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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So many people have lost jobs, so many people have lost livelihoods, the economy has failed. Now I'm going to post this for mainly guys. Us guys are stubborn and with the current situation its hard for us. There is so many groups for females but lesser for guys. Sometimes its hard for us as we are meant to provide. I just want to say to every guy out there that is struggling, there is no shame whatsoever to pick up a phone or talk to a friend about anything. Please guys, never ever think you are alone, your NOT

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Top man, great post OP

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By *adbury girlWoman
over a year ago

Lanarkshire

Absolutely!

Poor mental health isn’t fussy who it creeps up on, rich/poor, fat/thin, male/female but as you say OP reaching out to someone is important.

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By *oucancall me sirMan
over a year ago

borders


"Absolutely!

Poor mental health isn’t fussy who it creeps up on, rich/poor, fat/thin, male/female but as you say OP reaching out to someone is important."
totally agree .even chat to a random person on fab helps. If stuck for funds get in touch with universal credit they will help .crisis (men's aid) yes there is such an organisation. Lots of support out there don't be too proud to ask . Great topic op

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By *ilveryFoxMan
over a year ago

Midlothian

Great post fella. Mental health should not be a stigma, everyone has there struggles and there is no shame in that. If ever anyone needed someone to talk to I’m always available, don’t suffer in silence

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By *edeWoman
over a year ago

the abyss

100% agree. Also if you feel 'talking' is too daunting for you there is a text service called 'SHOUT' which can be a slightly less scary first step

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By *pecxxMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

The worst part of havin mental heath issues people expect you to behave as if you don’t. Where it should be ‘ it okay to not be okay’ don’t hold all those thought and woes in your head speak out and be happy to. Anyone wishing to let oot a breath of frustration or woes don’t be afraid too. Reach out and take care xx

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By *exybreeksMan
over a year ago

East Calder

I'll be quite honest, I have no reason really to be here and I've actually been reasonably lucky In My work circumstances improving over the last 6 months, but TBH I've been at my darkest over the same period. The pressure of a new job, training from afar and not knowing what anyone else is up to. But chatting to all you top ladies and gents over that past 6 months has kept me sane. Thanks everyone who's taken the time to talk to me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All for this, struggle with it myself sometimes and still a bit uptight about talking about things but I'm trying to be better and looking forward to a bright future post covid!

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By *coobyABCMan
over a year ago

Aberdeen

This is a great post. The stigma against men especially getting help should be a thing of the past but unfortunately it's not. To anyone who is "manning up" in public but struggling in private, please talk to someone, anyone! Even if it's a DM on here I'm always up for a yap, drop me a message for a chat. It will help.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well done mate for posting it woman talk about there problems where as us guys tend to shoulder them.

Anyone struggling try #Andymansclub

Also my dms are always open for anyone feeling low.

I have lost 3 genuine mates to this covid shite and don’t wanna lose anyone else.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cheers mate, great post, very true we a stubborn bunch, and very rarely ask for help.

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