FabSwingers.com forum: Is it wrong or right

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Is it wrong or right i love my hubby and meet other guys sometimes on my own with hubby knowing and with hubby there but was looking for reg f. Bud as think it would be fun to have a reg f. B as well as hubby but not to sure about itor maybe just a fantasy

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

"Is it wrong or right i love my hubby and meet other guys sometimes on my own with hubby knowing and with hubby there but was looking for reg f. Bud as think it would be fun to have a reg f. B as well as hubby but not to sure about itor maybe just a fantasy "
Depends if hubby is okay with it or not!.. if he's not then dont go there if he's quite happy about then shouldn't be a problem

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hubby ok with it he easy going

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By *r Costa xxMan
over a year ago

stirling

"Hubby ok with it he easy going"

If it’s what you want and he’s okay with it, I see no reason to carry on matron

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is 45 to young to be in the running for a f bud?

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

"Hubby ok with it he easy going"
crack on then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hubby ok with it he easy going"

There's a line with a person that is easy going and it can be easily crossed. The line where easy going meets being taken the piss out of. No offence intended.

I'm curious OP , can I ask why you want to know if its right or wrong. ? Are you just curious about opinions or is there another reason you ask.

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By *andsCouple
over a year ago

Edin

Why does anyone else’s opinion matter, surely it’s between you and your husband

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By *uietbloke67Man
over a year ago

outside your bedroom window ;-)

Your life your rules

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By *cotyguyMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

It could be OK playing and your hubby seeing you play with others. A long term thing can involve emotional attachments and it could be his line in the sand. Communication and honesty is everything....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never can understand why a married cpl would want anyone regular your solo meets think it's just asking for trouble.

But that's just my opinion.

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By *ikerbob1957Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

As long as no one gets hurt then you can do as you see fit. Enjoy yourself.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hubby ok with it he easy going

There's a line with a person that is easy going and it can be easily crossed. The line where easy going meets being taken the piss out of. No offence intended.

I'm curious OP , can I ask why you want to know if its right or wrong. ? Are you just curious about opinions or is there another reason you ask. "

My thoughts too.

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By *otmale5Man
over a year ago

glasgow

Hi op.. many couples for one reason or another can’t or don’t have a satisfying sex life. If hubby is ok with you having a special friend , I’d say , it’s better than meeting others to satisfy your needs . You go for it . But include him too as he might feel left out .. regards hot

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Hi op.. many couples for one reason or another can’t or don’t have a satisfying sex life. If hubby is ok with you having a special friend , I’d say , it’s better than meeting others to satisfy your needs . You go for it . But include him too as he might feel left out .. regards hot "
i do have good sex lit fe with hubby

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By *implyJayGeeMan
over a year ago

Garthamlock

"Why does anyone else’s opinion matter, surely it’s between you and your husband

Totally agree with this!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hubby ok with it he easy going

There's a line with a person that is easy going and it can be easily crossed. The line where easy going meets being taken the piss out of. No offence intended.

I'm curious OP , can I ask why you want to know if its right or wrong. ? Are you just curious about opinions or is there another reason you ask. "

Guess the OP is not talking to me .

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Just courious

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By *eefyBangerMan
over a year ago

edinburgh

If it works for you as a couple then that’s all that matters.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I guess a regular f buddy makes sense if it suits you and your hubby’s needs. If you both enjoy the excitement of finding and meeting new people on here (it’s the thrill of the chase) then you should keep going. If the regular f buddy brings security and that extra dimension to your sex life you both enjoy without the hassle of constantly searching for someone then it seems like a good fit. Ultimately you guys know what works for you now so it’s not a question of wrong or right, perhaps the question you need to be asking is “would this work even better “

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By *razytimesinloveCouple
over a year ago

SW Scotland

It’s all down to what your and your hubby find comfortable.

Mrs would be happy with that scenario as she’d expect twice the shopping trips !

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By *lasgowguy1Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

The situation you have is probably more normal than you realise, and with everything we are going through, it might be the way ahead for many more.

Lock downs have put pressure on so many people and they might now want to live their lives in the open instead of fantasy or sneaking around.

I’d happily chat more if you message me.??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No one elses opinion matters, mine neither. But in saying that, an easy going personality is vastly different from someone who wants you to enjoy playing with someone else. Cucks, voyeurs or maybe just wants you to be free. A real FB relationship can easy create a jealous streak in a relationship where as mutual fun or occasionally spicing thing up are a safer bet. If he is genuinely happy for you to play then its your decision. Good luck with whatever happens.

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By *ugarbearCouple
over a year ago

Tredegar

If you both enjoy it there is nowt wrong with it

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By *eoeclipseWoman
over a year ago

glasgow

"Your life your rules"

This!

I set what I'm willing to agree to or not and as long as me & whomever is involved, no one else.

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By *tealth888Man
over a year ago

dunfermline

Can you send me the application form

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just courious "

Then on that case , you continue doing what makes you happy. Some will find it right , others wrong .

Don't take notice of others judgements, your life , your rules.

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By *cottishornMan
over a year ago

wee village

Agreed, there is a thin line that could be crossed but communication is key

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By *traightrimmerMan
over a year ago

glasgow

Right, if set the ground rules that it is just fucking and nothing more. Wish I was 2 years older!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If your hubby is fine with it why not,and has long as no one gets hurt go for it enjoy life when lockdown is ovet

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By *vcarolTV/TS
over a year ago

kilmarnockish

Poor hubby left all alone.....

I can help him with that......

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By *ick1979xxMan
over a year ago

hornyville

I only meet women with their husbands permission

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you have to seek other peoples opinions.

Leave it!

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