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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Has anyone had a bad experience on here and how did you deal with it?

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By *andACouple
over a year ago

glasgow

Not yet thankfully. Always advise people to take a while over a meet to make sure everyone is genuine and compatible. You can never be 100% sure but you can lessen the risk of things going wrong.

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By *ighland gentlemanMan
over a year ago

Ardgay

Depends how you define bad experience.

Learn from it and try not to repeat it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends on how you mean been on and off 10 years

If you mean stood up then yes plenty off times

If you mean splat and run yip had that one

If you mean being told I know who you are wait till the lads at work see this off a blank profile pestered me for 6 months then yes had that

If you mean pick up in my younger years as couldn’t accommodate at the time liveing with parents

And being told they take me back home afterwords only to be kicked out with no way home after the deed been done yip had happen to me

But also had a lot off good meets along the way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Jesus, how can people treat others like this, Sorry to hear those stories,

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By *candiumWoman
over a year ago

oban

No. Had a couple of experiences that could have been better but other than that it's been fun

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By *ane DTV/TS
over a year ago

London - till 25th

Been there, that's why I only meet at clubs these days.

The 2 bad onnes that stick in my mind...

- left standing in the pissin rain while being laughed at down the intercom.

- turning up and finding the previously erudite gentleman was, by that point, so d*unk he couldn't string 2 words together.

Had some lovely meets, but too many dreamers and 'wanna fuck now' muppets out there now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve been pretty lucky tbh I’ve always had social meets before only once was I ever let down by someone I’d met a cpl times before and I was left in the hotel room alone and did something I’d normally never do before and that is put up a post for a last minute meet tbh I wasn’t expecting anyone I thought would be attractive to me to reply and I got a message from a very hot and very sexy profile, totally expecting him to be taking the piss or not looking anything like his profile was actually gobsmacked when he turned up, looked even better in person and even stayed the night and weirdly enough we added each other on fb ! Lol he’s still on here now even hotter than he was back then and I really ought to hit him back up soon lol the absolutely gorgeous Deano although that’s not his username now I’m sure some of the ladies who have been here a while know who I’m talking about

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By *kbull2000Man
over a year ago

Carluke

Early days for this thread. The last 'Bad Experiences' thread gave me the willies !

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By *tealth888Man
over a year ago

dunfermline

The bad ones make the good ones even better

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Plenty of people not turning up been left waiting in the cold more times than I can count, one guy showed after speaking for ages told me he don't do sex in first visit that's cool I said but he wanted to play with me....10 mins later I told him he has to leave as he was hurting me and didn't listen when I said not so hard

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks everyone. I went against my gut feeling, I knew something was up but ignored it. Ah well, I'll listen to my instincts next time

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By *laveBoy2019Man
over a year ago

Dundee

Never had a bad experience on here yet, hope it never happens, I suppose it's different for guys, not in a sexism way lol.

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By *imbobaMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

A couple. Both at a club. One a green eyed monster who didn’t like I was with someone else on a different occasion. And a couple of ladies who assumed I’d be more than grateful to join them both when in fact I wasn’t. Ladies don’t always take No Thank You as an answer.

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By *imbobaMan
over a year ago

Glasgow


"Never had a bad experience on here yet, hope it never happens, I suppose it's different for guys, not in a sexism way lol."

So no. Not different for guys.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Too many to mention unfortunately all from other cpls and thankfully with my husband present.

Felt with usually making an excuse and leave.

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By *ctoboyMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

Had a few bad ones but thankfully many more great meets from Fab...

Worst one was whilst over in Ireland on business & I met a couple for lunch social to see how we all got on and the arranged to meet at my hotel later in evening once I finished visiting clients.

They arrived at hotel reception d*unk having been drinking since lunchtime & asking very loudly for Phil the Scottish Guy who we met on Fabswingers.

I could hear this sitting in bar area waiting on them & thankfully hotel know me well(been using same family hotel for 40yrs) and between us we got them a taxi home....Never met them again

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By *orders CoupleCouple
over a year ago

Kelso


"Not yet thankfully. Always advise people to take a while over a meet to make sure everyone is genuine and compatible. You can never be 100% sure but you can lessen the risk of things going wrong."

Totally agree

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By *stonDBS2Man
over a year ago

Kirkcaldy


"Never had a bad experience on here yet, hope it never happens, I suppose it's different for guys, not in a sexism way lol.

So no. Not different for guys.

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Had a couple in my house,where she decided she wanted to batter him suddenly, very bizzare. And then there was the, i cant decide if the husband was over cautious or gettin a kick out of bossing the situation,"put a condom on" i do, i have one on,"no put another one on over that one,after all we dunno where you've been" wtf, i never put another on,but i did get dressed and decide to walk out,

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