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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Well it wod be great to meet one in The PA area but so many guys kidding On they are girls, how difficult is it to prove they are genuine. My wife is bisexual and wants fun with a girl and then the three if us but just no luck at all.

Any tips on solving our problem lol xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yip, do what we did and give up lol, it's harder to find than winning the lotto jackpot x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Yip, do what we did and give up lol, it's harder to find than winning the lotto jackpot x"

Lol but we have spoken to quite a few couples and they have struck lucky x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Lol but we have spoken to quite a few couples and they have struck lucky x "

been about 2 years since our last ffm, we have spoken to about four girls recently who seem interested and keen up until we ask to meet up We always like to meet up socially too so don't think we are being pushy.

Single girls have the choice of so many couples and singles that they can be really picky, which is only fair as I'd be the same xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it depends on how you approach said females on here, and what you're looking for. Personally I'm very reluctant to do MFF as I often get one or more of the following impressions:

-the woman doesn't really want to or isn't really into women but doing it to please her man

-there are jealousy issues with regards to the M taking part with the F that is not his partner

-I'm just wanted as a plaything and to fulfil someone's fantasy with no regard to my wishes or what I want to do (I often get scenarios mailed to me of what's to happen - errrr?)

-the woman doesn't want to watch her man play so wants me as a "warm up act" then for me to not get any cock - these couples are often not receptive to group fun so everyone gets some action either

I think a lot of it depends on how you approach women on here. There are many couples looking for the same, might be better hooking up with a couple rather than a single female.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So true xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think it depends on how you approach said females on here, and what you're looking for. Personally I'm very reluctant to do MFF as I often get one or more of the following impressions:

-the woman doesn't really want to or isn't really into women but doing it to please her man

-there are jealousy issues with regards to the M taking part with the F that is not his partner

-I'm just wanted as a plaything and to fulfil someone's fantasy with no regard to my wishes or what I want to do (I often get scenarios mailed to me of what's to happen - errrr?)

-the woman doesn't want to watch her man play so wants me as a "warm up act" then for me to not get any cock - these couples are often not receptive to group fun so everyone gets some action either

I think a lot of it depends on how you approach women on here. There are many couples looking for the same, might be better hooking up with a couple rather than a single female."

Think that is totally spot on to what loads of girls will think. There are so many couples who look for guys, girls and couples who really aren't in a relationship that's ready for involving others. It's really hard to spot them online but as soon as you meet them socially they stand out big style.

For us as a couple we have came across couples that 'swing' have done so with the girl being pushed into it, but I'm not saying there's couples that only play for the benefit of the fem half too

We came up with the idea of meeting a couple, then meeting each half for mmf and ffm and both of us meeting them singly too which gives both couples the hard to find ffm and the super fun mmf aswell as the fmfm but the impression we got everytime was that as soon as I met them for ffm, they'd not get back intouch. xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never give up and always think possitive,negative energy gives of bad vibes .

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By *uirkygirlCouple
over a year ago

Quirkyville

it is totally spot on.... I wanna find a woman who is

1- bi (not just curious)

2 - willing to please both male and female partners

3 - not just there to put on a show

4 - vocal.... tell me what You wanna do to and don't just lie there and take it lol!

and lastly... if your staying over when fun time is done you need to go sleep in the bed provided for you.... cuddle time is for us and an intimacy that isn't shared......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm just a tad curious here, open to trying new things and given the right circumstances with the right ppl I'll give anything a go but do tend to find my own ppl rather than them find me

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By *aucy3Couple
over a year ago

glasgow

a single bi female,is a big ask,though not impossible.

even with couples where the female says she is bi,we often feel that her being bi,has more to do with the guys fantasies,than any bi tendencies she has.

on the other hand,sometimes you get lucky.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"it is totally spot on.... I wanna find a woman who is

1- bi (not just curious)

2 - willing to please both male and female partners

3 - not just there to put on a show

4 - vocal.... tell me what You wanna do to and don't just lie there and take it lol!

and lastly... if your staying over when fun time is done you need to go sleep in the bed provided for you.... cuddle time is for us and an intimacy that isn't shared...... "

Agreed with all this apart from the last comment which kinda stuck in my throat so to speak. Kinda harsh to make them sleep in the bed provided for them! So would u just tell them once u were finished with them

Can't everone share the cuddles or U can keep your cuddle time until your company leaves?

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By *uirkygirlCouple
over a year ago

Quirkyville

lol no wouldn't just kick them out but sometimes people don't know when its time to leave and if they are staying over then I would want them to sleep in the other room... some things are for us only like our pillow talk time xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

But u invite them into your bed for I presume intimate encounters but want them to go sleep in another room

Good luck on your hunt

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't get it, I wouldn't ever want to sleep in a bed with a couple after fun, it just never crossed my mind at all! Why would you want to? lol

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By *uirkygirlCouple
over a year ago

Quirkyville

that's my point kitten, sex is sex anything after sex ie cuddles and pillow talk is for relationships......

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By *uirkygirlCouple
over a year ago

Quirkyville

and there is a difference between intimacy and sex.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally I wouldn't either but it was the thought of being kicked out when done that I was getting at and I for one wouldn't expect much sleeping to be going on

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By *uirkygirlCouple
over a year ago

Quirkyville

lol your not getting kicked out you just need to know when its time to go to bed......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"that's my point kitten, sex is sex anything after sex ie cuddles and pillow talk is for relationships......"

Dunno about this I always like a cuddle and some pillow talk after some good sex.

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By *illow PimpMan
over a year ago

Midlothian

A few mentions enjoying pillow talk, my inbox is waiting

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By *uirkygirlCouple
over a year ago

Quirkyville

in my opinion.... cuddling is for couples not for meets.... there are exceptions to the rule but they are rare...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"in my opinion.... cuddling is for couples not for meets.... there are exceptions to the rule but they are rare..."

Jeezo knew I was doing something wrong!

Anyhoo as I said, good luck

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

I must admit I have been left feeling like the toy for others enjoyment so always weary now who I choose to have fun with and that includes arranging ffm between friends and the single guys

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By *aughty.naughty deviantsCouple
over a year ago

Stirling


"that's my point kitten, sex is sex anything after sex ie cuddles and pillow talk is for relationships......"

Could not agree more, it's about like minded people who are attracted to each other having a damn good time, intimacy and emotions are for relationships...not for swinging in my eyes

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

Well I dunno either have been very intimate and stayed over a few times with lots of pillow talk and cuddles too

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By *aughty.naughty deviantsCouple
over a year ago

Stirling


"Well I dunno either have been very intimate and stayed over a few times with lots of pillow talk and cuddles too "

That's your choice, but in my opinion it only leads to mixed signals at some stage.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm quite affectionate and will give people cuddles etc but would not be happy at anyone wanting to sleep with me and my Mr after fun... I would find it quite weird actually!

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"Well I dunno either have been very intimate and stayed over a few times with lots of pillow talk and cuddles too

That's your choice, but in my opinion it only leads to mixed signals at some stage."
Lol

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By *aughty.naughty deviantsCouple
over a year ago

Stirling


"I'm quite affectionate and will give people cuddles etc but would not be happy at anyone wanting to sleep with me and my Mr after fun... I would find it quite weird actually!"

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"I'm quite affectionate and will give people cuddles etc but would not be happy at anyone wanting to sleep with me and my Mr after fun... I would find it quite weird actually!"
I'd never stay over with a couple tho x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm quite affectionate and will give people cuddles etc but would not be happy at anyone wanting to sleep with me and my Mr after fun... I would find it quite weird actually!I'd never stay over with a couple tho x"

oh yeah it's different if you're 1-1. I've had weekend long meets 1-1 which I have slept in the same bed and cuddled etc but if it was a couple absolutely not! x

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By *aughty.naughty deviantsCouple
over a year ago

Stirling


"Well I dunno either have been very intimate and stayed over a few times with lots of pillow talk and cuddles too

That's your choice, but in my opinion it only leads to mixed signals at some stage.Lol "

Should your intimacy and emotions not be something you should share with your husband, rather than someone you have sex with?

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"I'm quite affectionate and will give people cuddles etc but would not be happy at anyone wanting to sleep with me and my Mr after fun... I would find it quite weird actually!I'd never stay over with a couple tho x

oh yeah it's different if you're 1-1. I've had weekend long meets 1-1 which I have slept in the same bed and cuddled etc but if it was a couple absolutely not! x"
Exactly x

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"Well I dunno either have been very intimate and stayed over a few times with lots of pillow talk and cuddles too

That's your choice, but in my opinion it only leads to mixed signals at some stage.Lol

Should your intimacy and emotions not be something you should share with your husband, rather than someone you have sex with? "
so how do u have sex with someone without it being intimate ?and who mentioned emotions? i didnt

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When we had a mff it lasted all night.

I was so tired i Went the spare room for a kip and left them to it lol.

Poor jas had work the next Day and had to go to work without any sleep lol.

Was worth it tho lol.

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

There you go then Auds it worked for you everyone is diffrent and we all do things just how we want them so no one should be telling anyone whats right and whats wrong as long as everyone involved is happy then thats good xxx

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By *aughty.naughty deviantsCouple
over a year ago

Stirling


"Well I dunno either have been very intimate and stayed over a few times with lots of pillow talk and cuddles too

That's your choice, but in my opinion it only leads to mixed signals at some stage.Lol

Should your intimacy and emotions not be something you should share with your husband, rather than someone you have sex with? so how do u have sex with someone without it being intimate ?and who mentioned emotions? i didnt "

Emmm when you said you felt like a toy,hence emotions

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"that's my point kitten, sex is sex anything after sex ie cuddles and pillow talk is for relationships......"
does that include kissing to quirky?

Did i read before you dont kiss others..or is it just guys?

Auds xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There you go then Auds it worked for you everyone is diffrent and we all do things just how we want them so no one should be telling anyone whats right and whats wrong as long as everyone involved is happy then thats good xxx "

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"Well I dunno either have been very intimate and stayed over a few times with lots of pillow talk and cuddles too

That's your choice, but in my opinion it only leads to mixed signals at some stage.Lol

Should your intimacy and emotions not be something you should share with your husband, rather than someone you have sex with? so how do u have sex with someone without it being intimate ?and who mentioned emotions? i didnt

Emmm when you said you felt like a toy,hence emotions "
lmao sorry but ur not getting this at all so not even going to bother further explaining

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By *aughty.naughty deviantsCouple
over a year ago

Stirling


"Well I dunno either have been very intimate and stayed over a few times with lots of pillow talk and cuddles too

That's your choice, but in my opinion it only leads to mixed signals at some stage.Lol

Should your intimacy and emotions not be something you should share with your husband, rather than someone you have sex with? so how do u have sex with someone without it being intimate ?and who mentioned emotions? i didnt

Emmm when you said you felt like a toy,hence emotions lmao sorry but ur not getting this at all so not even going to bother further explaining "

Ohhh i get it alright i just think intimacy would be best with your husband rather than a swinger you meet for sex...thats my opinion..as yours is yours

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"Well I dunno either have been very intimate and stayed over a few times with lots of pillow talk and cuddles too

That's your choice, but in my opinion it only leads to mixed signals at some stage.Lol

Should your intimacy and emotions not be something you should share with your husband, rather than someone you have sex with? so how do u have sex with someone without it being intimate ?and who mentioned emotions? i didnt

Emmm when you said you felt like a toy,hence emotions lmao sorry but ur not getting this at all so not even going to bother further explaining

Ohhh i get it alright i just think intimacy would be best with your husband rather than a swinger you meet for sex...thats my opinion..as yours is yours "
please explain to me how u meet someone for sex and it not be intimate ?surly the mere fact your having sex makes it intimate?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would hope chicks on here Can tell the diffrence between sex and love?

The guys iv met alone after sex i love to lie and gave a Chat / giggle with...pillow talk is brill lol

Jas and i usually End up Talking about work/kids lol

So yeah after sex with anothe guy i love pillow talk!!!...usually leads to round 2

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"I would hope chicks on here Can tell the diffrence between sex and love?

The guys iv met alone after sex i love to lie and gave a Chat / giggle with...pillow talk is brill lol

Jas and i usually End up Talking about work/kids lol

So yeah after sex with anothe guy i love pillow talk!!!...usually leads to round 2"
definatley Auds only one person i love and it certainly aint anone ive met on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well I dunno either have been very intimate and stayed over a few times with lots of pillow talk and cuddles too

That's your choice, but in my opinion it only leads to mixed signals at some stage.Lol

Should your intimacy and emotions not be something you should share with your husband, rather than someone you have sex with? so how do u have sex with someone without it being intimate ?and who mentioned emotions? i didnt

Emmm when you said you felt like a toy,hence emotions lmao sorry but ur not getting this at all so not even going to bother further explaining

Ohhh i get it alright i just think intimacy would be best with your husband rather than a swinger you meet for sex...thats my opinion..as yours is yours please explain to me how u meet someone for sex and it not be intimate ?surly the mere fact your having sex makes it intimate?"

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By *aughty.naughty deviantsCouple
over a year ago

Stirling


"Well I dunno either have been very intimate and stayed over a few times with lots of pillow talk and cuddles too

That's your choice, but in my opinion it only leads to mixed signals at some stage.Lol

Should your intimacy and emotions not be something you should share with your husband, rather than someone you have sex with? so how do u have sex with someone without it being intimate ?and who mentioned emotions? i didnt

Emmm when you said you felt like a toy,hence emotions lmao sorry but ur not getting this at all so not even going to bother further explaining

Ohhh i get it alright i just think intimacy would be best with your husband rather than a swinger you meet for sex...thats my opinion..as yours is yours please explain to me how u meet someone for sex and it not be intimate ?surly the mere fact your having sex makes it intimate? "

I was on about the whole process of meeting, yep there is a degree of intimacy involved, what you seem to forget is that it is infact just sex...cuddling up and pillow talk is for relationships.This is my opinion, you have yours already, which you keep stating over n over again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So you cant cuddle somone without having feelings for them??

Gosh.....i must love ALOT of people lol

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By *aughty.naughty deviantsCouple
over a year ago

Stirling


"So you cant cuddle somone without having feelings for them??

Gosh.....i must love ALOT of people lol

"

Who actually mentioned love?

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

I think if people in relationships start to show/share intimacy with single people they meet, it is more than likely mixed messages will be received by some of them.

note use of 'more than likely'

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"Well I dunno either have been very intimate and stayed over a few times with lots of pillow talk and cuddles too

That's your choice, but in my opinion it only leads to mixed signals at some stage.Lol

Should your intimacy and emotions not be something you should share with your husband, rather than someone you have sex with? so how do u have sex with someone without it being intimate ?and who mentioned emotions? i didnt

Emmm when you said you felt like a toy,hence emotions lmao sorry but ur not getting this at all so not even going to bother further explaining

Ohhh i get it alright i just think intimacy would be best with your husband rather than a swinger you meet for sex...thats my opinion..as yours is yours please explain to me how u meet someone for sex and it not be intimate ?surly the mere fact your having sex makes it intimate?

I was on about the whole process of meeting, yep there is a degree of intimacy involved, what you seem to forget is that it is infact just sex...cuddling up and pillow talk is for relationships.This is my opinion, you have yours already, which you keep stating over n over again "
So how do i seem to forget that inyamacy is just sex ? when i said several times thats what it is...jesus stop trying to put words there that aint

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So you cant cuddle somone without having feelings for them??

Gosh.....i must love ALOT of people lol

Who actually mentioned love? "
isnt love an emotion?

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By *aughty.naughty deviantsCouple
over a year ago

Stirling


"I think if people in relationships start to show/share intimacy with single people they meet, it is more than likely mixed messages will be received by some of them.

note use of 'more than likely'"

Exactly my point, thank you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I agree with Auds, sex with no kissing or cuddling or caressing hair and neck and well all over must be like some sort of robotic action, open legs penis in... done then oh off to my own bed nights ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think if people in relationships start to show/share intimacy with single people they meet, it is more than likely mixed messages will be received by some of them.

note use of 'more than likely'"
Thats how i cant get my head round. Folk that are married....but have regular fuckbuddies????

Whats that all about?? Lol

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

To be fair, couples who meet alone are more than likely be able to deal with it... they are very, very comfortable with it and can deal with it...

I think the single may misread stuff

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By *aughty.naughty deviantsCouple
over a year ago

Stirling


"Well I dunno either have been very intimate and stayed over a few times with lots of pillow talk and cuddles too

That's your choice, but in my opinion it only leads to mixed signals at some stage.Lol

Should your intimacy and emotions not be something you should share with your husband, rather than someone you have sex with? so how do u have sex with someone without it being intimate ?and who mentioned emotions? i didnt

Emmm when you said you felt like a toy,hence emotions lmao sorry but ur not getting this at all so not even going to bother further explaining

Ohhh i get it alright i just think intimacy would be best with your husband rather than a swinger you meet for sex...thats my opinion..as yours is yours please explain to me how u meet someone for sex and it not be intimate ?surly the mere fact your having sex makes it intimate?

I was on about the whole process of meeting, yep there is a degree of intimacy involved, what you seem to forget is that it is infact just sex...cuddling up and pillow talk is for relationships.This is my opinion, you have yours already, which you keep stating over n over again So how do i seem to forget that inyamacy is just sex ? when i said several times thats what it is...jesus stop trying to put words there that aint "

There is a slight bit of intimacy in having sex, but some forget it is "just" sex... cuddling up is more intimate and emotional in my opinion, i have said my opinion and to be frank you are rather abusive with your reply.If however you don't like my opinion then please do not quote me and move on simples ignorance is bliss after all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wonders how Long this post Will last lol

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"Well I dunno either have been very intimate and stayed over a few times with lots of pillow talk and cuddles too

That's your choice, but in my opinion it only leads to mixed signals at some stage.Lol

Should your intimacy and emotions not be something you should share with your husband, rather than someone you have sex with? so how do u have sex with someone without it being intimate ?and who mentioned emotions? i didnt

Emmm when you said you felt like a toy,hence emotions lmao sorry but ur not getting this at all so not even going to bother further explaining

Ohhh i get it alright i just think intimacy would be best with your husband rather than a swinger you meet for sex...thats my opinion..as yours is yours please explain to me how u meet someone for sex and it not be intimate ?surly the mere fact your having sex makes it intimate?

I was on about the whole process of meeting, yep there is a degree of intimacy involved, what you seem to forget is that it is infact just sex...cuddling up and pillow talk is for relationships.This is my opinion, you have yours already, which you keep stating over n over again So how do i seem to forget that inyamacy is just sex ? when i said several times thats what it is...jesus stop trying to put words there that aint

There is a slight bit of intimacy in having sex, but some forget it is "just" sex... cuddling up is more intimate and emotional in my opinion, i have said my opinion and to be frank you are rather abusive with your reply.If however you don't like my opinion then please do not quote me and move on simples ignorance is bliss after all "
Bash on cause your the only one who thinks they should have an opinion on here

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By *andsCouple
over a year ago

Edin

We must be in the minority, not fussy about meeting a single woman

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By *aughty.naughty deviantsCouple
over a year ago

Stirling


"We must be in the minority, not fussy about meeting a single woman "

lol , best way... if it comes along then bonus

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

you see it all the time that people get uber clingy to a playmate, they become territorial and don't want others playing with them...

now that is the emotion that should be questioned..... WHY? on a site for NSA, why do singles gets clingy with another single... a bigger question is why someone in a partnership gets clingy with another playmate

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"you see it all the time that people get uber clingy to a playmate, they become territorial and don't want others playing with them...

now that is the emotion that should be questioned..... WHY? on a site for NSA, why do singles gets clingy with another single... a bigger question is why someone in a partnership gets clingy with another playmate"
yip....have saw it loads on here...not a pretty sight.

Some folk on here think this is a dating site....its not....its a sex site!!!!!!

Thank god im Married lol.

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By *aughty.naughty deviantsCouple
over a year ago

Stirling


"you see it all the time that people get uber clingy to a playmate, they become territorial and don't want others playing with them...

now that is the emotion that should be questioned..... WHY? on a site for NSA, why do singles gets clingy with another single... a bigger question is why someone in a partnership gets clingy with another playmate"

Exactly my point, there is a "very" fine line, that should never be crossed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Such high emotions and I think this proves that not every one is the same or that we all dont have the same opinion. Each to their own and nowt as queer as folk!

I'm feeling the love so who wants a shag? I promise not to cuddle in after it!

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"Such high emotions and I think this proves that not every one is the same or that we all dont have the same opinion. Each to their own and nowt as queer as folk!

I'm feeling the love so who wants a shag? I promise not to cuddle in after it! "
IL have a shag leggz but not without the cuddle lol

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over a year ago


"I agree with Auds, sex with no kissing or cuddling or caressing hair and neck and well all over must be like some sort of robotic action, open legs penis in... done then oh off to my own bed nights ..."

agrees 100% I would never ever make anyone feel like that we're done now get out my bed to your designated area lol I have a regular female friend who is a great friend and we lOve to fuck I've seen her and I fucking all night and falling asleep with hubby as well sleeping like logs cuddling up ,if I was a single female I'd never meet a couple if they had there fun and sending me packing to another bed....no chance !!!

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over a year ago

P,s goes for guys to if your staying all night you can fall asleep next to me I'll not kick yous out.

And nothing better waking up to two cocks lol

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over a year ago


"Such high emotions and I think this proves that not every one is the same or that we all dont have the same opinion. Each to their own and nowt as queer as folk!

I'm feeling the love so who wants a shag? I promise not to cuddle in after it! "

Hugs n fucks oh yeah lol

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over a year ago

Seems this thread has certainly sparked some strong feelings about preferences... Personally as a single I would probably cuddle more, but in a ffm meet there is definitely more of a limit tO the amount of affection that can be shared around. I think the point DDS was making is that a bit of a cuddle and a chat is fine but sharing the bed to sleep for the night isn't.... Kissing and cuddling in the heat of the moment are essential for building up to the fun bit... But let's not forget that if a single female joins a couple for an ffm meet, that the couple are together and the female is an addition to the fUn... Swinging is supposed to be an extension to a relationship, not a replacement....

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over a year ago


"Seems this thread has certainly sparked some strong feelings about preferences... Personally as a single I would probably cuddle more, but in a ffm meet there is definitely more of a limit tO the amount of affection that can be shared around. I think the point DDS was making is that a bit of a cuddle and a chat is fine but sharing the bed to sleep for the night isn't.... Kissing and cuddling in the heat of the moment are essential for building up to the fun bit... But let's not forget that if a single female joins a couple for an ffm meet, that the couple are together and the female is an addition to the fUn... Swinging is supposed to be an extension to a relationship, not a replacement.... "

Never replacement but I'd never make any female feel like that she has came into your bed to share fun not just provide it and If she happens to fall asleep after hours of fun and the two of us having a cuddle Noway I'd wake her up and send her to the bed provided but that's just me everyone's different !

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over a year ago


"I agree with Auds, sex with no kissing or cuddling or caressing hair and neck and well all over must be like some sort of robotic action, open legs penis in... done then oh off to my own bed nights ...

agrees 100% I would never ever make anyone feel like that we're done now get out my bed to your designated area lol I have a regular female friend who is a great friend and we lOve to fuck I've seen her and I fucking all night and falling asleep with hubby as well sleeping like logs cuddling up ,if I was a single female I'd never meet a couple if they had there fun and sending me packing to another bed....no chance !!!"

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By *uirkygirlCouple
over a year ago

Quirkyville


"that's my point kitten, sex is sex anything after sex ie cuddles and pillow talk is for relationships......does that include kissing to quirky?

Did i read before you dont kiss others..or is it just guys?

Auds xx "

just not guys auds.... but we don't play with single men xx

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By *issNaughtyxxxWoman
over a year ago

Aberdeen


"it is totally spot on.... I wanna find a woman who is

1- bi (not just curious)

2 - willing to please both male and female partners

3 - not just there to put on a show

4 - vocal.... tell me what You wanna do to and don't just lie there and take it lol!

and lastly... if your staying over when fun time is done you need to go sleep in the bed provided for you.... cuddle time is for us and an intimacy that isn't shared...... "

I think i tick all those boxes,

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By *uirkygirlCouple
over a year ago

Quirkyville

naughty your always welcome x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"naughty your always welcome x "

I second that motion

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