FabSwingers.com forum: Regular, arranged or stranger

By *inn OP Man
over a year ago

edinburgh

Given the choices, do you find sex more thrilling with a regular (not your partner), an arranged meet or a stranger (random pick up?

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over a year ago

"Given the choices, do you find sex more thrilling with a regular (not your partner), an arranged meet or a stranger (random pick up?"

Don't do regular Fab meets, for me it gets to boring after a few meets . Arranged meet with new person or random pickup in club or wherever I find is best.

The chase is big part of the thrill for me.

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By *inn OP Man
over a year ago

edinburgh

"Given the choices, do you find sex more thrilling with a regular (not your partner), an arranged meet or a stranger (random pick up?

Don't do regular Fab meets, for me it gets to boring after a few meets . Arranged meet with new person or random pickup in club or wherever I find is best.

The chase is big part of the thrill for me.

Ahhh the chase - the thrill of the moment

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By *rgoodnbadMan
over a year ago

greenock

"Given the choices, do you find sex more thrilling with a regular (not your partner), an arranged meet or a stranger (random pick up?

Don't do regular Fab meets, for me it gets to boring after a few meets . Arranged meet with new person or random pickup in club or wherever I find is best.

The chase is big part of the thrill for me.

Ahhh the chase - the thrill of the moment

Feck the chase and silly mind games. Rather find someone who knows what they want

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By *incsladyandscotsmanCouple
over a year ago

North fife

We would like regular, but we have experienced attachment issues

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Given the choices, do you find sex more thrilling with a regular (not your partner), an arranged meet or a stranger (random pick up?

Don't do regular Fab meets, for me it gets to boring after a few meets . Arranged meet with new person or random pickup in club or wherever I find is best.

The chase is big part of the thrill for me.

Ahhh the chase - the thrill of the moment

Feck the chase and silly mind games. Rather find someone who knows what they want "

So do you snap your fingers and the women come running ?

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By *rgoodnbadMan
over a year ago

greenock

"Given the choices, do you find sex more thrilling with a regular (not your partner), an arranged meet or a stranger (random pick up?

Don't do regular Fab meets, for me it gets to boring after a few meets . Arranged meet with new person or random pickup in club or wherever I find is best.

The chase is big part of the thrill for me.

Ahhh the chase - the thrill of the moment

Feck the chase and silly mind games. Rather find someone who knows what they want

So do you snap your fingers and the women come running ?"

Yes that's exactly what I meant, there wasn't any other way to interpret it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Given the choices, do you find sex more thrilling with a regular (not your partner), an arranged meet or a stranger (random pick up?

Don't do regular Fab meets, for me it gets to boring after a few meets . Arranged meet with new person or random pickup in club or wherever I find is best.

The chase is big part of the thrill for me.

Ahhh the chase - the thrill of the moment

Feck the chase and silly mind games. Rather find someone who knows what they want

So do you snap your fingers and the women come running ?

Yes that's exactly what I meant, there wasn't any other way to interpret it."

Lol

I wouldn't say getting to know someone better was silly mind games though.

Maybe it's just me that likes to know who I'm intending getting jiggy with.

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By *rgoodnbadMan
over a year ago

greenock

"Given the choices, do you find sex more thrilling with a regular (not your partner), an arranged meet or a stranger (random pick up?

Don't do regular Fab meets, for me it gets to boring after a few meets . Arranged meet with new person or random pickup in club or wherever I find is best.

The chase is big part of the thrill for me.

Ahhh the chase - the thrill of the moment

Feck the chase and silly mind games. Rather find someone who knows what they want

So do you snap your fingers and the women come running ?

Yes that's exactly what I meant, there wasn't any other way to interpret it.

Lol

I wouldn't say getting to know someone better was silly mind games though.

Maybe it's just me that likes to know who I'm intending getting jiggy with.

I could be at a certain point in my life where I can't be ersed being led up the garden path anymore, seen it and have the metaphorical t-shirt

Don't you find it refreshing when someone else does the running for a change?

Ach maybe I'm looking for a little ego boost, ignore me

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By *hy and innocentCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow

When I had my single profile I enjoyed regular fun. I felt sex became better when you knew what made the other person tick as well as likes/dislikes, & as the trust grew you could push boundaries a bit further.

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By *edeWoman
over a year ago

the abyss

"Given the choices, do you find sex more thrilling with a regular (not your partner), an arranged meet or a stranger (random pick up?

Don't do regular Fab meets, for me it gets to boring after a few meets . Arranged meet with new person or random pickup in club or wherever I find is best.

The chase is big part of the thrill for me.

Ahhh the chase - the thrill of the moment

Feck the chase and silly mind games. Rather find someone who knows what they want

So do you snap your fingers and the women come running ?

Yes that's exactly what I meant, there wasn't any other way to interpret it.

Lol

I wouldn't say getting to know someone better was silly mind games though.

Maybe it's just me that likes to know who I'm intending getting jiggy with.

How can you really know a random club pick up though??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Given the choices, do you find sex more thrilling with a regular (not your partner), an arranged meet or a stranger (random pick up?

Don't do regular Fab meets, for me it gets to boring after a few meets . Arranged meet with new person or random pickup in club or wherever I find is best.

The chase is big part of the thrill for me.

Ahhh the chase - the thrill of the moment

Feck the chase and silly mind games. Rather find someone who knows what they want

So do you snap your fingers and the women come running ?

Yes that's exactly what I meant, there wasn't any other way to interpret it.

Lol

I wouldn't say getting to know someone better was silly mind games though.

Maybe it's just me that likes to know who I'm intending getting jiggy with.

How can you really know a random club pick up though??

In a swing club I mean , well I would chat for a while, ( the chase ) . Even after the chase ( chatting) I still have the chance to release ( no fun ) or eat

literally

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

Regular but it's so hard to find

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By *edeWoman
over a year ago

the abyss

"Given the choices, do you find sex more thrilling with a regular (not your partner), an arranged meet or a stranger (random pick up?

Don't do regular Fab meets, for me it gets to boring after a few meets . Arranged meet with new person or random pickup in club or wherever I find is best.

The chase is big part of the thrill for me.

Ahhh the chase - the thrill of the moment

Feck the chase and silly mind games. Rather find someone who knows what they want

So do you snap your fingers and the women come running ?

Yes that's exactly what I meant, there wasn't any other way to interpret it.

Lol

I wouldn't say getting to know someone better was silly mind games though.

Maybe it's just me that likes to know who I'm intending getting jiggy with.

How can you really know a random club pick up though??

In a swing club I mean , well I would chat for a while, ( the chase ) . Even after the chase ( chatting) I still have the chance to release ( no fun ) or eat

literally

Mmm your 'getting to know someone' is very different to mine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Given the choices, do you find sex more thrilling with a regular (not your partner), an arranged meet or a stranger (random pick up?

Don't do regular Fab meets, for me it gets to boring after a few meets . Arranged meet with new person or random pickup in club or wherever I find is best.

The chase is big part of the thrill for me.

Ahhh the chase - the thrill of the moment

Feck the chase and silly mind games. Rather find someone who knows what they want

So do you snap your fingers and the women come running ?

Yes that's exactly what I meant, there wasn't any other way to interpret it.

Lol

I wouldn't say getting to know someone better was silly mind games though.

Maybe it's just me that likes to know who I'm intending getting jiggy with.

How can you really know a random club pick up though??

In a swing club I mean , well I would chat for a while, ( the chase ) . Even after the chase ( chatting) I still have the chance to release ( no fun ) or eat

literally

Mmm your 'getting to know someone' is very different to mine

I know what you mean but face to face getting to know someone is obviously way quicker than say , through fab, where it mostly is messaging getting to know someone. If that makes sense.

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By *wiftieeMan
over a year ago

near Glasgow

Regular, by far!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Regular for me too x

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By *andsCouple
over a year ago

Edin

For us arranged meets

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By *edeWoman
over a year ago

the abyss

"Given the choices, do you find sex more thrilling with a regular (not your partner), an arranged meet or a stranger (random pick up?

Don't do regular Fab meets, for me it gets to boring after a few meets . Arranged meet with new person or random pickup in club or wherever I find is best.

The chase is big part of the thrill for me.

Ahhh the chase - the thrill of the moment

Feck the chase and silly mind games. Rather find someone who knows what they want

So do you snap your fingers and the women come running ?

Yes that's exactly what I meant, there wasn't any other way to interpret it.

Lol

I wouldn't say getting to know someone better was silly mind games though.

Maybe it's just me that likes to know who I'm intending getting jiggy with.

How can you really know a random club pick up though??

In a swing club I mean , well I would chat for a while, ( the chase ) . Even after the chase ( chatting) I still have the chance to release ( no fun ) or eat

literally

Mmm your 'getting to know someone' is very different to mine

I know what you mean but face to face getting to know someone is obviously way quicker than say , through fab, where it mostly is messaging getting to know someone. If that makes sense."

Very true - some of us prefer the long memorable game rather than quick and forgettable though

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By *r Costa xxMan
over a year ago

stirling

Regular preferred, though in lockdown Santa comes more often than I

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By *sm265Woman
over a year ago

Shangri-la

Regular with couples works for me (tried regular with single males in the past & it got messy because they wanted it to develop into a relationship) or arranged meets.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Regular as possible always find it gets better everytime

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Given the choices, do you find sex more thrilling with a regular (not your partner), an arranged meet or a stranger (random pick up?

Don't do regular Fab meets, for me it gets to boring after a few meets . Arranged meet with new person or random pickup in club or wherever I find is best.

The chase is big part of the thrill for me.

Ahhh the chase - the thrill of the moment

Feck the chase and silly mind games. Rather find someone who knows what they want "

Regular is better. Its hard enough having an open relationship but having to continually chat women is hard far better to have one or 2 friends

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By *imbobaMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

An arranged meet is a meet that didn’t work out quite right to become a regular playmate. The former has only happened once.

Don’t like one offs with ransoms at clubs.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Regular is good but been stung by men developing emotional attachment issues so wee bit wary now.

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By *edeWoman
over a year ago

the abyss

"An arranged meet is a meet that didn’t work out quite right to become a regular playmate. The former has only happened once.

Don’t like one offs with ransoms at clubs. "

I don't think I'd want to be held by ransom at a club either Jim

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By *r Beefy40Man
over a year ago

glasgow

Regular every day of the week. Literally.

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By *r Beefy40Man
over a year ago

glasgow

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By *imbobaMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

"An arranged meet is a meet that didn’t work out quite right to become a regular playmate. The former has only happened once.

Don’t like one offs with ransoms at clubs.

I don't think I'd want to be held by ransom at a club either Jim

Effing phone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Regular for me, but it's good to mix it up

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By *elsbells2011Couple
over a year ago

fife

We are definitely looking for regular but it’s impossible to find

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By *bi_scotlandTV/TS
over a year ago

Glasgow

Definitely regular.

You know they'll turn up and you both have a good idea of each others likes. Also builds trust which allows you to be more adventurous than if it was a one off meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Regular but it's so hard to find

One hundred percent

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never would I do random.

Always arranged for myself.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Regular. Partner in crime for clubs and weekends away

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We like a mix. Regulars, arranged, and sometimes, although rarely, randoms. Variety is the spice of life, after all

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Stranger has the unknown thrill

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We are looking for arranged when it safe to do so until we find out if this life style is for us

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By *ing_of_the_swingers400Man
over a year ago

edinbugh

Would have to be arranged meets for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Regular I think, but really struggle to find the right people and connection.

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By *rgoodnbadMan
over a year ago

greenock

"Regular with couples works for me (tried regular with single males in the past & it got messy because they wanted it to develop into a relationship) or arranged meets. "

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By *inn OP Man
over a year ago

edinburgh

Very interesting - the consensus is a regular.

I thought random would come last in the choices but wasn’t sure about the order of the other two.

Interesting point made about attachment issues.

Lots to think about.

Thanks for everyone’s comments.

Other feel free to continue adding your thoughts.

Has the virus made you think differently about how you find/what you look for now?

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By *utdooryoneMan
over a year ago

Over there

I'm not into random stranger meets. Experience says that a pub pick up just has so many variables...

I've had a few arranged meets from fab, they were exciting and rewarding.

The one fab meet I met a few times over a few weeks was lovely, and I'd like to do it again.

Summary: regular would be nice, but I will settle for some fab meets with like-minded ladies.

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By *om-4-SubMan
over a year ago

KILMARNOCK

Regular, I'm Demisexual & have a keen interest in BDSM so regular secures trust & deep connection for me.

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