FabSwingers.com forum: Just too HOT

By *pecialWell OP Couple
over a year ago

Lanarkshire

There is such a thing as too hot on here some profiles we just know the people in them are too hot to interact with! Is this just us?

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *lassybutseeknaughtinessCouple
over a year ago

Coatbridge

"There is such a thing as too hot on here some profiles we just know the people in them are too hot to interact with! Is this just us?

"
think lots of us have that way of thinking.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *pecialWell OP Couple
over a year ago

Lanarkshire

"There is such a thing as too hot on here some profiles we just know the people in them are too hot to interact with! Is this just us?

think lots of us have that way of thinking."

I knew it was a thing!!!

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *exybreeksMan
over a year ago

East Calder

You'll never know if you don't shoot your shot

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ah, maybe thats why I don't get any messages lol I'm too hot

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *eedsmale36Man
over a year ago

Leeds

"There is such a thing as too hot on here some profiles we just know the people in them are too hot to interact with! Is this just us?

Go on then you’ve twisted my arm, stick the kettle on and get out the lube

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *pecialWell OP Couple
over a year ago

Lanarkshire

"You'll never know if you don't shoot your shot"

This is true

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *pecialWell OP Couple
over a year ago

Lanarkshire

"Ah, maybe thats why I don't get any messages lol I'm too hot

It’s very possible

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *pecialWell OP Couple
over a year ago

Lanarkshire

"There is such a thing as too hot on here some profiles we just know the people in them are too hot to interact with! Is this just us?

Go on then you’ve twisted my arm, stick the kettle on and get out the lube

Kettles on it’s bring your own lube

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *hy and innocentCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow

"There is such a thing as too hot on here some profiles we just know the people in them are too hot to interact with! Is this just us?

In what sense?

Innocent

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *pecialWell OP Couple
over a year ago

Lanarkshire

"There is such a thing as too hot on here some profiles we just know the people in them are too hot to interact with! Is this just us?

In what sense?

Innocent

Like they are out your league so don’t want to embarrass yourself

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Perception and reality are different things . Great attraction in who a person is etc . Looks can be important , but without a good personality etc it’s all wasted . I suppose there are levels of intimidation on a visual stance . But maybe in person it’s a different story

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *pecialWell OP Couple
over a year ago

Lanarkshire

"Perception and reality are different things . Great attraction in who a person is etc . Looks can be important , but without a good personality etc it’s all wasted . I suppose there are levels of intimidation on a visual stance . But maybe in person it’s a different story "

Yeah agreed

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *ot - CoupleCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow

"There is such a thing as too hot on here some profiles we just know the people in them are too hot to interact with! Is this just us?

Maybe

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Or others views on themselves are ridiculously high.

Either or.

Somes hot are others laughable.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There is such a thing as too hot on here some profiles we just know the people in them are too hot to interact with! Is this just us?

think lots of us have that way of thinking.

I knew it was a thing!!!"

I think it is a thing but more of a personal internal thing that’s probably more linked to our own confidence. I’ve looked at profiles and thought that there’s no point in messaging as they wouldn’t be interested but as someone else said, we don’t actually know until we try.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *pecialWell OP Couple
over a year ago

Lanarkshire

"Or others views on themselves are ridiculously high.

Either or.

Somes hot are others laughable.

I also agree with this

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

There are no leagues just people who think they are in a higher or lower league than others.

I think it says more about you than them tbh.

Go on have the confidence to mail who you think is out of your league you might just be surprised .

What's the worst that could happen?

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *pecialWell OP Couple
over a year ago

Lanarkshire

"There are no leagues just people who think they are in a higher or lower league than others.

I think it says more about you than them tbh.

Go on have the confidence to mail who you think is out of your league you might just be surprised .

What's the worst that could happen? "

That is an excellent way to look at it! I might just try that thank you x

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is definitely a thing, although I admit it is due to my lack of confidence cause I'm a bugger girl. Even if they message me i often say, look in sure I won't be your type.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *rgoodnbadMan
over a year ago

greenock

They sit on the toilet like everyone else

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *pecialWell OP Couple
over a year ago

Lanarkshire

"This is definitely a thing, although I admit it is due to my lack of confidence cause I'm a bugger girl. Even if they message me i often say, look in sure I won't be your type. "

I just looked at your pictures and you definitely should have confidence you’re pictures are hot but yeah this is pretty much me x

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *pecialWell OP Couple
over a year ago

Lanarkshire

"They sit on the toilet like everyone else

Ha ha very well out and and a solid point x

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This is definitely a thing, although I admit it is due to my lack of confidence cause I'm a bugger girl. Even if they message me i often say, look in sure I won't be your type.

I just looked at your pictures and you definitely should have confidence you’re pictures are hot but yeah this is pretty much me x"

I checked yours out and thought the same lol

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This is definitely a thing, although I admit it is due to my lack of confidence cause I'm a bugger girl. Even if they message me i often say, look in sure I won't be your type.

I just looked at your pictures and you definitely should have confidence you’re pictures are hot but yeah this is pretty much me x

I checked yours out and thought the same lol "

That was meant to say bigger girl ....gees ??

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *rgoodnbadMan
over a year ago

greenock

"They sit on the toilet like everyone else

Ha ha very well out and and a solid point x"

I don't like to piss about

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You dont know if you don't ask ,goes for everything in life sometimes life can surprise you

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was on a dating site and a girl didn't date me because she thought I looked like a film star and was too hot, wasn't till she realised I was real then thought holy shit...Too late though. No second chances.

P.S I'm not being a knob or that, I'm sure my friends will say same

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *ornyhappyCouple
over a year ago

perth

I will look at profiles and sometimes think "well they definitely wouldn't be interested in me", but I absolutely know that is more about my self confidence/insecurities than anything else. I think I generally assume that they will be looking for people who are very similar to themselves, which I know is not necessarily the case.

I do sometimes wonder about profiles that proclaim that they are only interested in "good looking/attractive people" because ultimately everyone will have their own perception of what that is.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *pecialWell OP Couple
over a year ago

Lanarkshire

"This is definitely a thing, although I admit it is due to my lack of confidence cause I'm a bugger girl. Even if they message me i often say, look in sure I won't be your type.

I just looked at your pictures and you definitely should have confidence you’re pictures are hot but yeah this is pretty much me x

I checked yours out and thought the same lol "

Aww thank you x

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *pecialWell OP Couple
over a year ago

Lanarkshire

"I will look at profiles and sometimes think "well they definitely wouldn't be interested in me", but I absolutely know that is more about my self confidence/insecurities than anything else. I think I generally assume that they will be looking for people who are very similar to themselves, which I know is not necessarily the case.

I do sometimes wonder about profiles that proclaim that they are only interested in "good looking/attractive people" because ultimately everyone will have their own perception of what that is.

I do wonder what that means too who can define if they’re “good looking” certainly not me anyway lol

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *pecialWell OP Couple
over a year ago

Lanarkshire

"I was on a dating site and a girl didn't date me because she thought I looked like a film star and was too hot, wasn't till she realised I was real then thought holy shit...Too late though. No second chances.

P.S I'm not being a knob or that, I'm sure my friends will say same

Ha that’s a bit savage no second chances

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

"There is such a thing as too hot on here some profiles we just know the people in them are too hot to interact with! Is this just us?

Do not be silly. We are all equal on here. All human and all here for the same reasons. Have confidence in yourself as it goes a long way.xx

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *pecialWell OP Couple
over a year ago

Lanarkshire

"There is such a thing as too hot on here some profiles we just know the people in them are too hot to interact with! Is this just us?

Do not be silly. We are all equal on here. All human and all here for the same reasons. Have confidence in yourself as it goes a long way.xx"

Thank you I will definitely need to try that

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There’s no such thing as to hot there are no leagues if you like someone it’s worth a shot you will find most off these “ hot ” people are very friendly and nice to talk to so why not give it a go

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *rgoodnbadMan
over a year ago

greenock

Maybe your pics are edited, filtered or whatever but they look hot. I think there's probably lots on the site who'd be looking at your own profile and drawing the same conclusion that you're well out of their league.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *andsCouple
over a year ago

Edin

I think as you said it’s more to do with your confidence than anything else. If someone messages you and you are not attracted to them I don’t think you would say you are out of their league it’s just a preference by you. Likewise if you messaged someone you like the look of and they don’t want to meet it’s not because they are out of your league just they have preferences like we all do. I guess what I’m trying to say is pluck up the courage to message and you never know what will happen. Good Luck x

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There is such a thing as too hot on here some profiles we just know the people in them are too hot to interact with! Is this just us?

Ach that's just rubbish I'm not that hot you can chat away even the mrs might chat

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *exy gentMan
over a year ago

Midlothian

Definitely feel that way, especially as I haven't trained in 9 months, just working 6 full days every week

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *eedsmale36Man
over a year ago

Leeds

"There is such a thing as too hot on here some profiles we just know the people in them are too hot to interact with! Is this just us?

Go on then you’ve twisted my arm, stick the kettle on and get out the lube

Kettles on it’s bring your own lube "

Note to self : must pack lube and biscuits when heading to Scotland every Monday.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *pecialWell OP Couple
over a year ago

Lanarkshire

"Maybe your pics are edited, filtered or whatever but they look hot. I think there's probably lots on the site who'd be looking at your own profile and drawing the same conclusion that you're well out of their league."

Only filter is black and white and I would be mortified if people thought that people thought that about us

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *pecialWell OP Couple
over a year ago

Lanarkshire

"I think as you said it’s more to do with your confidence than anything else. If someone messages you and you are not attracted to them I don’t think you would say you are out of their league it’s just a preference by you. Likewise if you messaged someone you like the look of and they don’t want to meet it’s not because they are out of your league just they have preferences like we all do. I guess what I’m trying to say is pluck up the courage to message and you never know what will happen. Good Luck x"

Thank you I may just have to do that x

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *pecialWell OP Couple
over a year ago

Lanarkshire

"There is such a thing as too hot on here some profiles we just know the people in them are too hot to interact with! Is this just us?

Go on then you’ve twisted my arm, stick the kettle on and get out the lube

Kettles on it’s bring your own lube

Note to self : must pack lube and biscuits when heading to Scotland every Monday. "

Ha I love a biscuit

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would agree. However some are not worth the effort

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thank you I may just have to do that x"

Confidence has a lot to do with how attractive we feel. Often we feel unattractive when others view us very attractive. If you feel someones too hot for you you might be surprised to find out they might think that they're not that attractive. In the end all you can do is chat. Like kink beauty is subjective when all like different things in people. At the end of the day were all human

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *partacus2024Man
over a year ago

Near You

"There is such a thing as too hot on here some profiles we just know the people in them are too hot to interact with! Is this just us?

Some of the too hot turn out to be the most ugly

Being proactive on here helps.

If someone takes your fancy go for it.

Somebody has already said, whats the worst thing that could happen

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Savage haha I know, I'm bad

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *eedsmale36Man
over a year ago

Leeds

"There is such a thing as too hot on here some profiles we just know the people in them are too hot to interact with! Is this just us?

Go on then you’ve twisted my arm, stick the kettle on and get out the lube

Kettles on it’s bring your own lube

Note to self : must pack lube and biscuits when heading to Scotland every Monday.

Ha I love a biscuit

Cant beat a nice biscuit after a MMF threesome

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *kblueeyesCouple
over a year ago

kilkenny

If you don't ask you will never know, gotta love humour

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There is such a thing as too hot on here some profiles we just know the people in them are too hot to interact with! Is this just us?

If a profile is too hot/perfect pics I tend to think they’re fake!

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *oyeur 777Man
over a year ago

glasgow

"There is such a thing as too hot on here some profiles we just know the people in them are too hot to interact with! Is this just us?

Have you ever considered that you guys just might be one of those couples that folk are scared to message because you are just too hot?

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *edeWoman
over a year ago

the abyss

I will openly admit that I never message first unless it's to reply through a forum comment. It's not me being lazy or thinking others should message first - I just always think I may not be their cup of tea so leave it

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *pecialWell OP Couple
over a year ago

Lanarkshire

"I will openly admit that I never message first unless it's to reply through a forum comment. It's not me being lazy or thinking others should message first - I just always think I may not be their cup of tea so leave it

This is definitely me too

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *pecialWell OP Couple
over a year ago

Lanarkshire

"There is such a thing as too hot on here some profiles we just know the people in them are too hot to interact with! Is this just us?

Have you ever considered that you guys just might be one of those couples that folk are scared to message because you are just too hot?"

Genuinely no we’ve never ever considered that

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *pecialWell OP Couple
over a year ago

Lanarkshire

"Savage haha I know, I'm bad

Funny tho

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

Post new Message to Thread