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By *issNaughtyxxx OP   Woman
over a year ago

Aberdeen

Was abit annoyed this morning and lost my cool. 2 seperate couple's keep sending invite's, so i wrote a polite message back saying please dont send a invite again or you will be blocked.

I just think it's incredibly rude.

Q. So how do you handle your friend invite's?

I accept friend invite's from people i know from chat, people i have met or spoken alot too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What gets me is the people that send friends invites all the time.... You would think they would get the hint.....

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

I deleted all my friends list the other day and resent invites to those I consider friends that way only those I have chosen to be friends with are on my list and that's the way it will stay from now on ...why people send random invites I don't know other than to perve pics x x x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you don't actually know a person or your at least chat friends on here why would you send a friend invite,only thing i can think of is to see your private pics.

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By *issNaughtyxxx OP   Woman
over a year ago

Aberdeen


"What gets me is the people that send friends invites all the time.... You would think they would get the hint....."

That's exactly what this 2 couple's have been doing.Im guessing they were hoping id get fed up and just press accept to stop them pestering me. I send a polite but to the point message so here's hoping they get the message if not Block button.

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By *ikkiBWoman
over a year ago

Falkirk

I've got it written in the profile if they friends invite me without ever talking to me they get blocked and I stand by that. Some seem to think saying Hi qualifies as enough to friends add but my block list is pretty huge now.

Have to say aswell it seems mostly "couples" that doesnt read and I use the term couples lightly because im fairly sure most of them thave ive blocked is single males avoiding filters.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I will only accept a friends invite from someone that I have spoken to in chat, met at a social or are in the process of organising a meet with... It pisses me right off when I get a one line message a wink and an invite all at once!! I mean come on to feck....... Patience is a virtue and good things come to those who wait not that there is much special hidden in my friends gallery... Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

its started not to bother me much, if its from cpls or fems...I do cull them when theres not been any communication..or I suspect theyre fakeos

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Does seem to increase coincidently when you maybe add a few new pics,,winks and friend invites from messageless random folk.

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By *issBehavingxxWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow


"What gets me is the people that send friends invites all the time.... You would think they would get the hint.....

That's exactly what this 2 couple's have been doing.Im guessing they were hoping id get fed up and just press accept to stop them pestering me. I send a polite but to the point message so here's hoping they get the message if not Block button. "

I don't get to that point.... First random friend request just gets deleted.. Another one from the same person / people I block...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wait till they are offline... Accept the invite, perv their pics then send them a message...

Hi there, we accepted your pals invite, had a look at your private gallery... Then either

A. We really liked your pics, have copied them for later use.

B. We don't like the look of you.

C. We know you.

D. Combination of the above

Then delete and as friend so they can't see your pics

May get the hint then....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Wait till they are offline... Accept the invite, perv their pics then send them a message...

Hi there, we accepted your pals invite, had a look at your private gallery... Then either

A. We really liked your pics, have copied them for later use.

B. We don't like the look of you.

C. We know you.

D. Combination of the above

Then delete and as friend so they can't see your pics

May get the hint then.... "

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By *ucycuteTV/TS
over a year ago

Lanarkshire


"I deleted all my friends list the other day and resent invites to those I consider friends that way only those I have chosen to be friends with are on my list and that's the way it will stay from now on ...why people send random invites I don't know other than to perve pics x x x "

unreal the amount of people that will send friend invite and never attempted to chat/mail. As the poster says it is just a way to try and look at pics from peoples profiles and delete or ignore rewuest always used by me. i find it much more from newer members and not verified.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Anyone that winks or friend invites me without any communication gets blocked on 1st attempt. Don't care if it's Michael Schumacher or Richard Hammond - yer binned if you don't read!

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By *illow PimpMan
over a year ago

Midlothian

Only have 6 on pal list and those are folk i intend meeting. I also have no dirty pics which helps keep the requests to a manageable number

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Using my iphone ive gone to wink and clicked send friend invite by mistake about 3 times i reckon - each time i messaged saying oops sorry and explained and you can guess the rest...

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By *illow PimpMan
over a year ago

Midlothian


"and you can guess the rest... "

Your sorry ass was blocked as well

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By *andsCouple
over a year ago

Edin

I am not bothered if someone sends us a friends invite that we havent spoken to, I just dont accept it! x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dø what Steve does lol.

Wait until there offline..look at there pics then delete it.

If there cheeky enuf to send a random invite...sure as hell im gonna have a nosy

Auds xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I dø what Steve does lol.

Wait until there offline..look at there pics then delete it.

If there cheeky enuf to send a random invite...sure as hell im gonna have a nosy

Auds xx "

cant wait till ur offline...anyway...ur pics are shite

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we will only add people we have chatted too or have met before if the sent a random add we just delete if they try sending again block it doesnt take much to say hello

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I dø what Steve does lol.

Wait until there offline..look at there pics then delete it.

If there cheeky enuf to send a random invite...sure as hell im gonna have a nosy

Auds xx

cant wait till ur offline...anyway...ur pics are shite "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I dø what Steve does lol.

Wait until there offline..look at there pics then delete it.

If there cheeky enuf to send a random invite...sure as hell im gonna have a nosy

Auds xx "

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

I just ignore them! And yes you get the same people sending them through time and time again, but they're wasting their own time not mine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I dø what Steve does lol.

Wait until there offline..look at there pics then delete it.

If there cheeky enuf to send a random invite...sure as hell im gonna have a nosy

Auds xx "

Me too. Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

personaly i never invite ppl to be friends ...only those i know really well thru meetin or on chat are on my list ...not so much a concious decision just never felt need for it

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By *akedninjaMan
over a year ago

edinburgh

All friends welcome providing they are friendly the more the merrier!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can't understand ppl that continually send friends requests without even sending a message! Come on folks like that's gonna get u far!

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By *issNaughtyxxx OP   Woman
over a year ago

Aberdeen

It's abit bizarre Leggz, im glad im not alone in thinking that.

I have also accepted had a quick browse then deleted, feel very naughty and a teehee mood afterward's!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Only have 6 on pal list and those are folk i intend meeting. I also have no dirty pics which helps keep the requests to a manageable number "

Awwww I feel special lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Damn mine got lost in the post he he he xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think some people simply chance their luck and are really picture hunters in all truth. They have no intention of keeping in touch. I have a clean out every month now of those who have not communicated with me. I always drop a few mails and get chatting before I even consider a friend request. And even then I ask if it is ok to send one!

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By *uirkygirlCouple
over a year ago

Quirkyville


"I deleted all my friends list the other day and resent invites to those I consider friends that way only those I have chosen to be friends with are on my list and that's the way it will stay from now on ...why people send random invites I don't know other than to perve pics x x x "

and you didn't send one to me

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By *uirkygirlCouple
over a year ago

Quirkyville

I just leave the friends invite in the list and dont delete it that way they can't send it again

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By *andACouple
over a year ago

glasgow


"I just leave the friends invite in the list and dont delete it that way they can't send it again "

Found that to be the best way to deal with this.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I just leave the friends invite in the list and dont delete it that way they can't send it again "

Thanks for the tip.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I just leave the friends invite in the list and dont delete it that way they can't send it again

Found that to be the best way to deal with this."

works for me, I forget to check the invites.

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By *utieguyMan
over a year ago

motherwell


"I just leave the friends invite in the list and dont delete it that way they can't send it again "

Ahhhh thats really good to know as I got that peefed off I deleted each time. No idea why folf send invite that have not exchanged a few mails except to be very nosey

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By *aucy3Couple
over a year ago

glasgow

what gets on our tits is how hard they are to delete.

tick,delete,ok,it's just to much grrrrrr.

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By *ucycuteTV/TS
over a year ago

Lanarkshire


"what gets on our tits is how hard they are to delete.

tick,delete,ok,it's just to much grrrrrr."

100% agree - well not on my tits if I am honest xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

if we dont no them then we just perv and delete xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we only add friends who we know and have met have that in bold letters on profile but people still send them so we are always busy deleting

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