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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Now this hasn't happened to us in a long while but have noticed a few friends and locals updates where there have been a lot of no shows. Now we think it is disgusting especially if they don't even contact you.

Now I think we should have some way of reporting these time waters, does anyone agree?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There is... Go to their profile, click report and click the option about arranged meet/didn't show.

Steve

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

But does that alert other users?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No as it would be classed as naming and shaming which all swinging sites don't allow

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

It would be good if they done a totting up system where if you got three no shows then they get reported!

So many fuds out there wasting good folks time and money.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It would be good if they done a totting up system where if you got three no shows then they get reported!

So many fuds out there wasting good folks time and money."

They have that on another site and tbh ppl take it a pinch of salt

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"But does that alert other users?"

No Admin see it and I'm sure they can take action if there is proof from several people that they do the same thing

Naming and shaming can never work.... We could say we arranged a meet with you and you never showed and you would have no way of defending the allegation.

People just have to perfect their bullshit filters.

Steve

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

True guys but it is just such a shame that the fuds get away with it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sometimes thou people need to adjust the way they select people.... Some don't pick up the signs.....

But yes it's annoying

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tbh we've never had much an issue with no shows.... We had one years ago and that's it.

We have had people cancel on us but let us know and likewise we have cancelled on them due to illness etc... That kind of thing happens and most people respect that.

I guess knowing lots of people from socials helps though....

Steve

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo


"True guys but it is just such a shame that the fuds get away with it."

I love that word...Fuds

Here is an explanation from Admin from another thread on how they deal with reports.

******Just a quick note. If people report others and we can verify that they have broken site rules, we always take action (either a first and final warning, partially suspended account, fully suspended, mixture of the above).

Every single report sent via the REPORT link is reviewed. Clearly it's not in our interests to have people on here who are bad for the site. Equally we need to verify what has been reported and be fair to those who have been reported.

Admin

PS. we never provide feedback on what has happened. It's just not practical given that we get 100s of reports a day.

Here is what the page says after a report has been submitted:

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Your feedback has been saved.

A website admin will shortly review your feedback and take the necessary action. After reviewing the evidence available to us, we may disable an account, remove a user, disable certain aspects of that user's account or issue a warning.

By leaving feedback you help improve the site for everyone who uses it. Thank you.******

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Now this hasn't happened to us in a long while but have noticed a few friends and locals updates where there have been a lot of no shows. Now we think it is disgusting especially if they don't even contact you.

Now I think we should have some way of reporting these time waters, does anyone agree?"

they spoil it forthe rest of us that are on here for the fun the site is made for being a single guy on here we usually get let down when its time to meet

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

I never understand why single guys always say people who let you down spoil it for all us other single guys ...not everyone tars single guys with the same brush you know ...you got to make your own destiny on here and make sure you stand out from the crowds for all the right reasons x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What are fuds?

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By *issBehavingxxWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow


"I never understand why single guys always say people who let you down spoil it for all us other single guys ...not everyone tars single guys with the same brush you know ...you got to make your own destiny on here and make sure you stand out from the crowds for all the right reasons x "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What are fuds? "
a couple of fannies

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I actually go to meets now with no expectation of folks showing up lol its happened so many times over the years. Sometimes there is a genuine reason and others its just bad manners but what can you do? No point naming and shaming, they would just disapear and return under a different name, must upgrade my bulshit filter...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do not know what the answer is,, bit by bit we wise up to it, or do we?

It is a crap feeling, finding yourself sat in that nice hotel suite "everyone" was looking forward to meeting in, and meet time has clicked by, and the "sorry but where are you folks?" texts suddenly seem to be floating around in space, unread.

I could'nt do it to anyone, at worst maybe find myself having to cancel for whatever reason and let who i was meant to meet know somehow.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If the don't show or make contact as to why then it shows the true weakness in character and personality. Report and block x I would hate to think of a lady spending time to look good and get ready only to be left looking like a fool.

Treat others the way you want to be treated rant over

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over a year ago

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Seeing as Knottys deleted their post, ive deleted mine that quoted theirs.

xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The FAB community is just to otight knit to pull stunts like that, a couple of those and you're as well deleting your profile.

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