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By *mmixtape OP   Couple
over a year ago

middle earth

Would you be turned off if someone asked you to wear a condom during oral sex? I've never seen anyone wear one and always feel awkward asking

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By *maiCouple
over a year ago

Central Scotland


"Would you be turned off if someone asked you to wear a condom during oral sex? I've never seen anyone wear one and always feel awkward asking"

Not at all, whatever keeps people safe and happy

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By *ctoboyMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

Not at all....Never been afraid or embarrassed to ask someone to wear a condom for any play..

Everyone has a right to how they play and how they want to have their fun safely....

If someone says NO to you then that is most certainly their loss...

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By *vbride1963TV/TS
over a year ago

E.K . Glasgow


"Would you be turned off if someone asked you to wear a condom during oral sex? I've never seen anyone wear one and always feel awkward asking"

Would you want a flavoured one ? What flavour ? Do they do pigs in blankets flavour that might cause a few bite injuries .

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By *andy_FraserTV/TS
over a year ago

Edinburgh

At the end of the day people have to respect your boundaries, and if they won't "sleeve-up" then they're not gonna get what they thought they were.

Mandy

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By *entlemanrogueMan
over a year ago

Motherwell

i was asked to wear one for oral at a club, after she had been sucking me for a few minutes and realised i was bare, i put one on, no issue.

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By *innettMan
over a year ago

scotland

I only dont use condoms with a partner I have been sexual with for awhile. And we both regularly get checked ect

Untill then and if comfortable will always wear a condom

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By *mmixtape OP   Couple
over a year ago

middle earth

By these comments I will definitely be putting my foot down on it, Ive just never seen a guy get sucked with one in a club and it's always put me off giving oral

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"Would you be turned off if someone asked you to wear a condom during oral sex? I've never seen anyone wear one and always feel awkward asking"
Everyone is entitled to insist on whatever they want to keep them safe .

However I don't think there are many women out there who loves the taste or rubber in thier mouths

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By *mmixtape OP   Couple
over a year ago

middle earth


"Would you be turned off if someone asked you to wear a condom during oral sex? I've never seen anyone wear one and always feel awkward askingEveryone is entitled to insist on whatever they want to keep them safe .

However I don't think there are many women out there who loves the taste or rubber in thier mouths "

Nah can't say I love it, but it tastes better than herpes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't think it's something you're gonna need to worry about for a while

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod

over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

I would respect their right to ask

I would decline the offer as I would get no pleasure from it.

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"Would you be turned off if someone asked you to wear a condom during oral sex? I've never seen anyone wear one and always feel awkward askingEveryone is entitled to insist on whatever they want to keep them safe .

However I don't think there are many women out there who loves the taste or rubber in thier mouths

Nah can't say I love it, but it tastes better than herpes "

Ewwww

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By *ittleRed18Woman
over a year ago

Aberdeen


"At the end of the day people have to respect your boundaries, and if they won't "sleeve-up" then they're not gonna get what they thought they were.

Mandy"

Agree with most here. If they don't like the idea well tough-titties. Everyone has the right to play in the way the want and safely. Don't be afraid to say what you need.

I am shocked the amount of people that don't know STI's can be found in throats as well as "private parts".

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By *mmixtape OP   Couple
over a year ago

middle earth


"At the end of the day people have to respect your boundaries, and if they won't "sleeve-up" then they're not gonna get what they thought they were.

Mandy

Agree with most here. If they don't like the idea well tough-titties. Everyone has the right to play in the way the want and safely. Don't be afraid to say what you need.

I am shocked the amount of people that don't know STI's can be found in throats as well as "private parts". "

Yeah it's slightly terrifying

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By *andy_FraserTV/TS
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"However I don't think there are many women out there who loves the taste or rubber in thier mouths

Nah can't say I love it, but it tastes better than herpes "

I can't help but laugh at that comment.

Imagine if it was a food additive?

Would you like any Herpes on top of your Ice-cream?

Mandy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely not a turn off at all, at the end of the day its all about everyone playing safe x

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By *ltKittyWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

It's definitely one of those things if you want to be safe and they don't, they aren't worth your time. It seems less common for condoms/dental dams for oral but small price to feel comfortable and be safe

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By *mmixtape OP   Couple
over a year ago

middle earth


"However I don't think there are many women out there who loves the taste or rubber in thier mouths

Nah can't say I love it, but it tastes better than herpes

I can't help but laugh at that comment.

Imagine if it was a food additive?

Would you like any Herpes on top of your Ice-cream?

Mandy"

Hahahha ice cream with herpes and a few Chlamydia sprinkles

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By *andy_FraserTV/TS
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"However I don't think there are many women out there who loves the taste or rubber in thier mouths

Nah can't say I love it, but it tastes better than herpes

I can't help but laugh at that comment.

Imagine if it was a food additive?

Would you like any Herpes on top of your Ice-cream?

Mandy

Hahahha ice cream with herpes and a few Chlamydia sprinkles "

Yummy

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"Would you be turned off if someone asked you to wear a condom during oral sex? I've never seen anyone wear one and always feel awkward asking"
Just curious is it only the male & male partners who are required to use protection ?

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By *vbride1963TV/TS
over a year ago

E.K . Glasgow


"However I don't think there are many women out there who loves the taste or rubber in thier mouths

Nah can't say I love it, but it tastes better than herpes

I can't help but laugh at that comment.

Imagine if it was a food additive?

Would you like any Herpes on top of your Ice-cream?

Mandy

Hahahha ice cream with herpes and a few Chlamydia sprinkles

Yummy "

Would you like yer nuts crunched too ? Ouch

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By *mmixtape OP   Couple
over a year ago

middle earth


"Would you be turned off if someone asked you to wear a condom during oral sex? I've never seen anyone wear one and always feel awkward askingJust curious is it only the male & male partners who are required to use protection ?"

As a general rule everyone uses protection for vaginal and anal penetration, but from experience no one uses protection for oral. Though house rules state protection is a must, I think because lots of people don't see oral as a way to pass STDs they just wash over it

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"Would you be turned off if someone asked you to wear a condom during oral sex? I've never seen anyone wear one and always feel awkward askingJust curious is it only the male & male partners who are required to use protection ?

As a general rule everyone uses protection for vaginal and anal penetration, but from experience no one uses protection for oral. Though house rules state protection is a must, I think because lots of people don't see oral as a way to pass STDs they just wash over it "

I was meaning yourselves if you use protection & expect females to use protection too for oral not just penetrative sex !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not at all

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By *mmixtape OP   Couple
over a year ago

middle earth


"Would you be turned off if someone asked you to wear a condom during oral sex? I've never seen anyone wear one and always feel awkward askingJust curious is it only the male & male partners who are required to use protection ?

As a general rule everyone uses protection for vaginal and anal penetration, but from experience no one uses protection for oral. Though house rules state protection is a must, I think because lots of people don't see oral as a way to pass STDs they just wash over it

I was meaning yourselves if you use protection & expect females to use protection too for oral not just penetrative sex !"

Ideally we would want to use protection for both, but dental dams aren't even an option at the club we go to, they are also very fiddly and hard to use, there isn't a particularly good option for females but there's a very convenient option for men

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"Would you be turned off if someone asked you to wear a condom during oral sex? I've never seen anyone wear one and always feel awkward askingJust curious is it only the male & male partners who are required to use protection ?

As a general rule everyone uses protection for vaginal and anal penetration, but from experience no one uses protection for oral. Though house rules state protection is a must, I think because lots of people don't see oral as a way to pass STDs they just wash over it

I was meaning yourselves if you use protection & expect females to use protection too for oral not just penetrative sex !

Ideally we would want to use protection for both, but dental dams aren't even an option at the club we go to, they are also very fiddly and hard to use, there isn't a particularly good option for females but there's a very convenient option for men"

Thats kinda what I was getting at while asking guys to use protection for oral the same isn't applied for females so all you are doing is reducing the risk not totally eradicating it all together !

The only safe sex is no sex at all

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By *andy_FraserTV/TS
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"The only safe sex is no sex at all "

So become a Nun or GTFO

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"The only safe sex is no sex at all

So become a Nun or GTFO "

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By *ticky 69Man
over a year ago

Stirling


"Would you want a flavoured one ? What flavour ? Do they do pigs in blankets flavour that might cause a few bite injuries . "

I'd draw the line at pigs in blankets flavour: vegetarian options only for me

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By *anny77Man
over a year ago

glasgow

Safety first!

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By *earded blossomCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow


"Would you be turned off if someone asked you to wear a condom during oral sex? I've never seen anyone wear one and always feel awkward askingJust curious is it only the male & male partners who are required to use protection ?

As a general rule everyone uses protection for vaginal and anal penetration, but from experience no one uses protection for oral. Though house rules state protection is a must, I think because lots of people don't see oral as a way to pass STDs they just wash over it

I was meaning yourselves if you use protection & expect females to use protection too for oral not just penetrative sex !

Ideally we would want to use protection for both, but dental dams aren't even an option at the club we go to, they are also very fiddly and hard to use, there isn't a particularly good option for females but there's a very convenient option for men"

Taking your own is an option

K

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By *mmixtape OP   Couple
over a year ago

middle earth


"Would you be turned off if someone asked you to wear a condom during oral sex? I've never seen anyone wear one and always feel awkward askingJust curious is it only the male & male partners who are required to use protection ?

As a general rule everyone uses protection for vaginal and anal penetration, but from experience no one uses protection for oral. Though house rules state protection is a must, I think because lots of people don't see oral as a way to pass STDs they just wash over it

I was meaning yourselves if you use protection & expect females to use protection too for oral not just penetrative sex !

Ideally we would want to use protection for both, but dental dams aren't even an option at the club we go to, they are also very fiddly and hard to use, there isn't a particularly good option for females but there's a very convenient option for men

Taking your own is an option

K"

Yeah I'm not a fan of using them because I find them fiddly, but we've only played with a couple of girls in the past, definitely geared more towards the male crowd

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By *mmixtape OP   Couple
over a year ago

middle earth


"Thats kinda what I was getting at while asking guys to use protection for oral the same isn't applied for females so all you are doing is reducing the risk not totally eradicating it all together !

The only safe sex is no sex at all "

Yeah totally but it's like wearing a mask I guess, if you can wear one I'd say wear one, but it's not the absolute end of the world if you can't. The question was directly relating to people men as that's who we tend to play with, we haven't played with many women in the past and don't have a general interest in playing with women really

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By *uboCouple
over a year ago

East kilbride


"The only safe sex is no sex at all

So become a Nun or GTFO "

So you think Nuns don't have sex

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By *andy_FraserTV/TS
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"The only safe sex is no sex at all

So become a Nun or GTFO

So you think Nuns don't have sex "

Only ever seen or heard of Nuns having sex on a well known site. But they were also wearing PVC, so potentially not real Nuns lol

Mandy

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"Thats kinda what I was getting at while asking guys to use protection for oral the same isn't applied for females so all you are doing is reducing the risk not totally eradicating it all together !

The only safe sex is no sex at all

Yeah totally but it's like wearing a mask I guess, if you can wear one I'd say wear one, but it's not the absolute end of the world if you can't. The question was directly relating to people men as that's who we tend to play with, we haven't played with many women in the past and don't have a general interest in playing with women really"

The men would be playing with the female half I presume!... so if they are performing oral they aint protected unless the female half is also insisting on protection too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The only safe sex is no sex at all

So become a Nun or GTFO

So you think Nuns don't have sex "

Not sure if the whole 'what God doesn't know won't hurt him' is an excuse that can be used? Works for me but still

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By *earded blossomCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow


"Would you be turned off if someone asked you to wear a condom during oral sex? I've never seen anyone wear one and always feel awkward askingJust curious is it only the male & male partners who are required to use protection ?

As a general rule everyone uses protection for vaginal and anal penetration, but from experience no one uses protection for oral. Though house rules state protection is a must, I think because lots of people don't see oral as a way to pass STDs they just wash over it

I was meaning yourselves if you use protection & expect females to use protection too for oral not just penetrative sex !

Ideally we would want to use protection for both, but dental dams aren't even an option at the club we go to, they are also very fiddly and hard to use, there isn't a particularly good option for females but there's a very convenient option for men

Taking your own is an option

K

Yeah I'm not a fan of using them because I find them fiddly, but we've only played with a couple of girls in the past, definitely geared more towards the male crowd "

We always take our own to any club we go to... Think most if not all are geared towards the guys

K

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would probably say just don't bother in that case. However, I'm not a massive oral sex fan anyway so I'd only use it for penetration x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

From reading the comments on the thread, the comments seems more geared to sucking a male off wearing a condom. But how would that work from a male or female going down on another female? Because I would assume that the risk would also be there

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By *mmixtape OP   Couple
over a year ago

middle earth


"From reading the comments on the thread, the comments seems more geared to sucking a male off wearing a condom. But how would that work from a male or female going down on another female? Because I would assume that the risk would also be there "

It's already been discussed, you can use dental dams but I personally find them awkward to use and have never met a guy who's ever known how to use them or would

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"From reading the comments on the thread, the comments seems more geared to sucking a male off wearing a condom. But how would that work from a male or female going down on another female? Because I would assume that the risk would also be there

It's already been discussed, you can use dental dams but I personally find them awkward to use and have never met a guy who's ever known how to use them or would "

I never made the connection my bad for obvious missing the point

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By *mmixtape OP   Couple
over a year ago

middle earth


"From reading the comments on the thread, the comments seems more geared to sucking a male off wearing a condom. But how would that work from a male or female going down on another female? Because I would assume that the risk would also be there

It's already been discussed, you can use dental dams but I personally find them awkward to use and have never met a guy who's ever known how to use them or would

I never made the connection my bad for obvious missing the point"

Nono don't be sorry! I wasn't meaning it in a bad way! Much love for you

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