FabSwingers.com forum: Introduction

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hello, I'm very new to all of this despite being on and off fab for the past year. I would very much appreciate any help or advice for a single 19 year old like myself and hopefully meet loads of genuine and interesting people. Thank you in advance

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Me personally think your too young but that's just my opinion.

Youv already been meet verified so your ahead of alot of blokes.

Good luck

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Me personally think your too young but that's just my opinion.

Youv already been meet verified so your ahead of alot of blokes.

Good luck

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Yeah I suppose that is true. Thank you

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By *anarkshirelassCouple
over a year ago

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"Me personally think your too young but that's just my opinion.

Youv already been meet verified so your ahead of alot of blokes.

Good luck

Couldn't agree more.

Youngsters nowadays want it on a plate and given to them on a plate. lol lol

You should be out there (when circumstances allow) and earning your spurs so to speak.

See or meet a lovely lady, make the move, wow her with your repertoire, and if all fails, take the hits and knockbacks that all of us oldies had to endure until 'you clicked'

God youngsters

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I agree with the ladies above me. At 19 you're very young to be on here but it's your choice OP. Makes me feel very old lol. Good luck and stay safe x

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

"Hello, I'm very new to all of this despite being on and off fab for the past year. I would very much appreciate any help or advice for a single 19 year old like myself and hopefully meet loads of genuine and interesting people. Thank you in advance

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I think uve done alright as you joined 3 months ago and was verified 3 months ago for some guys it takes years to get their 1st verification .

We are in the middle of a pandemic so there won't be many meets going on .

As has been mentioned you are young would you rather not be putting yourself out there looking for a nice girlfriend rather looking for sex on a swingers site ?

Anyway good luck in whatever you are looking for

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Me personally think your too young but that's just my opinion.

Youv already been meet verified so your ahead of alot of blokes.

Good luck

Couldn't agree more.

Youngsters nowadays want it on a plate and given to them on a plate. lol lol

You should be out there (when circumstances allow) and earning your spurs so to speak.

See or meet a lovely lady, make the move, wow her with your repertoire, and if all fails, take the hits and knockbacks that all of us oldies had to endure until 'you clicked'

God youngsters

Think that's a bit unfair, he's put more effort into his profile than many guys on here twice his age, and is now asking for advice. Doesn't seem like he wants things given to him on a plate at all. Maybe he doesn't want to go "out on the pull" to meet people; if my memories serve me correctly, that often leads to some pretty terrible sex haha!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP as you can see, many women here will feel you are too young, especially if they have kids around your age. You are outside my age range as well but that doesn't mean you should not be here. Just accept many women won't engage with you, be mature about it and look for those that might. There are definitely "cougar" types around that enjoy being with younger men, and sharing their experience. It's rubbish just now as nothing happening, but keep on what you're doing, approach people with respect, take part in forum chats and hopefully you will find what you're looking for. Good things come to those that wait

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"OP as you can see, many women here will feel you are too young, especially if they have kids around your age. You are outside my age range as well but that doesn't mean you should not be here. Just accept many women won't engage with you, be mature about it and look for those that might. There are definitely "cougar" types around that enjoy being with younger men, and sharing their experience. It's rubbish just now as nothing happening, but keep on what you're doing, approach people with respect, take part in forum chats and hopefully you will find what you're looking for. Good things come to those that wait

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Thank you so much for that. That has honestly boosted my confidence on here. I can understand where they are coming from but I felt as if it where a but harsh to say the least. Thanks again and take care.

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By *mmixtapeCouple
over a year ago

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Hey! Young users here, we've been on fab since I was 20 but I had a singles account prior to that. There's no such thing as too young, it just depends on what you're looking for. Honestly forums can be a bit hit and miss with advice, take everything with a pinch of salt.

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By *edeWoman
over a year ago

the abyss

^^ what she said

Just chat and get to know people. Don't be pushy or think you're due anything. Not getting replies can be a frustrating point for a lot of men apparently but comes with the territory, take it as a no thank you and move on.

Get chatting on the forums - not just this one. People will get to know you and your personality and may be more likely to stretch their age range if they like your banter.

Have fun

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Hey! Young users here, we've been on fab since I was 20 but I had a singles account prior to that. There's no such thing as too young, it just depends on what you're looking for. Honestly forums can be a bit hit and miss with advice, take everything with a pinch of salt.

Id totally recommend some in person meets, socials, club meets etc it's easier to meet people that way but just make sure that the women you're looking at are into younger guys by using the advanced searched "
Thank you so much for this. I will try my best for meets/socials and clubs, I just feel as if clubs aren't for young single men. I may be wrong though. Take care

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There's no such thing as to young

Luckily I know what you mean

OP go for it you have youth on your side , ignore the OAP women that think your to young

Go forth and multiply, well at least sow your wild oats , best time of yer life until you hit 21 at least.

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