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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So, the other half has said she likes the idea of me meeting a female without her... if this would be of any interest to anyone get in touch... she will be reading all messages and to prove its not just a ploy (sounds it, I know) she will chat with you if we agree to meet...

Also, has anyone else done this via fab, how did it go? Any advice??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So, the other half has said she likes the idea of me meeting a female without her... if this would be of any interest to anyone get in touch... she will be reading all messages and to prove its not just a ploy (sounds it, I know) she will chat with you if we agree to meet...

Also, has anyone else done this via fab, how did it go? Any advice?? "

Set up 2 singles profiles and go for it. It's not to difficult to get meets sorted.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Me and my hubby do this, it works for us although have to say it seems much easier for me than it is for him to set up chats etc so I have to say good luck! I think it’s quite difficult for men on this site x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Yeah, I thought about setting up another account, just wondered if having a couples account would show how genuine we are...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yeah, I thought about setting up another account, just wondered if having a couples account would show how genuine we are... "

Set up your own account and get people you met as a couple to verify you also on your single profile. Verifications go a long way in my opinion.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Yeah, I can imagine it's difficult for men here, doesn't help that there are a ton of fake profiles and pic collectors to make things harder for us :s


"Me and my hubby do this, it works for us although have to say it seems much easier for me than it is for him to set up chats etc so I have to say good luck! I think it’s quite difficult for men on this site x"

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Sounds like a plan, thanks!


"Yeah, I thought about setting up another account, just wondered if having a couples account would show how genuine we are...

Set up your own account and get people you met as a couple to verify you also on your single profile. Verifications go a long way in my opinion. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My advice is be prepared not to find what you're after

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My advice is be prepared not to find what you're after"

OP definitely don't listen to the voice of doom and gloom here.

There are loads of guys who have been very successful through this site myself included. Hopefully other guys on the forums will come in to your thread and agree with me. It will happen when you least expect it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My advice is be prepared not to find what you're after

OP definitely don't listen to the voice of doom and gloom here.

There are loads of guys who have been very successful through this site myself included. Hopefully other guys on the forums will come in to your thread and agree with me. It will happen when you least expect it. "

I’m not a guy but I agree Zest, there’s loads of lovely guys who just fine OP. Good luck and enjoy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know everyone says set up a single male account, but we would be more likely to meet the male half from a couples profile, but that's just our opinion, I know where you are coming from as I'm also a cuckquean

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All you can do is try it and see

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks for the info folks. Happy fabbing xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Both myself and husband have single profile and a cpls profile which we both state on all our profiles.

I'd agree tho alot easier for me to arrange meets than the hubster but good luck

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

As a single female i avoid meeting the male from a couple as do not want the details to be discussed with his wife afterwards.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As a single female i avoid meeting the male from a couple as do not want the details to be discussed with his wife afterwards."

What about single males discussing it with everyone els?

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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago

south east

It can and does work ...we have been meeting as singles for years without problems ..agree with the suggestion of having single profiles ..it worked for us

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By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago

Paisley

Set up a single profile as that’s what people use filters for. There’s a lot of single guys with couple profiles.

Keep your profile brief, witty and what you’re looking for.

Be prepared for those who won’t meet attached guys, even with permission.

Remember that single guys outnumber single girls on here.

Make your messages longer than one sentence, read their profiles and maybe mention something of interest.

Don’t copy and paste a basic message, worse is copying a message and not changing the name.

Don’t keep sending messages if you’ve not received a response.

That’s my top tips. (Yes I know I’ve still to rewrite my profile. It got deleted)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So, the other half has said she likes the idea of me meeting a female without her... if this would be of any interest to anyone get in touch... she will be reading all messages and to prove its not just a ploy (sounds it, I know) she will chat with you if we agree to meet...

Also, has anyone else done this via fab, how did it go? Any advice?? "

Both me and the oh are on here but on single profile only. You'll probably meet a single female with a lot more ease if you stick with a couples profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As a single female i avoid meeting the male from a couple as do not want the details to be discussed with his wife afterwards."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me I only meet a single hafe off a couple of I have all ready meet both hafes to meny single guys pretending to be couples not saying yous are but

Definitely ran in to my fair share

Off wife’s out wife’s on holiday why dosent like tv/ts

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We do this and works fine, transparency, honesty and openness is key, for us at least

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By *uffinMan
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Unless your packin something Adonis like you'll fall into the pit of the single male. The truth is the ladies can pick their hunk and the rest are left to rot.

Happy hunting.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As a single female i avoid meeting the male from a couple as do not want the details to be discussed with his wife afterwards."

True but what happens in the bedroom stays in the bedroom

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By *sm265Woman
over a year ago

Shangri-la

Generally the only time a meet a male half of a couple is if it is a couple I've played with jointly & I 100% know the wife is OK with it. Unfortunately there are quite a lot of couple profiles that don't actually have a female half at all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It definitely is harder for men on here. Supply & demand I guess. Not so many single women & It seems like some creeps out there giving the rest of us a bad name

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By *assy LassieWoman
over a year ago

Lanarkshire


"It definitely is harder for men on here. Supply & demand I guess. Not so many single women & It seems like some creeps out there giving the rest of us a bad name"

No they just make the good ones stand out!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It definitely is harder for men on here. Supply & demand I guess. Not so many single women & It seems like some creeps out there giving the rest of us a bad name

No they just make the good ones stand out!"

This ^^^

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"It definitely is harder for men on here. Supply & demand I guess. Not so many single women & It seems like some creeps out there giving the rest of us a bad name"
Rubbish ! the good guys will stand out on their own

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It definitely is harder for men on here. Supply & demand I guess. Not so many single women & It seems like some creeps out there giving the rest of us a bad nameRubbish ! the good guys will stand out on their own "

I'm not standing out on my own, it's still quite chilly!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Me and my hubby do this, it works for us although have to say it seems much easier for me than it is for him to set up chats etc so I have to say good luck! I think it’s quite difficult for men on this site x"

Love the understatement lol

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By *ubmissive Cuckold CoupleCouple
over a year ago

Edinburgh

We are a couple and trying to find a female for a 3some is a challenge in itself lol.

No shortage of couples or men however lol

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By *ohnThomas1Man
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"Me and my hubby do this, it works for us although have to say it seems much easier for me than it is for him to set up chats etc so I have to say good luck! I think it’s quite difficult for men on this site x"
yes and blocking men like me does not help the situation. X

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By *he Regina PhalangeWoman
over a year ago

Lanarkshire


"Me and my hubby do this, it works for us although have to say it seems much easier for me than it is for him to set up chats etc so I have to say good luck! I think it’s quite difficult for men on this site x yes and blocking men like me does not help the situation. X"

That wee monkey emoji with his hands on his face! SMH!

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