FabSwingers.com forum: Condoms

By *uirkygirl OP Couple
over a year ago

Quirkyville

after reading a couple of threads I have become confused.... can anyone explain to me some of the reasons that men don't Like to wear condoms and some of the reasons given for not using them? oh and have you ever had a woman say she doesn't like condoms and why????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dont think anyone actually 'likes' to wear them (or ladies maybe would prefer skin on skin too) but in this day and age its important to do so and that takes precedence over not liking to.

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

I think a few who have been used to no condoms in their marriage/partner may struggle when asked to wear them as they feel a lot tighter and constrained

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By *uirkygirl OP Couple
over a year ago

Quirkyville

I have never found wearing them (him not me) a different feeling....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think a few who have been used to no condoms in their marriage/partner may struggle when asked to wear them as they feel a lot tighter and constrained"

I agree with that… was thinking of a way to say it.

Jo and I dont wear condoms now (ive had the snip) and on meets either as a couple or if I meet alone its strange going back to them.

As I say though… its an important thing in this day and age.

S. xx

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By *__KMan
over a year ago

Aberdeen

Condoms. I always wear 'em, unless I can be absolutely certain of who I am with being as clean as myself, and being on appropriate protection. Safe Sex 101. I enjoy it much more though without. Skin on skin feels so much better. I have had a woman ask me to go without, but I didn't know her at all. I said no, I got out a condom and she complained.

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By *uirkygirl OP Couple
over a year ago

Quirkyville

just to be clear I wasn't saying its ok to go without because its not I just wondered what excuses have been given

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By *habsMan
over a year ago

Fortress of Solitude, Middlesex

I've heard all sorts of excuses under the sun (some from women and their experiences, some from some of the men the women have known.. I'll try to distinguish where necessary):

They're expensive

I don't know where to get them (men)

I'm allergic (sometimes both)

They're Fiddly to carry around (men)

I don't like the taste (women)

They never fit right (men)

It should be up to the guy (from women)

They take out the passion by time they're on (both)

Now most of the above excuses I ignore: I get condoms free from clinics when I get checked, I get varying types and fits, I get latex and non-latex so I don't really see a problem.

But that's just me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Better to be safe than sorry,always wear a condom

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By *issyForDommeTV/TS
over a year ago

glasgow

"Better to be safe than sorry,always wear a condom

Definately, i always wear condoms for many reasons (the main one being i dont want to be a daddy lol) but i have seen some womens profiles on here where they say bareback only...that's a woman i'd not go near with my strap on never mind my own cock pmsl.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"oh right condoms, yeah sure Erm but they do tend to make me go soft, i am clean and will pull out...." was the last excuse we had in the middle of sucking them both, about to get fucked at both ends and is THE worst time to ever say anything like that.

Horny as hell woman quickly transforms into hell raising raging bull!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think a few who have been used to no condoms in their marriage/partner may struggle when asked to wear them as they feel a lot tighter and constrained"

Mr worries about this at times as we have never used condoms together (until once about 2 months ago which was interesting)

But the risk of taking something back to his wife, in my eyes, would make condoms part and parcel of it all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was chatting to some friends the other night and they were saying that some men use the fact that they've had snip as the reason they don't need to wear a condom. Apparently some men get quite shirty when this couple insist!

I am amazed in this day and age that some people seem to think that avoiding pregnancy is the only reason for wearing a condom.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Defo defo wear them , my hubby and I don't use them as I'm married and on the pill doesn't mean that you won't get pregnant or get an std , sooo wrap up !!!

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By *issBehavingxxWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

Heard loads... The usual allergic, cant stay hard etc..

But the worst one was the male half of a couple at a party saying to one of the other females there that he wasn't going to use a condom... His reasoning "well, would you go for a shower with wellies on" ...

Dont think he liked the answer of "i would if I was at risk of STI's from my shower without wellies"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

couldnt bring any, mine are drying over the radiator

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By *adcowWoman
over a year ago

kirkcaldy

"I've run out of the xxxl ones I use and other brands don't fit- couldn't we just go without?"

My answer was if you use same brand all the time how did you manage to run out and also provided the statistics on about a dozen other brands. Needless to say we have still never met.

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By *akedninjaMan
over a year ago

edinburgh

No rubbers no ride!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"couldnt bring any, mine are drying over the radiator"

Brill Hunni

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"couldnt bring any, mine are drying over the radiator

Brill Hunni

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some still have ur juices on them xxxx

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