FabSwingers.com forum: Pointers

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hi folks just looking for pointers on this site, I’ve joined and verified been here for a couple of months but don’t seem to be getting any traction, I’m a straight male but get loads of males messaging me, anytime I message a female I get no response or my message just gets deleted.

I think I’m a reasonably handsome guy with a decent body.

Any help appreciated

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By *edeWoman
over a year ago

the abyss

A lot of people are chatting the same in messages given that meeting isn't allowed. Give it time. You can block single males from messaging you if you don't want them.

In the meantime maybe add some more photos and info on your profile about what you like etc.

Chatting inthe forums is the best way to get to know people and socials when they are running again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Read there profile, and when you message them make it stand out and relatable. Other than that, its trial and error

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A lot of people are chatting the same in messages given that meeting isn't allowed. Give it time. You can block single males from messaging you if you don't want them.

In the meantime maybe add some more photos and info on your profile about what you like etc.

Chatting inthe forums is the best way to get to know people and socials when they are running again. "

What she said. Cede has helped quite a bit with my profile and making me feel comfortable here. Just give it time, that's all we can do

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

"Hi folks just looking for pointers on this site, I’ve joined and verified been here for a couple of months but don’t seem to be getting any traction, I’m a straight male but get loads of males messaging me, anytime I message a female I get no response or my message just gets deleted.

I think I’m a reasonably handsome guy with a decent body.

Any help appreciated "
use the tools the site gives you and use filters to stop men from messaging you if it annoys you .

Make sure you meet the criteria of the profiles you message .

maybe state on your profile what you have to offer a potential meet.

Remember we are in tough times right now so no one is meeting and even when restrictions are lifted people with still cautious about meeting for a while so maybe use this time getting to know those who do reply back to you .

Good luck

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By *hy and innocentCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow

You are photo verified, not meet verified, some won't meet unverified (meet) profiles. You have also joined in the middle of a pandemic where most aren't meeting. Be patient & things will hopefully improve.

Innocent

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Luck, is when preparation meets opportunity.

Good luck Big Man

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By *attooCTMan
over a year ago

Glasgow /Swansea

Be your self a usually go on the chat rooms on this get banter going n they can see Ma coupon see am no a goblin or that . Don’t send them photos of your boaby or mail saying fancy a shag hen that’s what I did years ago got no where but do alright now am a bit of a dick but being myself got me more meets n made good pals with lassies on here

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanks everyone, I’ve not been messaging to get meets and I’ve not been spamming with dick pics either just trying to drum up some chat.

I’ll persevere and see how I get on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Shame you're not ten years older lol x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Shame you're not ten years older lol x"

Nothing wrong with an age gap lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Shame you're not ten years older lol x

Nothing wrong with an age gap lol "

Very true but you're outwith my age filters lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Shame you're not ten years older lol x

Nothing wrong with an age gap lol

Very true but you're outwith my age filters lol "

Fair enough

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By *edeWoman
over a year ago

the abyss

"Thanks everyone, I’ve not been messaging to get meets and I’ve not been spamming with dick pics either just trying to drum up some chat.

I’ll persevere and see how I get on "

Its one of those things just now. Definitely good to get chatting on the forums as I find you're more likely to get conversations going in messages from a thread

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