lol

Why?!

So you can approach them in the street?

Knock on their door?

Lol

Seriously. Why?

No….I doubt any unsuspecting woman that you know, would want you eyeballing them or even approaching them because they are on fab.

Nothing to do with morals, more about boundaries!"

"Eyeballing", "approaching" you've just made this up haven't you. There was no suggestion of either, but crack-on, I hope you have a pleasant day

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By *he Regina PhalangeWoman
over a year ago

Lanarkshire

"Not seen any ladies I know yet, always live in hope of seeing one I know, have even actively searched hoping to find them lol

Why?!

So you can approach them in the street?

Knock on their door?

Lol

Seriously. Why?

No….I doubt any unsuspecting woman that you know, would want you eyeballing them or even approaching them because they are on fab.

Nothing to do with morals, more about boundaries!

"Eyeballing", "approaching" you've just made this up haven't you. There was no suggestion of either, but crack-on, I hope you have a pleasant day

Your creepy response prompted my reaction.

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By *tew008Man
over a year ago

edinburgh

Yea how I keep track of the neighbors

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By *4Fun11Woman
over a year ago

Glasgow

"Not seen any ladies I know yet, always live in hope of seeing one I know, have even actively searched hoping to find them lol

Why?!

So you can approach them in the street?

Knock on their door?

Lol

Seriously. Why?

The premise of the thread was to ask if you had come across a profile where you recognise or know the person.

Not ‘have you actively gone looking for ppl you know’

Very stalkerish behaviour in the making!

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By *adbury girlWoman
over a year ago

Lanarkshire

That's a wee bit creepy

Why is it creepy? I think he gave sensible advice with a strong example (he knows them) yet retained his right to anonymity.

I would do the same.

It's a power move

He could have said nothing

Yep, fully agree. Power move, let’s just tell them I know them and quite possibly make them worry. Poor approach"

I don’t mind people recognising me but if they make contact they should let me know who they are. Some friends and family know I’m on here but’t exactly want it public knowledge especially around my sons.

One guy messaged a year or two ago saying he knew me. I didn’t respond as thought it a wind up. This year he made a new profile and messaged again giving some personal details from my youth suggesting he may know me. I politely said it would be nice if he introduced himself so we both know who we are - he declined and said it’s ok youre not that bonnie anyway!

Definitley a power thing

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By *assy LassieWoman
over a year ago

Lanarkshire

"Not seen any ladies I know yet, always live in hope of seeing one I know, have even actively searched hoping to find them lol"

Is that no a wee bit weird

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not seen any ladies I know yet, always live in hope of seeing one I know, have even actively searched hoping to find them lol"

What a strange little man

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've never recognised anyone but have sent a face pic to a lady and been told she knows me and then blocked I understand it and don't blame her for it, but little disconcerting wondering who she was.

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By *adbury girlWoman
over a year ago

Lanarkshire

"I've never recognised anyone but have sent a face pic to a lady and been told she knows me and then blocked I understand it and don't blame her for it, but little disconcerting wondering who she was. "

If that was me I would just say thanks but no thanks then block you - why say they know you and not say who they are

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not so far - and hoping it continues like that! I like my anonymity.

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