FabSwingers.com forum: Bisexual men v bisexual women

By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1 OP Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

why is it more acceptible to be a bisexual female rather that a bisexual male ?

Never understood this ive seen so many times on profiles mostly by couples they wont meet bisexual males i wonder why ?

would you meet a guy if you knew he liked a bit of cock ? lol

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By *andsCouple
over a year ago

Edin

Yes we would we do not see any difference to meeting a bi guy or a straight guy tbh, my hubby is straight and so long as the other person knows its fine by us x

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By *issBehavingxxWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

Hell yes.... Fully bi MMF is at the top of my to do list

... Only had straigh so far lol

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1 OP Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

"Yes we would we do not see any difference to meeting a bi guy or a straight guy tbh, my hubby is straight and so long as the other person knows its fine by us x"
yeah thats what i think too i know it all about preferances but just wonder what makes a str8 guy any diffrent to a bisexual one.

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1 OP Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

"Hell yes.... Fully bi MMF is at the top of my to do list

... Only had straigh so far lol"
ohhhh its such good fun my first was just simply amazing and unforgettable

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i would love to eet a couple but cant find any thats lookn for a bicur guy

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By *issBehavingxxWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

"i would love to eet a couple but cant find any thats lookn for a bicur guy"

Maybe you'd have more luck if your profile said you were bi-curious not straight?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

changed let see if anything changes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"i would love to eet a couple but cant find any thats lookn for a bicur guy"

and yet you have straight on your profile...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hell yes.... Fully bi MMF is at the top of my to do list

... Only had straigh so far lol"

me too!

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

bi guys are deemed to be in a higher sexual risk group

some people are turned off by the M2M sex act

some maybe homophobic

some consider bi guys less of a man

and a loads more reason

bi fems are accepted more because it may open the door to more meets... and MFF is highly sought after.

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

and some bi guys flex their sexuality to hoodwink couples who are honest enough to state their preference and some bi guys won't respect that

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1 OP Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

"bi guys are deemed to be in a higher sexual risk group

some people are turned off by the M2M sex act

some maybe homophobic

some consider bi guys less of a man

and a loads more reason

bi fems are accepted more because it may open the door to more meets... and MFF is highly sought after.

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Sadly so true _iew yet this is ment to be a site for likemined open people and there will always be the gay n bi bashers out there

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

"bi guys are deemed to be in a higher sexual risk group

some people are turned off by the M2M sex act

some maybe homophobic

some consider bi guys less of a man

and a loads more reason

bi fems are accepted more because it may open the door to more meets... and MFF is highly sought after.

Sadly so true _iew yet this is ment to be a site for likemined open people and there will always be the gay n bi bashers out there

but this site reflects outside everyday life... and that is reality.

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1 OP Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

"bi guys are deemed to be in a higher sexual risk group

some people are turned off by the M2M sex act

some maybe homophobic

some consider bi guys less of a man

and a loads more reason

bi fems are accepted more because it may open the door to more meets... and MFF is highly sought after.

Sadly so true _iew yet this is ment to be a site for likemined open people and there will always be the gay n bi bashers out there

but this site reflects outside everyday life... and that is reality.

I personally have never felt bi bashed as I won't allow anyone to make me feel inferior because of my sexuality. The same applies to being a single guy in swinging, people will treat you a certain way if you allow them... I don't"
yes i totaly agree 100% but we know they are out there ..seen it a while ago where someone got slated to death in chat for being a bisexual man and all the bisexual women were the best thing since sliced bread

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hmmmm I've done fully bi MMMF and it blew my mind freeking amazing !!!!

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

"bi guys are deemed to be in a higher sexual risk group

some people are turned off by the M2M sex act

some maybe homophobic

some consider bi guys less of a man

and a loads more reason

bi fems are accepted more because it may open the door to more meets... and MFF is highly sought after.

Sadly so true _iew yet this is ment to be a site for likemined open people and there will always be the gay n bi bashers out there

but this site reflects outside everyday life... and that is reality.

I personally have never felt bi bashed as I won't allow anyone to make me feel inferior because of my sexuality. The same applies to being a single guy in swinging, people will treat you a certain way if you allow them... I don'tyes i totaly agree 100% but we know they are out there ..seen it a while ago where someone got slated to death in chat for being a bisexual man and all the bisexual women were the best thing since sliced bread

I hope they were reported and dealt with then

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1 OP Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

"bi guys are deemed to be in a higher sexual risk group

some people are turned off by the M2M sex act

some maybe homophobic

some consider bi guys less of a man

and a loads more reason

bi fems are accepted more because it may open the door to more meets... and MFF is highly sought after.

Sadly so true _iew yet this is ment to be a site for likemined open people and there will always be the gay n bi bashers out there

but this site reflects outside everyday life... and that is reality.

I personally have never felt bi bashed as I won't allow anyone to make me feel inferior because of my sexuality. The same applies to being a single guy in swinging, people will treat you a certain way if you allow them... I don'tyes i totaly agree 100% but we know they are out there ..seen it a while ago where someone got slated to death in chat for being a bisexual man and all the bisexual women were the best thing since sliced bread

I hope they were reported and dealt with then"
well i rpeorted them and one or two others xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think straight guys are scared a bi guy will jump on them and turn them into a poof.

Methinks they're a bit insecure in their sexuality.

Personally I take the _iew that it's all sex, all pleasure and all fun.

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1 OP Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

"I think straight guys are scared a bi guy will jump on them and turn them into a poof.

Methinks they're a bit insecure in their sexuality.

Personally I take the _iew that it's all sex, all pleasure and all fun.

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By *5DaveMan
over a year ago

loch lomond

"I think straight guys are scared a bi guy will jump on them and turn them into a poof.

Methinks they're a bit insecure in their sexuality.

Personally I take the _iew that it's all sex, all pleasure and all fun.

Even when you say you'll play straight they still think you'll not,

And there has got to be some attraction between guys,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have wont meet bi guys.

Purely my preference as jas couldnt give a toss as hes straight but cool in the precence of Another naked dude.

I just dont fancy Shagging a guy thats shagged Another guy...simple.

Dosnt float my boat.

Auds xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The 'Bi' status for women is likely more acceptable due to the media portrayal? Most people have at some point seen the illustrious ffm being played out in porn and glamourised to look like the full focus is on pleasing the man... Personally for me a ffm is only fun if everyone is attracted to each other and are being pleased!

Bi men on the other hand are linked to the backwards homophobic portrayal of homosexuals... A dirty and seedy act... Any "straight 'alpha' male" types often think they're irresistible to both women and men, do much so that if the guy is bi... How could he possibly resist trying to gobble him?? Lmfao!!!

I am 100% straight, if playing with a couple I would be fine as long as the the other guy knew that this was not open for negotiation lol!

Fact is though, it's another 'each to their own' situation!

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By *olly Gentle GiantMan
over a year ago

Glenrothes

For years my _iew was it's all down to social conditioning and peer pressure. But I think perhaps its deeper - no pun intended - than that and attitudes to anal sex in general are an issue. I mean if anal is not for you for hygiene reasons, then by default bi males are not for you either - if you assume that all bimales actually fuck guys. But not all bimales actually fuck. Some are top and do the fucking but some are bottoms and are fucked - and some switch. So just cos a guy has bimale on the profile doesnt mean he's been fucking arses.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We have wont meet bi guys.

Purely my preference as jas couldnt give a toss as hes straight but cool in the precence of Another naked dude.

I just dont fancy Shagging a guy thats shagged Another guy...simple.

Dosnt float my boat.

Auds xx

And here we go with the sweeping misconceptions and prejudices.

Since when has it been mandatory for a bi-man to shag another bi-man?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have no idea

The image is in my head.

Bjs...shagging...all the same to me.

Lets just say a guy performing a sex act on Another guy then if Thats any better for you.

I have nothing against bi guys

Just dont,Wanna shag 1.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We know many bi guys but dont want to shag them. Its a preference. In the past the playing straight promise was not adhered to so to avoid trouble we just avoid the situation. Its all about feeling comfortable in the situation. If you dont feel comfortable for whatever reason dont do it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We know many bi guys but dont want to shag them. Its a preference. In the past the playing straight promise was not adhered to so to avoid trouble we just avoid the situation. Its all about feeling comfortable in the situation. If you dont feel comfortable for whatever reason dont do it. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hell yes.... Fully bi MMF is at the top of my to do list

... Only had straigh so far lol

me too!"

We did a bi mmmmf fun on Sunday and it was well horny and sweaty..lol..U can join us next time if u up for it..Love to have another women involve

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By *aucy3Couple
over a year ago

glasgow

i thought you were proposing a new olympic sport there MissD.

a persons sexuality,is not optional.

peoples choices,to play with or not,

is optional,so accept,and move on.

we have been with bi guys in the past,i've not been jumped yet.

i can only admire their fortitude,in the face of overwhelming temptation.

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1 OP Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

"i thought you were proposing a new olympic sport there MissD.

a persons sexuality,is not optional.

peoples choices,to play with or not,

is optional,so accept,and move on.

we have been with bi guys in the past,i've not been jumped yet.

i can only admire their fortitude,in the face of overwhelming temptation.

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Mmmmmm would be very intresting tho lol

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By *aucy3Couple
over a year ago

glasgow

"i thought you were proposing a new olympic sport there MissD.

a persons sexuality,is not optional.

peoples choices,to play with or not,

is optional,so accept,and move on.

we have been with bi guys in the past,i've not been jumped yet.

i can only admire their fortitude,in the face of overwhelming temptation.

Mmmmmm would be very intresting tho lol

the _iewing figures would be phenominal.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think history and culture has a lot to do with it as well. For example, if you think of a harem, it's always full of many of women and only one guy. Polygamy is another example. So I suppose that could be one reason it's seen as more acceptable to be a Bi girl.

As a 100% straight guy, I wouldn't have any problems in the presence of another straight guy or even a Bi guy as long as he kept a respectful distance and didn't "try it on".

This happened to me once during a MMFF encounter and I had to quietly tell him to get lost. It is annoying that some Bi guys don't tell the whole truth and some couples profiles claim that the guy is straight when he is obviously not.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hell yes.... Fully bi MMF is at the top of my to do list

... Only had straigh so far lol

me too!

We did a bi mmmmf fun on Sunday and it was well horny and sweaty..lol..U can join us next time if u up for it..Love to have another women involve

that sounds all kinds of hot

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Agreed!

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By *omezCouple
over a year ago

Inverness

We are both BI and find some prejudice to us and often we struggle to find a suitable couple but the one that really gets us is the straight on profile and bi when they mail you ...... if you are BI put it on your profile

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By *lay_Mate_RequiredMan
over a year ago

eadt kilbride

I have a thing for TVs but not guys, i have BI in my profile and it tends to put women and couples off (email replies)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh-ho, now here's a topic that ya can throw a match on the kindling!

As a gay guy who has has a number of MFMs under my belt I find this one a belter.

I've known my preference to be men from an early age. That said I've been completely open-minded to exploring what's out there as I see no sane reason to deny myself fun with hot, fit, clean people that can push my sexual buttons. I've tried FMFs, MMMs & MFMs with some very sexy, open-minded people. All my partners have known my sexual preference & I've been fortunate enough to been complimented on the fact that I'm not considered yer average faggot. ("The Str8est gay guy ever met"). My closest friends are mostly Str8, & some even started out with homophobic tendencies due to upbringing, social environments & utter ignorance. If I'd been happy to remain ignorant I'd never have found how amazing & fascinating it is to be able to help girls attain the joy of squirting, had Str8 lads thank me for opening up new possibilities (no sex with another guy does not make you totally flip to being a bender), or had some awesome nights of memorable fun which I will never forget. Some encounters have even heightened the girls arousal to such wild proportions way beyond what they've ever expected & had them so wet it's brought new pleasures to their lives.My theory is that we are all sexual beings - some are 100% gay, some 100% str8, & the rest of us in the middle are a mixture of wonderful "shades" which, under the right circumstances & with the right person & feel safe can explore without it compromising their first preference. How dull to go through life having only tried the same diet day in day out. (Why go abroad & demand only UK food??? Stay at home in your box where you feel dull but happy). No thanks. I'll remain happy to try something which adds colour, shade, texture, vibrancy, new, exciting, different. Don't box me in, I need to be free to make my own choices, in my way, with others just as adventurous. I'm not dissing those that want to be trapped in their box - they're happy there. I'm not. Happy exploring one & all.

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1 OP Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

"Oh-ho, now here's a topic that ya can throw a match on the kindling!

As a gay guy who has has a number of MFMs under my belt I find this one a belter.

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Very well said and so true ive know this guy for more years than id care to remember but one things for sure he describes himself down to a T fabulous guy without a doubt and if im honest i find gay and bisexual people great fun to be around they just seem a lot more comfortable about who they are and definatley know how to enjoy themselfs ...but Andy il never forgive you for stealing that hunk from me at my Birthday party a few years ago hahahaha luvs ya xxxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Stealing hunks??? I went home alone ever so slightly hammered from all the bubbly! Lmao.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

From personal experience on here and in the real world (and this is just as a bi-guy not a tv):

Women sometimes think I'm less of a man. By that I mean not an Alpha-take charge kind of guy.

There's still homophobia amongst men and women. Some profiles on here openly say "no bi men as we don't believe you can turn it on and off. "

Bi men are still seen as just kidding themselves and are really just gay. But women are never seen the same way.

That's all down to the portrayal in porn and the general media.

But if you think being Bi is difficult then try putting a frock and heels on too! Confuses people even more. Might as well write 'leper' on my forehead.

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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814

would you meet a guy if you knew he liked a bit of cock ? lol

No...

Why?....My preference!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No...

Why?....My preference!"

But assuming you found him physically attractive and had chatted and found him mentally attractive too, but he told you he was bi, why would that make your mind up not to meet him?

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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814

But assuming you found him physically attractive and had chatted and found him mentally attractive too, but he told you he was bi, why would that make your mind up not to meet him? "

Is he telling me he is Bi after I have seen his pic and spent time chatting to him?

Physical/mental attraction doesn't come to me through a screen, I would have to meet them to know if anything is there.

If I know he is bi....I wont waste his or my own time.....

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By *damandeve4funCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow

"Hmmmm I've done fully bi MMMF and it blew my mind freeking amazing !!!!"

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By *eatherWoman
over a year ago

glasgow

people are people so just accept them for what they are.Yes i know folks are gonna say that life aint that simple .Well thats my philosophy and im gonna stick to it.47Years ago some this september i had to walk away and leave something very precious behind owing to Social and Religous bigotry.That certainly taught me a lesson about the so called human race

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

But assuming you found him physically attractive and had chatted and found him mentally attractive too, but he told you he was bi, why would that make your mind up not to meet him?

Is he telling me he is Bi after I have seen his pic and spent time chatting to him?

Physical/mental attraction doesn't come to me through a screen, I would have to meet them to know if anything is there.

If I know he is bi....I wont waste his or my own time.....

just trying to get you to answer my question. Why would you not consider meeting bisexuals, even if you find one physically and mentally attractive?

Sorry if I'm putting you on the spot, but seems that a lot of people hide behind the stock answer of 'its my preference'. not realising that its not a reason but a sidestep of the issue. People don't like to think of themselves as prejudiced but everyone carries these things with them.

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1 OP Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

"Stealing hunks??? I went home alone ever so slightly hammered from all the bubbly! Lmao."
eh yes the guy u muscled your way upto at the bar when i had my eye on him hehehehehe

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By *eatherWoman
over a year ago

glasgow

As the saying goes Were all Jock Thomsons bairns what a busy man he was

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have several cousins whi I find physically and mentaly attractive. But I wouldnt shag them. Does that make me prejudice against them? Of course not. At the end of the day someone doesnt want to shag someone else they have thr right to make that decision without being accused of prejudice. We dont shag people with facial hair. That must mean I am prejudice against them or am a secret beardie lover who is scared to admit it and express my true feelings. This thread is looking far too deeply into what is a very simple thing.

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

I always find it strange that some question other people's preferences on here.

I wouldn't dream of doing it, why.... cause I wouldn't justify mine to anyone.

if people would just get over the fact that they don't appeal to all and focus on the ones they do.

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By *andsCouple
over a year ago

Edin

"I always find it strange that some question other people's preferences on here.

I wouldn't dream of doing it, why.... cause I wouldn't justify mine to anyone.

if people would just get over the fact that they don't appeal to all and focus on the ones they do."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hell yes.... Fully bi MMF is at the top of my to do list

... Only had straigh so far lol"

Would heartly recommend fully bi MMF to anyone considering it, blew my mind I tell ya.

I'm very much of the mind 'each to their own', i fully believe our differences is what makes us unique, however, I do have an issue with people who judge/put down/insult anyone, regardless of their sexuality, to cause that person hurt, ridicule or upset.

I'm here for horny fun....end of as far as I am concerned

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hell yes.... Fully bi MMF is at the top of my to do list

... Only had straigh so far lol

Would heartly recommend fully bi MMF to anyone considering it, blew my mind I tell ya.

I'm here for horny fun....end of as far as I am concerned

Just because you wont shag someone doesnt mean to say you are judging them badly. You might think they are nice people that you dont want to shag. But I agree there is no need to be hurtfull or ridicule anyone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I always find it strange that some question other people's preferences on here.

I wouldn't dream of doing it, why.... cause I wouldn't justify mine to anyone.

if people would just get over the fact that they don't appeal to all and focus on the ones they do."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bi sexuals three sums are the most hedonistic liberating experiences. I cannot get enough of them. Yet I don't find men attractive per se. Where does this put me. Why must we attempt to generalise and categorise everything. You don't like bi sexual stuff, your loss am afraid

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh we do so love to pigeon hole people. I think it's just down to stigmas and those "comments grandparents say"

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By *aucy3Couple
over a year ago

glasgow

"Oh we do so love to pigeon hole people. I think it's just down to stigmas and those "comments grandparents say""

we've not even sorted out the bi guys v the bi birds thing yet

so ffs don't bring the pidgeon hole people into it,it's confusing enough as it is.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think straight guys are scared a bi guy will jump on them and turn them into a poof.

Methinks they're a bit insecure in their sexuality.

Personally I take the _iew that it's all sex, all pleasure and all fun.

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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814

just trying to get you to answer my question. Why would you not consider meeting bisexuals, even if you find one physically and mentally attractive?

The question was.....Would you meet a guy who also liked a bit of cock....My answer was NO!!

I am not in any way attracted to men that "like a bit of cock"...

That image does nothing for me....

Would I meet a bi guy for a chat and a coffee?...YES!!!

Would I have sex with him?....NO!!!

I really couldn't be any clearer with my answer!

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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814

"I think straight guys are scared a bi guy will jump on them and turn them into a poof.

Methinks they're a bit insecure in their sexuality.

Personally I take the _iew that it's all sex, all pleasure and all fun.

I have a couple profile on here...

My OH is 100% straight and has NO problem with bi guys!

As it is I who would be having the fun with the male....it is my choice!!

Why assume it is the male half of couple that says "No bi-guys"???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The question was.....Would you meet a guy who also liked a bit of cock....My answer was NO!!

I am not in any way attracted to men that "like a bit of cock"...

That image does nothing for me....

Would I meet a bi guy for a chat and a coffee?...YES!!!

Would I have sex with him?....NO!!!

I really couldn't be any clearer with my answer!"

See that's the real answer right there and thanks.

Some people, men and women, cannot handle the image of a man having sex with another man. Have met women who say the same about lesbians. The thought repulsed them.

Its not a preference to say you won't meet bisexuals, its a flat decision against. Its preference if you prefer tea to coffee. It means you'll drink both but given a choice will have tea. Have noticed people using the preference defence a lot to mask what they don't like, but don't like to say so to avoid giving offence. Just be honest.

And if I'm being honest I'm repulsed by guys with excessive body hair. The thought of it makes me cringe. New thread perhaps?

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By *r and Mrs SnogalotCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow

"Stay at home in your box where you feel dull but happy). No thanks. I'll remain happy to try something which adds colour, shade, texture, vibrancy, new, exciting, different. Don't box me in, I need to be free to make my own choices, in my way, with others just as adventurous. I'm not dissing those that want to be trapped in their box - they're happy there. I'm not. Happy exploring one & all.

love this response and what a wonderful way to describe the different adventures out there in the world for those who want to embrace them.

I understand personal preferences - and like Scot and so many others that have posted accept that people have their own boundaries - that is as it should be.

One thing that does surprise me (sorry for the wee hi-jack) is how critical people on this site can be. Have your preferences, but that doesn't give you the right to criticise other people's preferences

Now am going back to my good girl corner

Shy xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not being critical of her or anyone else's

position. Just wanted to point out the difference between preferences and a flat decision in the hope that more honesty will arise. At no point did I criticise her for not wanting a sexual relationship with a bisexual, just wanted

someone to state the actual reason they don't like the idea rather than saying 'preferences'.

Thought that a good debate was the point of forums anyway. That and anonymous abuse of celebrities.

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By *r and Mrs SnogalotCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow

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By *r and Mrs SnogalotCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow

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By *r and Mrs SnogalotCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow

"Not being critical of her or anyone else's

someone to state the actual reason they don't like the idea rather than saying 'preferences'.

Thought that a good debate was the point of forums anyway. That and anonymous abuse of celebrities. "

My post wasn't directed at any one person Jodie x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If it ever becomes Fashionable through Tv shows such as X factor or sex in the city stuff every1 will be going lurrve abit me ...

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By *lash and BunsCouple
over a year ago

Inverclyde

"Yes we would we do not see any difference to meeting a bi guy or a straight guy tbh, my hubby is straight and so long as the other person knows its fine by us x"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sex is disgusting and you are all going to he'll .....

Kirsty

xxx xxx

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

I have a couple profile on here...

My OH is 100% straight and has NO problem with bi guys!

As it is I who would be having the fun with the male....it is my choice!!

Why assume it is the male half of couple that says "No bi-guys"???"

Great answer

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

must say i love ma bi mmf's more than my str8 mmf's lots more to do an get me an them ever so much more hornier

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By *eatherWoman
over a year ago

glasgow

as they say different horses for different courses i do enjoy bi mmf as well as bi ffm or a wee mixture also love my straight guys as well.Am i awfy greedy

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By *issNaughtyxxxWoman
over a year ago

Aberdeen

Its definately strange that even no Bi Males are'nt accepted for who they are. I have no issues with Bi men but im not turned on by Bi male fun but i would never be rude or target a Bi Male with absuse.

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