FabSwingers.com forum: Guys who block guys?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Well done, you dont want messages from other guys but have, group fun and gangbangs in you interests?

Care to guess who hosts group fun?

Your missing out!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When i see a guy that had blocked other guys it says to me they are straight and dont want guys messaging them.

Easily removed themself to ask to attend.

Simple.xx

Auds xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i got to admit i did block guys from looking at me but for no other reason than i couldnt be arsed scrolling down thru all the guys to see if any fems or cpls had been looking ....but as anyone who's been on site for anylenth of time there is loads that just refuse to look at a profile first to see if compatible an just try contact you .....it does say i'm straight ..so why try contact me if your a guy then piss of in a huff when i tell you am straight ....why no just look at a profile an save yerself some hassle lol....its more or less what they arew there for lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"When i see a guy that had blocked other guys it says to me they are straight and dont want guys messaging them.

Easily removed themself to ask to attend.

Simple.xx

Auds xx

But list, group fun and gang bangs??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"When i see a guy that had blocked other guys it says to me they are straight and dont want guys messaging them.

Easily removed themself to ask to attend.

Simple.xx

Auds xx

But list, group fun and gang bangs??"

Well I wouldn't fancy a gang bang involving only a bunch of guys. I can see why they block. Don't really understand your problem with it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"i got to admit i did block guys from looking at me but for no other reason than i couldnt be arsed scrolling down thru all the guys to see if any fems or cpls had been looking ....but as anyone who's been on site for anylenth of time there is loads that just refuse to look at a profile first to see if compatible an just try contact you .....it does say i'm straight ..so why try contact me if your a guy then piss of in a huff when i tell you am straight ....why no just look at a profile an save yerself some hassle lol....its more or less what they arew there for lol

lol, put a few new pics on gallery, 19 out of 20 are guys suddenly wanting to be your friend, but block is just a click away,

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"When i see a guy that had blocked other guys it says to me they are straight and dont want guys messaging them.

Easily removed themself to ask to attend.

Simple.xx

Auds xx

But list, group fun and gang bangs??

Well I wouldn't fancy a gang bang involving only a bunch of guys. I can see why they block. Don't really understand your problem with it. "

Ohh ,ok, need to alter that, maybe get a woman in the mix?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its there choice.

how many folk Have loads of messages/friends invite from folk they dont want to meet?

Thats what the filters are there for...to use as they want.

we do meet single guys but sometimes block th when it gets too much hassle

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Its there choice.

how many folk Have loads of messages/friends invite from folk they dont want to meet?

Thats what the filters are there for...to use as they want.

we do meet single guys but sometimes block th when it gets too much hassle"

I agree, but what im saying is,,,,, if yer saying yes to group fun etc, and block the very people who might invite you, its kinda cancelling out yourself is it not, bit like saying, "meet couples only" then you apply couples block, if such a thing, dunno,lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"When i see a guy that had blocked other guys it says to me they are straight and dont want guys messaging them.

Easily removed themself to ask to attend.

Simple.xx

Auds xx

But list, group fun and gang bangs??

Well I wouldn't fancy a gang bang involving only a bunch of guys. I can see why they block. Don't really understand your problem with it. "

A gangbang usually comes about via the lady saying she likes the idea, but fab being fab they hate the idea of sifting through 200messages to find 5 or 7 genuine messages. Never been to a 100% all male gb, maybe get a nice cup o tea though?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As a self confessed 'guy blocker' myself I do it to avoid the "want to suck you off" type messages as I'm straight.

If I wanted group fun then random messages of guys I didn't know isn't how I'd go about arranging it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"As a self confessed 'guy blocker' myself I do it to avoid the "want to suck you off" type messages as I'm straight.

If I wanted group fun then random messages of guys I didn't know isn't how I'd go about arranging it. "

Cool, you dont have gangbangs listed in interests therefore, your profile works as you designed it to.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

personally I think guys who complain about getting mails from guys are always exaggerating, to me its just disappointment and frustration and sometimes just a homophobic response.Do what other cpls n single fems do....delete,or block and delete...easy.

guys will get MUCH less mails a day than other groups, and I seriously doubt they are gods gift to the gay/bi community

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

"personally I think guys who complain about getting mails from guys are always exaggerating, to me its just disappointment and frustration and sometimes just a homophobic response.Do what other cpls n single fems do....delete,or block and delete...easy.

guys will get MUCH less mails a day than other groups, and I seriously doubt they are gods gift to the gay/bi community"
Best reply so far but hey each to their own n all that lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

But guys can browse what other guys are doing, we just cant invite them to anything?

They can fill their boots gleaning info about their fellow swinging guy, but dont want messaged/invited to anything, lets not stop there, if they have a lovely solo fem friend on here too, they can click on her info/profile and be a pretend female a while too?

Solo profile, access to each others profile, annnnnd might as well create a swinging cpl profile,,lol,,called having your cake i think.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think what Tony says in his opening post is valid. Tony has been known to organise meets for the ladies with several men.

If he sees a guy that has 'gangbangs' listed in interests or even in the profile text, he may want to message them to ask if they are free yet he cant as there is a block to stop him (as a single guy) messaging them.

Dont think there is a solution, they either arnt aware of the dilemma or they think that blocking single guys is a better option than loosing out on a gangbang meet.

Oh, and for info… puck… if you have single guys blocked, they can still see your profile, just dont show up in 'looked at me' page.

Steve

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thats it totally Steve, ty, my point, why state your into x y z interests, but, the reality is you are'nt or at least make it more than tricky to include/invite?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Jesus man! Did you get a knock back off a single guy last night or something?!!

It's a persons own profile and they can set it up as they like.

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

some will have clicked every interest

some will have clicked GB in error

some will not realise the point T is making

some will prefer to search for GB's via the meets forum

some will be seriously pee'd off getting bi/gay mail

some will not want exploited/befriended by other guys on here

and a shit load of other reasons...

do what you do in your way and have fun...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Jesus man! Did you get a knock back off a single guy last night or something?!!

It's a persons own profile and they can set it up as they like. "

hey morven, upcoming party some really hot chicks coming..tried to mail ya..och...single guys blocked..pity...cheerio..

now there is the the 'issue' lol...while its great to say things like, its my profile I know how to work it, from the vast amounts of single men that claim this site is fulla timewasters/noshows...any help could be good..couldnt it????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Jesus man! Did you get a knock back off a single guy last night or something?!!

It's a persons own profile and they can set it up as they like. "

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Jesus man! Did you get a knock back off a single guy last night or something?!!

It's a persons own profile and they can set it up as they like. "

Yes they very can, and (without lookin) im sure i said yours was as you specified.

Appreciate the input anyway.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Thats it totally Steve, ty, my point, why state your into x y z interests, but, the reality is you are'nt or at least make it more than tricky to include/invite?"
well Thats the guys loss....Not yours?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Jesus man! Did you get a knock back off a single guy last night or something?!!

It's a persons own profile and they can set it up as they like.

Your rite they can, and as we sit here, clicking on waiting for the next, "why dont people read profiles thread" from a couple who dont like Wombles and great uncle bulgaria has messaged them yet again!! And we have to say, deary dear what a rude womble etc, i just meant, dontlistgangbangswheninrealityyidontdogangbangs,,X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why?

Itsnotyourprofiletosaywhattodo

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Why?

Itsnotyourprofiletosaywhattodo

Brill, so we have to, ehh you have to for example ping them a message, askin, for example, "ehh it says you like threesomes is that rite"? Eh naw i just pit it on there fur effect???

Dyou get me!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"some will have clicked every interest

some will have clicked GB in error

some will not realise the point T is making

some will prefer to search for GB's via the meets forum

some will be seriously pee'd off getting bi/gay mail

some will not want exploited/befriended by other guys on here

and a shit load of other reasons...

do what you do in your way and have fun...

Sits Auds doon,,"look lokk" see,,lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Thats it totally Steve, ty, my point, why state your into x y z interests, but, the reality is you are'nt or at least make it more than tricky to include/invite?well Thats the guys loss....Not yours?"

It is… but Tony is probably bringing this issue to the fore to highlight it…. in a helping, caring kinda way.

Jeezo, why do we always have to see the worse in people ere?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

It is… but Tony is probably bringing this issue to the fore to highlight it…. in a helping, caring kinda way.

Jeezo, why do we always have to see the worse in people ere?

Ok, i get it, thank you, folk can c l a i m they are interested in various stuff but the reality is, half of it is bollox? lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

guys will get MUCH less mails a day than other groups, and I seriously doubt they are gods gift to the gay/bi community"

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

quite a few times ive mentioned peoples profiles in the same way Tony has and been shot down in flames for it yes it peoples own profile to set up as they wish but they need to see it from the person whos _iewing their profiles point of _iew too..dont say i want this this and this when actually your looking for the total opposit and yes i know we can all be looking for something one week and not the nextbut it takes seconds to ajust your profile to say so .

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

", and I seriously doubt they are gods gift to the gay/bi community"

I don't know, with the right dimmed lighting

a cock is a cock

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

", and I seriously doubt they are gods gift to the gay/bi community

I don't know, with the right dimmed lighting

a cock is a cock

"
pmsl

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Cool,thats that sorted, what next?

"occasinal, fb, on off couples"?

lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

A rolling, variable thread, might be fun,, you read the thread title, scroll doon and its nowt to do with what thread title says, great !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A rolling, variable thread, might be fun,, you read the thread title, scroll doon and its nowt to do with what thread title says, great !!"

its called hijacking..anyway...have u been fishing lately?

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

pmsl always happens lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"A rolling, variable thread, might be fun,, you read the thread title, scroll doon and its nowt to do with what thread title says, great !!

its called hijacking..anyway...have u been fishing lately?"

No, theres fish to be caught, so i go doon the harbour with nae rod n reel,, called denial, its kinky,,lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

funny ur mentioning denial.No I dont.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

single guys blocked from messaging me... check..

group and 3 sum fun listed in my preferences...check

reasons(although i dont have to justify myself to anyone).... im a big boy and am able to arrange my own fun.

This approach has served me well over the years and i dont feel the need to change it just so a guy can mail me saying hello...you look fit .. would you like me to suck your cock ..

p.s. i get you point in the original post cos im no daft me you know .. rock on!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Is rock on the same as jog on and is jog on the same as fuck off?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

rock on can mean whatever you want it to...a bit like zig a zig a by the fabulous spice girls.

In this particular case it meant im glad to see someone making a valid point on the forums rather than asking who would shag them ...rock on!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"When i see a guy that had blocked other guys it says to me they are straight and dont want guys messaging them.

Easily removed themself to ask to attend.

Simple.xx

Auds xx

But list, group fun and gang bangs??"

Well al say their only interestd in the woman at group fun and gangbangz lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"When i see a guy that had blocked other guys it says to me they are straight and dont want guys messaging them.

Easily removed themself to ask to attend.

Simple.xx

Auds xx

But list, group fun and gang bangs??

Well al say their only interestd in the woman at group fun and gangbangz lol x"

which most commonly hosted by males..I think is the point lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"some will have clicked every interest

some will have clicked GB in error

some will not realise the point T is making

some will prefer to search for GB's via the meets forum

some will be seriously pee'd off getting bi/gay mail

some will not want exploited/befriended by other guys on here

and a shit load of other reasons...

do what you do in your way and have fun...

Sits Auds doon,,"look lokk" see,,lol x"
you dont have to Sit me down..someone elses profile has nothing to do with you....get it?

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By *uirkygirlCouple
over a year ago

Quirkyville

can. I have the short version of this thread I got bored reading it halfway and skipped to the end a bit like reading 50 shades x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"can. I have the short version of this thread I got bored reading it halfway and skipped to the end a bit like reading 50 shades x"

The OP was suggesting that those interested in gangbangs on their profile (which by nature tends to be several men and one/two ladies) have blocks in place to stop single men contacting them.

Said single men could be those organising gangbangs as the OP is known to do but cannot contact them to ask if interested.

People then told him that what other people do with their profile is non of his business and missing the point completly that he was just suggesting that they could be missing out on something genuine hitting their mailbox rather than a gay guy asking for his cock sooked.

Is that enough?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wasnt missing the point.

I was stating a fact that whatever is on someones profile is no one else business...jeez.

What about the folk that have age groups 18-99.

So does a 99. Yr old take the huff if they message someone with that on their profile but is blocked

No its the other persons choice to do so.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'll bow out of this one now.

It seems that everyone who starts a post has a sinister motive or an axe to grind and isn't trying to be helpfull or suggestive.

I always try (fail often admittedly) to see the good in someone rather than the bad.

If more people tried to do that, then this site would be a far nice place to be.

Enjoy xx

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By *aughty.naughty deviantsCouple
over a year ago

Stirling

"I'll bow out of this one now.

It seems that everyone who starts a post has a sinister motive or an axe to grind and isn't trying to be helpfull or suggestive.

I always try (fail often admittedly) to see the good in someone rather than the bad.

If more people tried to do that, then this site would be a far nice place to be.

Enjoy xx"

Couldn't agree more,sick of all the bitching

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

"I'll bow out of this one now.

It seems that everyone who starts a post has a sinister motive or an axe to grind and isn't trying to be helpfull or suggestive.

I always try (fail often admittedly) to see the good in someone rather than the bad.

If more people tried to do that, then this site would be a far nice place to be.

Enjoy xx"
Totaly agree with you someone always their with their bitching and nasty comments and its pretty clear for all to see who these people are pretty sad really .

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By *aughty.naughty deviantsCouple
over a year ago

Stirling

"I'll bow out of this one now.

It seems that everyone who starts a post has a sinister motive or an axe to grind and isn't trying to be helpfull or suggestive.

I always try (fail often admittedly) to see the good in someone rather than the bad.

If more people tried to do that, then this site would be a far nice place to be.

Enjoy xxTotaly agree with you someone always their with their bitching and nasty comments and its pretty clear for all to see who these people are pretty sad really . "

Yup very sad indeed

it's meant to be fun and lighthearted.

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

"I'll bow out of this one now.

It seems that everyone who starts a post has a sinister motive or an axe to grind and isn't trying to be helpfull or suggestive.

I always try (fail often admittedly) to see the good in someone rather than the bad.

If more people tried to do that, then this site would be a far nice place to be.

Enjoy xxTotaly agree with you someone always their with their bitching and nasty comments and its pretty clear for all to see who these people are pretty sad really .

Yup very sad indeed

it's meant to be fun and lighthearted. "
Auch well each to their own ..good luck Tony some get where your coming from xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wish T had just said adult multi-cock-straight-parties-withsometimesONEwoman

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I wish T had just said adult multi-cock-straight-parties-withsometimesONEwoman"

Dont you mean adult multi-cock-straight-parties-withsometimesONEwomanwherepaddyisinvited ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I wish T had just said adult multi-cock-straight-parties-withsometimesONEwoman

Dont you mean adult multi-cock-straight-parties-withsometimesONEwomanwherepaddyisinvited ?"

whatya on about...I bring the flange

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

"I wish T had just said adult multi-cock-straight-parties-withsometimesONEwoman

Dont you mean adult multi-cock-straight-parties-withsometimesONEwomanwherepaddyisinvited ?

whatya on about...I bring the flange"

yeah, but just not the same all gathered round wanking to a fanny pic from a lads mag

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I wish T had just said adult multi-cock-straight-parties-withsometimesONEwoman

Dont you mean adult multi-cock-straight-parties-withsometimesONEwomanwherepaddyisinvited ?

whatya on about...I bring the flange

yeah, but just not the same all gathered round wanking to a fanny pic from a lads mag"

best part is when they all creampie it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Well done, you dont want messages from other guys but have, group fun and gangbangs in you interests?

Care to guess who hosts group fun?

Your missing out!

Why? If there is going to be a woman there and she is interested in who might fuck her then she can mail!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I wish T had just said adult multi-cock-straight-parties-withsometimesONEwoman

Dont you mean adult multi-cock-straight-parties-withsometimesONEwomanwherepaddyisinvited ?

whatya on about...I bring the flange

yeah, but just not the same all gathered round wanking to a fanny pic from a lads mag

best part is when they all creampie it"

Ohh is that why i could'nt find lingerie section in yer Littlewoods catalogue?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I wish T had just said adult multi-cock-straight-parties-withsometimesONEwoman

Dont you mean adult multi-cock-straight-parties-withsometimesONEwomanwherepaddyisinvited ?

whatya on about...I bring the flange

yeah, but just not the same all gathered round wanking to a fanny pic from a lads mag

best part is when they all creampie it

Ohh is that why i could'nt find lingerie section in yer Littlewoods catalogue?"

yes I've skiffled thru ur laminated pages

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo

"Its there choice.

how many folk Have loads of messages/friends invite from folk they dont want to meet?

Thats what the filters are there for...to use as they want.

we do meet single guys but sometimes block th when it gets too much hassle

Maybe they like to do the searching and mail people themselves.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Its there choice.

how many folk Have loads of messages/friends invite from folk they dont want to meet?

Thats what the filters are there for...to use as they want.

we do meet single guys but sometimes block th when it gets too much hassle

Maybe they like to do the searching and mail people themselves."

then complain they cant get any meets on the site.....

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo

It is… but Tony is probably bringing this issue to the fore to highlight it…. in a helping, caring kinda way.

Jeezo, why do we always have to see the worse in people ere?

Ok, i get it, thank you, folk can c l a i m they are interested in various stuff but the reality is, half of it is bollox? lol"

I don't get your reasoning tbh....we are interested in lots of things but we are only on here looking for one thing...does it mean that because we have other things listed as "our" interests we are lying shits if we don't want to meet someone from this site to do them? ( we may do but I am just giving an example )

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo

"Its there choice.

how many folk Have loads of messages/friends invite from folk they dont want to meet?

Thats what the filters are there for...to use as they want.

we do meet single guys but sometimes block th when it gets too much hassle

Maybe they like to do the searching and mail people themselves.

then complain they cant get any meets on the site....."

Their choice Paddy, I personaly don't see why they should open up their filters that they have used because they don't want mails from a certain group just on the off chance they may be invited to one GB, which lets face it, isn't something that probably comes round too often.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Its there choice.

how many folk Have loads of messages/friends invite from folk they dont want to meet?

Thats what the filters are there for...to use as they want.

we do meet single guys but sometimes block th when it gets too much hassle

Maybe they like to do the searching and mail people themselves.

then complain they cant get any meets on the site.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It is… but Tony is probably bringing this issue to the fore to highlight it…. in a helping, caring kinda way.

Jeezo, why do we always have to see the worse in people ere?

Ok, i get it, thank you, folk can c l a i m they are interested in various stuff but the reality is, half of it is bollox? lol

This is how I see it ruggers, when there is the option to get meets most jump at the chance, ffrom a single male perspective.What my friend has been saying is that giving that helping hand out for some to get the chance of getting the meets, ones based on their interests can be hindered by the said block,if the post is enlightening in anyway it is to males who may be interested in gangbangs or such likes-when its pretty much a given that it is males who host these most of the times(well in scotland at least lol),so it would be in the men who wish to attend such events good interests not to have the block on..or the place is just given to someone else who doesnt.Its a hard job arranging such things and as it may not be advertised publicly, the host wishes to choose who comes into his home, or the types of men he thinks will be suitable for the female/cpl.

There has been lotsa guys contact me after I have tried to get their attention(for accompanying me) as I have selected them from what s_ands out profile wise to me thinking they might enjoy coming along to an event.

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo

"I'll bow out of this one now.

It seems that everyone who starts a post has a sinister motive or an axe to grind and isn't trying to be helpfull or suggestive.

I always try (fail often admittedly) to see the good in someone rather than the bad.

If more people tried to do that, then this site would be a far nice place to be.

Enjoy xx"

People disagreeing with OP suggestion is not seeing bad in someone, it is disagreeing with his suggestion.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Its there choice.

how many folk Have loads of messages/friends invite from folk they dont want to meet?

Thats what the filters are there for...to use as they want.

we do meet single guys but sometimes block th when it gets too much hassle

Maybe they like to do the searching and mail people themselves.

then complain they cant get any meets on the site.....

there was events...lets call it that that were happening locally to me, sometimes 5 times a week...and it never helps not to have some forward planning for an event, 2weeks away lets say.

As for opening up the floodgates of unwanted mail..I've said my piece early on in that matter

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo

It is… but Tony is probably bringing this issue to the fore to highlight it…. in a helping, caring kinda way.

Jeezo, why do we always have to see the worse in people ere?

Ok, i get it, thank you, folk can c l a i m they are interested in various stuff but the reality is, half of it is bollox? lol

I for one wouldn't want a man organising our fun....if we want a GB we would organise it ourselves.....maybe the men who block single men like to organise their own fun too?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

It is… but Tony is probably bringing this issue to the fore to highlight it…. in a helping, caring kinda way.

Jeezo, why do we always have to see the worse in people ere?

Ok, i get it, thank you, folk can c l a i m they are interested in various stuff but the reality is, half of it is bollox? lol

Was just trying to make guys aware, its almost a "settings" dilemma, some guys may be interested in the group thing, want the chance to attend a group thing,and possibly they dont know invites potentially can come from their fellow single guy. Its their own profile to set up as they want, i understand that totally, just is another option for them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I Never saw any bitching?

Just because someone dosnt agree isnt bitching?

Heres me thinking it was a forum but yet again if someone dosnt agree with the op its Classed as bitching??

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By *b430Man
over a year ago

Tayside

.....maybe the men who block single men like to organise their own fun too?"

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

guys who organise gang bangs put a lot of effort in and do well for all concerned

but they also know if they don't get the guys, the couples/fems will go elsewhere... harsh but true, many used to go to hotels and greedy girls nights and now may prefer a guys home for discretion/security/COST

and that's where the angst comes from

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'll bow out of this one now.

It seems that everyone who starts a post has a sinister motive or an axe to grind and isn't trying to be helpfull or suggestive.

I always try (fail often admittedly) to see the good in someone rather than the bad.

If more people tried to do that, then this site would be a far nice place to be.

Enjoy xx

People disagreeing with OP suggestion is not seeing bad in someone, it is disagreeing with his suggestion."

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over a year ago

It is… but Tony is probably bringing this issue to the fore to highlight it…. in a helping, caring kinda way.

Jeezo, why do we always have to see the worse in people ere?

Ok, i get it, thank you, folk can c l a i m they are interested in various stuff but the reality is, half of it is bollox? lol

I for one wouldn't want a man organising our fun....if we want a GB we would organise it ourselves.....maybe the men who block single men like to organise their own fun too?"

I'll bring that back to me advertising for 'drivers'-I found it easier getting people I could contact that had that interest in their profile.Then I get the mails from people i may have contacted first(but I was blocked).As theres only a limited amounts of space at any given event, they lost out, and asked to come to another if possible.

I really wish T's original post hasnt been turned into this long winded shambles...where its about the common sense IF u have the interest in GB's and know they are happening around ur local area, knowing they are being held by the men, u might want to change ur filters.Thats all thats been said.

In this area of britain, I've rarely seen any fems or cpls opening thier gangbang doors..they have left it to men mostly...I dunno how that works but Ive seen it alot over the years..been to a few and they have been successful.

Some cpls/fems preferred the host getting the longwinded hassles sometimes lol...and as usual..they had the final say who was coming, or indeed, when at the gangbang...who they would play with.

*my last piece I dont feel anyone was arguing really...I just think things are being blown outta proportion from the original intent of the postEspecially to those its primarily aimed at...then again..I wouldnt have brought it to the forums myself but thats me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

this forum still going lol

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By *uirkygirlCouple
over a year ago

Quirkyville

"this forum still going lol

I shall be needing another update soon lol!

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over a year ago

O o O oo

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over a year ago

O o O oo

It is… but Tony is probably bringing this issue to the fore to highlight it…. in a helping, caring kinda way.

Jeezo, why do we always have to see the worse in people ere?

Ok, i get it, thank you, folk can c l a i m they are interested in various stuff but the reality is, half of it is bollox? lol

In which case, the part of your post I had quoted with the slur of men who ask for GB's on their profile must be talking bollocks because they block men doesn't apply then now after what you have just written.

Either way here is what Admin say on the FAQ.

http://www.fabswingers.com/articles/FAQ

Someone has blocked single males but their profile says they are looking for single males!

This means that they want to find and contact single males first, rather than be innundated with messages from them.

(If you change a couple of words it would apply the same prinicple.)

Either way, if there are any single men about who have read your OP highlighting what they could potentially be missing out on and fancy a GB then I am sure they will unblock.

The others will no doubt make their own arrangements and use their filters to suit them

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over a year ago

Given the arrogant and condescending attitude of the OP telling us we're missing out on messages from him - all I'd say he's achieved is a few more blocks.

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over a year ago

"Given the arrogant and condescending attitude of the OP telling us we're missing out on messages from him - all I'd say he's achieved is a few more blocks.

OMG blocks from ppl on the forum...surely thatll stop everyone from attending a party....get real.Please lol

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over a year ago

"Given the arrogant and condescending attitude of the OP telling us we're missing out on messages from him - all I'd say he's achieved is a few more blocks.

OMG blocks from ppl on the forum...surely thatll stop everyone from attending a party....get real.Please lol"

Easy there Shirley. Who pissed in your handbag?

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over a year ago

"Given the arrogant and condescending attitude of the OP telling us we're missing out on messages from him - all I'd say he's achieved is a few more blocks.

OMG blocks from ppl on the forum...surely thatll stop everyone from attending a party....get real.Please lol

Easy there Shirley. Who pissed in your handbag?

seems u have more probs with the post than I thought lol...Ive pointed out that I wouldnt have posted it, but I doubt lotsa guys are now jumping for the block button...from a forum post anyway..I use a purse..pink one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

its not just guys that organise parties, gang bangs and groups meets. I always organise my own meets and never have a problem getting my messages through

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over a year ago

"its not just guys that organise parties, gang bangs and groups meets. I always organise my own meets and never have a problem getting my messages through "

I meant mostly though

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Couple of things may of put my point over better, The thread title, no the best choice of terminology, people see the word "Block" and may think its a complaining/moaning thread.

"Message filter" may be the correct term?

If it reads arrogant in style, not the intention at all, as i said a few comments back, is just meant to make folks aware of the fact other guys may want to invite/message you.

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

"its not just guys that organise parties, gang bangs and groups meets. I always organise my own meets and never have a problem getting my messages through "
of course you dont becase your a woman

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over a year ago

"Jesus man! Did you get a knock back off a single guy last night or something?!!

It's a persons own profile and they can set it up as they like.

hey morven, upcoming party some really hot chicks coming..tried to mail ya..och...single guys blocked..pity...cheerio..

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge

wow we really gonna jump on somone for trying to help others who may not have thought there filters through properly i am sure this was what the op was meaning to do as for me anyone can mail me ah iggy most anyways pmsl

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over a year ago

"wow we really gonna jump on somone for trying to help others who may not have thought there filters through properly i am sure this was what the op was meaning to do as for me anyone can mail me ah iggy most anyways pmsl

the idea was to jump on the chick at the gangbang...but u can have T all to urself lolol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It is refreshing to see that many OPs are set upon for a _iew they may pose as a question... I agree that it's strange that a "straight" male has blocked males even when they list GB as an interest..... I once was a single male but did not block males until I changed to couple... And that was to stop single males bombarding me with 'can I fuck your sub?'

When I was a single male I was open to all offers, be it an offer for 1on1 or GB fun. Am straight but not homophobic!!! If you are uncomfortable with another man in the room... Maybe it's not for you?? I mean, several cocks in the room with a chick is the definition of a GB right?? If you are insecure.... It's maybe a fantasy, but the reality will fuck you up!!!!

Way I shout it..... View what's acceptable to you (not what you think the ladies/couples want to hear) and be true to yourself ... Same applies to "bi-curious" females.... If its a thought you like but scared of trying?..... State that please.....

I am straight... Not intimated by other males on the room... Laura is bi.... Loves a bit of pussy....

Be true to yourself... If you lack the confidence.... I hear POF is a decent waste of time

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over a year ago

"It is refreshing to see that many OPs are set upon for a _iew they may pose as a question... I agree that it's strange that a "straight" male has blocked males even when they list GB as an interest..... I once was a single male but did not block males until I changed to couple... And that was to stop single males bombarding me with 'can I fuck your sub?'

I am straight... Not intimated by other males on the room... Laura is bi.... Loves a bit of pussy....

Be true to yourself... If you lack the confidence.... I hear POF is a decent waste of time

its the homo-bi-phobic part that gets me.OMG I've just had..er..4 msgs this week asking to suck my cock...thats 4 messages...my neck muscle went into spasm...I gritted my teeth so hard..punched my screen.

Straight men claiming they get too much 'male' are talking PISH..whether its from women,couples,bi,gay,TV,TS..that is just the fact.simple delete if u see its a mail that goes against ur sexuality.

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over a year ago

I am straight... Not intimated by other males on the room... Laura is bi.... Loves a bit of pussy....

Be true to yourself... If you lack the confidence.... I hear POF is a decent waste of time

Straight men claiming they get too much 'male' are talking PISH..whether its from women,couples,bi,gay,TV,TS..that is just the fact.simple delete if u see its a mail that goes against ur sexuality."

I was approached by N individual in chat... Straight male... 'I am straight but would love to take your load mate' ....... I think you may be bi mate... Happy swinging

lmao!!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Given the arrogant and condescending attitude of the OP telling us we're missing out on messages from him - all I'd say he's achieved is a few more blocks.

The "care to guess who hosts group fun?" part of the opening thread was refering to other males generally.

Which was/is the whole point of the thing.

I was just trying to make folks who may be unaware,,,aware, you know, informing, passing on potentially usefull info, what forums amongst other things are for?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think most guys can work it out for themselves.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think most guys can work it out for themselves.

I think ur wrong...pretty reflective of the cummers and goers on the site...complaining away...

same goes for some of the fems and cpls, with the hostile statuses that they cant find anything on the site- yet its actually made quite easy for a lot if they look around and actually learn about the site, ie socials and clubs,parties - altho granted I'm not saying fems and cpls opening their mail to single men when they arent looking for them helps..as they receive a high amount of interest of course.Isnt this just the same advice we give to the single guys who appear to pop up a few times a week asking for help finding meets?

the post was aimed in a helping way..possibly not done brilliantly...but the point was valid is the important part...if anyone took it condescendingly...or felt that its going to reflect outside the forums(into the 'real' world)..I'd say wake up a bit and smell the orgy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh...and I've had to contact some of my fem or cpls friends to contact someone who was 'looking for a meet'-interested in gangbangs or whatever u wanna call it..as I couldnt get through to them..for the obvious reason.

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

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By *b430Man
over a year ago

Tayside

"Oh...and I've had to contact some of my fem or cpls friends to contact someone who was 'looking for a meet'-interested in gangbangs or whatever u wanna call it..as I couldnt get through to them..for the obvious reason."

Paddy no offence but did you not think that he might not need (or want) your help?

Instead, you have contacted others to contact him to let him know you can "help" him!

As I said, no offence meant but I just find it strange that other people like to interfere in what others are doing on here.

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

When I first read that paragraph I thought you meant for me to be true to my sexuality... I have been noshing on cock since I joined.

and a reread, I realised you didn't but agree with the sentiment

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

after* a reread

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over a year ago

Paddy no offence but did you not think that he might not need (or want) your help?

Instead, you have contacted others to contact him to let him know you can "help" him!

As I said, no offence meant but I just find it strange that other people like to interfere in what others are doing on here."

yeah BB...and they ended up coming to the party or I've met them since,...tyhats how its worked...ffs...

this attitude that swinging has to be some sort of solitary act does my head in...some of us, use pretty good judgement recommending friends or acquaintances...appears to work for me...I'd prefer to build on the groups I've met,This is the point, those wanting these types of meets, making themselves contactable.

I dunno where everything is falling down in these posts..I believe some are getting confused with what is 'boasting','condescending','arrogant' with what is initially supposed to be about 'HELPING'.

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By *b430Man
over a year ago

Tayside

Paddy no offence but did you not think that he might not need (or want) your help?

Instead, you have contacted others to contact him to let him know you can "help" him!

As I said, no offence meant but I just find it strange that other people like to interfere in what others are doing on here.

yeah BB...and they ended up coming to the party or I've met them since,...tyhats how its worked...ffs...

I dunno where everything is falling down in these posts..I believe some are getting confused with what is 'boasting','condescending','arrogant' with what is initially supposed to be about 'HELPING'."

Swinging solitary is called wanking Paddy

Joking aside nobody says helping people isn't a good thing I just find it strange that some people believe it is up to them to "help" others who may not want or need it - This is in general and not just to this or any other thread!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I think most guys can work it out for themselves.

That most or any guys can host?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

some find it strange...some find it helpful

and that IS the point...some will find it helpful...after all...if someone has to help for something to be helpful...why should it matter who helps u?

If a 'experienced' lady came on here and gave some sound advice to the single men who appear to not behave well in messaging ...some would say its helpful, some would say I dont need ur help I've enough common sense to do it my way...and then some may listen.amazing how diverse our ears can be really.

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over a year ago

"I think most guys can work it out for themselves.

That most or any guys can host?"
no....that most guys can work out their own filters.

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By *b430Man
over a year ago

Tayside

"some find it strange...some find it helpful

and that IS the point...some will find it helpful...after all...if someone has to help for something to be helpful...why should it matter who helps u?

I use my eyes to read the forums!

Again, joking aside, I was initially answering your post of going out of your way to contact others to contact the person to say you could "help" them, that's what I "found strange" as you had no idea if they wanted or needed your "help".

Yeah it's nice to be nice and help others so if folk read the forums and take the advice onboard then good on them. Just contacting people through the back door (so to speak) to get past a block/filter will always be strange to me!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"some find it strange...some find it helpful

and that IS the point...some will find it helpful...after all...if someone has to help for something to be helpful...why should it matter who helps u?

I use my eyes to read the forums!

lol BB... see when someone has the 'meettoday' sign up and it just so happened I was going to something and needed their help(I'll scratch ur back u scratch mine sorta thing)...I mailed them...of course I was unable to with some.So using whats called initiative I can use a few reasoning skills.So...heres what it is...

community spirit.Something I think some people lack on the site,- the have to get in their first types ,the dissectors of who u have met before them types ,the I'll moan when help is thrown my way types, the possessive types and the breeders of negativity types.This lot do my fucking nut in!

*have to admit strolling through other guys profiles wasnt my thing lol

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By *uirkygirlCouple
over a year ago

Quirkyville

Paddy have You been to sleep yet???? x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Paddy have You been to sleep yet???? x"

nope..was wanking at ur GF's pics!!!!!!

*yes I have(been asleep lol)-just on a horny warpath

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Paddy have You been to sleep yet???? x"

*oops..ur pics lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think what Tony says in his opening post is valid. Tony has been known to organise meets for the ladies with several men.

Dont think there is a solution, they either arnt aware of the dilemma or they think that blocking single guys is a better option than loosing out on a gangbang meet.

Oh, and for info… puck… if you have single guys blocked, they can still see your profile, just dont show up in 'looked at me' page.

Steve"
yep i know that steve an i have no issues if some guy has an urge to perv at my profile each to there own an all that and as you know i'll happily chat to any guy in chatroom ....it just save me a little hassle no other reason than that

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over a year ago

"some find it strange...some find it helpful

and that IS the point...some will find it helpful...after all...if someone has to help for something to be helpful...why should it matter who helps u?

I use my eyes to read the forums!

"
Exactly...filters are there for a reason...god talk about a long way for a short cut

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ooooft all this talk about gangbangs is making me horny

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over a year ago

"some find it strange...some find it helpful

and that IS the point...some will find it helpful...after all...if someone has to help for something to be helpful...why should it matter who helps u?

I use my eyes to read the forums!

Exactly...filters are there for a reason...god talk about a long way for a short cut

it was a 50mile journey....I dont drive lol..and all were happy from the events that unfolded..result.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ooooft all this talk about gangbangs is making me horny

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nothing to see here vicki...this is about fishing this post

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"some find it strange...some find it helpful

and that IS the point...some will find it helpful...after all...if someone has to help for something to be helpful...why should it matter who helps u?

I use my eyes to read the forums!

Exactly...filters are there for a reason...god talk about a long way for a short cut

Yep, i said maybe "Block was the wrong technical term". Message filters is more apt.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ooooft all this talk about gangbangs is making me horny

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nothing to see here vicki...this is about fishing this post"

Lol paddy

you looking for some trout haha

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over a year ago

"Ooooft all this talk about gangbangs is making me horny

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nothing to see here vicki...this is about fishing this post

Lol paddy

you looking for some trout haha

my pussy's itching for a bitta fish

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over a year ago

"Ooooft all this talk about gangbangs is making me horny

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nothing to see here vicki...this is about fishing this post

Lol paddy

you looking for some trout haha

my pussy's itching for a bitta fish"

Lol

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By *cottybhoyMan
over a year ago

falkirk

"Ooooft all this talk about gangbangs is making me horny

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Here V - how did the birthday bang go x?

You never got back to me sob lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've blocked guys as I was getting pissed off with them wanking over my cam.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've blocked guys as I was getting pissed off with them wanking over my cam."

why did u invite them into ur house???....anyway..ya can get cheap cams for under a fiver

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Finally, this thread has yo-yo'd between people who get the point, people who have taken a line of a paragraph and turned it into something it never was.

Poor choice of thread title, but people read the title and assume all sorts of lovely things.

I'm meant to be arrogant for highlighting the contradiction that is, "interested in gangbangs/group fun but i've opted to not let you be able to invite?message me?

Saying, "your missing out" was a generalisation that you simply by opting to filter out others from messaging/inviting you wont help you declaring you would like the chance to be involved in such a thing.

You dont appreciate random messages from some guy you dont know inviting you? Ok, your solo fem meet, the couple you've chanced your mit with a hopefull message never knew you at the beginning surely?

A gangbang where its all guys simply is'nt a gangbang, i actually dont know what the name for one of those are, never been to or heard of one.

As for waiting on "the woman creating one and inviting me" its rare,but those who do, groovy, think its great!

We sign up, we browse the site, we message ever hopefull as these dreaded "single males",and some of us are maybe too honest about what we do and have to step back and watch the crafty, sleakit ,devious succeed on here, and all we can do is shut up and hope others recognise we might be a fun addition to their swinging ideas.

I did'nt lose sleep over this, but i must admitt it got to me, you simply try and highlight a technicality,and you read your this, your that, because you dared mention it?

I've seen the "whats wrong with the site" statements from various people recently.

Maybe direct your anger at those with no good intent, nothing usefull,informative to say?

That may be one of the things "wrong with the site".

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why not put on your profile then?

'If you are interested in participating in organised parties and gang-bangs please mail me for details or watch this space for date of next one'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Finally, this thread has yo-yo'd between people who get the point, people who have taken a line of a paragraph and turned it into something it never was.

Poor choice of thread title, but people read the title and assume all sorts of lovely things.

I'm meant to be arrogant for highlighting the contradiction that is, "interested in gangbangs/group fun but i've opted to not let you be able to invite?message me?

A gangbang where its all guys simply is'nt a gangbang, i actually dont know what the name for one of those are, never been to or heard of one.

As for waiting on "the woman creating one and inviting me" its rare,but those who do, groovy, think its great!

I did'nt lose sleep over this, but i must admitt it got to me, you simply try and highlight a technicality,and you read your this, your that, because you dared mention it?

I've seen the "whats wrong with the site" statements from various people recently.

Maybe direct your anger at those with no good intent, nothing usefull,informative to say?

That may be one of the things "wrong with the site"."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Anyways looking for 5 very dominate guys I have one master but looking for 4 to act like one any takers

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge

not sure but a think a gangbang of all men is called a wankfest pmsl

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

"not sure but a think a gangbang of all men is called a wankfest pmsl

no it's a gangbang, an all male gangbang

not that I would ever go to such depraved occasions

I have just heard of them

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By *cottybhoyMan
over a year ago

falkirk

"Anyways looking for 5 very dominate guys I have one master but looking for 4 to act like one any takers

Me me me - lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"some find it strange...some find it helpful

and that IS the point...some will find it helpful...after all...if someone has to help for something to be helpful...why should it matter who helps u?

I use my eyes to read the forums!

Exactly...filters are there for a reason...god talk about a long way for a short cut

Showed you the lift, and you dragged us all up the stairs !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is resurrecting a week old thread at 4am not a wee tad obsessive? Time to move on and accept that some guys don't want messages from other guys.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is resurrecting a week old thread at 4am not a wee tad obsessive? Time to move on and accept that some guys don't want messages from other guys.....

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Is resurrecting a week old thread at 4am not a wee tad obsessive? Time to move on and accept that some guys don't want messages from other guys.....

And again, shows some guys read maybe 5% of the thread,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is resurrecting a week old thread at 4am not a wee tad obsessive? Time to move on and accept that some guys don't want messages from other guys.....

And again, shows some guys read maybe 5% of the thread,

"
guys maybe....i read all

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Is resurrecting a week old thread at 4am not a wee tad obsessive? Time to move on and accept that some guys don't want messages from other guys.....

And again, shows some guys read maybe 5% of the thread,

guys maybe....i read all

I said the title of thread was missleading, i meant "message filters" more precisely i guess, but it was educational, reading the take on it.

I do swinging, i invite other guys to enjoy swinging, and if they choose to limit their accessability, marvelous!

I dont in any way care if guys have me "blocked", the point of the ask was, to highlight the contradiction of saying you are interested,"interests" in being included in group fun etc, then being un-inviteable.

In no way bleeting about being blocked, its a valid point.

4am, 8am, 2pm, irrelivant, there again irrelivant seems to appeal to folk!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Think someone has the....

I need to have the last word syndrome..

We Will see.....

Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Think someone has the....

I need to have the last word syndrome..

We Will see.....

Lol

More than one I think...

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Peoples profiles are their own to do with as rhey wish, totally know thar!

You read the headline and went hammering into it, i know that too!

I explained where it may of been missleading, you kinda ignored that bit, i see that!

It's a logical, topical point, and you turned it into something it never was, you know that bit too!

By pre-judging, assuming, it became the long drawn out point made, my point was, "hey guys your listing you want to attend group fun but i cant in any way invite you" !!

Nothing to do with being peeved at being blocked, nothing to do with knocking othet guys, just trying to help those who tick the box of wanting, hoping for what they state.

Yet as per usuall, those with good intentions get shafted, and those pinging up random "look at me" pish, go un-hindered, yet i get rubbished!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i have to say ..its gettin worse bye the day on here for what is supposed to be an adult site there are so so many who act like silly school children ...this thread being prime example ...the OP made a totaly honest observation an posted about it in no way was it aimed at anyone in particular or was a personal swipe at anyone just an observation ...you may either agree with it or not ..one thing we all have is freedom of choice...so why on earth would ppl feel the need to discect the post then attack the OP on a personal level on what ever wee bit they dont like ..its not just this thread but several others for example another member posted thread about grammar...again nothing personal to anyone just his own opinion ..agree or disagree with it again your own choice but the guy got slated for it !!!!.....surely occasional though provoking posts make for intresting reading other than i love you do u love me threads ..again ppls personal choice just not what i choose to post in ..MY CHOICE

...steps back off ma soapbox noo an goes fer a pint

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanks,, maybe the answer would be to message folks to clear up what they mean, before battering into them, but there again, "getting over yourself" has to happen first!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"i have to say ..its gettin worse bye the day on here for what is supposed to be an adult site there are so so many who act like silly school children ...this thread being prime example ...the OP made a totaly honest observation an posted about it in no way was it aimed at anyone in particular or was a personal swipe at anyone just an observation ...you may either agree with it or not ..one thing we all have is freedom of choice...so why on earth would ppl feel the need to discect the post then attack the OP on a personal level on what ever wee bit they dont like ..its not just this thread but several others for example another member posted thread about grammar...again nothing personal to anyone just his own opinion ..agree or disagree with it again your own choice but the guy got slated for it !!!!.....surely occasional though provoking posts make for intresting reading other than i love you do u love me threads ..again ppls personal choice just not what i choose to post in ..MY CHOICE

...steps back off ma soapbox noo an goes fer a pint

Totally agree and what I think i said in my first post on here. But of course, its more fun to batter into the OP and see the bad side.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

...steps back off ma soapbox noo an goes fer a pint

tottaly agree....good post !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Must have missed the battering

But im sure there Will be a post below this to tell me what to dø

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thank fuck I'm

A single fem wanting single guys just seems to be a. Lack of genuine ones lol wonder if I put male down on my profile I might get more mail lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Probably best if I just avoid this 'debate' I have seen enough of the naughty step recently

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

"Probably best if I just avoid this 'debate' I have seen enough of the naughty step recently

"
Ties his hands firmly behind his back lol

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By *andsCouple
over a year ago

Edin

"Probably best if I just avoid this 'debate' I have seen enough of the naughty step recently

oooh go onnnnnnnn

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By *uirkygirlCouple
over a year ago

Quirkyville

Naughty Naught Boy.. Its ok i will take the punishment for you :-0 xxx

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Probably best if I just avoid this 'debate' I have seen enough of the naughty step recently

See if you read the very first, opening intro, point made at very top, there was no debate, no ask to debate the point, all it ever was,was a try at highlighting the contradiction of being un-inviteable.

You can create a debate, nae bother, seems the way with things on ere,,90% of forum threads sit, chart like, being non-movers and about two or three, get over analysed, turned on their heads, turned inside out, why? God knows!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a bundle of guys on my block list, dont have a general block on guys though.

Why have I had to block guys? Simple, they DONT READ the profile. I am NOT BI, Bi-Interested but they still ask if I want to play with their cocks or have some bum fun etc....

Each to their own I say but read the profiles.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Probably best if I just avoid this 'debate' I have seen enough of the naughty step recently

I actually think your original post poses a very good question.... My reservation to join in is seated wIth the fact that some people simply refuse to take these threads at face value... Always had to be an underlying. Alterear motive...

Can't say I was ever bombarded with mail from males when I had a single profile lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Probably best if I just avoid this 'debate' I have seen enough of the naughty step recently

Can't say I was ever bombarded with mail from males when I had a single profile lol

fancy a cheeky sneaky blowjob?..i wont tell anyone x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Probably best if I just avoid this 'debate' I have seen enough of the naughty step recently

Can't say I was ever bombarded with mail from males when I had a single profile lol

fancy a cheeky sneaky blowjob?..i wont tell anyone x"

I thought I had you blocked

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Probably best if I just avoid this 'debate' I have seen enough of the naughty step recently

Can't say I was ever bombarded with mail from males when I had a single profile lol

Totally, guys just dont get overwhelmed, overloaded with messages ever, no matter how their proile reads/looks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Think someone has the....

I need to have the last word syndrome..

We Will see.....

Lol

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By *uirkygirlCouple
over a year ago

Quirkyville

Can someone give me the short version of this thread it looks interesting but i dont have 6 hours to read it all!

p.s Paddy..... i called dibs on the blow job for DD

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

"Can someone give me the short version of this thread it looks interesting but i dont have 6 hours to read it all!

p.s Paddy..... i called dibs on the blow job for DD

One of the biggest banging your head against a brick wall threads I have seen in ages...

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

lol, as i have said (god knows where) if i just titled it better,,,"message filters" and said, guys listing group fun/gbs, may have more invites if able to message/invite??

But, grrrr, ohhhh he is bleeting about being blocked, etc, no,, im just not, very not.

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

I am not sure why you bumped this up after two weeks of it lying dormant just to complain that people commented on a thread you started on a public forum.

It ran it's course two weeks ago, so will shut it now.

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